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FamilyRe: Missing Child In Surulere by blesie: 9:51pm On Apr 19, 2015
when you said who cares i rushed down to check ur profile. only to see some flatted used breast that may even be poisonous for a baby to suck. then i knew you already know that[
irunoobo:
undecided

Who cares
RomanceRe: Can I Get A Girl Like This? (no Pix) by blesie: 11:58pm On Mar 13, 2015
yes my sis fit into your description. post your pix let me see
hifaif:
-Bears Victoria (cos I am Victor) or May (my month of birth)

- Her birthday is May 26 just like mine.

- Ready to plan that we have at least one of our babies on May 26 and the others on any other day in May.
RomanceRe: Upload Your Pix Here Lets See How Handsome Or Pretty You Are by blesie: 11:54pm On Mar 13, 2015
i like you. i want you for my junior sis. she is stuborn about relationship and doesnt want to date. i want you to make her fall in love
samuelzion:
Lets see how stunning you look.
You may just meet your crush here.

I guess I will begin..

*Shocked* See how this thread has grown to over 800 comments and over 12000 views!

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PoliticsFayose Task APC To Produce Abubakar Shekau by blesie(op): 11:54pm On Feb 25, 2015
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Boko Haram: Fayose Begs APC To Produce Abubakar Shekau
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AYO FAYOSE 1

Ekiti State Governor, Mr Ayodele Fayose has accused the leadership of the All Progressives Congress, (APC) of knowing those behind the Boko Haram insurgency.‬

Rather than wiping out sentiment, Fayose urged APC to produce Ibrahim Shekau, the original leader of Boko Haram.

The APC’s Presidential Campaign Organisation had said the Federal Government was planning to use a fake Ibrahim Shekau to implicate the party’s presidential candidate, Major General Mohammadu Buhari (rtd)

But in a statement issued in Ado Ekiti Tuesday by his Special Assistant on Public Communications and New Media, Lere Olayinka, Fayose lamented the open display of hatred against Nigeria and its people by the APC.

Fayose, therefore, charged the APC to produce the original Shekau, since the party knew that the Federal Government was presenting a fake one, saying; “It is obvious that APC does not want the insurgency to end.”‬

“Up till today, the APC has not made any statement, commending our gallant soldiers that are laying down their lives to save Nigerians from the Boko Haram insurgents.‬

”Instead of commending the soldiers and encouraging them, what the APC people are doing is to blackmail the military and one wonders why a party will want to take over power by supporting killing of innocent Nigerians.”

Speaking further, Fayose said; “With the onslaught on the Boko Haram by our gallant soldiers, the APC appears to have lost the game of using the insurgency to campaign against President Goodluck Jonathan.

“Instead of them to face this reality, they have come up with this criminal assertion that a fake leader of Boko Haram, Ibrahim Shekau, was being presented before Nigerians by the government, in order to claim winning the war on terrorism.

“They are also claiming the fake Shekau might become a tool to blackmail members of the opposition, by coaching the phantom terror chief to say he was working for its presidential candidate, Major-General Muhammadu Buhari, in order to link him to terrorism.

“With this statement coming from the APC, it is clear that the party knows what we don’t know about Boko Haram.

“It also indicates that the APC people do not want the Boko Haram insurgency to end so that they can continue to make political gains from it.

“Therefore, APC should simply produce the original Shekau that they know because you can only recognise fake when you know the original”

– See more at: http://www..ng/2015/02/25/boko-haram-fayose-begs-apc
PoliticsRe: Why Are APC Railway Projects So Expensive? by blesie: 11:43pm On Feb 13, 2015
oga when will this your eko rail be ready. gej hv delivered it in 4 years. fashola cant deliver in 8 years n pls note. its eko rail n gej own is abuja kaduna rail. did you get the length?
aresa:
@ OP, the projects you listed are all different from standard railway to light rail, metro rail and mono rail in different environment and different cost of labor and material.

Eko Rail has tons overhead bridges, metro stations, metro rail bridge over the Lagoon to marina, IPPs to power the whole system and so on

Fingers are not equal so quit peddling ignorant tales.... Grow up and stop thinking like a 2 year old...
PoliticsRe: Why Are APC Railway Projects So Expensive? by blesie: 11:36pm On Feb 13, 2015
as we the lagos rail is not even 30% completed. fashola after 8 years is telling us that he failed to built d rail or complete it cos of gej. now pls somebody explain to me how gej haulted fashola from building or vompleting the rail he promised
thev0ice1:
i noticed this on the Addis Ababa project

Huawei supplied telecoms and fare collection equipment, while CNR Changchun has supplied 41 three-section 70% low-floor light rail vehicles. These are designed to run in pairs at up to 70 km/h, and have tinted windows and rubber components specified to resist premature aging from the effects of strong sunlight at altitudes of 2 400 m.

Note the bolded portion. How many vehicles are included in the FG project? it's not indicated in the Vanguard write up

Also while i DO NOT agree with the monorail project of Ameachi because i think it'll achieve little in terms of number of people that it'll be able to transport (i stayed in PH and have seen it), the cost varies depending on which news outlet you wish to quote e.g see what Thisday said http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/ameachi-n74bn-rivers-monorail-ready-by-sept/139562/

For the lagos light rail, i don't really know anything about it as i don't stay in lagos hence can't give on-the-spot assessment as i can give about that of PH. However, we need to know if it's on the ground like the FG project or if it's at an elevated altitude therefore propped by pillars like Amaechi's project which will undoubtedly increase it's cost.

A lot of factors to bring into the discussion but whatever, i DO NOT support waste of resources.
FamilyRe: Their Children Saw Them Having Sex- Should They Be Bothered? by blesie: 11:43pm On Feb 10, 2015
it happens to me too. shame won kill me. i had sent my housegirl errand and my husband returned and met me in the kitchen. he started romancing then remove my breast from the bra cup n started sucking and my househelp walks in. she was so surprise then ran away. i felt so ashame lol
RomanceRe: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by blesie: 6:28am On Jan 25, 2015
Op don't tell your sis. Confront the guy. Get angry and threatened to tell your family . even if you tell a judge your sis is married and divorce is bad. If she can't divorce him then she will be living in pains
RomanceRe: Etisalat Sales Girl Has Put My Relationship in Trouble by blesie: 6:09am On Jan 25, 2015
Your GF saved you from the wicked deed of the etisalat girl. She is a hoe
How can you go to a stranger house to shit? There are eateries everywhere that she should have gone to.
Then she started bathing. I am sure she wanted to come out naked to seduce you after bathing. Its not normal at all.
There is nothing you will tell your gf to look good. If I were your girl that will be the end
I salute her courage to beat up the hoe though I would have acted more matured
RomanceRe: How Couples Should Share Financial Responsibilities In The Home. by blesie: 9:23pm On Jan 21, 2015
Please I go like marry you oo
apparentlylaw:
How would a wyf provide money for food ...from ma own perspective the Man is meant to provide every financial assistance to his family ...where the woman can only cum in play iz to get some small small stuffs eg ..like wen Junior says he wants ice cream ..all doze stuffs
FamilyRe: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by blesie(op): 5:41pm On Jan 20, 2015
Yes Seun, my husband apologized, infact he bought alot of things to beg me, send flowers and organise a small love party for me where he went on his knee to beg me to forgive him in the presence of his friends, i feel very proud and happy to have such a wonderful man
Seun:
Apologies. Talking about apologies, has your wonderful husband apologized for assaulting you repeatedly as a punishment?
FamilyRe: How Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by blesie(op): 5:16pm On Jan 20, 2015
Did seun just referred to my husband aas rape?. I need an apology from you seun. My husband is the best man in the world
Seun:
I wish you a happy married life with your rape husband. lipsrsealed
FamilyHow Virginity Almost Destroyed My Marriage - Thanks To Nlanders by blesie(op): 4:21pm On Jan 20, 2015
I had been trained to see sex as a sin, my mom never really talked to me about sex, all i heard was that sex was a sin and must be avoided at all cost.

When i was in my SS1, i fell in love for the first time but the moment the guy touched my breast when we were in his room, i almost fainted because of shock, i ran away as if the guy was evil, so since then i thought to myself if touching my breast could shock that much, what about sex, to worsen the issue, when Yaba market use to be full before Fashola cleared it off, i was shopping for skirts in the market, a guy selling clothes touched my breast deliberately pretending he was asking me to come and buy, the same shocked happened, i shouted and cried in the market and when people asked me i told them he touched my breast they laughed, they did not understand why i should cry because of that, so since then i just don't go near guys like that, i just hang out in the open with them and avoid touches.

Then i met my husband(i dont want to go through how we met again) and after few years we got married.

The night before i got married my mom had told me that i should obey my husband and do everything he asked me to, but she still did not tell me about sex, i stayed through out the night before my wedding day, thinking of what sex will look like, how im going to manage the shock etc.

The wedding night came and behold, it bounce on me like a dream, my husband did not understand the shock, he thought i was being stubborn like i use to be or trying to deny him of sex, so he had his way and when he saw i wasnt enjoying it, he used to punish me with sex.

I came here on Nairaland to seek opinion, a lovely lady with the handle abi moniker (robedu) contacted me when she saw my marriage was almost crashing, she called me out to her office and we started hanging out, she told me her own virginity story and i was thrilled, she bought me books, send me links online and usually coach me on what to do,she was just amazing and selfless, its wonderful how other people can take up the pains of others and make it their own, in less than 2 weeks after i met her, my orientation on sex had changed, i became stronger and more eager to have sex.

And now, i am enjoying sex like mad, my husband who was behaving like a sex addict can't stand me anymore. thanks to all who commented on my previous posts - MARRIAGE IS SWEET - GO GET MARRIED LOL
PoliticsRe: Amaechi Bars Jonathan From Using State's Stadium by blesie: 9:58pm On Jan 17, 2015
You are the most stupid man alive
ChinemeOkpan:
Governor Amaechi is acting within the law

The stadium is not yet completed. A president with a so called PhD should know the health & safety implications of conducting a campaign in such a venue.

Unlike him and his cronies, the APC will not endanger the lives of Nigerians like he did with Immigration recruitment exercise. The APC values the lives of Nigerians.

The PDP can campaign on the streets like they have been doing so far.
FamilyRe: Should I Wait For Him Or Should I Walk To Him? by blesie: 6:23am On Jan 14, 2015
If you have not talked to him about it please DON'T. If he is a pastor like you said. He will not want to distract your studies by bringing discussions like this at this age. He wants you to grow and become very matured to avoid any sin. Another thing is most pastors will not appreciate aa lady wooing them, they want a special lady they crushed on forever so stay cool, be good with your books and be a good girl, he will come to you in due time. I'm talking out of experience
RomanceRe: My Fiancée Is Pregnant by blesie: 7:37am On Dec 31, 2014
so after getting her pregnant. you sudenly realise that she cheats. why are you so wicked. please go and hurridly do an intro without any further delay. if you could be sleeping with her knowing she was cheating. why are you here now complaining. i believe the child is yours. if she was thinking of marrying you she wouldnt hv had unprotected with another
iseleiyanu:
Yes I had sex with her.
yes her family and mine are aware of d relationship, Even we are planning introduction at Jan ending
She is claiming I'm responsible
PoliticsRe: Over 110 Boko Haram Terrorists killed in Damboa, Borno State by blesie: 9:48pm On Dec 20, 2014
are you saying buhari never graduated? waooo illiterate everywhere
PapiWata:
That is fair enough, but Buhari needs to resume his formal education where he left off at primary 4, before moving on to secondary school IF he shows better academic performance that he did decades ago when he failed ALL military qualification exams, back when he was a young mentally challenged army recruit.
RomanceOur Pastor Sided Him For "Punishing Me After Marriage" by blesie(op): 12:04pm On Dec 08, 2014
So i narrated how little i can of my ordeal since i got married to this man here last week - https://www.nairaland.com/2030889/he-punishing-me-honey-moon

While i got alot of advises from our dear Nairalanders, i had resolve before not to tell the pastor or my parent but to talk to him as many advised, i couldn't look him in the eye actually, i tried to do that many times since that Friday but I couldnt, so i said ok, after sunday service i will build up courage to confront him and voice out my opinion to him.

So on sunday, it was going to be our first sunday after wedding, i had arrange our wears, his and my own, i woke up early to make breakfast for him and prepare him for church, before he woke up i was already in the kitchen so i ask him to take his bath and lets go early.

He took breakfast (i don't take breakfast so i didnt eat), we were all fully dressed and ready to set out, i packed our bible and writing note into the car and the gift we wanted to give our pastor too inside the car.

it was almost time and i said, so shall we, he said not yet and i said what is remaining, he said you're remaining, you havent given me nothing this morning, i said but you just took breakfast, he said nope, i haven't had you. This is like 10minutes for church to start oo.

He came closer and i said please dont let us waste time lets go. He changed. Don't let us do what? did you just say waste time? he dragged me down the couch and started what i will call rape again, at the process he had rough handled everything i wore, roughen my hair, i started crying, he walk down the wardrobe pick up something and ask me to wear it, i told him i'm not going to church again, he started begging that i can't do that but i keep refusing.

He shouted i should let us go, and i refused. He came back and raped me again till i agree i will go. So i dressed up and just ran into my own car, took off.

He thought i was going to church, he also entered the car and make his way to church. When he got to church he called me. I didn't answer the phone. i came home and was lying on the bed thinking of what next to do. i was actually thinking of running away without a word so he can come look for me forever.

So he got to church and the pastor and wife ask him about me, he said i must be inside. The pastor sensed something. did you say she must be inside? Did you two not come together bla bla bla. After serious enquiries he opened up that we had an issue in the morning.

I was lying down and i heard the door bell, i thought he was the one, i did not open it. The bell rang a thousand times i ignored it. The pastor wife called but i didn't answer, so because my car was parked inside they knew i was around. Finally i opened and here my pastor and wife have left the congregation standing there with him.

So they came in and ask me what happened, i told them i wanted a divorce, that my husband was killing me. They ask me what happened, if he was beating me or denying me of sex of not providing etc. I told them he raped me everything over everything and that my greatest surprise was to know he is doing all of these because i couldn't let him have sex with me while we were dating.

They then turned to him and ask him what happened. I never knew some people can talk so well that will make a bad case look good. Anyway he's a barrister.

He said: "Pastor i don't know why this happen but i knew i never ask God to give me a virgin as a wife. My brother married a virgin and till today he cannot enjoy sex so he has resulted to having sex outside wedlock but i have promised myself that i wont do that. Whether she likes it or not, she must satisfy me.

Ever since i met her over 3 years ago, i loved her, even though she told me no sex, i thought she was just been careful so i left her. For 3 years i never touched any woman. Here i was thinking she was practising romance, or sex style she will give me on wedding night because she did not have any virgin trait on her. She was exposed (works in the media), talks fearlessly, gives me headache so i thought oh she is a tough girl.

But on our wedding night, my wife here comes into the room. Before i could finish a call, she rushes to take her bath, cover herself up like she is going for a Mecca trip. She comes here lying with her back facing me. I thought to myself, but this is the same lady that smiles and laughs throughout na. What would have happened? i said ok pls come and bath me. She refused. i had to beg. Then she came standing 50 metres away, throwing water on my body, i got so angry i wanted to beat her up but i calmed down and before i could say jack, she got angry that she is not bathing me anymore. I met her again in the room and she said she tired and want to sleep, i tried to beg her she refused I then say to myself, so after begging her for 3 years to date me, kneel down to propose, beg her parent, beg the church i have to beg again for sex in this house. Not in my life! So i had my way, and i made sure i wasn't hurting her because i realised the first time she was a virgin.

Just to please her that she was a virgin which wasnt much of a big deal to me, i entered a car shop, got her a car, i told her this is for you, she said thanks like i bought her a biscuit and the next morning she left to her office in her own car.

She returned and i wanted to kiss her and she said i was disturbing her that she is tired. I was so angry. Whenever i I'm angry, i just have sex with her to calm myself down so i dont go drinking or even beat her. The only day i can admit to raping her was when she returned from work and i had sex with her. She stayed on the couch crying. I took wine in two glasses, gave her one but she pushed the wine glass away from me.


He continued. "I then said jokingly, 'you see its your time to cry now, im giving you those hot sex so you remember the times you used to punish me, insult me and make me go through hardtime but you've got to change now because I'm your husband, if not you will be crying like this.

Then my wife stood up and said to me, 'God will judge you for your wickedness!'

What!!! So i am wicked for having have sex with my wife? The same woman i paid a huge ransom to her calabar relations to marry her? I got so angry so i raped the hell out of her that day. She almost fainted, though i felt bad afterwards.

So this morning, we were set for church. I wanted to kiss her and just touch her a little because she was looking beautiful. She started that stubbornness again. She pushed me away like trash so i showed her I'm more powerful by having sex with her and she said she wasn't going to church anymore.

I brought something else for her to wear she refused and i remember she does anything i want her to do while having sex with her so i gave her another round and she ran out to the car. I thought she has left for church but no. So, this is what i have been passing through."


My pastor wife was first to comment. She said "What!!! Did you do all that i heard?"

I said, "No ma, he is not saying it the way it is. He raped me."

So they started asking the questions one after the other. ''Did you bath only you on your wedding night?''

My husband jumps in. "Ask her if she ever bath with me together since we were married!"

At that point, i felt like asking him to stop talking. My pastor said, "how old are you again? In case i have forgotten". i said "26, sir".

He said "Why na.. why, did you not read? But you are learned na. Why did you have to do all of these?"

The pastor turns to the wife and said, "mummy, did you not put her through counselling?"

They all started blaming me and apologizing to my husband. My pastor's wife had a one on one with me. They asked me to kneel to beg him.

They ask me to dress up lets go to church, it was suppose to be our thanksgiving sunday. I told them, "i wont be able to go as my eyes was already red". In my mind I'd rather sit and start thinking of how i can satisfy this man.

As advised, i bath with him last night, as expected he had sex with me in the bathroom, i felt like fainting but i kept quiet this time. I bear it like its a price i have to pay.

We had sex 3 times before the night was over. Now he is happy.

HONESTLY IF I KNEW THIS IS WHAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT, I WOULD HAVE JUST STAYED IN MY MOTHER'S HOUSE. THEY DID NOT PURSUE ME OUT
FamilyRe: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by blesie(op): 9:38pm On Dec 05, 2014
so you think i made this up instead of you to pity me.i resumed work this week and i have been running home cos he warns i hv to be home at 6pm. once i get home. kneel to greet him the next tin is rape. even when im cooking. he will come to the kitchen
Tallesty1:
But this is not true
FamilyRe: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by blesie(op): 9:30pm On Dec 05, 2014
i know it is his right to enjoy me, but he is weird, its either he wants it standing. bending or sucking. and he enjoys it hard and never tired. sometimes he left me breathless and even when i shout he enjous ut the more
Slonge2:
At op, it is his fundamental human right to enjoy you in whatever capacity, place, time and position he likes.

When you were doing yanga for him, shey you were enjoying it.

Don't deprieve him of this opportunity to seek retribution for your prior actions and inactions, when he is done venting his pent up dissatisfactions, things will normalise.

Just be patient, 2yrs stored conji no be beans, his sperm would have turned to frog.
FamilyHe Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by blesie(op): 6:56pm On Dec 05, 2014
I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration.

A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below:
1) No Sex
2) No romance
3) No Kissing
Infact no touches.

He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses.

But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way.

For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well.

On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver.

We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room.

He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby.

After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful.

Fear crib me like i have made a mistake, i cried and ran down to the bed to UnCloth he said no way, now i want it standing, i tried to imagine how somebody will stand to have sex but before i could finish thinking, he's dragged me out of bed and there it goes, painful and annoying i was just crying.

After he finished that, i went on my knee to beg him for forgivenness for all the shout and scream i use to shout at him that i was ready to make a new turn, he said fine, that the new turn will mean that i will now respect and do everything he wants me to, i said yes i will do.

Then he said, come on suck this, you won't imagine what he ask me to suck cry, how in the world can a husband be so wicked cry cry

I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die.

Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me.

I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering.

UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS.

He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent?

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