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RomanceRe: These Fears Are Real At 33 by Blessedpalms(op): 11:01am On May 25, 2024
I just wanted to express myself and my heart felt hurt. It's not like I wanted to lament or advice anyone on the best way to win in life.
I believe every human has a path no matter how much we try.

No one is absolutely wise and no one is perfect: isn't that the irony about human journey?
We are all just learning life
RomanceThese Fears Are Real At 33 by Blessedpalms(op): 6:27pm On May 24, 2024
These fears are more than real the moment you hit 33. I looked in my mirror and saw my beards, becoming everything I feared.
I have never felt so lonely in a world filled with 7 billon humans. Too much worries

Maybe I should have took that risk, maybe I should have learnt something instead of just focusing on academics. I keep thinking about everything I could have done earlier. Maybe I should have started this 5 years ago at 28. Maybe I should have started that 7 years ago when I was 26.
But it's unfortunate those years are in the past now.

It's my fault, I was optimistic and thought things were going to be better. Government employment, good salary. I'll have a good career and my own family. Maybe a wife and 2 kids.
I just laughed at myself now,
This clown got No kids, no business
maybe that's even a blessing in disguise because how do I feed them?
I have always been afraid not being able to be there for people around me talk less of my kids. These fears are real because I can't even be there for myself.


I am not the type that blames anyone. I feel like life has a way of telling you optimism is weakness and a lie.
Don't get me wrong, Life is kind to many others
And this is where temptations comes, you start to see society and crime from a different perspective.
No one is free from this kinds of temptations

No one is free from this kinds of temptations.
This is why I find it hard to blame call girls and women in clubs acting a stripper. You don't know the kind of struggles that push people to where they are. I have grown and learnt not to make mockery of anyone. Some of them aren't even 33 yet. Alot of things tempt people to Fall. Many people with no real jobs.

Appprehsive about what to eat, appprehsive about health, Appprehsive about neighborhood asking for any fee, apprehensive about Rent, Appprehsive about aged parents. I don't know what tomorrow holds. You tell people to teach you things, they tell you, you're too old.

I am at a point where I am trying not fall. It's emotionally shattering. NO job, no real solid financial backing. It feels like only you in the world. you have to fight and figure it all out.
You think, Plan, write but see, it all feels like a meaningless scribble.

If you you are still 25 or 26 now is the time to do something. Just do something, forget about optimism. Optimism is deceptive.
Do everything not to stumble and fall in the future. Don't be bothered about what people think about what you do. You'll only be respected if you are able to care for yourself and people around you.
TravelRe: Can 1m Really Take Someone Out Of This Country. by Blessedpalms: 5:31am On Dec 11, 2023
What will you be eating when you get there
TravelRe: Do Nigerian International Airports Have Free Wi-fi? Pls Narrate by Blessedpalms: 5:30am On Dec 11, 2023
Yes but very slow
EducationRe: Can You Solve This Mathematics? (photo) by Blessedpalms: 4:09am On Dec 11, 2023
Balablue64:
Your mates are calculating their millions you are here calculating unknown mathematical formula that would never give you one naira, odeh
It opens the mind
AgricultureRe: Things To Do In Rice Cultivation by Blessedpalms: 4:07am On Dec 11, 2023
It's capita intensive
Foreign AffairsRe: Ukrainian Sisters Arrested For Twerking On The Graves Of Fallen Soldiers by Blessedpalms: 7:45am On Aug 31, 2023
To God be the glory
Foreign AffairsRe: Ukrainian Sisters Arrested For Twerking On The Graves Of Fallen Soldiers by Blessedpalms: 7:43am On Aug 31, 2023
TemplarLandry:
Delinquent Miley Cyruses.
you should have your own studio
Foreign AffairsRe: BREAKING: 90-year-old Cameroon’s President Paul Biya Reshuffles Military Command by Blessedpalms: 7:32am On Aug 31, 2023
Haahahahaa e no wann wetin do hin neighborhood to happen
CrimeRe: Police Breaks Child Trafficking Syndicate, Recover Three Children In Akwa Ibom by Blessedpalms: 7:30am On Aug 31, 2023
tsdarkside:
yeah....
they traffic drugs because nigeria is too hard....
Nigeria is hard for every body. If everybody start peddling drugs una go taya
CrimeRe: Police Breaks Child Trafficking Syndicate, Recover Three Children In Akwa Ibom by Blessedpalms: 7:29am On Aug 31, 2023
Person wey dey bear peace dey cause plenty wahala
PoliticsRe: Intelligence Information On The Labour Party, Lp Candidate, Gbadebo Rhodes by Blessedpalms: 2:31am On Aug 31, 2023
Enemyofpeace:
The roforofo fight continues

LP 1-1APC
lol
PoliticsRe: American Law Enforcement Agents by Blessedpalms(op): 2:27am On Aug 31, 2023
I am trying to upload pictures but it's not going through
PoliticsAmerican Law Enforcement Agents by Blessedpalms(op): 1:44am On Aug 31, 2023
Perry County Sherri office posted this on Facebook and you need to see the accolades the citizens were pouring on the law enforcement officers.
I keep wondering if our own police officers will get the same on face book.

Some of our local law enforcement had the pleasure of sharing lunch with retired Sheriff Bob Glenn this afternoon.
https://www.facebook.com/100068823463695/posts/pfbid0HjyqgSM15CFGNQHiRy9ZPbKhfqcLXdWYXVWDb67Vw65seBFvWhPsTK5a4fsKop8al/?app=fbl
CrimeRe: Police To Arraign 5 Electoral Offenders In Lagos by Blessedpalms: 6:42am On Mar 07, 2023
BurialGround:
cool

What of McOluomo?
the law is not meant to cage or catch the bigger criminals
PoliticsRe: Intelligence Information On The Labour Party, Lp Candidate, Gbadebo Rhodes by Blessedpalms: 10:54am On Mar 05, 2023
BeardedmeatR:
Tinubu has 14 bastard children. Seyi is one of them.
Tinubu has an imbecilic child (he used his destiny) hidden in his Ikoyi mansion.
can you defend this if law enforcement invites you?
Christianity EtcRe: What Does The Devil Look Like? by Blessedpalms: 10:47am On Mar 05, 2023
Ken4Christ:
Pride and lie will destroy you. You will join your father, the devil in the Lake of fire where all liars go to.
grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: How Peter Obi Laboured In Vain by Blessedpalms: 10:42am On Mar 05, 2023
So this means his qualifications is invalid. But why did inec kept quiet
RomanceSolved by Blessedpalms(op):
So some random guy on Instagram who I have never met before is offering me 5k after he asked me to be honest and say what I will use that kind of money for. I told him I would invest in a couple of things that I found important. He needed no further explanation after that and immediately asked for my cashapp tag.

I thought it was too random for a stranger to be offering me that much money so I asked him to explain why he would be willing to do that. He responded saying that he just wishes to bless 5 people and I'm the second one he chose. I want peoples opinions on whether I could be scammed in any way from accepting this money.

I've read that it's more risky when someone is requesting money but since this guy hasn't requested anything from me in this situation then I am more at odds on what to do. Thanks in advance!
PoliticsRe: Lmao!!! APC Sending Different Groups To Beg Peter Obi To Accept Election Result by Blessedpalms: 8:29pm On Mar 04, 2023
Totilopussylick:
Tinubu will be disqualify at the end of the day
do you understand the usage of the word "disqualified" ?
CrimeRe: Man Strangles His Wife To Death Just 6 Months After Marriage... by Blessedpalms: 6:37pm On Mar 04, 2023
infidelity
RomanceRe: by Blessedpalms: 5:16pm On Mar 04, 2023
sleep paralysis happpens whenn you eat beans thatisnt well cooked of protein that has dlk ocntent
PoliticsRe: INEC Admits Hitches, Says Lessons Have Been Learnt by Blessedpalms: 4:42pm On Mar 04, 2023
Teamwork makes the dream work.
They all rigged the election... APC, LABOR PARTY, INEC, PDP, NNPP and the rest
FamilyRe: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by Blessedpalms:
for a woman to intend getting married she is supposed to have a job. If she has a job, she will be willing to support you the man
when the two of you combine funds, to get a 2 bed room flat will not be hard...
FamilyRe: Help Save My Marriage by Blessedpalms: 10:36am On Mar 04, 2023
She is trying to start a fight with you so that she can leave you.
I would advice you not to believe me tho so that you can see for yourself.

this is why its best to meet a woman when you are still struggling so that when money goes she wont leave.
CareerRe: Senator Nnamani Empower 100 Unemployed Women And Youths With Sewing Machines E by Blessedpalms: 10:25am On Mar 04, 2023
you have done well Senator Chimaroke Nnamani. i am also looking for someone to empower me
CareerRe: NSIA Insurance Assessment by Blessedpalms: 9:41am On Mar 04, 2023
please what were the questions asked
tobnxn:
I wrote the NSIA Insurance graduate trainee assessment last week. Is there anyone we took as well, that have been invited for interview or gotten any response from the Oganization there after?
CultureRe: Where Can I Learn Nigerian Languages by Blessedpalms: 9:38am On Mar 04, 2023
Iclouduser:
We have things like duolingo to learn foreign languages. But to find resources to learn Nigerian languages is hard. Apart from interacting with locals how can one learn to speak the three major languages in Nigeria?
i can teach you yoruba...

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