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doyouknowjohnny:
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No try harder sir

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I no fit laugh abeg

Shawama people. abeg where is the best isi ewu joint in abuja?

Mzleram thank u very much and to all that contributed I appreciat think I will stick to being bestie. And let things work by itself

My thought is as much I am falling inlove with her as much I don't want to date her( cause of the wahala). We have already joked so many times if we are together as friends in the next 3 to 4 years we just automatically get married.  And as of now I might still take my bad habits into the dating side. And as for her she has never been in a 100% serious relationship before. Another thought is  since we share and talk about every thing I let her know even it did not work  out we can still be friends is that possible? And as lordtunji said things that didn't matter might just be issues.@mzlarem am all ears

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Hello my people.
Please am not good at writing.
I am in my mid twenties and never fall in love or had a gf i have this one best female friend that have known for about five years we discuss and share everything we are so close that  she has acces to my phone,socialmedia accounts,house,business,car but my bank account?lie laye. We never had sex thou and I did not have it in mind. only one problem is am falling in love with her and I think she is falling for me too(she also know about my flirt habbit) she currently have a super rich boyfriend that showers her with money and extreme expensive  gifts but not in love with the guy because of some known reason. Early this year I have to start a fight with her cuz i cant hold my feeling with her and think we dating might ruin our relationship.after so many pleading I reconsider her after six months.we where hanging out the other day when she said about 2 years ago she was deeply in love with me that i should have asked her out and how she did love to date a guy with my specs this got me i didn't say nothing she repeted it in different ways I still changed the topic. Now I still love her but sacred the relationship might not turn out well cuz am still an amature in relationship secondly not as super rich as her bf or ex's. Or maybe after sex we might start having issues.
Have this happen to anyone? Did it turn out well?



Pls pals no insults just 5 to 10 reasonable advice
Am good I believe nairaland is a forum where we share and learn also help each other. God bless us all

Efewestern:
I said something similar.. he even went ahead to meet an evangelist. lol

funny.

my brother don't blame me I have always been warned from day one to avoid such lust carried me. Brought it here for more matured advice with this matured counselling trust me am way ahead moving on as nothing happen. I appreciate and may God always be ahead of us to keep us out off temptation

Efewestern:
oga I don't just understand you.

did you read what the op just said, he didn't know she was married, any guy will want to get down with any sexy lady. so don't paint the op bad .

op forget about her, don't ever, I repeat don't ever have sex with a married woman.

one thing I promised my self not to ever have anything to do with someone wife I might be flirting a little too much but will never be with someone wife since over 3 weeks this incident happen I didn't eat or rest well that night I have seen ppl that karma visits in marriage and don't want my own to be like that.i explained to an evengilist also my friend he said as long as I didn't know she is married I will be fine I should just ditch the lady and ask God for forgiveness

newyorks:
her hubby is far the coast risking his life for his wife and children now u want to start bleeping her wifey. money is never her problem that i am quite sure, not blaming her cos is not easy to go that length of time. remember jesus was to be sold and crusified but from who's hand? again are u telling us u can't diffrenciate a girl from a woman?

where in the write up did I say I wanted to have sex with her? Nor had sex with her? Brother am not looking for sugar mommy.money is not my problem i won't say am too rich as well. And marrige is not written on the forehead either

newyorks:
i do lust for women too but never make a move without identifying with her if she's single or not. u've committed just give all ur wealth to charity and begin afresh.

U are scaring me more

ikeepitreal:
This is just messed up. OP, just don't have sex with her again. you knew it was wrong but you did it anyway and you'll be rewarded in your turn. This fact is established.

A man is off working off his ass to feed his house and you dare bed his sexually starved wife?. It seems your own conscience doesn't even conform to her preconceived notions of lust.
Just do what you think is right man.

my write up didn't say I penetrated inside her but we are just kissing and touching was about to when she brought the issues up

ErnieSmallzz:
the woman is stupid wen she knows she wants the sex, why did she bring up dat topic? OP, no worry, u not at fault. She is too dense

I was damm scared when a friend of mine i expliained to said yes that i have committed as long as we have mixed spit together that cursed more anger as I called to tell her she should keep off from me and stop patronising me but she showed on my birthday with gift asking me we should be cool and let it slide away. We just friends and she still comes close to me even do am avoiding her

Greetings
pls am not too good at writing
Their is this girl a customer of mine she is beautiful and has all the specs I want in a woman(fair,thick with extremely flat tummy, neatness, with no stretch marks) when I see she was already into me I didn't waste time to ask her out on our first date most of what  we  discussed was all sexually one thing lead to the other and we are already smooching and kissing on the hotel bed (no oral)just as I was about going in she dropped the bomb am married I tried waving  it aside thinking is one of those excuse ladies use but this time she said it with a serious face. O boy i use speed abort mission. I asked her what about her husband she said he is a sailor and hardly come home. After that I was not convinced till I ask a fellow customer staying same street with her and she confirmed yes she is married with 3 kids since then my heart keep judging me I slept with a married woman. till today she is still trying to lure me into having sex with her.
BUT MY QUESTIONS IS :
Did I commit.....?

japhethGold:
It's good decision that you have made to stay. You are quite young and already have a business that is looking stable by return on investment, so if you sustain it for next 5 to 10 years you would become financially independent. Just try to open your mind and get more ideas on how to improve the branding and offering of the frozen foods business. Try to do it differently from what traders in informal sector are doing. Research the internet and source for ideas on how to go about it. You will be able to charge a premium if you do this.

Good luck.

thank u very much sir/ma

nabiz:
My brother london sure pass and in case you want to leave pls call me I will buy your business. Pls where is the location

thank u sir will be staying

Thanks all I appreciate my thought now is open the second shop run them both and see how things will work out this year

Ayanfeoluwaoba:
Seriously!!! U have a business that is giving you that much return on investment and u want to throw that into thin air for an option that is not sure?

Your uncle already warned you, "it might take time", then that brings the question, how long? And what exactly will you be doing? ?

I am not against you travelling, but I am against you giving up all the fight and the labour you have put into the business to grow it to the level of you even having to start for extension.

No where like home.

FunnyDude:
Guy u'r blessed oo @25, U'v got something doing. Most guys of your age including myself have not even start life sef.
Pls continue with your business I beg u. In few years you will be made so well. Forget UK and all those sweet premises when you get there you'll see the truth .
Remember: The devil you know is better than the Angel you don't know.

if I should remember how far have come i don't feel like leaving but like wise how this country has gotten so dull and how foreign guys come in and spend money guys I get confused

clerkent:
bro your biz is bringing a steady income which makes you to go for extension.you are already making here but if your uncle can find something tangible for you over there I can tell you that oversea is much better.im even habouring plan to live Nigerian coz its getting much harder here.

my mind extaclly naija is getting to hard business not booming as b4

Hello fellow nairalanders (sorry for any blunders)am confused and lost of decision to make. am a guy of 25 years and run a mini frozen foods store which I see about 15 to 20k every week also just rented another shop in a good area for  extension but been having this dream of travelling abroad I have an uncle that is married and had kids in UK but not FINCIAL STABLE  who said I can come will also help me find something to do but WARNED it might take time. So guys should I travel without no assured job or opened my second shop and continue my business.

Thanks your opinion is highly wellcom