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The plan is to disenfranchise southern Nigeria.
Reduce online presence etc.

So they won't relent.

Some Yorubas working with arewa to sabotage amotekun, so that the southern domination will continue.

Failed.

Very good

banmee:
Oh I see. We are are now playing a game called "let's just say anything to justify our argument". I'm not playing

You started the game

banmee:
I am waiting for the list

Rape
Sexual molestation
Blackmail
Child abuse
Paternity fraud
Preference for soft work among male colleague
Etc......

And on and on

banmee:
You and i know it's a man's world mostly in Africa? Men pretty much can do anything they want but not so for women. That in itself should give you pause. The reason why marriages don't last that long anymore is because women are getting the same access to freedom men enjoy and they are fighting back. Most african men do not see marriage as a partnership. Obviously, two people cannot lead a marriage at the same time, but the understanding that the partnership is founded on respect, love, empathy, discipline, etc is not well understood by most african men. And just so you know, no one likes to be in a relationship where there are few choices. I digress. Look at Nigeria. The reason why the country is so phucked economically and otherwise is because it's citizens have very few choices. They have no choice but to live the way they do to the point where a lot of Nigerians still say s.tupid shit like "Nigeria, the giant of africa", or "we are great". Even though the evidence is contrary to that opinion. Compare that to say Germany, Sweden, the U.S, etc. Choices are abound in places like that but not so in places like Nigeria. Women in africa had and still have limited wiggle room so they have no choice but to stay with their husbands.

You are simply saying therefore that successful marriage and staying with husband is slavery for women.
False!
I still don't agree.

You may be mistaking irresponsibility and looseness for freedom. They are different things.

By the way, do u want us to list the things women get away with that a man can't get away with? There are so many.

banmee:
The point is, even till today, women in Africa mostly stay with their husbands because of lack of choice and not because of love. And what horrors have men been suffering in the hands of women?

What do u mean by lack of choice?

We are talking about marriage working or not.
I can as well show u men that have wives chosen for them without the man's choice and the marriages are working.

Secondly, do u know how many men are victims of paternity fraud?

Successful marriages is not a gender thing. Its both ways.

banmee:
No human being likes to be second class. Tell.me if you would like it if your wife died and her family shows up at your house to collect all her belongings forcefully which may include a house and a car. Worse, her family forces you to marry her sister and you are helpless to say say no. And that is just one example of the things women back in the day went through with impunity. The only reason anyone would go through that without complaining is if their hands were tied. Would you stick around if anything remotely close to that happened to you?

U didn't answer the questions

Does freedom for women translate to more bad marriages?

You are listening many things which are mainly evil things. I can as well least the good thing people also enjoyed those days for you. So I don't get your point.

There are things that men equally suffered and they r things that men still suffer till today in marriages. It's not a gender thing.

banmee:
You have to consider that marriages back in the day were basically slavery for the woman. They had no choice. In Africa, women mostly do not have a choice. Especially the uneducated ones.

What are u trying to say?
That freedom for woman equates more bad marriages or what?

Or that the olden days women who raised better children were working from slavery marriages?

I disagree

Yusufisraelj:
But do you think its just the devil to blame?

She didn't blame only the devil

Tribal justice.
Nothing new

Better legalize arms for everyone. You can imagine what your fellow Nigerians are importing. You can only deceive yourself if you say people do not have arms.

This one never digest hush food finish.

Foolish government

casdoruche:
Hausa are not FULANI. Fulani is a minority group. Hausa is a major group. Fulani knowing this now call themselves Hausa/Fulani. The average Fulani doesn't see himself equal to an HAUSA MAN.

All emirs are Fulani in a hausa dominated community. Fulani has not only brainwashed the northern Hausa people but dominted them by using religion to establish their semi-god status

HOT TRUTH!!!!!!!

loopman:
Nobody in your lineage can afford trader money

Of course na.... Na only Alatenuje families fit afford to sell their votes......

Una no dey disappoint...
Kite brains

loopman:
[s]
Osu, I get plenty free time today to make you cry

Where was your father when the VP was stomping all over Nigeria campaigning?! He was as usual using your mother as pastime in bed.

Nobody in your lineage will ever achieve what the VP has been able to achieve, so I understand where your hate for him is coming from

Omo ale Osu [/s]

Tradermoni for buying votes = stomping

Your brain na kite
Even kite get weight pass am leeeemao!

loopman:
[s]Unfortunately for you and your forefathers, you will never amount to anything now or in generations to come!

When others were facing military, your fathers and forefathers were hiding under their wives wrappers

Generation of Osu cowards [/s]

the son of
Alatenuje has spoken

loopman:
And against your wish for him to die, he is still the vice president of your country that your father can’t tie his shoe lace

It’s must suck to be a useful Osu like you with lost heritage

Sorry dear,

We know the purpose of your lineage is to bow and lick shoe of politicians like urchins.... Altenuje and sons.

Sorry
I am not u

loopman:
He can still turn those your lineage that “control offices” into economic destitute by one stroke of the pen so your generations will all die in penury

Just like the way he turned into a plane crash destitute and started hiding
.

Alatenuje wont kill your generation

loopman:
Osinbajo is your Vice President, way above your every living soul on your lineage, I wonder what that makes your father

You are rejoicing over someone that an ordinary aide called
Academic Vice. Lol
At least those in our lineage control their offices.

Unlike yours.
We pray God deliver your own lineage from the spirit of alatenuje!

loopman:
Lol. Don’t worry, they will sort themselves out in SW. You should worry that your own people that have been completely relegated to 3rd class and on onlookers in the scheme of things

Are u happy Osinbajo is 2nd class?

Buhari is a disaster

This is exactly how they handed over Afghanistan to terrorists.

We knew it will come to this

smoke9910:
If we all carry arms. I know naija pple, any small thing. People go dey drop like flies, the lawlessness we have will be raised to infinity.

Not true.

Preshieben:
Congrats dear...ya damn lucky

Me I'm still here waiting for the day someone's son will genuinely love me
I pray i don't grow old waiting

Start by loving your image and yourself. Then others.
Soon, you will see people loving you

How many bandits did you seize?

Madibahisback:
This is what is called humanity
Not preaching to the whole world without practicing it

This is why i said most people who practices religion in Nigeria are hypocrites

Dont look down om your people because u saw white person doing good.

Our people do good too.
If u step out u will see people here doing good too.

MaryEde:
Do you know Augustus the Roman Emperor was also donned the Son Of God before Jesus?

And Augustus amount to the word Christianity Abi?

APC government of Lies

Meanwhile lets compare with the numbers that just a few atheists killed.....

MaryEde:
All these Pentecost churches don't even know without Catholics they won't be here lol

because Jesus Christ and John the Baptist were catholics abi?

Come out of ignorance