andyanders:
baby girl, sorry for this.Try visit an hospital ASAP let us know what it takes for your case to be taken care of since you got no cash now. Early treatment is what you needed because it is an infection. Hope you dont sleep with multiple partners and stop for now if you are involved in it.

thanks and no I don't sleep with multiple partners or anyone.

EbolaParasite:

Those tales about ocer washing your vjayjay will cause bacterial vaginosis don pass. Unless you use velcro or scrubbing brush to wash your private part, your point is moot. Personal hygiene is the number one factor. You'd be amazed at how many naija women reuse pants without washing

I know mine is not due to lack of personal hygiene. unless I'm doing it wrongly.

EbolaParasite:



People with smelly private parts and smelly menstrual flow

u are madt

Afriface:
#2 How to identify infection most especially staphylococcus in females

Pelvic inflammatory disease, which leads to pouring back of sperm after intercourse.
It causes endomentritis which makes females to pass out offensive vaginal discharge.
It leads to blockage of fallopian tubes. At this point, yellowish micro purulent cervical discharge will be noticed at the Arrow.
It leads to the inflammation of the ovaries, if this happens, the ovaries will no longer function and produce hormones such as oestrogen and progesterone that regulate the women’s menstruation.
Bleeding in the vagina during intercourse or painful sex
Noise in the stomach mostly on regular basis.
When there is loss of ovulation
Odour in the mouth
Presence of worm like movement in the body.
Heaviness in the waist as if stone is present.
Infertility and miscarriages

www.terminateitnow.com

Chineke me! All this for 1 person body. am not experiencing any except the smell so I guess it's not staphylococcus wateva.
Thanks anyway.

zabbie:
My dear, the most common cause of foul smelling menstrual flow or during sex is an infection, example of which is the bacterial vaginosis that has been earlier mentioned. Itz not safe to go on self medication because you might cause more harm to yourself. Go to a reliable lab, and request to do a 'high vaginal swab for m/c/s'. Write it out the way I've written it. Then take the result to a doctor to determine what to use. Do not use any drug prior to that. Also maintain proper hygiene - change your pads regularly, avoid wearing tight, nylon pants, use only water to clean your private part and clean from front to back, not otherwise. Do the test nd see a doctor asap. Take care

thanks so much. Will write it down and take it a lab on Monday. God bless you

oluwatosin85:


u have to complete a packet of antibiotics and stop eating groundnut during menstrual period it makes period stinks

seriously? didn't know that. I don't eat groundnuts tho.

for all of you saying it's private and I shouldn't share it here and that I got it through sex blah blah. its an infection! e no dey look face. It started last night and even if there was a good health center around me I wouldn't have been able to go there until this morning. I know I should have gone to a doctor last month but I was just too careless and didn't take it seriously.
If you don't have any advice to give just read and learn cos your wife, gf or sis may be in the same position tomorrow and the knowledge gotten here may come in handy.

Thanks to all for your advice and support. The smell isn't so bad anymore. I will be visiting a doctor first thing Monday morning.

Janetozi:
be changing ur pad/tampon on regular basis until ur period is over.


Before u started noticing the foul smelling menstrual blood, didn't u notice any change in ur virg!nl fluid and itching?


And i hope u are not having pains in ur lower abdomen.

there wasn't any change, no itching, nothing. I don't wnt to go to any health centre around cos they might just prescribe what will make it worse. I'm not feeling any pain. just this damn smell!!

EbolaParasite:


You have bacterial vaginosis. When you have sex, it will smell like fish. Your personal hygiene down there is not on point. Clean properly and don't ever repeat pants without washing.

please, who repeats pants without washing?

achinaboy:
tell your new boyfriend to go check himself,because i think he fffucked ashanti recently,,

thanks but not everyone indulge in sex

joywendy:
okkkk

rita you look gorge! but like the posters above me that skirt or whatever it is do damn wrong.


blaizze welcome to the thread

tanchu

I just took 2 doses of the antibiotics and stopped. is there anything I can do to stop the smell at least for now.

Please what can cause foul smelling menstruation blood. I just noticed it last month on the last day of my period. The smell was so bad that I felt everyone could perceive it. I took some antibiotics and it stopped. but yesterday my flow started and this time it is worse!!! its really so frustrating.
has anyone experienced this before and what did you do. I cant go to the hospital right now cos I don't have enough money. maybe next week. Please I need help urgently. Please help me.

Have been on ghost mode but just have show myself now cos Rita no try atal. I just can't understand d skirt underneath.









The NTA guy tho

I really wish I could do it.





but I d fear to carry belle

SAMBARRY:
na this kain wedding them suppose sing that dolly Parton song wey say "the coat of many colours my mother made for me"

pls dnt!!! I have been trying not to laugh too hard cos I have chest pain. Pls dnt make me do it.

dinachi:
Scam alert! The OP is a discredited liar who sells her fake lifestyle for a living. Every single thing that comes out of her mouth in respect of her marriage is a fabricated story. Her marriage is hell on earth.

even if her marriage is hell, which I doubt, nobody asked u to 'open nyash' her. u'll have to agree that she's a really wise and smart woman and she gives really good advice. It will do you well to just read and learn or better still ignore the thread.

I know you are going to throw insults and curses at me. bring it on.

rokiatu:
the gorilla must be the girl on your profile she's ugly as fu..ck.

chisos dis is not fair!! how can u have all dat asz 2 ur self. just u alone o. only u. chai nature can be partial.

my family friend's fiancée called off their engagement because she was on Facebook. A relationship of almost 10 years. The guy told the girl that if she joins any social media that she should say goodbye to the relationship.










when the guy eventually got married to another girl, guess who uploaded his wedding pix on the facebook. yea you guessed right.

moca:

Hahahaahaaaa!
And mummy loved her a lot
D only thing is to stay away from such people.
D children have all turned against her now.
She dealth with d first son's wife very well but d woman conquered her. She is now in UK with her children enjoying her marriage.
Her hubby beat d hell outt of her because of this woman at eight months pregnancy and went to work.
While she was lying down on d door,the mama came down and opened door and left to her daughter's place. She didn't tell anybody.
Very unusual and d daughter called d wife but no answer.
Small time d son came and took her home.
We learnt later that d son couldn't concentrate at work so had to rush home. Wifey was lying on d floor,he went up,mama who caused d whole thing has cleared her thing and left.
How wicked can one be?
If she didn't spare an unborn child,na me she go spare?
Abeg,let God handle her case.
Na look I dey dey look

jeez! that woman is soon mean. Some people gat heart sha. Thank God u pulled through.pls try to share ur story more often so that young girls can draw inspiration from. I have a friend who is going through a similar situation. she eventually dropped out of school. I just pray she doesn’t make the wrong decision.

nannymcphee:


My dear let me touch more areas

You are still very young & I will advise you to get close to your elder sister & mum. If this guy knows that there is an authority figure in ur life that knows about the relationship, there are certain things he won't try

But most ladies love this dating in isolation, don't tell anybody, it's between me & you kind of thing, then he will misbehave a lot & get away with it

little by little you will get there, if you can't then look for a female authority to get close to, it will help you a lot in life not just on relationship matters but in life affairs

On the relationship matter, leave this boy & I'll advise you stay clear of relationships for now, you are still very young(20) with lots of choices before you, you don't need the extra baggage of relationships

After this one, remain single, make friends & leave it there till u clock 23/24, it will give you clarity. That every Susanna & Morganna is in a relationship does not mean you should be in one cos that's one of the reason most undergraduates go into one. Trust me 3 years from now you will ask yourself what was I even doing with that guy? Why cos you now know better

the best way to know someone is at friendship stage, not relationship stage cos there will be a whole lot of pretence, if you had been friends with this guy before dating him, you would have spotted this trait in him!!

I repeat stay clear from relationships for know, a lot of ladies got damaged or did things they would later regret because they started too early & most time you will always start with the wrong guy

Imagine having commited abortion maybe like thrice or having ones womb removed in the process or having lost count of how many guys you have slept with or flings/one night you have had, these things later bring regret at ones later stage in life or devaluation of one's self worth

thanks a much, my mum knows about him and the relationship. its just that she is not aware of his controlling habit. We were friends before we started dating and he want really like this. He changed early last year.
am not the types that will do a thing because people are doing it. I do it because I want to do it. I have learnt now that starting a relationship too early isn't the best that's the more reason why I need to end this and concentrate on realising my dreams cos that is what is more important right now.
Thanks again.

veave:



Don't be surprised, when you check facebook or instagram next week and see wedding pishooor...

wicket

veave:




Babe, i saw the handwriting from the second paragraph. .e is overdone with you. You just realized now? You nor get boyfriend again oh. Make i tell you. You better delete his number. Infact, if you check my fone, you will see dontpick1-7 or even more, i have lost count.

Now those numbers on 'dontpick' are numbers i will not delete so as not to mistakenly pick their call. And the good thing about those numbers is that, i can never dial or pick them because i don't know who is who.
You better adjust well.

lol, I used to do dis 'dnt pick' ish back den. guess all of den got tired of calling and stopped.

I know the thread was meant for wives and Intending wives. I just wanted to let someone know about what am going through. am not close to my mum or elder sister and I can't tell my friends about this cos they will laugh at me.
Sorry if I went off but I appreciate the advice I got here . Thanks.

personality disorder ke, maybe maybe not but u can make someone change unless they want to right. I got an app that blocks calls so I his calls today. I really want to be free abeg. The whole constant argument can drain ones energy I swear. I'm just going to keep avoiding.

I laughed really hard . preternatural, he is not mentally unstable. just like great heart God said, he is just too possessive. I feel his insecurities stems from the fact that he is not yet in the university while am almost graduating. I feels I want someone better. He is a totally independent guy and works for his money and also acquired advanced certificate and diplomas but not a university degree.

We don't live together. I have never even spent a night in his house before. I'm just tired of everything. He knows my house, my mum's shop and almost all my friends. He even knows my mum. whenever I say I want to break up he will start coming to all these places to look for me n start meeting all these people to help him talk to me. and will start making promises to change and all that.

He always says that I have seen someone new that why I wnt to break up with him. Is it a must to be in a relationship. I just want to be alone for now. without all this boyfriend wahala will achieve more.

I will just block his num and stop going out for now(my school is on strike). If I don see him and don't receive any calls I think he will get the message. No point talking to him about it cos it won't work. I just have to be firm.

Thanks for your responses God bless u all.

@babyosisi: He is 24 and am 20. He always complain about my size that I should add weight and stop looking like a child. I look really young for my age. Most people don't believe am up to 20. He is looks little older than his age so people always feel am his younger sister. I'm not thin or too tiny, I'm not even tiny sef. I told him once that I didn't ask him to look older than his age, lol.

@efemenaxy: The relationship isn't bad when are happy but disagree on so many things which makes us argue most times. I just feel we are not compatible.


@cococandy:the control and insecurities is just too much abeg. If I make a call in his presence he will 'stylishly' collect my fone to see who is just called.
I got in contact with an old neighbour last year n we started chatting on watsapp. Wen he checked my chats with the guy, he blinded his eyes to the part where the guy asked if I had a boyfriend and I said yes. He only noticed the part where the guy said he has being wishing to see me since we moved and I didn't let him n how he will like to see moved in school. my bf said that I had something to do with the guy that the chat doesn't look as if I was just friends with him (my former neighbour).
The pressure is just too much. He even downloaded one call recorder like that.

If he wants to dump me let him just do It already. i really don't mind. This guy is my first boyfriend. i keep asking him if there's anything i did to make him not to trust me and he says girls are not to be trusted. hear nonsense.
I just want to be firm and stop him from stalking me when I beak up with him.

so sorry for putting all the replies together. Thanks for your responses.

I need advice on how to break up wit out problems I have tried everything I can but non see to working. I tried ignoring, tried discussing with him but he always gives a 'good' reason y we should continue the relationship.

I cant continue being with someone who is so petty. I initially thought that the problem was from me but now I know otherwise. He doesn't want me to have male friends, very controlling. I have tried sitting down to discuss things with him but it's not just working out.

Just this evening I stopped to greet a male customer and he just started shouting saying he will start keeping female friends too n whatever happens I should just take it like that and that it will only lead to break up. I tried to explain and calm him down to no avail so I allowed him to continue boiling, lol.

when he finished ranting, I went to him and told him that there's no need to be scared and that I will never do anything to hurt him. The dude just said "now that u are having male friends when u go for nysc u may start sleeping around". I just left him and didn't reply.

so when we were going back home (he was actually walking me back to my house) he was still talking about it n I told him that I don't have the strength to quarrel and if he doesn't want to let the matter slide he better start goin to his house. He left n I had a peaceful walk home. When i got home I called to find out if he hadn't gotten home and he told me not to call him again. I jejely ended d call, I don't have airtime to waste.

This is what happens Weneva he sees a guys nota me on my phone book or watsapp. even facebook messages sef he will still want to check. He it's always paranoid. God knows I have never cheated on him before. Once he told me that if I get pregnant he will go for a dnt test o cos he doesn't trust me.

He found it really difficult to introduce me to anybody in his family until last year when we had a serious problem.

He is not as bad person though. Some other chic may be able to endure all those things but not me. I cant be giving explanations about things that shouldn't be explained.

I have done everything within my power to make it work but it just isn't working out. We argue everything week and if St's really exhausting. I am really tired of the relationship. and want to know if there's anything else I can do.
And i want advice on how to make someone believe you actually want break up. am a soft hearted person and always ready to please people as long as it's within my power.

cc:babyosisi
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cococandy

aunty babyosisi, God bless u and your home for this thread. as a young girl unmarried have learnt a lot from you and from other aunties. God bless you and your homes.



will post my wahala later. Make I charge my fone