spiceeamiee:
Yes please. Where is she and Blossomedcherry?

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Happy Easter Everyone, I have always been around. I wish all of una plenty hot rice and stew as we celebrate the risen christ.

Hello maamas, how una dey?
Team #June are we getting ready?
I dont get to sleep anymore, turning in bed is wahala. I waddle like a duck.
Heaviness is massive! Just poped in to say hi, I never still get browsing phone o.

Hello mummies here I dey greet o... Shout out to everyone who remembered and reached out to me.
Mummy JJ, Blessedmumi, Curvilicous, Loisemm.
Thanks a million. Feels good to know I have a family here.

sundayakasdy:
Apostle Suleman is INNOCENT - Stephanie Otobo finally Confessed {its a blackmail}


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-_wL563VsRM

For real?

Team June present ma to our able cappo. Happy Sunday.

feddy27:


You are sounding all calm and already 'brain washed' as tho' you don't av an option and somehow wateva ur hubby decides will stand!

In dis 21st century, someone is telling you that you must circumcise your daughters and you are forming ' loyal wife'... u need to get it straight and hard without any sugar coating into ur head! IT IS ILLEGAL!!!!

Everyone has contributed and even shown you scientific and legal proofs why such should not happen! Even Nneejima has given u legal backing, you are speaking English!! 'it won't get to that'... ok! don't open your eyes, it seems everyone around you has a strong hold on you and can influence ur decisions.

I've ignored ur post since bt hey, I couldn't keep quiet again cos I got interested in ur moniker wen I heard u re aving triplets and a june mama!

I might have come across as harsh bt right now it's not about how you feel but the protection of those innocent girls you are carrying!

No ma, am not being calm, I just want to draw the whole strength I can here cuz of the man I married. But I blve he will change his mind before I put to bed. I have never being an advocate of FGM and I was not circumcised so I wouldnt let that happen to my girls. Thanks alot all mothers here you all are the best!

nneejima:

My sister d fellow E-sisters have said it all, say no to female genital mutilation but if dh insist on doing it please help me with the name & address of the hospital or anyone dt carried out the act on ur daughters, ensure that dh signed a consent form too so dt i ll have a legal back up to show dt he approved it then leave the rest for me. U need to see the type of complications women undergo psychologically & health wise bc of fgm

I pray it wont get to that ma. Thanks alot.

Thanks alot beautiful maamas for all your awsome contributions. I screenshot every comment for his eyes and No, I wouldnt let that happen to my girls. Will stil ask my Favorite SIL, thank God she is coming today.

Iyomomoreloaded:

@Naomi14 she's having triplets o!
Have u checked the sex of ur babies? I hope they are all boys?

Maama its two girls and a boy.

Sansa143:
Ha, ,dis matter has pass be careful oh!Haba,wetin d girls do am wey him wan ruin dem!Lord take control!Am speechless!

To him its protection against unwanted pregnancies and unnecessary sexual orgy.

Iyomomoreloaded:
Blossomedcherry, this ur matter strong o, you would have asked your dh if he's implying that you're promiscuous ? Promiscuity has nothing to do with being circumcised or not. A woman that would be promiscuous will be not withstanding, depending on her motivation or circumstances.
Are u close with MIL or any SIL dat u can discuss the issue with or have u heard them speaking in support of it? Do u know if his sisters were circumcised?
Please try and convince ur hubby not punish his daughters because of an ancient myth. He doesn't want dem to enjoy their husbands?
From what I've heard it is very difficult for women dat were circumcised to get sexual fulfilment , which could be very frustrating for a man who's keen on satisfying his womans needs, not d jump ontop move up and down self pleasing men.
I have an old school friend who was among the 1st of my friends in secondary school (ss2) to have a bf(i don't know if dey had sex den) we later went to the same university, she had gone through 2-3 bfs, and one day she complained that she doesn't enjoy sex,because of her circumcision, no matter what her guy does to please her, even MouthAction, she just pities for him cos he really tries. Despite that, I know she has been through a handful of r/ships.
What matters most is the upbringing & exposure a child gets,
Also how involved parents get with their children by being friends with them.
In the rotten world we are today, circumcision would not hold back a girl child not to be promiscuous , I can bet u.

He said he havent checked but all his sisters are supposed to be circumcised.Am d only female he know that isnt circumcised from when he was still single o.

jazzyjazz:
Please ma tell your husband to read about female genital mutilation. It's bad for the girl child. If you circumcise your girls and they get older, they will not enjoy their sex life when they eventually get to have one.

Circumcision does not determine if a girl child will be promiscuous or not. Promiscuity totally depends on the upbringing you give you4 girls and who they hang out with.

Please talk to your husband to reconsider.

May God give you both the grace to make the right decision

He said with or without sex education, in the absence of circumcision, their body will always want sex.

Giddyperson:

Ok this is one of the questions I so cannot stand yet cannot ignore. If you let your husband circumcise your children then you have failed woefully as a mother to them, start now to tell him it's not happening. This is not even a would I could I should I issue. There is nothing neat about it, no real doctor would do it. Biko google female genital mutilation and print out as many articles as you can for your husband to read. This is like saying you want to sacrifice one of your twins to the gods because twins are a taboo, that's how archaic this circumcision talk sounds in my ear. It's an ancient tradition that we should count ourselves lucky to have escaped.

He is educated and know alot about female mutilation. I dont just know his issue with circumcision. Like he would father them and still marry them.

Naomi14:
Don't even bother looking for hospital that can do it. Them no dey do am again. Being circumcised does not stop one from being promiscuous. It has to do with morals, social and environmental factors. Tell your hubby it's painful, barbaric, archaic and you won't subject your girl child to such pain. She won't know the pleasure of sex with her hubby and to get orgasm will be hardwork for the man. I testify cos my hubby tries alot but it's difficult for me to have orgasm sometimes. Girl circumcision is a No! No! in this era. Won't even do it for my baby. Experience they say, its the best teacher.

Itz d sex urge he wants to kill. He said his girls are useless to him if they are not being circumcised. He is scared they might bring unwanted pregnancies to him so he said sexual orgy by nature will take its place but not everytime the woman body go dey sweet am. He said if I refuse then any oda female I will have must be aborted cuz he cant have an uncircumcised daughter.Even me wey dem no circumcise, d manchi dey always look me like say I will cheat on him. too badt.

Hello beautiful maamas, trust everyone, los and our dhs are doing great?
I came with a question that have been bothering me since my discussion last night with dh. He said all his daughters must be circumcised to avoid them being promiscous, plz mamas, does circumcision of women still exist?
does it play a role in a woman being a slut?
I wasnt circumcised and I dont see any reason why my daughters should.
Plz I need input on this and as an over all final sayer that he is, is their even a good hospital that can do neat circumcision for me without hurting my girls?

Fingesi:
didn't she see this coming before allowing her husband go for this show. I wonder what they both discussed before he left for the show

Who told you she even gave her consent in the 1st place?
Men must be men always claiming supreme so he probabily might have said it with a note of finality and d woman nod head in submissive silence.

folash:

Thank you for the detailed explanation. God bless you ma

U re welcome. So you are still awake ma? I hope all is well?

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folash:

Blossomedcherry pls your input is needed here

Hello ma, I dont know much about fibroid and vitex but I go still go google university as I don come back so.
Clomid gave me cyst so I cant recommend it for anyone, na Letrozole me know.
For d bitterleaf, ma plz dont take it if you have low blood sugar. You get fresh leaves, squeeze it in a one glass of water, very well that the water starts foaming the greenish fluid then you seize it and its ready to drink. You can take it twice a day or once if you choose. If you want to have it twice daily then the one you squeezed in the morning would do but you have to add more leaves and more water to make it 2glasses. Dont refrigerate it ma, its even better left out than putting it in the freezer since you will be taking it again later in the day.
Garlic is a natural antibiotics so its most times added to this therapy so it would visit every unwanted infection in the system that will hinder d efficacy of your juice. Your sure bet is to chew it raw morning and night but if your oga dey like mine, just kuku cut am in bits and swallow like tablets morning and night after each drink.
It will end in praise ma.

greatp80:




Sorry @ Giddyperson to quote you. Seeing your lmp reminded me of mine in 2016.My lmp was July 6 and i birthed my dd on April 10,even when scan said 7th and second one 14th. Pls give my dd birthday mate ooo. Wish you safe delivery dear.

Plz ma sorry to drag you back but was she incubated when she was born that early or she did just fine?

How my maamas and all June maamas dey nah? eyaf tey o.

Loisemm:
Blossomedcherry , it haf tey small we no see ya brake light. Hope you and the babes are good. Take care of you dear

See my swtheart o. As I no come online you no even call me o. Iyam vexing for you ma. I trust you are good?

MummyJJ:
@blossomedcherry how are you and LO. Pls let us know how you are it is well.

Awww mummJJ I appreciate your concern e-hugs ma. My phone spoilt and dh wouldnt let me do nairaland with his phone cuz he said its an opportunity for me to rest. Am doing good and God has been faithful.
Hello mummies am fully back and this time am heading nowhere!

Giddyperson:

Me too I'm wishing you two identitical that you can dress alike and confuse people, then one opposite sex.

Amen, but being in different sacs, I doubt I would have an identical o.

iomoge2:
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but i have to do this.

One of us lost her baby girl few days ago and she needs our prayers.

Please lets pray 4 her n her family.

Her baby was very cute n healthy.... how it happened is still a shock.

Please lets all pray for Chizeal and her family.

She lost her nairaland pword and asked you all to please pray 4 her.

I pray none of us experience it again. Amen.

The Lord will remain your strength @ Chizeal and afflictions will never rise again IJN

tiwatopebam:
February 2017 Roll call for June 2017 mamas

June mama's that knows that is remaining four months to go, say AM HERE, God has been so faithful to us, here we are counting four months, hope we have commenced our shopping, I will do mine first week of next month. What of our baby gender, oya Mamas update us on your Edd and gender. Abi LO no open yash like mine. Second TT is next week, let's all try to take our drugs

Nobledeals -------------
tiwatopebam ------------. EDD June 27
Suzzy4God --------------- EDD June 8
Orente21 -------------------
Ariegurl -------------------. EDD June 12
Toriella --------------------
BlossomedCherry ----. EDD June 27/16
Burticious --------------- EDD June 19
Iyomomoreloaded ----
OmoLayo29 -------------
Rollykotex ----------------
Chinweotito -------------
Benignasweety --------
Mofy1 -----------------------
Perfectcrown -----------

Am here.

tiwatopebam:
Mamas, hmmm, nobody answered for roll call, June 2017 mamas what is happening now? Let's be active it is well with us all.

Present swthrt. I went for gender scan today and only one open sha and na XY, I pray to have them mixed sha.

greetings to all maamas.

Loisemm:
Went for HSG and a second pelvic scan today. Hsg result is not out of course but he said nothing much is wrong. Amen. Let me wait n see the little that may need correcting.
For the pelvic scan, they saw two sizeable cysts on the right side and left side of the uterus. Attached. Clomid that I took just once increased the one existing small cyst I had before. And added another big one on the other side. Imagine!
I had noticed a bulge shooting out on my left abdomen, so I stopped all supplements like folic acid ,b6, multivitamin last month. It was confirmed today that its the new cyst!
Blossomedcherry dear, remember I mentioned a bulge /slight bump on one side to you last November after my clomid cycle. It is well o jare. I go see doc after I do hormonal profile next week. The lab techs said the cysts are squeezing the uterus and they are pressing it out of position. Imagine.

Abeg, can cysts be operated on? I am thinking I can kukuma save time and remove it at once. What are my options apart from the usual serrapeptase and castor oil massage.
cc Adiahaakwaibom , mamakendra , Fvine , Pweetymii etc.
Thanks mamas.

Swthrt I had that bloatness too when I had cyst, like I said earlier, I didnt repeat scan to see how it cleared but I used an Alliance product like that before I started that bitterleaf stuf. It was still clomid one cycle dat gave me cyst sef. itz well.

mummykyrti:
amen ooo...happy feb mamas.....mummy lavivaavril howfa na?? u senior me for cycle ooo....abeg sama us the good news.... curvilicious come out and play, adiahaakwaibom1 show face, orney u just scarce come out and sama us good news.

@dazzle, blossomedcherry and elixir thanks for not abandoning us and still coming to check on us and answer questions, may God keep u and lo safe.

Amen my dear, I appreciate this your acknowledgement.

Bbnnaji:
nooo i did not. I watched it on africa magic igbo. Wonderful film

Me too but Nepa just killed my joy and I have been searching on where to download it.

Bbnnaji:
Pls does anyone know which site I can download this igbo movie Onye ozi.

Please did u leta get a website to download it?

Wow, Congrats mummy Ekene @liftedhands, cant wait to share my own ba and bs here o. chai interesting.