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Firmjudge:
lol yet celebraty pictures will easliy make FP.

Anyway message has been passed.

smile.......Tonto Dikeh is this, Tonto Dikeh is that. Hunnnn NL shaa. Anyway kudos to you.

Firmjudge:
iWonder why this is yet to make front page.

Probably because similar one has make FP..... I don't really know.

Galacious1:
I can't wait 2 be called ''Daddy''.

Indeed........ when all heavy down pour is inside the closet. Hunnnnnnn

Firmjudge:
This is a counter to yestaday FP thread seeking for peoples opinion about marrying those from broken home.

I boastfully affirm and i am proud to represent the people from such background.

I have patiently read Nrldrs opinion over the issue raised and i was not disappointed at those who badmouth people from the so called "broken" homes my line of reasoning is simple talk is truely cheap.

My fellow Nldrs people often stereotype a certain group of people just to make themselves feel happy which makes a story untrue.

Chimanmanda Ngozi Adiche recently spoke at a university in the U.S.A where a student told her that it was such a shame
that Nigerian men were physical
abusers like the father character in
her novel. her response was epic, she told him that I had
recently read a novel called American Psycho, and that it was a shame that young Americans were serial murderers.

Imagin what some Americans Think about Nigerians what is your say is this true..?

Now you see the problem with stereotyping.?

It only paint a story untrue

There are reasons why people from such "broken" homes tend to build a happy life when they get married yet some people overlook it without knowing.

My reasons are facts.

1. They know the pains of raising a child alone knowing help is somewhere but it will never come forth because of ego.

2. " Someone posted a comment that children from such "broken" home are never told divorce is the only option out in times of crisis this is a FAT lie that people have used to stereotype us over the years. " typically, children from such homes are against violence and abuse knowing the results and the roads it leads to.

2b. I know people including myself from broken whose parent have told them that raising a hand over your spouse is Sacriledge. (I am proud to say that i have never raised my hands against the opposite gender no matter how hurt i feel).

3. We know the pains of having a father who has gone AWOL its truely not a sweet experience, therefore no sane fellow who felt such pains will want his child to pass through same.

4. We also know that there gets to a point that a child desperately needs a DADDY we wouldnt ever dream of letting our ward down.

Eventhough we come from broken homes and feel so shy to talk about it for fear of been insulted, mocked or overtly stereotyped by people who know nothing about what you have gone through.

Dont forget that it is a bad thing to be tortured starved, humiliated or hurt, it is not just an opinion; it is a fact. Hence, it is better for people to be loved and attended to, rather
than hated or neglected, this again is a plain fact, not a matter of opinion.

So show love to people who come from what people call broken homes.

Think about it, will you marry the son/daughter of a politician who grew up seeing his/her dad Amassing illigal wealth..?

Will you also fail to marry the child of a widow simple because fear of being death.?


Love is not mockery it doesnt discriminate, so therefore go for your heart....!!

Cc:seun
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Waooooooo what a lovely words of advise, I sooooo much appreciate it, by now those mocking, should be able to check this and also start thinking on words of encouragement like this,and stop discriminating. WE ARE ONE, Thanks and God Bless

ronald4lif:
Why not and what's the problem with divorcee women?

Not really a Divorcee but children from that home.

flokii:
I sense you are from a broken home and scared of how your man will take it right?

it wasn't ur choice or fault.. so why not

if it's d lady from a broken home that will give me rest of mind.. I'll marry her

And for d record... such ladies are usually well mannered and trustworthy contrary to what pple belief

Well........ it may be me (I don't need to hide that) and it maybe anyone, broken homes is not for Animals, while divorce too.

KanwuliaJara:
Na who 'break' the home? Nor be the MEN?

I tire oooooooo

KanwuliaJara:
Na who 'break' the home? Nor be the MEN?

I tire oooooooo

femi4:
lolz, remove your glasses make I see you wella

For what?

[quote author=femi4 post=38279535][/quote]u won try me

Imortal001:
She was all over 2face like someone is coming to steal him!

All over him like chickenpox, following him around like family Curse.(Thoo she is pretty but need someone like Samson02 to tell her that the factory is getting slippery,SAY NO TO UNCOVERED' DRESS) Quote me or u ...........

Annie abeg dis una teeth shaa, the thing don slack?

brize:
abeg, am i the only one who does not know the meaning of OP? Abeg may una explain to me........ And for the topic... Nothing to learn until i get married first

Owner of Page, Owner of Post abi watin u won knw again?

JumpingChicken:
place some papers in the printer,test it to make sure its working and walk away... she doesnt deserve my anger.

She deserves more than your anger......just that she can't afford ur Anger.

nuelzy:
i want to die

Sniper is the best option.

MissyB3:
Good day, esteemed members,

I understand there might be need for some of you to establish communication with me for diverse reasons. So, here is an opportunity to do so.
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Hi Missy B, kindly move this observation to the necessary place, I bought a bottle of team drink this morning only for me to discover insects nd particles inside the soft drink, it would have been something else for me this morning, kindly move this to the FP for the sake of others pls. pics

I REP SEPTEMBER 30th gangan, mehhh......let me use dis medium to invite u all to my birthday parry @ DAKTAD HOTEL nd SUIT Quarry Road Abk Ogun state on Oct 4 (waz shifted to dat date).Show me love as u come, thnks.

Iropoju......this year pilgrims pics

papawemba:
politics is not a job.

it is a seasonal thing.

by the way i am in Ogun as well.

k oooooo, but to me its a job,Anyway Gud to be in rockcity, the gateway state.

See ppl above me........Anyway, op include politics ,abi that one too no be job?

mmafhew:
Wishing oliseh goodluck ahead tomoros match.

.why not buhari?

Mtchewwwwwww iranu abasha, watin concern me if nah gala dey chop, me sef dey on the throne. In my hubby house.

Me......am just hr jeje to read comment ni oooo.

Ay creating awareness since 1905.

unite4real:
Considering his destination, I guess he must have been kidnapped.

No, I don't think so.......thoo the road is someting else nowadays, accident is just too much in that part, even when am traveling from IJEBU ode -ABK this evening, I can count at least two accident, today on that part,(And it may not even be what we think, maybe the guy parro with a babe don high).hunnnnnnn God save ooooo

Jamexjulius:
J

j for jungle

NOTED

LadyBoss1:
HBD to your MUM Many more years for her IJN

Thnks sis, i appreciate you.

BISIXCLUSIVE:
Any way......My fellow Nairalanders join me in celebrating my Mum, my jewel, my second god and my friend,she is a year older today.

Love u mum, wishing you longlife and prosperity. Your nulty girl pray so.

Any way......My fellow Nairalanders join me in celebrating my Mum, my jewel, my second god and my friend,she is a year older today.

Will give it a trier one day (probably in my hubby house) ano get time now.

Will give it a trier one day (probably in my hubby house)