₦airaland Forum

amprat:
We have been together for years now and have 3 beautiful kids between us, the state of the marriage is another day's discussion ,have even tried keeping a diary here on Nairaland but tupdating it is an issue, what I want to clarify at the moment is am not even sure am married to my husband.
1. I have always had issues with dowry and stuff (my personal opinion) so I didn't allow it to be paid hence I didn't invite any extended family member to any wedding, was a bit easy we've not really been close to them as my dad died quite early so wedding was myself,him,my immediate siblings, his own, my mum and his,no serious"introduction",presentation of yam and stuff, I look back now and think what sort of thing that is must have always done things my way.

2. I remember at the court, they had to do mine before statrting , because I had exam on that day( I was an undergraduate) we signed,witnesses signed and we were given the certificate but was told we should bring it back later for an authorized signature from one of their oga or something, I didn't hear, I just didn't want to miss my exam truth is I wasn't serious and didn't realize the enormity of the event(i was barely 21) meaning authorized signature on behalf of government missing




To the eyes of the Law; you are married. Reason: In as much as the "oga's signature" isn't present on your certificate, You guys exchanged marital vows in a legal court of law with some witnesses.
Traditionally, No! This is because to the eyes of your kinsmen, you just decided to cohabit with an unknown man since no bride prize was paid and no drinks was introduced.
Be rest assured that only you and your immediate family cannot handle the pressure of marriage crisis if any arises (i'm not wishing you one though). Do the right thing now you are a grown woman, let the tradition prevail not as you wish.
3. Took the ring to a pastor who blessed the ring but we didn't marry in the church, just introduced to the church, right now I really want to know if I am married( in the eyes of the law, man or God,)or I have just been cohabiting with this guy. thanks

Jodha:
I'm coming...

Uteghe:
Father of Ndigbo. Ogbuagu carry on till 2023.

martineverest:
i dont support violence...but this man got what he deserve...y name ur dog muhammad when u know the implications?

Some people are just professional troublemakers

fitzmayowa:
Wike can not be as silly as this...but if it is indeed true then he really has nothing to offer in politics...

Can a PH based NLer confirm this...

Jazzgreen: I heard MUSLIMS read dr dreadful KORAN b4 carrying out dr evil deeds.so its time to fight bak,so let me read my bible for inspiration. *picks up his BIBLE,opens a page and here is wat he saw;* put your sword back to its place,JESUS said to him;for those who draw the sword shall die by the sword-matthew26:52 .*kneels down and cry* INDEED CHRISTIANITY IS LIFE(light) while ISLAM is jst TERRORISM(darkness). Light and darkness has nothin in common

adorebee: We know this line.

PrettyRita: It is getting more interesting. Will Buhari run to Minna and beg IBB? What dooes IBB have in mind? What dies he know? Hmmmm, I hope Buhari is not the sponsor of these boys? IBB we dare U, expose him