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About time. We have been sitting on a keg of gunpowder since last week in Ibadan!!

streetsoldier1:
I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

A pity you had to learn this lesson the hard way. I bet you never listened to your folks before taking that decision.

You will be fine. Stay strong. On hindsight, you will be pleased and happy with yourself for walking away.

Harlequeen:
I opened this account because my main one is pretty popular.

I've had this issue and don't know what's wrong.
I can't seem to get into a new relationship. I am now 25, about serving, working a normal job

My dating history is not too rich. I dated just one guy for 2 years, i became sexually active with him, we enjoyed each other, but things didn't work out. I tried to be better, have moved on, and he has too. This was mid last year. I have been celibate since then not because i don't like sex, but because i had time to think, i read a lot of books, listened to a lot of relationship counselors on YouTube, reddit, Nairaland and so on. I decided to approach dating differently, with my head and not my heart . i would vet men out who were not in line with some basic standards, to avoid fuckboys and meet high quality men. He should be well spoken, either with a career or into trade, accomplished, way older by at least 10 yrs(no i don't have daddy issues, i just like mature guys because i think like a mature person) he could also have plans to leave the country, because i plan to do that also.


Here's the issue, the men that express interest in me do not fit this criteria. They seem to have no plan for their lives. I get this impression that they are broke, they recycle the same lines all the time, i usually see their bull sh1t tactics a mile away. some are in the army(i can't date men in the armed forces, they lifestyle is not what i want for myself, cannot date doctors either for the same reason)others are artisans, some are plain hustlers who just do whatever to eat. I have a soft spot for ambitious men, and i have not seen a lot in the area that i am in. I have been advised by my friends to try highbrow areas like lekki or VI or go to church, but i don't believe in religion.

But whenever i see these men, i am not attracted to them. I have even tried online dating with some male nairalanders, but i get disinterested easily. I get turned off when someone asks for my normal pics, it is quite frustrating. There's that fear that some of these men could use my pics to masturbate or one other creepy purpose. I block them if they ask for nudes. But the issue is, it is quite exhausting to keep chatting with someone without seeing them in person and some of these guys just want to smash and run which i won't allow. No man will have access to my vagina and womb without investment and commitment. Eventually it becomes hard to keep up communication and we just fizzle out like that.

I am not under pressure to marry from my parents, infact my dad says he won't allow his daughters marry until they clock 28 and i am the first. He wants us to have a career and a life before moving with a man. I just want to know if what i am doing is right?

To be honest, i just want some words of advice and encouragement, you can ask me questions if you want. This approach of mine? Is it the right thing? Am i being too smart for my own good? Am i afraid of commitment?

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You are very right. Wow. It's like someone saying my thoughts out loud. Can I dm you?

Pistotita:
Bring the fact out. When you are cracking smuggling, they will also fight. Let it be N100k. As far as it works, it's fine. What goes up will come down. Let us support him for once.

I will rather eat let rice now till smuggling is really addressed. Why is it rice you ppl are shouting. Go and eat another food. Must you eat rice? I want him lock it till Benin Republic and Chad support us. Why must they destroy our economy? Why?

Gradually local farmers will pick up. These smugglers have been killing local production for a long time. Its necessary to stop them first. If you want to eat rice, pay for it. Even its N200k per bag, as long as the policy addresses kidnapping, I am ok. They keep smuggling ammunition too. You people are just ungrateful. Its that rice that will kill you all. Is it only food you know?

I was liking your comments before but you are sounding too sentimental and not articulate as before. Stay on facts and leave the curses and insults out

NiyiRocks:
Brah any luck?

No luck brah. None believes me on how I got the connect especially the ones based in IB

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What is the alternative?

Horn of Africa

JoanOluchi:
Wedding Ring 2,000

Na Aboki ring lool

Charelsz:
God bless this man, we need more men like him in Nigeria

Are you alright?

Rofo-rofo shakedown
I feel deeply sorry for them. Debt is a slow poison. Kills silently

Depraved Chinko

Swift Justice unlike the Nigerian Judicial system

I totally agree. The loss defies logic

[quote author=NiyiRocks post=78919652][/quote]Seeennnn. U too much brah

Hope u grab?

. Would edit it asap

Thanks

Winner!!

I'm looking forward to him in the Chelsea dugout next season.

Without Hazard, the team attack would look very different. Pulisic, Odoi (Abraham?

Interesting times ahead

In Sarri, I believe

What happened to being merciful?

The owner is vindictive. Come on!! this is too heavy handed for such a minor offence. The poor lady is ruined. Too bad

Sick!!

Unbelievable


Cry my beloved country

Very true

Zinedine Zidane returns to coach Real Madrid

By Eoghan Macguire

Updated at 1750 GMT (0150 HKT) March 11, 2019

STORY HIGHLIGHTS

Real Madrid appoints Zinedine Zidane as new coachFrenchman left Real in May 2018Zidane won three Champions Leagues during first Real spell

(CNN) — Zinedine Zidane has made a surprise return to coach Real Madrid less than a year after leaving the Spanish giants in the wake of one of its great European successes.

The 46-year-old Frenchman led Real to three consecutive Champions League trophies during his first spell in charge at the Bernabeu, but then stepped down in May 2018.

Zidane replaces former teammate Santiago Solari, who was promoted to the role of Real coach after Julen Lopetegui was dismissed following a poor run of form in October.

"Real Madrid appreciates the work done by Santiago Solari and the commitment and loyalty he has always shown to this house," said a Real Madrid statement on Monday.

"The Board of Directors has also agreed the appointment of Zinedine Zidane as the new coach of Real Madrid with immediate incorporation for the remainder of the season and the next three, until June 30, 2022."

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