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Romance / Re: Deep Down Your Sugar Daddy Prays Not To Have A Wayward Daughter Like You. by blueheart(m): 9:54am On Aug 07, 2022
Stephen2324:
Deep down your sugar daddy prays not to have a wayward daughter like you.

Words on marble!
Events / Re: The Fake Wedding I Attended Last. Week(my Experience) by blueheart(m): 11:32am On Jul 10, 2022
Typing.........[/quote]

I was in church when I read this. Can't stop laughing. grin grin grin

This OP is funny with words. Thanks for the humor. Sorry ehn
Business / Re: Dangote To Stop Sourcing FOREX From CBN by blueheart(m): 7:06am On May 13, 2022
Good stuff

Exciting times ahead for the Nigerian economy. My hope is that who ever becomes the next president won't set us back with crazy economic policies.

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Investment / Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by blueheart(m): 5:51am On May 06, 2022
RabbiDoracle:


Hold till Guinness hits N300 (and NBrew should hits N250).

From 17, you should be having a gain of 1,664%.

However this is small compared to 4,000% that some names will print. Go find it.

Boss, please which names will print such. I'm a newbie to this market. Thanks
Investment / Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by blueheart(m): 12:53pm On Apr 18, 2022
emmanuelewumi:



I think he has a good risk management policy. Shares certificates represents ownership in a business and not a lottery ticket. He is a consistent. He is a value Investor. He should be the billionaire with the highest amount of liquid cash on the Forbe list.


He also said that he is not a stock picker but a business picker

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Family / Re: My Wife Poisoned My Mother With Salt by blueheart(m): 12:34pm On Jan 03, 2022
Theonlysonofher:
Unfortunately my sweet mother left us

This is so unfortunate. Take heart Op. My sincere condolences
Family / Re: My Wife Is Always Sad Whenever I Send Money To My Family by blueheart(m): 1:21pm On Oct 28, 2021
officialmario:


Something about her is that, if I buy a boxer I have to buy her a pant too, just to make it perfect, if I don't buy her own, it's going to be war.

Dude you are beginning to sound like a dunce. Is this how your mum treats your dad? Wake up bro

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Huge Explosion Hits Shia Mosque In Afghanistan, 100 Killed (Disturbing Photos) by blueheart(m): 1:28pm On Oct 08, 2021
Supposedly a holy day, how ironic!

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Family / Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by blueheart(m): 9:46am On Jul 29, 2021
Pecoleee345:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6653469/another-marriage-crash

So over last weekend.... I called family meeting my mum, elder brother and I went to my wife parents house... her family members were present.

They wanted to resolve things between us but no one gave a Bleep about me....they asked her to speak and she said alot of things both truth and lies.

I was lambasted from both sides and I let them finished properly before dropping the bomb......I looked into her eyes straight up and told her am divorcing you.

They were all stunned.... they were now interested in my side of the story.

I decided not to say anything.....am not the type that bad mouth people to score points or look good (my ex-wife is very good at that)....I just told her family to demand the truth from her.

My advice to young men.

1. Make sure u know the background of the lady u wanna get involved with....the way of life etc.

The mistake I made was not evaluating her background...... We came from completely different backgrounds....eg where she comes from people talking crazy and shouting at one another isn't a big deal but me it was a Taboo infact in my parents' house u can't talk with high tones for normal discussions.

2. See forget love and looks...... Make sure you know the main reason she wants to marry you.

I know she loves me but she had another motive which is am meant to give her everything she wants in Life.... She had that mind set of her responsibilities is totally dependent on me.

She told me she can only spare or borrow me money towards doing anything in the house but it is my duty to provide anything she wants even the riddicules ones.

3. For your peace of mind stay away from most ladies raised by single mothers because most her poison to hate men right from teens by their mother.

They are mostly insecure....they believe all men cheat and can never trust.
Comes with mad jealousy

They mostly have anger issue.... they will tell you I don't take shit... trying to show they are strong and can't take what their mother took despite you not doing any shit.....they want to have say in everything just to show you are equal.

They are always quick to be on the defensive
Just to mention a few

I once told my wife am not like your father when I couldn't take the policing, sneaking and threat anymore.

See as a man no one gives a shit about you..... people are sympathetic towards the female and expect you to take whatever she throws at you but you need your peace of mind.
The society has made it possible for women to get away with lot of things.

If you found a woman you want to marry please put love aside and get to really know her background well......cohabit with her for 6month......lastly even if you don't have money, please borrow and go for comprehensive medical check up with her.... (check your sperm count and the state of her womb) please.

OP, u nailed it ooo. Can't have explained this better. Wow. Sorry for the trauma. You gonna look back at this in future with a smile. Stay safe and strong.
Romance / Re: ‘I Want To Get Married’ – Feminist Breaks Down In Tears (Video) by blueheart(m): 7:24pm On Jul 24, 2021
Men are the prize cool
Romance / Re: How And When Did You Realize That Your Girlfriend Loved You For Real? by blueheart(m): 3:29pm On Jul 17, 2021
BKayy:
Never marry a single mother or a lady raised by a single mother if you value your life

grin grin grin they are coming for u, fam

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Family / Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by blueheart(m): 11:07am On Jul 17, 2021
Eyah

Sorry Op. That's toxic. Always best to do due diligence in a quest to choose a partner. You learnt the hard way.

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Romance / Re: Groom Caught Bride Cheating On Him With His Best Man And Called Off The Wedding by blueheart(m): 8:29am On Jul 17, 2021
cool never ends well for cheaters. Baffles me how this set thinks there won't be consequences
Investment / Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by blueheart(m): 5:26am On Jun 29, 2021
yom2:
bamboo execution is better compared to trove but occasionally they have these tiny tyny hidden deductions. Though d customer care ladies are quick to term it as glitches. Though in some cases they are reversed

I'm not so sure about the tiny deductions. Hope you are aware that 30% is deducted on every dividend payment. Other than this, I haven't noticed any thing wrong about my buying power. For me, they are the best in terms of service delivery, the UI keeps getting better and the recent way of adding fresh stocks and recently listed IPO/shares is just awesome.

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Investment / Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by blueheart(m): 5:17am On Jun 29, 2021
CMPS - Psychadelic stock, Bullish engulfing candle on above avg volume. RSI is still low, Has room to $40

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Investment / Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by blueheart(m): 6:15pm On Jun 28, 2021
moyin2009:



Thanks

Don't be quick to accept what that poster said oo. I use Bamboo and its okay. Try both, do your due diligence before you conclude

For me, Bamboo has a better interface otherwise bamboo and trove have the same US stock options and they use similar broker in the US

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Investment / Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by blueheart(m): 4:28pm On Jun 28, 2021
blueheart:
Good morning everyone. I saw chatter about #NIO gapping up this week due to quarterly earnings this week and also other Chinese stocks like #BABA #BILI

Can the experienced gurus in the house help shed more light on this. Thanks

The chatter is correct after all. #NIO is riding up!

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Investment / Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by blueheart(m): 8:25am On Jun 27, 2021
Good morning everyone. I saw chatter about #NIO gapping up this week due to quarterly earnings this week and also other Chinese stocks like #BABA #BILI

Can the experienced gurus in the house help shed more light on this. Thanks

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Jokes Etc / Re: When You Pick The Wrong Lady For Marriage (meme) by blueheart(m): 7:07pm On Jun 25, 2021
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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by blueheart(m): 12:33pm On Jun 03, 2021
Peaceyw:
I’ve just come out of a relationship with a woman with Borderline Personality Disorder. It has been, by far, the most chaotic relationship I have ever had. I would like to share what I’ve learned about them so that other men can spot the signs of these abusive, controlling, bitches and AVOID! AVOID! AVOID! For the love of God, Stay the hell away from these types of woman. They are incredibly dangerous.

ENTRAPMENT
Borderlines have an uncanny ability to mirror the qualities and outlook of their victims. Meeting a borderline woman is a magical feeling. It is like living in a country where you can’t speak the language and then suddenly meeting the only other English speaker in existence. Your values, your experiences, your morals – as they come up you will find that she embodies them all, and this builds a trust that that will open you up and make you want to expose your deepest hopes and fears. She will of course mirror these too and this will only make you fall in love all the faster. The love that you will feel for this person will make any past love feel shallow. This person, or at least who they pretend to be, will feel like your soulmate. People with their own mental health concerns are the borderline’s favourite prey. This is in part because the victim’s are more receptive due to a lack of female attention or feelings of alienation, but also because the borderline’s self-loathing won’t allow them to measure themselves against someone who is healthy.

MANIPULATION
Pity is the weapon of the Borderline. They are riddled with pain and suffering. Their lives are chaotic and in shambles. Because you will see so much of yourself in their projected persona, you will want to help them. And because they are pretending to share your own outlook, you would expect them to have the same regard for you. But they will not. You will bend over backwards to meet the borderline’s demands, but it will never be remembered or appreciated. And if you expect consideration or support in return, they will let you down every time. They will sidestep any issues you may have, invent reasons to be upset that you would bring it up, and then blame you for their lack of compassion or the behaviour you have a problem with. Over time this will condition you. You won’t want to hurt this person, and their reaction to any criticism is so extreme, to the point of self harm or suicide attempts, that you are constantly treading on eggshells around them. It becomes impossible to set boundaries without been met with abuse and rage. But unlike a traditional abusive partner who uses physical or emotional violence to condition their victim, the borderline abuses themselves to cause guilt.

Another tactic the borderline will use against you is to provoke a reaction, then use that reaction to blackmail you in the future. If you are ever anything less than 100% understanding and compassionate regarding their hurtful behaviour, they will hold a grudge against you and use it to excuse their future actions, or bizarrely, the very thing that you are angry about in the first place. The initial reason for your anger will be forgotten, and if brought up it will be dismissed or outright or denied to have happened at all. In the mind of the borderline, they can do no wrong, because admitting they have would mean confronting their self-loathing and guilt. This behaviour is tolerated by the victim because despite how disgusting the borderline is acting, you have seen a better side of them and are waiting for to it re-emerge. That person who you fell so deeply in love with must be in there still, right? They have an illness and will be better once this long, dark, episode passes. If you could only be more understanding or helpful they will return to the state they were when you first met. But it’s a fools errand. That person was never real in the first place. The ugliness is what is real and that can be very hard to accept in someone you love.

WHY DO THEY DO IT?
Who gives a f~~~. They should be put on a list for the safety of the public. No matter their motives, they are predatory creatures who prey on vulnerability and destroy men for their own gratification. They are emotional vampires who only love to be loved, without a shred of empathy, honesty, fidelity or trust.

RED FLAGS
She tells you that she is borderline. (she’s telling you so she can excuse her behaviour later).
Her past doesn’t match up with the persona she is presenting to you.
She will have multiple children from different fathers.
She might have a cuckold ex who still lives with her.
She will tell you that she has been in multiple abusive relationships as the victim.
She may be under close scrutiny by the law or social services.
She will be very generous in the bedroom and sex is all about pleasing you.
She has no or few friends other than online contacts.
She has scars from self-harm or suicide attempts.


RED FLAGS
She tells you that she is borderline. Manslation: S~~~ test. Every woman qualifies as a “borderline.”
Her past doesn’t match up with the persona she is presenting to you. Manslation: This is EVERY woman. AWALT
She will have multiple children from different fathers. Manslation: Welcome to 2018. The Everest of female accomplishment — spreading her legs.
She might have a cuckold ex who still lives with her. Manslation: They all have 4-6 orbiters willing to give cash/prizes for access to magic vagina.
She will tell you that she has been in multiple abusive relationships as the victim. Manslation: It’s a woman’s highest aspiration to be seen as a victim.
She may be under close scrutiny by the law or social services. Manslation: See above — multiple children/fathers.
She will be very generous in the bedroom and sex is all about pleasing you. Manslation: This is temporary.
She has no or few friends other than online contacts. Manslation: They already KNOW she’s a c~~~ and avoid her.
She has scars from self-harm or suicide attempts. Manslation: These are attention getters — nothing more.


From MGTOW.COM


Wow. Feels like a bad experience I had. Everything in here is just on the money shocked

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Romance / Re: 22 Reasons Why You MUST Never Date A Single/Divorced Mother - Opinion by blueheart(m): 8:19am On May 08, 2021
I totally agree OP
Politics / Re: Kalu: New Service Chiefs Need 6 Months To Understand Nigeria’s Security System by blueheart(m): 7:32am On Apr 27, 2021
This is the consequence of most people 'sidon look' apathy towards politics and governance

We are now saddled with crooks in our airspace spitting rubbish
Celebrities / Re: Olakunle Churchill And Rosaline Meurer Welcome Baby, A Son - Churchill Junior by blueheart(m): 12:44pm On Mar 09, 2021
I don't know what to say or maybe I do but can't say it out loud

o lor far - it runs deep!
Sports / Re: Isreal Adesanyo Loses UFC259 Fight Against Jan Blachowicz by blueheart(m): 8:54am On Mar 07, 2021
those takedowns changed the whole game. before it, adesanya was leading.
he needs to improve on how to extricate himself from takedowns
Investment / Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by blueheart(m): 9:35am On Feb 19, 2021
thiagoteres:
It seems T212 has resumed registration.


can one register from Nigeria please?

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Celebrities / Re: Nigerian Porn Star, Krissyjoh Reveals He Made N240m From Acting In Porn Movies by blueheart(m): 12:35pm On Dec 30, 2020
omor na good business idea oo

just arrange one babe and one guy, and pay for dem knacks. record and upload. finish

total investment like 10k for each. pata pata 40k. chai. and earn foreign exchange for 9ja grin

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Crime / Re: Tears As Lagos Government Auctions 44 Vehicles For Traffic Offences by blueheart(m): 4:59am On Nov 27, 2020
this is just terrible. a fine would have been more appropriate

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Culture / Re: Marriage by blueheart(m): 10:32am On Nov 21, 2020
pls the ib details
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Easy Money! Do You Like Fashion? Make Money Doing What You Love. by blueheart(m): 8:30pm On Oct 18, 2020
[quote author=Obagoblog post=94970812]Cc: blueheart
already marked the register, bro. thanks. she tried lol

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