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Wooooooo

Good move by musa

mukina2: ideye!!

arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

I feel u

Forgerrit mehn

We are playing well

If we had a better attack, we will have scored too

Spain will not have it easy next year

No be so dem dey beat spain

Wasteful by mikel

They did not come to sell groundnut naaa

Inibaba 2 shots quickly

Alba golalala

MsSantaClaus: Maybe I didn't quite get you, but I mean the crèche should be exposed for bad practices. She can report to the church authorities with her findings first of all.after all from what I can see on this thread, it is obvious a lot of people assume the crèche belongs to the church. It therefore gives the church a bad name. Either the church publicly disassociates themselves from the ownership of the crèche or they call the real owner to order. If she wants to remain anonymous, she can report to a regulatory body. This is a school, and as such should be regulated by the education board I think.

hmmm,,,,, not as easy as it sounds

nice one.. guys

log in maths is not log of wood in algebra ooooo

Stegomiah: Jst like generally men are polygamous in nature....
Your last sentence settles it dough!

cool then

frankly im still impressed you are still trying to dissuade the OP from her sworn path of mothering

Stegomiah: And it was on this same forum, i read a thread about women being the breadwinner of a family!

hmmm.... generally women are used to the finer things of life being provided by a pocket but their own
When they were single
Still when they are married

Of course there are exceptions to all rules

Memorable Quotes of the Lannister pater

cant seem to embed it here but it shd open a link to another page

http://bcove.me/r59s65q3

Stegomiah: You are wrong, not all women!

No im not, read the woman who pilfers her husbands wallet and see the comments of the females

https://www.nairaland.com/1324044/ee

Most saw nothing wrong in taking money from their husbands wallet without his consent or knowledge

nice one ...

kulyie: hahahahaat her age i had already finished my msc degree.at 21 i had already left my parents house to have a life that was after i was done with nysc.so op if you want to be treated like an adult,act like one.let your parents see that you can achieve or do something without them telling you do this,do that.use your gumshion to do things on your own.stop the mummy is my leggings fine,mummy i want to go for a party at 1am,as typical of people of your age.work,do something to take you out of the house then we can start from there.my mom treated me like shes treating you when i was 17,by 18,i already got admission to go to school and so i left the house.i also sold jwellries to earn something,not that my mum couldnt afford to give me pocket money,but i wanted to be treated like an adult,so i acted like one.she saw that i was very industrious so she let me off the hook.she only gives me money from her own volition and pays my school fees then.anyway

the summary of my tale is act like an adult not a teen

At 21 some of my class mates were graduates waiting for nysc

Nowadays some are already working as audit associates at 23

Time dey wait for no man

At 25, some ladies don drop one... some get Msc,

If na fratbabe the girl wan be, make we free am na...

ikekings: Mehn!!! I love this part.. Season 3 episode 8
during tyrion's and sansa wedding celebration..

Geoffrey: there will be a bedding ceremony if I command it.

Tyrion: then you will be fu*cking your own bride with a wooden co*rk... ...

Geoffrey be like 'what did you say'?

yeah.. that was some tight ish

that square headed son of a gun...


the lanisters are viruses...

damn.... i hate ashur he even killed his syrian brother after removing his eye

though crixuis punished him

Gannicus was a fine warrior but he betrayed Oenimus...I will like to see him again

Crixuis - the champion of capua

About to start season 2

Mrs mansson: Not all schools in naija are packed with what you listed.hope you know coming out with an excellent grade does not guarantee success.that you are a graduate from so so and so uni does not make me want to buy your product(hope you get what I mean by product

True.......

Welldone mummy

Whatever works for you as a parent

deols: what is wrong with others doing the chores for him? He gets used to a clean environment and when there is no one to do it for him, he is uncomfortable and devises a means of getting it done..anyway anyhow.

You dont get tHe q

After i remove the baby, you suggested she gets other babies out...i said what is a practical way to do this

MsSantaClaus: Lawsuit and ostracization by whom? I'm talking about reckless endangerment of babies. Should whether or not you'll be ostracized or sued be an issue in saving lives? Or do we wait till something bad happens? What will your feelings be then? Or we will wait for a situation such as Jesssica Tata's to happen? http://www.bellanaija.com/2012/11/26/jessica-tata-nigerian-child-care-owner-in-usa-jailed-for-80-years-over-death-of-a-toddler-in-fire-breakout/

coogar: exaggeration borne out of myths!
just like we were told as kids that nigeria once played india and we lost 100-0 because our goalie kept seeing carnivorous cats instead of a round leather object.

HAHA.... damn... those stories made some people i knew way back seem as angels

coogar: i don't believe that nonsense....
no heterosexual man can be that dirty.

wat of osisi, siena or slimyems stories

Pataki: You also believe that chronic bunch of lies the idle OP packaged on that topic?

actually i was laffinf at first but when siena and slimyem brought thier own stories,.. at least such people exist
the tribalistic connotation killed it for me at the first

even osisi brought a story of a guy in the states

coogar: that's not the way to look at it....
remember, he's been motivated to complete the task in the past - so he now knows how to do them. the excuse that he doesn't know how to do it simply becomes non-existent. i don't forget to put the hype machine in action too. "OMG, junior is the best dish washer on the planet, when he washes, he does it better than gordon ramsay".

his head swells, job done, case closed!!!



oh please.....
there's no human that can be dirty as that. that's just baloney. teenage dating alone improves the way boys groom themselves. tidy clothes, nice haircut, good smell and the whole works. that's a given!!!

damn that guy was a lord!!!

remember it was said he was perceived as a clean guy but inside na .....

i get u but kids test boundaries man...

@Ekwah ur story is inspiring man

the sky is ur starting point

do not forget your day of small beginnings

Then he gets used to being 'bribed' and 'sweet-talked' to wash his plates or clean his toilet

when there are no such inducements, he becomes the spitting roach-man who keeps his toilet unwashed for 3 months as we all saw in the last thread

the chronic lord of the flies

coogar: explain, how?
a child is reluctant to wash his plate and he's throwing tantrums. the mother wants me to deal with the situation and i go to the kitchen to talk to him.

i went: "junior, if you wash the plates without complaints, i would get you a big gift". how's that spoiling? every human needs some sorta motivation or bribery. as long as the job is done with minimum fuss, everyone wins!



motivation is not spoiling......
as you can see, you bribed him in the end and he promised to be good. kids are the most manipulative set of people in the world. throw them the offer and watch them change their mind almost immediately. he would have washed those plates that day if you had promised him 5 cones of ice cream!

^^^ i hope the kid keeps to that

this is the reason teenagers need a mentor not too old to be seen as a father and not hip but close enough to appreciate the trends.. girls, myspace, fb etc

those who are well guided get it while those who are not throw teenage tantrums up n down

May God help us with guiding our kids

They are our legacy

i will rather use monies withheld to use as seed money for a child's education or business idea than 'spoil' a child giving him all he wants in his morning and he gives me grief in my latter years

Pataki, did u not tell her
ban no omo ni, kode inu olomo

na u dey wan turn to enemy...

ur tale is a good illustration of not allowing kids do wat they want

how can a grown boy be crying over washing napkin...
the mum wanted a strong hand n felt u could be surrogate daddy during ur stay

Pataki: I can't even beat my kids. Although I must say the environment in which you raise a kid also matters.

I was in Nigeria for a few months this year and my orientation I noticed had changed tremendously. I stayed with one of big aunty who had own kids, and in the Nigerian context was 'spoilt'. Esp. the last kid. He is very respectful, always prostrating to greet me and using 'sir' at every instance he addresses me which I sincerely was not comfortable with. I complained about this to the mom, but she told me to please let him continue. I had to bear with it during my stay.

The aspect where he was spoilt was that he does not know how to wash his plates, his uniform, etc. The housemaid does it or the washing machine sometimes. The mom decided that he needed to learn and he started his revolt in the house. One evening, he started crying simply because his mom asked him to wash a kitchen napkin. I asked him why he was crying.....and he said nothing. Soon after I was walked away, this boy hissed at me! The mom was shocked that I refused to discipline his son for hissing at me, citing various other instances where I also did not discipline her son for his spoilt behavior.

Needless to say, I did punish the boy after the mom talked me into it. I felt bad slightly afterwards for doing it, but environment do matter when it comes to defining what is a spoilt kid as such.

tpia on point!!

i am inspired by ekwah's story
i hope u bless others when u get there'

Garlic