YOU DON'T LIVE AT THE DOOR, you move past the DOOR to enter into the HOUSE.
If you say its the FIRST PLACE TO START......... why are you still there.
Sinners get to the cross BRUISED, BEATEN AND BROKEN, they encounter the BLOOD OF JESUS AT THE CROSS AND THEIR GARMENTS CHANGE and then they start up and carry the cross to begin a new JOURNEY with RIGHTEOUSNESS PEACE AND JOY IN THE HOLYGHOST
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I hope this message finds you well. I'm reaching out to seek advice on a challenging situation I'm currently facing with my neighbor.
Recently, my neighbor has made false and serious allegations against me, and has gone as far as making explicit threats of physical harm. This, along with defamatory remarks, has created a disruptive and distressing environment for me.
I believe it's essential to address this matter appropriately and seek advice on the best course of action. If anyone has experience or knowledge in handling such situations, especially regarding defamation, I would greatly appreciate any guidance or insights you can provide.
Feel free to share any relevant tips, resources, or steps I could take to protect my rights, counter defamation, and navigate through this challenging circumstance. Additionally, if you need more details to better understand the situation, please let me know.
Thank you all in advance for your support and advice.
1) GET A LAWYER 2) RECORD HIS WORDS AND THREATS AND ANY PHYSICAL ATTEMPTS 3) PROTECT YOURSELF... GET TECH APPS AND SECURITY GADGETS(I cant say much here to avoid bann) 4) change your daily routine because others may be on to you based on whomever he has spoken to 5) consider serving an invite to him from the court for DEFAMATION.
I really want your opinion on something crucial as I'm currently considering a career change.
Quick Background History I'm an Engineer working at an international organization but on contract. The pay isn't really bad(200K+) but the work culture isn't really comfortable as we work from 7am-6pm(Mon - Sat). I'm currently considering settling down with GF and I know this job nature won't give me the needed time for family thingy(looking after your kids and the other responsibilities).
I'm a lover of remote work as well hacking and defense and currently considering a career change into cybersecurity.
MY PLEE
The IT Gurus in the house, please your insight is highly needed. Thank you in anticipation
I am a certified IT person on CEH and cybersecurity, I work remotely and travel abroad yearly. so yes, It is very good and has many international opportunities ONLY if you are very skilled in it.
F.Y.I Hope you know that 200k under goodluck jonathan is the current 70k under tinubu..... SO DON'T CALL YOUR 200K+ a good salary o. It is TERRIBLE
To survive as a single guy in this economy, 1M monthly is fair and manageable.... BUT AS A MARRIED MAN, 2.5M monthly and above IS THE NEW AVERAGE INCOME
GET INTO TECH BY GOING TO A PROPER SCHOOL THAT WILL GIVE YOU LIVE SCENERIOS AND APPLY FOR REMOTE JOBS
Also, even if you are earning as little as 2.5m in a remote job..... consider this, a regular TRUCK DRIVER IN THE UK OR CANADA earns 9,000USD monthly on shift basis
sheetred: Over the past three years of my marriage, I've observed a recurring pattern in my dreams where I get attacked and chased whenever I become close to another woman. This has led me to avoid interacting with these women, initially thinking it might be a coincidence or that I consistently encounter individuals with negative intentions. However, when I discussed this with an old girlfriend, she clarified that it might be connected to my wife's cultural background, where women from her tribe are strictly forbidden to cheat on their husbands and they might have done something to prevent me from sleeping with another girl. This has left me feeling confused. Has anyone faced a similar situation, and if so, could you please offer advice on how to navigate this?
LET ME HELP YOU........
Once a month, or if you are aware of the pattern of time such dreams come......
BEFORE IT HAPPENS.... get your wife a GIFT, no matter how small.... THE DREAM WILL NOT COME.
Some men do this MONTHLY to avoid dreams and issues like this.
try it for the next two month.... you will see a change
Donkogbe: My mother is the type that talk to you anyhow at any given opportunity.
Shes so toxic and talks ills of everything you do and get angry by just walking around her. she traumatized my childhood till i finally left and stay on my own but still she has not changed.
i was thinking by the time she gets really old all the gragra will calm down and now shes closing to 80 and she has not change one bit. if you have any suggestions on how i can go about it and help her because the situation has caused our relationship and i plan not to even see her for years
She must have been hurt alot when she was very young and her current expression is her way of venting out.
Forgive her but remember
She is still your MOTHER.....NO MATTER WHAT....... be grateful you still have one that is alive.
Zanzibar1: At this point I need a miracle. Almighty Father, I pray that You hear my plea. I know I can have all that I need because because you are life and control all things, and right now especially, I need a miracle. Please give me a solution and send me a helper to end of this turbulent time, because right now, it feels as if I am only set to drown in my despair.
God is not ONLINE.
Go offline and you will get help when you MEET PEOPLE PHYSICALLY.
tallfish145: HERE IS MY TRUE LIFE STORY I moved to Abuja in the 2015 but never really liked the idea. Since then life has been back and forth with me. I have tried every possible means to get out of the city on so many occasions, I kept finding myself coming back(after moving out) due to unavailability of fund to start a new life elsewhere. This year 2024 I finally made my mind to settle at Ilorin where I already rented a two rooms apartment and subsequently started something with the little capital I have. But something happened after two weeks that I have no choice than to move back to Abuja again. The reason behind it was a little bit scary. A madwoman had asked me to leave the town and go back to where I came from(Abuja). Not fully convinced, someone took me to a seer who also says same thing as the madwoman. I was given a deadline of moving out before two days. I obeyed and came back to Abuja. The thing now is I can't find solace and peace here in Abuja because of standard of living and other factors. I really wish to live amongst my Yoruba speaking people with my family. I am thinking of going against all odds and move back to either Ilorin or any other parts of Yorubaland. Please your brotherly advice is needed. Thanks
I hope your wife is UNDERSTANDING and RESPECTFUL despite your predicament, MOST WOMEN WOULD LEAVE.
Now, about your issue..... hmmm
If you are in ABUJA, why not attend DUNAMIS and go for proper deliverance.
MAD WOMAN AND SEERS are not GOD.
You may be tied to ABUJA because of a gross mistake you made years ago.
You also shouldn't have rushed into marriage when your finances are not settled.
Bro, you need a FRESH START and it is not about LOCATION but MINDSET.
Attend KOINONIA too whenever you can and be active. YOU WILL SEE THINGS DIFFERENTLY.
These are the genuine places of help I know in ABUJA...
Asides all these, I hope you are prayerful, you give alms and do not abuse your wife..... BLESSINGS WILL SURELY LOCATE YOU THIS YEAR WHEREVER YOU ARE.
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BItt: I am going through a very rough time that has refused to change. I am confused if I should admit myself into a mental hospital. I am not have not been myself for a while now.
Apart from my financial situation and lack, I am not just happy with life. Before, I used to be optimistic and vibrant but now I am very depressed. I know not having money to care for my needs is part of major problems. Poverty wann twist my neck to the back and break am.
The SAPA too much abeg. Rent is due, money no dey. Job no dey. Food no dey. I also do not have friends apart from coming online and sharing my heart. Survival be like magic
I feel the level of anonymity nairaland offers help me to speak in length about how I feel. I made other post before. It's hard to be a man, it's even much harder when you are your own family with no one to lean on.
Nowadays, I have realized I am a danger not to myself alone but the people around me. The more depressed a man becomes, the more susceptible to crime he becomes. If you read this, I am just an avarage guy and an avarage nairalander just expressing himself.
You ARE just HUNGRY.....
you need GOOD FOOD FOR LIKE 7 DAYS STRETCH....
cold shower
good movies
games
beach experience
THEN YOU WILL BE FINE.
A clear head can see solutions through any situation.
Also you need a MENTOR, someone you can OBEY without doubt and can bring you out of your mess.
Zanzibar1: God Please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. I'm in lack and I am worried life isn't going as I want. It's been too much inconvinience and hardship. Please make things easy for me.
I believe in you God and Nothing is too much for you to do. I am need a miracle. Nothing is too impossible for you to do God please.
GOD is not here.... men are here.
GOD helps men through men.
I believe all you need is
CONSISTENT FOOD CONSISTENT SOURCE OF CLEAN MONEY GENUINE FRIENDS SELF LOVE COMMUNITY.
Then you will have clarity on what you need GOD for.
Right now, you just need these things to get you out of your gloominess.
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Devaro: Do you believe that religious body wreck homes/marriages?
If not, I'm a victim and I will love to hear from people who had experience such & how they were able pull through it.
I would have remained a victim but I recovered quickly after discovering that.....
Ignorance of true SPIRITUALITY is the real WRECKER.
Someone who chose not to get close to GOD the right way BUT SEEKS SHORTCUTS through fake prophets/imams/seers/ will end up getting WRONG COUNSEL AND PAYING HEAVILY FOR IT AND WILL STILL SUFFER FOR YEARS DUE TO WRONG PROPHETIC DIAGNOSIS.
If only they just knew the TRUTH, they will be set free from desperately chasing SO CALLED religious wolves for solution.
psucc: I need a honest opinion on which phone to go for. I have a budget of N80,000 only. Honestly, that's the much I can afford.
My current phone (Tecno Pop 2 power) bought in August, 2019 has developed fault (humming sounds on all calls at the other end, though at my end it's very clear).
The phone must be able to deliver not just calls. I use it as a camera (for passport photographs), internet services (as Modem) or online registration, etc.
Please gurus, help recommend a good phone new or used (though I am afraid of the used phones in Nigeria, as some are worked on and may pack up sooner than expected). Thanks.
There are good IPHONES you can buy at such price with sharp clean cameras.
sukkot: People are going through all kinds of problems Mental Spiritual Marital Children wahala Financial Health Depression Suicidal Tired of life Tired of Nigeria Tired of abroad but broke and stuck Tired of spouse Etc etc etc
I guess the question is are there any perfectly happy people out there with no problems please come out and declare thyself. And those with problems what is it ?
GREATNESS has no color, GOOD or BAD.... as long as someone is in a higher position than you, they have more power and influence, THEY ARE GREATER THAN YOU.... FYI, I am not a boy.