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99thEnemy:
Theoretically Yes.

Practically, how much have you made so far?

Its not yourr business, neither is it your motivation but
its been 6 years of consistency in it, so about $198k.

IF YOU NEVER WANT TO LOOSE MONEY EVER AGAIN
In FOOTBALL
In FX
In kypto
In BDC


LEARN THE MINDSET OF ARBITRAGE AND YOU WILL ENTER REST AND NEVER BE AT LOSS.

It is not a get rich quick scheme but a very legal way to profit off the difference of outcomes.


Go to youtube and research for yourself about it.

No one should be lazy and be asking me to spill it here, I am not selling anything.

Go to youtube and research it and watch how your addiction to gambling will END.

Odebayo4010:
I think you're entiest,if not you wouldn't said such thing, biblical didn't not support unmarried

timothy didnt marry, paul didnt, elisha didnt, elijah didnt, what are you saying. YOU DON'T KNOW THE BIBLE.

Being unmarried is HIGHLY SUPPORTED and I know plenty scriptures.

We are talking about convincing the GEN Z generation when they ask questions about it

Odebayo4010:
Don't fool yourself,old Age will tell you that marriage is important,you can not just happy only, you need someone to create it for you such as your wife children grandchildren

you can have children and grand children without marriage.

I do not ask this for myself, I earlier explained that in the first post.

If a young man comes to you and asks you the benefit of marriage to men... SEEING ALL THAT IS GOING ON NOW IN THE WORLD....

what would you answer.

DANGOTE is not married...

many at the top are divorced.

so pls be practical... the rise of single men not wanting marriage is increasing, without STRONG LOGICAL REASON THAT CAN'T BE ARGUED, many will no longer desire it.

many who are married if they could go back to the past would rather remain unmarried because of the stress and many hidden issues we face.

So how will you sell it to the younger generation

Odebayo4010:
benefits of men in marriage are,emotional support, companionship, shared responsibilities, the potential for personal growth, and the opportunity to build a family

All great people who are unmarried have all these.

these are things you can get without marriage. Asides sex....

Family is not an opportunity it is stress and bills UNLESS YOU ARE SUPER WEALTHY.

shared responsibility? NO, there is no burden of responsibility in the first place if you are not married. So what exactly should a person be happy for about shared responsibility. it is women who may enjoy that.

POTENTIAL? for growth? haba, that is for singles. ONCE YOU MARRY, YOU DON'T GROW, you manage where you have grown to and focus on growing others(wife and kids)
Before marriage GROWTH increases your income, AFTER MARRIAGE what you call growth divides your income.

Vcento:
About music ministrel

Some people think that music is a calling to everyone who sing but they don't know it just to attached to your calling

ACTUALLY THEY DON'T CARE, they see the fame and money and suddenly feel drawn to TITLE themselves in anyway that aids their packaging.

nikky5:
From all indications,it seems the political ambitions of the Edo Deputy Governor Philip Shuaibu is coming to and end in Edo State.

This is sure to happen because the court has refused to grant his prayer to safe him from impeachment.

The question that beg for answer is, what are the sins of Shuaibu that his principal wants him impeached.

HE MAY HAVE INNOCENTLY OFFENDED POWERS THAT BE AND THEY MAY HAVE VOWED TO TEACH HIM A LESSON BECAUSE HE HAS NO BACKING.

Odebayo4010:
If you choose a working woman, you have to accept that she can't handle the house full time.
If you choose a housewife who can take care of you and manage the home completely, you need to accept that she doesn't make money.
If you choose a submissive woman, you must accept that she depends on you.
If you choose to be with a brave woman, you must accept that she is tough and has thoughts of her own.
If you choose a beautiful woman, you have to
accept expenses too.
If you choose to be with a great woman, you must accept that she is tough and firm.

No one is perfect.
A woman has her own ′′ good thing ′′ that defines who she is and makes her unique.

Please can anyone answer(I will appreciate details)
WHAT ARE THE MAJOR BENEFITS OF MARRIAGE TO A MAN?

because HEALTH WISE, it seems not to benefit
financially in today's nigeria, it is a bad decision
companionship/intimacy/friendship/etc not guaranteed

next time pls go to youtube

no one will dedicate their precious time herre to contact you to teach you.

YOUTUBE HAS ALL YOU NEED..... i just checked, its actually easy and its there. Kindly go there and find your answers

blessedchild234:
I know these is off topic but what about someone going into graphics what would you advise such a person.

graphics is good but it is fast becoming obsolete with A.I

So if you would learn graphics, kindly learn A.I too so you will be in demand even when A.I takes away the jobs of people

Fleekkaaax:
especially uneducated folks very barbabric and daft

ALSO.... just IGNORE

Fleekkaaax:
especially uneducated folks very barbabric and daft

maybe they drank COW MILK more than breast milk


TRY TO BE PATIENT WITH THEM AND AVOID THEM WHEN YOU CAN.

MisterBanny:
Oga, forget it. No matter how rich you are, there's one lady out of many that u have that you will always Love and be Emotionally attached to. So what if it is such lady that breaks your heart?
Remember, money can never take the place of woman in your life.

I can't argue with you,
when you make serious money like I have, YOU WILL SEE THE WORLD DIFFERENTLY and be qualified to reason this matter with me.



I am yet to see any POLITICIAN, WORLD LEADER, suffer heartbreak.

MONEY is next to GOD, even JESUS ADMITTED IT.

So its well

MisterBanny:
Is it about getting Richer after a breakup? Even if you're Dangote, these girls will still cheat on you.

WHEN YOUR WHOLE MIND IS INVESTED IN MAKING MONEY AND BEING A BETTER PERSON............ you will have no HEART BREAK with ladies because YOU WILL NEVER TAKE THEM SUPER SERIOUS...

HEART BREAK is most painful when SHE IS ALL YOU GOT........... MONEY GIVES OPTIONS....

You will LOOSE MONEY chasing women, but never REALLY loose women if you FOCUS ON MAKING MONEY FIRST

Submission is NEVER about bills. If it is about bills, the RICH SHOULD NEVER MARRY THE POOR and lets see what will happen

MEN really have no benefit in marriage.

EbiJUNIRO:
How can I create a new topic ?

Go to nairaland main page...
there are many SECTIONS there.

Your topic should be under one of the sections.

FOR EXAMPLE.......

if I am looking for JOB, I find the section called JOB/VACANCIES, then after clicking.... you will see NEW TOPIC, click it....

it will take you to the page you are looking for.

type in your TITLE, then go to the empty space and write the entire words you wish to write,

AFTER THAT, click SUBMIT.

Bullfallo:
Spiritual Implication of sleeping unclad ?

For more than a decades now i still prefer to sleep unclad.

nothing really, it is even healthy as long as there is no emergency

while I am not denying that spirits love nudity or find access easier with nudity.....

as long as you pray before you sleep, or you have a spiritual relationship with God.... SLEEPING NAKED is safe, healthy and even a sign of trust.

chukwuebuka65:
It’s no longer news that corruption has eaten deep into the root of the Nigerian society. But I always wondered how and when corruption crept into society, and why it continued to grow to this level and is still growing. Are there factors peculiar to the Nigeria community that has fueled its growth? If there is , what are those factors and how do we tackle it? We cannot rid our society of this plague that has befallen us without answering the above questions.

Who introduced corruption to Nigeria?

EVERY WHERE IN THE WORLD, WHERE HUMANS LIVE......... there is corruption.

Goodplace:
I used to believe that all phones should be turned off or put on flight mode when in an aircraft...

because they have not watched the SEASON movie .... LOST

Testiebobo:
I promised my brother that i will assist him to get a laptop for his design business by contributing half of the money. Th HP system cost 120K, so i should pay 60k.
But it's over 2months now and the money i was expecting did'nt arrive. He called me yesterday to blame me for being the cause why he had already spent half of his contribution. The last text he sent to me on whatsapp was"thanks for the delay!". And this morning i discovered he had already blocked me. I only saw my messages on his dm and none of his texts were there.

You are a good brother.... but be wise, avoid black tax.

YOU DIDNT HAVE TO PROMISE HIM ANYTHING.... without a TARGET.

I mean you should have told him "IF YOU HAVE THIS AND THAT, THEN I MAY GIVE YOU HALF"

emphasis on MAY.

I believe your cash will come this month.... SEND HIM 61K or 65K.

Then when he is so happy and unblocks you.

FINISH HIM..... CORRECT HIM AND TELL HIM THE EXTRA 1K or 5K was for him to buy wisdom, tell him you will NEVER HELP HIM AGAIN TILL HE IS NO LONGER FEELING ENTITLED and then BLOCK HIM.


Move on... and what how his mind will crumble.

being his ELDER BROTHER should be proven by having ability to correct him in a way that will shake his mind

kudos bro

so sorry for this kind of experience but we need to change your SIMPlistic view on the matter... NOT ALL LADIES ARE LIKE HER, yes you need a break from relationships, go and LEARN the right way about relationships through books and counsellors who have a proven track record on such issues.

it may just have been the wake up call you need.

ONCE A MAN SLEEPS WITH A LADY, HE HAS CONQUERED HER WHILE SHE HAS BEEN CONQUERED.
YOU need to expose him to other colleagues before leaving that office. He is a shameless animal.


IN LIFE, NEVER MAKE YOUR WOMAN COME TO YOUR LEVEL OR ELSE YOU WILL LOOSE HER.

WHEN WOMEN HAVE MONEY, THEY BELIEVE THEY DO NOT NEED MEN, BUT WHEN MEN HAVE MONEY, THEY GO IN SEARCH OF WOMEN OR FAMILY.

WHEN A SNAKE BITES YOU, NEVER CHASE IT FOR EXPLANATION OR REVENGE UNTIL YOU HAVE FIRST TREATED YOURSELF FROM THE VENOM PROPERLY

THE BEST REVENGE IS SUCCESS(meaning get richer, own your own business, find a better loyal lady who is 1000% better than your ex and marry her)

FORGIVE BUT NEVER FORGET

CONVERT THE PAIN TO DETERMINATION TO BE A GREAT SUCCESS..... CHANGE ENVIRONMENT.... EVEN IF YOU NEED TO FIND A BETTER JOB.

uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.
................................

But for the guy I'll deal with him.

too late, btc will crash from its current price ON or BEFORE APRIL 15TH THIS YEAR

OFunke24:
If I as a woman marries a man that is the same age as the firstborn son of the family, do I still need to listen to the firstborn when he tells me to serve food and wash his plates etc during the holidays when we come together as a family if my husband is not around? Would it not be putting my husband down in his absence if I obey to do those things?

I am not so great with social settings especially one to do with power struggles.
I grew up doing a lot of things in the house before my older ones stepped up to do anything at all and I find it difficult to see them as my seniors.

Yes you are married, BUT YOUR IN YOUR FAMILY HOUSE YOU ARE STILL A DAUGHTER AND A SIBLING.

In your husband's presence or absence, as long as there is no one else to do those thing, simply DO IT.

Seize the opportunity to show your humility

DeathToSimps:
I'm sorry to say that you have no single sense.
Just an empty, blabbering head...
Sad.

mehn it takes one to know one.... welcome bro

go to youtube

I believe you are a fine guy and you appear successful but pls be wise o, you may be on your right to go ahead with using legal actions against the husband but pls sir as a single guy you are quite a very ignorant person.... with all the sexcapades gist on the internet involving neighbours and such. Not every good deed is a favor, some do it to gain access to you.

LEARN TO READ YOUR ENVIRONMENT.... e get why o.

Is it that you don't know how to clean your own surroundings? or how to not answer when they come knocking? or how to end unnecessary conversations?

BECAUSE, AT THE END OF THE DAY, YOU WILL BE BLAMED.......... This is why most landlords do not like to give SINGLE FOLKS a chance to rent their house because of avoidable nonsense like these.

Is ANY HELP FOR FREE IN NIGERIA? Didnt you see the signs........ you just FELT they were being NICE? Nice? in this country? Pls have more wisdom next time, any married woman whose husband is not always available for her, is a walking risk. YOU HAVE TO BE CAREFUL....

It may be wise to get a GIRLFRIEND or your sister or someone whom everyone can see with you and they will have to back off.

or, you can as well move out of the house.

or go and get married.

Another one that works is GETTING A RING.... wear it when you are about entering the house or going out... or when you have to engage anyone there in conversations... if they ask, say you are married and she is a daughter of the native herbalist in your village, that she will soon come (sounds like joke but it works o) WATCH HOW YOU WILL BE AVOIDED....

But remember, the MORE YOU TRY TO EXPLAIN YOURSELF OUT OF SUCH STICKY SITUATIONS WITHOUT EVIDENCE..... the more guilty and unbelieved you will be in the eyes and ears of everyone.

Letuspray4niger:
Good day all, please I need ur advice I’m the only bachelor in my neighbourhood three rented apartments , I’m in between two families, they both have three three kids each, they are all very nice people, they rendered assistance to me in any slightest opportunity that presents itself, they pack my washed clothes under the sun fold it and well arranged before I returned home, they always sweep my surroundings, when they are doing theirs, one of them, her husband is not always around he goes and comes once in a while, she will always like to engage me on conversation any little chance she fines me outside, knowing fully well that she is a married woman, I don’t give room for such familiarity, she always offer me food by giving it to her children to give to me. (Make I no lie I need the food cus I no fit cook) I’ll also get things for her children too, I noticed her getting me food was getting too frequent, I started given her attitude and being very official with her, and she took caution.

The other lady is here with here husband, she will join me in my car if I’m going out maybe coincidentally it happened she was going to my direction, also, there was a faithful day I left my apartment keys at a barbershop in front of my estate, I came back that evening looking for this barber guy his number was not connecting, I went to my neighbor house to ask the if he knew where I can find this guy, the man was not in the house, the wife came out that she will lead me to the guys house, and me I don’t know where the guys lives on our way going the husband was coming back home he saw us walking in the street of the estate, he confronted us and we told him, just yesterday I came back at about 11:30pm when this woman with her husband here came knocking at my door that her husband is accusing her of having an affair with me, that he threatened to send her parking if she there disclose the information to me and it happened that I’m close to the husband, we both discuss about politics a lot, the other neighbor who’s husband is not always around also came out, I had to confront the husband why dragging me into ur family issues did u seen me on top ur wife, why this allegation ? He said is his family issue that he will take care of it, at this point I’m considering taking a legal action against him for character assassination, did I do wrong for given my Neiboure’s wife a lift Or asking for where I can locate the barber guy? I’m guilty of this ??

The husband has the right to suspect, but since nothing going on between me and his wife what I’m supposed to do, should I proceed with the legal action, Matured advice please.

wany:
Let this reside in your mind only ok, never try this with an inform woman, if not it will end in hot tears.

the so called informed women u speak of, are the ones whose husbands are mute, or about to divorce them and feel undervalued.


First world countries are not better than Africa, pls understand this.

God is real and his standards are real
In a HOME, it is not 50/50
The Husband is the HEAD, no matter what.

Marriage is not for everyone, Marriage doesn't even profit men in anyway but rather increases their responsibilities and liabilities.


Women who are independent and very informed are best to remain single... even in the bible they were single and no one complained.

LilMissFavvy:
They handed her over to the husband as a wife, not a slave. He has no right to frustrate her and stop her from visiting her people.

Maybe you are not a Christian but even in Islam it is worse......

AS FAR AS AFRICAN MARRIAGES ARE CONCERNED........... the woman is the property of the man... IT IS NOT AN OPINION... if you like call it slavery but you can not select what part of authority you want to enjoy.

IT IS CALLED BRIDE PRICE FOR A REASON AND NOT BRIBE PRICE.

Have sense so you can marry well with the right perspective.


YOU CAN'T MARRY AND THINK YOU WILL BE ALLOWED TO DO AS YOU WERE DOING AS A SINGLE.

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