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jidegirl12: This is Assassination of character part 2 what'd y'all want from me??

nothing do u

Maybe you are

A simple no would have sufficed

deols: are you a learner?

Is the op and mamajhyde the same persin

tpia on super point!!

Ok now

King Fed v Nadal for quarters

The winner may meet Murray

Let's go there

Please go and face your crimes abroad

They will do havoc and then remember they are naija people

Animals

deols: Pampering is an ok word. But I used spoiling to stress what I have in mind. You know, when you go to a luxury hotel/resort and they say things like, let us spoil you a little..

Ok then.. It's your choice as a parent

Tpia on point!

symbian123: He is obviously not putting on a sandal and sock on his left leg.

i get that ,,,.. i thot kombats had something more explosive or an innuendo in the offing

Ishsoph: @ MOD I know you'll use your discretion to understand that this fellow voted same candidate earlier after making speech and has been coerced to vote again.

PLS take NOTE!

Dude,,,,For the record, i was and am not coerced

I have made the necessary adjustments

Can you define what you mean by 'spoiling'

I feel pampering is a better word as spoiling connotes rottenness

You want to give them everything they want or need

deols: I have plans of 'spoiling' my Children.
When people hear this, they give me curious glances as if there is something wrong with it.

I just want them to have everything they want.
No one would be allowed to beat, bully, shout at or hurt them. Do these make them bad people?

I think all of these define being a good mother.

Do you think differently? I want honest opinion please?

lalaosky: please biola, vote while you dey gbdadun him

I thought i already did...
ok let me write plainly

done in my first post....

I just gbadun this guys pics

I vote Xavier Kal el

Mrs mansson: One advise I always tell people.Do not buy so expensive and later sell cheaply.what do I mean?you spend millions of naira in acquiring a uni degree and at the end of the day you are rated just within 80-120 thousand naira in the labour market.By the time you are through with your bills how much is left to give to papa who actually spent such money?people keep complaining about our degraded uni.yeah I agree but my friend a lot of brains graduated from such schools and they are doing so well.But my dear Nigerias would never agree oh.

damn.. u have a good point there,,

but parents still want to give an edge (+ security) especially with an int'l flavour (residency)

Here in naija if u are brilliant, you will suffer in school with se.x-crazed lecturers, cultists prowling around, police brutality etc while an average guy over there can stil come out an excellent grade

What do you think

Leave Nigerians alone with their low and re.tarded mentality

Muppet

Go and preach your gospel elsewhere

We will grow... ewu!!..

All Round Gist: Na wa oh! Nigerians with their low and re.tarded mentality.How can one say adoption is not acceptable? With more than 150 million population, we still have the mindset of producing more and over-populating the earth because of some tabooish mentality of ours.

There are so many women who cannot have their own kids but keep waiting on God for some miracles whereas they cannot raise some orphans because they are not of same blood; forgetting that God did not call us to love, raise and look after only own blood but anyone who is in need.

Ignorance is really a big disease and Nigerians should work on curing that disease. Most Nigerians are infected with this disease and having a university degree doesn't make you free from it.

Nigerians are wicked by nature. You go to church and pray to God, yet you lack empathy for others, you can't give home to the homeless because they are not your blood.
Will Nigeria ever grow? God bless those who adopting and supporting the orphans.

Dust...


Dont subscribe and you will see the impact

@kombats

i observed onoki has one leg in his trousers... is that what u wanted noticed

Babz temmy:

she is a she

Good Boi: pls don't criticize the house of God. Before I was a building critic until I saw a verse in the bible saying the house of God should be magnificient (can't remember but I'll search for it) since that day, I shut up. God deserves a better structure.

Ok o.. will just like to state that deeper life teachings espouses modesty in all things and seperation from worldly things

And what i see now is .....
dazall

We the lannisters ....

We pay our debts and ruin our enemies, wolf pups, bears all to be consumed

We hate gays but we tolerate incest

Go lannisters

django1: Such a horrible thing to say! Brother sleeping with sister! Ayama

You over try sef..

damiso: I personally think of it as a two way thing.If you decide to have kids, please as much as possible do all you can to raise them best you can.Invest not just money (cos alot of times we see this as the only element, vital element but not the only one), time, love, prayer etc to make that child grow up into a well rounded adult.Do your part and hope that at the end of the day, you have raised a well rounded individual who can be a constructive part of society.As this is done, also (I know might not be popular but it needs to be said) if possible plan for your retirement.That you raised a well rounded individual does not immediately translate to an automatic pension.Sometimes sef the child might be willing to do all but circumstances around them at that point e.g lack of funds, small growing family, insensitive spouse etc might not make it easy to fulfil that obligation.If your child financially takes of you, see it as blessing if they dont or cant also just see it as you have done your part.Dont expect your child to fund your high flying lifestyle simply because you raised them I personally think its unfair.

On the part of the children, honour your parents even the scripture urges it.Honour is not just money, time (call and visit them remember they too were busy when you were a child), care (ask after their wellbeing, seek ways to make their life comfortable) pray for them.At retirement alot of people feel vulnerable as if society no longer needs them.Make them feel loved, wanted.If possible even if they are well to do find something like an financial responsibility you must fulfil regularly eg buying foodstuffs, buying vitamins, pay a bill on their behalf, maybe their phone credit just something.It does not have to cost loads just something to make them feel cherished.Just love them and dont think it was their responsibility to raise me, yes it was but loads of parents didnt.Also let go of old grudges, as you probably become a parent too you will realise as mothercare says its a rewarding, confusing, mind boggling process that takes the Grace of God to get right.If you have kids please dont deprive them of their grandchildren as well.

Phew that was quite an epistle.Sorry

Babz temmy: Note that my mil is loving nd wonderful, nd shez bin good to me,nd am good to her in my own way, and she knows, once shez around me i shower all d love i av in my cabbana. I give her ANYTHING she ask of me, i play my role to her as a dil very well, nd i love her like d mother i no longer have, dis issue is btw my hubby nd i,she treating her son like her husband nd likewise isnt what any wife wishes for. My mil actually has d right to do whatever she pleases with her son, he is her last, her favourite nd his MOTHER, but its d son that should control it for her cos left to her shez doing nothing wrong, From all of your post i hav come to a conclusion that all i need to do is go on my kneels more and pray for the grace to tolerate what i can and would never be able to change. Thank you all for the post , advices and adminition. NL can be impactful sometimes. Peace.

So u acknowlege she is loving and showers u with love
you dont have a mum of your own

but you still have an issue

ok ooooo

The question here is rather than attacking debrief(im sure shew knows)

What is your own solution to the phenomenon of extreme spousal abuse
I use the term extreme to connote repeated physical assaults, forced sexx with the partner

Since u accuse her of raising a divorce altar (she is married.. i hope you know)

What will you do if it was your sister that was beaten mercilessly

What will you do if it was your sister that waskilled like a dog and the people who told her to go back home

When u answer without being sentimental, then we can talk

TV01: …do you ever ponder as you think or think before you give utterance?

A woman has died – and a most excruciating death at that.

And apart from passing in such a painful manner, the one person she should rightly have expected to provide comfort and offer support not only abandoned her, not just played her for a fool, but seemed to be willing her demise. And dying, believing that the four children she bought into the world are all but fatherless in name only. Effectively orphans.

And do you show any empathy? Especially as one who by her own account has cause to say “there but for the grace of God go I". As a mother of children or simply as a woman. Do you spare even a modicum of sympathy, or the merest thought of pity? Alluding perhaps to mercy & peace in rest as a benediction. Pausing on the loss and/or well-being of the loved ones she left behind? Or perhaps simply hold your peace – as decency would demand - if you have nothing but harsh cant to offer?

No true to form, in your blind and unrelenting pursuit to erect an altar to divorce, you sinks to a new low. You calumnise Nigerian men, slander Nigerian women and mock their unions. And now you despise the untimely demise of a sister, seeing not a tragic situation, but an opportunity to “self-justify” and enliven the campaign keep your divorce bandwagon rolling.

Never mind that you’ve sold it as God’s failure, your husband’ failure, your fathers failure, your mothers failure and even your siblings failure. Regardless of the fact that you’ve implicated, the elders in your church, the congregation, neighbours, everyone but yourself. Because in truth, marriages don’t fail. People do. You did.

Kindly focus on getting over it. There’s healing available. Campaigning amongst men does not effect peace with God – or even within yourself it appears. The gall is all too evident, the bitterness is palpable. Your efforts to justify yourself are certainly zealous, but unfortunately misguided. No matter how many cohorts you have, how many acolytes you gather, how many marriages you help steer on the path to ruin, or how much you succeed in your efforts to normalise “divorce”, marriage remains a divinely blessed union, instituted by God, and divorce a fail and a tragedy.

Your cause and your campaign are not merely unjust, but positively evil. Some of us are not fooled by “recharge card largesse” and publicity seeking dash.

Can’t you see? It’s searing your conscience. Please cover your shame, rather than glory in it and continue to plumb new depths of wickedness.


RIP Sister Yetunde.

May the God of all consolation comfort the bereaved.

TV

ikekings: Fu*ck this series!!! The good guys are being killed while the bad ones still lives and keeps multiplying... ...

Yeah we like roaches, the more you kill us the more we multiply

i need to impregnate cersei again,.. so we can have some more blond haired lannisters ruining the world again
yay babyyyy

@damiso.. tell them say awoof dey run belle ooooo





@michky i like your submission

Michky: Found this on the web. Hope it solves this issue once and for all.

I think it depends on the circumstances...

Theft: "A person is guilty of theft if he dishonestly appropriates property belonging to another with the intention of permanently depriving the other of it." S1 Theft Act 1968

However, it does not count as theft if you have the consent of the owner (in this case the husband); and your behaviour is not considered 'dishonest' if the person appropriates the property in the belief that "he would have the other's consent if the other knew of the appropriation and the circumstances of it" (s2(1)(b))

So it all boils down to this:
If the husband was/would be fine about it, no it's not stealing
If he wasn't/wouldn't be fine with it, then yeah, it's stealing



And in this particular Op's case, the wife clearly lied because she knew she wouldn't have her husband's consent. Hence, she can boldly be categorized a thief.
I rest my case.

#war-council loading

Im watching the Prequel though before i start season 2

Who has watched the story of Gannicus and the rise of Crixuis

How Batiatus and Selonius became enemies

[quote author=ella.b]Fyi-that limo is an old pix.its not part of d wedding.
Its his son's wedding.if a child sins,will u accuse d parents even when d parents brought them up in their own way?
Its John's Choice..its not all bout money.

God bless the marriage of this new couple. [/quote]A religion that preaches ultra-modesty
So now it is the son\s choice

Have u seenthe mega stucture cathedral in Gbagada...

Soon we will have deeper life university

Congrats to fans of Miami Heat
The better team won

na wa.. deeper life o

mega csthrdral

society wedding

which church is not a money show now

babyosisi: Ask your e-wives

haha...
but madam osisi... i know u meant well initially but wat happened at the latter stages..

we all know the elephant was in the room but we left it there...

the lady will have just taken the advice (n yours) and moved on

I wish I understood ibo or can someone translate the ibo parts of the last few pages

Bros I enjoy am die..
Especially the death of batiantus..

Good set up fpr s2 - ashur, legato and wife, crixus

Have you seen season 2