₦airaland Forum

HaneefahRN:
OP pls flee for ur life, if u don't want to end up miserable.
Some factors tht cld influence his behaviour is poverty, his mentality and the family background.
I know of a man who will tell his wife he can't buy his children provisions or give them more than a certain amount or buy clothes for festivities for his children nt to talk of his wife cos his father didn't do such and didn't train him tht way. The man wld rather go and buy things rather than give the money to his wife. Contributes zero amount to the wife's business, bt has no problem taking thns on credit from her. This man while they were courting had similar traits wt the man u just described, he tried a little tho, he bought the wife just one scarf thru out the courtship. And do u think those other siblings of his, wnt come around to pester u guys. There is always a general notion tht d more educated man wld av more money so don't be surprised when they also start dumping responsibilities on him.
The man seems a gud man but ur way of viewing things seem to differ, and he is a stingy person, imagine nt paying ur fiance's bike fare, she doesn't even need to ask b4 a man knws what to do, ordinary first degree studt sef wld''t do such nt to talk of a PhD studt, wondering how he passed thru sch since his level of exposure still seems so low.

Oh my!!!

His problem is not poverty. He's just irresponsible, stingy and archaic.

When u love someone, unknowingly u pay for some things. Did u read where d lady said she got gifts for him but he never did? (not even 500 recharge card haba!)it's just mere instincts to do so!

Poverty doesn't make u stingy. Whether rich or poor, if ur stingy ur stingy. The responsibility of ur marriage will be on u(children sch fees, hse rent etc)

And to cap it all, you're not of the same orientation,exposure and status. This will continually embarrass or limit u

My advice is this: have a deep discussion with him, watch for a month. If he doesn't change pls let him go.
You are a hardworking woman hence need a man that is compatible and would complement u.

Cc lalasticlala seun ati bebe lo

How much?

spyglaxx:
Do not marry a woman because of the size of her boobs or butts rather marry the content of her character.

Oga in as much as character is very important, physical attraction is too. Everyone has a spec don't rule that out.

Happy New Year people!

We need this on front page

Cc lalasticlala seun ati bebe lo


Thank God for my kind of parents. They weren't strict but balanced it.


They never for once picked a cane to flog me.
But dad gave me a slap one day cos I threw his bible inside water(it was even a mistake). Few minutes later, he gave me money to buy goody goody

Happy Sunday guys, God is indeed wonderful

TYAUTOS:
yes sir

How much?

TYAUTOS:
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TY AUTOS, IN GOD WE TRUST.

Do u have camry 99?

StefanSalvatore:
Family is everything

indeed it is

Nigerians can so find it hard to mind their business

The most important is that she's getting married

Some parents are the cause of their own misfortune

As old as you are aunty, you are still asking for advice on this type of issue.

It beats me how people are this slow in reasoning in life.

How much? Smh!

I just love blue

Congrats to the couple

BobbyDean:
what if that 'special someone' some how keeps reappearing. I think the man should just be watchful & @least express more love to her to keep her, cos.......

You are right

He has good body but he doesn't have a fine face

So you were a cultist

carblognaija:
Sister! Sister!
Look. If you have a budget above 1m, go for 05/06 Toyota Corolla. If your budget is below 1m, go for Toyota Camry (Tiny light).
As you are buying pls don't be too attracted by the exterior super clean. Pay attention to Engine and interior. Exterior can always be taken care of.

Please how about Toyota Solara?

olanshi:


Merry Christmas Bisjosh!


Missed you seriously!

Thank u.
Happy new year

Fine dude

Clean black will always be the best

Op just calm down

We all(male and female) always will remember that special someone. Doesn't mean she would cheat on u


Do u also always tell her about everyone u meet?

Na wa o. This small gal go know wetin prick be like

Autos

Thanks MRBrownJ for digging into his prev posts

@op you see ya life?

So, u think by conning women into a fake relationship will satisfy your desires. You never thought it would be a bone stuck in your throat?

Be careful! You might just bite more than you can chew

MRBrownJ:
busy 3rd mainland bridge, so the car just exploded into flames and there was no car behind or nobody in the vicinity to help in any way (even if just to throw a bottle of water on the flames)?!

you mean to say that "casually driving by while taking pics" is the thing to do?!





the same way you will help if/when your home is on fire.... or would you let it burn to the ground until (or IF) fire brigade arrive?



exactly, the fire must have started small, and i am sure someone could have helped. yet here is a country where churches on sundays are filled with people who wouldnt even help thy neighbors, kai!

Na Nigerians holy pass for Sundays and Fridays but with the wackiest mentality and non-chalant attitude.

MRBrownJ:
and people are driving by, without any attempt whatsoever to help in any way.... kai!

That's Nigerians for u. Even in traffic where robbers are smashing someone's windows, they just turn to the other side instead of hitting those robbers with their cars.

Before the burning degenerated to this, am so sure there were motorists passing by but chose not to help

mzilakazi:
South Africa is very tolerant when it comes to foreign investment. When any foreign company which is of a value to its market flount its regulations it won't rush to impose a hefty fine. It will afford the other party to present its case and listen whether it was deliberate or unintentional. It will only be after everything else has been exhausted that they will consider applying some little lashes but not to kill the company.

It should be borne in mind that foreign investment is important to our developments. They create jobs; sponsor major events and sports; sponsor education and offer scholarships to our students to study in local and overseas universities; they are major contributors of revenues through tax and also they help develop infrastructure through investment.

Why do we have to go to foreign countries to ask for investment? We invite them to our countries and when they do wrong we want to kill them without looking into facts. Investors are also not in our mercy, they can as well drop us like a hot potato and leave us with a dwindling economy.

God bless u for this sir!

Gullible Nigerians hope you can read?

@op you have to be customer friendly
People asking questions doesn't necessarily mean they are insulting you. Its just to get a clearer picture.

Happy sales!

I am not Single

Wow!

Flat tummy after how many kids?

She looks fit!

Commendable!

All the gays,transgenders,bisexuals,lesbians mostly if not all had terrible upbringing/childhood experiences . So is your friend.

What your friend needs is love and give her time. Within months she would be clamouring for marriage

Na wa o bros eee!



The summary of it all is that;

You are not a happy person

You are a bitter person

You are a walking time-bomb.