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Please anyone with a bet9ja shop for sale ... That yeild good return should contact me ...
Location: lagos
Preferably location: alimosho (not a most)
Contact: 08021102072

nuelsam:
U bought her an iPhone and even rented an apartment for her while u use Android 9pie....I'm damn sure u bought none of your siblings a phone as expensive as iPhone....u deserve every I'll treatment u got...since u no wan get sense.

lol phone no be achievement bro and secondly you don't know me or my family.

Blakjewelry:
lol just move on na, after all you should not be surprised because you know where you pick her from

am trying bro I believe by time I will be healed

Bilabong:
I cloned her whatsapp to my phone I now received all her charts.


Because u bought her an iphone doesn't mean u should bug it too...

My people my people Una no go believe wetin my eyes see in 4 days this girl has Gone for a 2 group sex hangout Also she has 2 new boyfriends/toasters she do visit. Over 4 days now am in shock,

Should I open a gofundme account for u? Money for high blood pressure drugs.

bro if you got nothing meaningful to say kindly hit the back button on your computer/phone thanks

Funny enough is I confronted her on Wednesday even with after reading her chat and location( with whatsapp clone) as she went with her friends for a sex hookup.i Was like she should call me video call and she tried to trick me I was cool though didn't drag it with her but let her know she is cheating babe denied even said she can swear.(picture below)
Funny enough I have invested my time and everything for her to change but to no avail.

Never make a hoe your spouse they say, Matured advice only.
Good day pals Your sincere advice, please Am not a good writer. This love story started last year when I fell in love with a girl --> https://www.nairaland.com/5454688/should-send-packing <-- summary brought her out from prostitution) So after she has changed from her past life she got a job, an apartment she share with a roommate. Even in hard times and good times we flexed it all. I paid her house rent,bought her iPhone 8 and support her with the little I can afford since she is now working. I start noticing some strange things in her about 2 weeks before total lockdown in Lagos. I accidentally stumbled on her phone and noticed phone was now on password with wiped out massages but I didn't question her. we spent the quarantine season together. Second week after realising the lockdown our phone conversation kinda change mostly when I called her she don't talk comfortably. 4 days ago I cloned her whatsapp to my phone I now received all her charts. my people my people Una no go believe wetin my eyes see in 4 days this girl has Gone for a 2 group sex hangout Also she has 2 new boyfriends/toasters she do visit. Over 4 days now am in shock, heartbroken. On a second thought I decided to play along and make her pay by using her as a side chick(since she is no longer qualified to make a wife ) but my heart is heavy the kind of love I have for this babe even me sef shock. my heart won't allow me.another thought said kick her out and collect all the expensive things I got her.

Have anyone used sportybet today? It won't open.

Alexaonfleek:
yes dear.set her up.since u don't like d idea of having a flatmate,then let her go

You may or may not see the fruits of what you have done but my brother,it is God that will bless and reward you

amen thank you and God bless you too

Thank you my country people to all the positive and negative comments. Now I have realized it's a cross am willing to bear since am the one who got my self into these my plan she should get a job and yes she has been seriously searching for job if she can work for 3 months and I see how serious she is I will set up a mini business for her. Joint with what she have saved and the little her elder sister can contribute. Then she will stay with her elder sister in-law or my elder sister. it's not gonna be easy for me doing this cuz I love her and she is the only girl that have lived with me from my past 3 relationship. Even though I don't like flate/company mates. As am use to staying alone. But I shall try my best. She worth it, being her playing me or not .
Secondly for the guys who think am using her? Hell No not all guys actually is cheap especially if you are young and doing very good for yourself most ladies might come into your life and use you. (Been a victim)

LilMissFavvy:
Give her money to start something for herself. Advice her on what she should set up. She should go and live with her mum, not friends. Or is her mom a bad woman? As you give her the money, record the conversation through audio, before you send her away, incase she decides to frame you up.

yes I think her mum is a bad person from my gathering her mum's lives a wayward life. And always asking her for money even though she knows her daughter ain't working.my plan is she going either stay with my elder sister or her sister in-law ( female) but I want her to ge t a job first before she leave. As I might rent mini apartment for her and she might go back to street.

Headlesschicken:
Una dey try sha,all for the sake of regular purry.... Make person no wake up for nite one day stab una to death...

why are some guys like this you think woman and materials things is problem for every guy?

Guest007:
You have a narcissistic mindset... You're not doing this to help her... You're doing it for validation and to be 'better than others'

You were sleeping with her so your accommodation was 'paid for in kind' and now that you are bored of the mission, you've come for one more round of 'validation' by creating this thread. You have more issues than that poor girl.
But, we hail you boss! You are a great man! All praise 'King save a hoe' All hail thee

did you read the post where I said we are dating and she moved with me after 2 weeks and their where terms in the relationship?

madridguy:
You don't want her to continue with her kurukere waka so don't chase her out.
From your story you want her to become a new leaf which she's working on that, i would suggest you leave her at your place.

For the risk, arrange to meet her relatives and let them know she's staying with you as a friend.

Thank you bro have actually talked to her elder sister on phone and she can't help but thank me alot. She is actually working in hands to put her straight and am actually running a daily contribution schame to raise 80k for her that if she will start working and am seeing some progress now my fear is she staying with me for too long and from start we actually set a limit not to get too emotional as the relationship might not end in marriage. She understands this alot than me lieing and cheating on her.my mom and siblings are actually not happy am staying with a girl that I won't get married to their prefer her coming to visit time from time as she might get pregnant and another matter will enter.

Thank you bro have actually talked to her elder sister on phone and she can't help but thank me alot. She is actually working in hands to put her straight and am actually running a daily contribution schame to raise 80k for her that if she will start working and am seeing some progress now my fear is she staying with me for too long and from start we actually set a limit not to get too emotional as the relationship might not end in marriage. She understands this alot than me lieing and cheating on her.my mom and siblings are actually not happy am staying with a girl that I won't get married to their prefer her coming to visit time from time as she might get pregnant and another matter will enter.

iykeklef:
hmmm dis guy is a bastard!!.. u said u dnt want her and u are askin us of our own opinion hmmm dis guy is a bastard!!.. u said u dnt want her and u are askin us of our own opinion

Bro if you really don't have any good thing to say you press the back button on your computer/phone yes we are dating and yes I want her to leave as I have been telling her from day one. At least I have helped enough than what most guys wouldn't do for any street girl. My fear is if she leaves she might go back to the streets and all my efforts will be of waste

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Good day my country people pls am in dilemma and need your matured advice.biko am not good in writing thank you. their is this girl I met 3 months ago via my friend girlfriend. about 2 weeks of our hangout she moved in with me and I realized she was into runz. Which I asked her to stop and i also told her our relationship conditions which she agree to cooperate with.conditions is we are not getting married and I advised her to stop her wired life styles of runz,smoking,drugs and getting a better life for her self. And yes am very proud of her she has stopped all this and seriously looking for a job.(was not easy sha) I won't blame her though she has a rough parental up bringing by the age of 20 she is already into full-time runz and living weird life styles.by 22 she was a victim of human traffic for sex slaves in one of West Africa countries she escaped and got her freedom early this year after she was 5 months pregnant.(her escape leed to the arrest of the people involved in the trafficking) she aborted the baby early this year after so many attempts with help from her mother. 2 months after abortion she is already back to the streets(She will be 23 next month) hustling from one guy house to the other 3 months ago she met me I advised her to stop and yes she has stopped. I actually want to help her by giving her little change to help her self but she might not mange it well. now my problems is I believe she is overstaying in my house am not that kind of person that keeps visitors for long(already told her these) also all my friends be like I should discharge her before something go wrong like she might get pregnant or be filling over comfortable in my house ( and yes she is really feeling comfortable these days) secondly since I don't know her or her baground she might be of harm spiritual or physical. i actually want her out but she will cry heavenly and say she don't want to stay with her mom or her girlfriends she is likely to go back in to her old life styles which she don't want to, as all her friends are runz girls things like this week me especially when she is emotional and be praying for me for all the help,money,gift and support I have render her to change. But I still want her out of my house as I can't be living with someone I am not getting married to I have never done that before.

A girl just walked into my store this evening even with the cue of customers she decided to wait and buy after all customers has gone she handed me this sheet of paper.i don't know what to tell this one nau. Sadly my type of woman #thick

fykes:
Dude... There are more important things in life than women and sex but a couple more years and u will get it.... I have never met a rich or very successful man who made it through sex... Even the porn stars.
But I know, even native doctors as riviled as they are will tell u to abstain from sex and women.but again, d'fvck I know??

bro you getting it wrong my post is saying avoid ladies, channel your Hustle and be a better person. Everything go be jare

Funny enough their all stay in my street and knows I have a girlfriend

There is more to this life than falling maga for girls most times I reason the way guys chase after ladies buy gifts do the most and still get dumped that was never my case cus I Chanel those energy in my Hustle and thank God it paid. all am trying to say is guys you owe no girl anything in this life only woman you owe is your mother,sister and wife don't waste your youthful age chasing after girls instead of money I was with a friend the other day and while chilling he paid a girl 15k to have $€x and 5k(short time) for hotel room. Why waste 20k cuz you want to have s€x? really s£X? same orgasm you both will share? everything is not about money use your brain and see that prettiest girl in your street falling for you without spending a dime. Was chatting with one of my female s£x buddy and she demanded for money.(pay for s£x)this got me to type all this. same time I was chatting with her another one was threatening me she is coming to my house today and we most have s£x. Same time another one was begging to be my second wife when am not even married to anyone before.(pictures of chart attached).lol such is life.why pay for labour I will deliver and both of us will enjoy. when most girls will gladly come without spending a dime. Same girls that will be telling me how their collect big money from their bfs. Note: insults is allowed I kukuma used my second account to post this

Since today it's has been her flooding my phone with their conversation and fights so cuz my sister refused to send him 30k out of the money she was supposed to send this guy has insulated our whole family even my sister late parents. Who does that? He even say she is a fool e.tc. calling her all miserable names. But my question still remains why this guy do all this? Someone that was crazy in love with her lately cuz she call him scamer and he went rougu

morningstar55:
Dude can sell one car to augment things.
But wait oo...when they were enjoying the millions including 250k phone,did you bother to ask if it's true love?

Same question I keep asking my self if he claims he as property worth 20 million while don't him sell at least one of the cars to sustain him for now but one mind keep telling me maybe he is doing all this to test my sister since he talks more of marriage

kallmemrB:
Why didn't you raise questions when he was busy spending heavily on your sister....

Op you are part of the problem of this country... AWOOF EATER

Bro people do fall in love and gifts other gifts worth over 5 million a guy can be in love and give a lady car also a girl can still do other wise it's sacrifice. my sister has been giving him all this things since with out my attention. Just that the attitude and force he uses to ask those money is bad imagine a guy telling his gf if you can't send another girl will send it.you reason am if it's your sister.

Pls am not a good writer.
My sister( in her late 20s) she has known this guy for about 4 years when the guy has been struggling and traveling one country to another and the guy been wooing her all along suddenly after 1 yeah they lost contact they later reconnect and viola the guy is permanently in Nigeria and super rich they started dating at last(he promised marriage). also he claimed he has properties whort at least 20 million. He got my sister a phone of 250k and also dash her money especially when she was sick he gave her 50k and other goodies under 6 months after their started dating he is been spending little more on the babe he drives a car of 4 million. Suddenly for the past 6 months he been claiming so broke the last business he invested 4 million(said it's his last money) am a witness of that investment he lost alomost 2 million on it now for the past months he claimed broke my sister has been helping him and giving him pocket money total I can encounter if she is telling me truth should be over 400k she has spent on the guy which the guy promised to give her back but haven't given her still he is still asking my sister for a loan of 800k now she has raised 400k but the guy called her today and be asking of 30k how his 2 cars broke down and at least he need 30k to fix one of the cars my sister be like he has to give her time to raise the 30k out of the 400k but the guy went bizzare with insults and bitter words saying my sister is taking him for granted and don't want to help. This is same my sister that she is in her late 20s and she really want to settle down secondly she has made all her money with no help cuz she is an ofan asin the girl really suffered to become a millionaire. Now what is an advice you have to give to her as she is worried about the realationship already.

I asked for advice and you guys are shouting womb shifter(lol Una no well)if I wanted to be sexual with her trust me it would have been 3 years ago my mind is settled now cuz am sure she tricked me we had it she left earlier and now playing the victim and emotional game. Maybe to lure me into relationship that she knows say I no get time but she still insist we be just casual players.

Thanks y'all I took the risk as let it might not be she was in pains and I didn't care just as my bro @fayded said I drove to
this hot spot she like eating peppered cat fish X bearked corn(agidi) also got her favourite fruits groundnuts and cucumber on the way, got at sunbo hospital asked the whole 3 floors of the building and not close to her name was registered in the last 3 days. Am on my way heading home maybe branch one bar and enjoy my cat fish.

But please let me ask why do ladies behave like this? Like what do their really want? Same person that can do anything not to keep quarrels with me.same person that have fight and slapped her bf cuz of me? is playing me like this? wetin be gain? When she know am a flirt and not ready for realationship.


TO EVERYONE THAT CONTRIBUTED I SAY THANK YOU. (Matured minds)TRUST ME I GO TREAT HER F.U.CK UP AS ALWAYS.

fayded:
dudeeeeeee... don't let me call u a Bitchhhhhh..
u re d 1 saying.. u wanna see her..
1st rule:dont ask for permission ever.
get ur Ass up and visit her.. and come with sumfn for her.. fruits or sumfn.
and don't let her tell u what to do. u tell her what to do.
for Christ sake,u just knocked her, man.
u knocked her. d tables have changed, u re d 1 with the upper hand. don't let her control you or this. go and see there.

lol read when I said I visited her 4 days after the incident bro she avoided me.let me break it down I go her house after the matter( I didn't call her) she know answer me I bone am days later she tell me say she dey hospital shebe if person dey hospital you go ask am address? So I can't just go there without she don't know

fayded:
*clears throat*...
A wise man once said "a man cannot have a chicken as a pet, one day he must chop it "
back to you, my son.you have done very well by knacking her.u gave her abdominal pain,bro.I'm proud of you, son.
if a girl has pains after sex, that means the guy did it well, hope u took her legs back towards her shoulder ND hit it well well.
6 fvcking years Huh??.. you tried sha.
shey u say u want advice??..
now, 1st things first, you love her,u created a thread for her twice.
and I don't think that she probably loves you sha. cos,she was Hot that night and she used u to cure herself.
and She ran before u woke. and now is avoiding you.
wait first, what is even wrong with girls sef??.. you knack finish, u come run. why??.. and u keep blocking and unblocking d dude.
bro, just stay clear first. don't chat her up or anything. give her time to think. don't bother her. she will come around.. oh and when she does, abeg knack am again. otherwise,she go put you back to friendzone again.
friend zone is not a good place,son.evil things happen there.
so Las Las.. just give her space, she will come around.and on no account should u proclaim your love for her.. just act like nothing happened,and be ur normal self. it will confuse her more,which will give u d chance to knack again.. and again and again and again. and then y'all would now best friends with benefits.

bro I should not lie I love this girl from day one even thought her bf is bigger than me she respect me she might be in pains who know? I tried visiting her 4 days after the incident she avoided me .thing now is she really in pian? how will I know cuz everytime she ignores my call and chat.so i manned up and didn't chat her up to 3 days after and she text me she is in hospital. should I come see her? She swear I should not near the hospital.

Hello my fellow nairalander.please am not good at writing.
So this is about my female best friend I posted a year ago https://www.nairaland.com/3889416/scared-date-longtime-best-female
.my realationship with her went deeper to the extend even though we are from different tribes we have visited each other village and families but still with no intention of dating or sexual . our emotions and feelings speak each times we are together but still we have never been sexual.not untill last week we spent a night out in the club chill in VIP just me and her then we retired to our hotel room as always but this time something strange happen we got drunk and instead to relax at the hotel balcony as always she insisted we go straight to the Room and sleep. She asked for my phone to watch some porn,One thing lead to another all I can remember is we having lousy sex. When I woke up the next morning she took my car keys and was gone(maybe she noticed I was super drunk and probably can't drive the next morning) she packed the car in my store and hand over the keys to my boys then tell them to call me i asked them to give her the phone but she won't answear instead she texted me saying.. picture will be attached below. So my question :why is she acting up: like she has blocked me and unblock me about 3 times since then.also she don't return my charts or calls all she be saying is let's just be casual players ,she is in pains ( tried visiting her she been avoiding me ). Is she just acting up or she mean it? Same person our flights for the past 6 years never lasted 72 hours now is taking almost 2 weeks


Pls pals no insults just 5 to 10 reasonable advice
Am good I believe nairaland is a forum where we share and learn also help each other. God bless us all

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