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be dumb, under-achieving (better if you have no goals at all) and beautiful
recipe to have them trooping at one's door


for those that are so smart as to miss the sarcasm there
yeah that's all i can say - smart.

submission has been taken to new heights you know. . .
hitting if she isn't 'submissive' enough
smh

GL:
 


@ Sugabelly,

i agree that it's annoying that so many nigerian women freak out if they are single at 25. it's like we're being pressured to get married as soon as possible. it's not a do-or-die affair, better to be single than to get married to a guy you can't live with.

Quite frankly i think getting married before 25 is a joke, what's the rush? my mom didn't get married till she was 29, don't recall any of her, my dad's or her siblings' stories depicting her as either desperate or lacking suitors. Ladies all over should realise marriage is not a status, it's a full time commitment why rush into it?

H2O2:
those are useless men. women should know better than to marry useless men.

It doesnt begin to materialise when they marry, sh1t starts when they dating. If i'm dating you, you have absolutely no right to tell me to do your laundry (the fc-uk we got laundrettes for?) if you're sick or other wise indisposed, that's understandable lil things like this are examples; submission to many people (both men and women) is another word for glorified slavery. Glorified cos you get to live in the same house, sleep in the same bed, bear the same surname (the doods will rarely ever let her retain her maiden name for any reason), and have sex together.

unfortunately, many men still go around with the mentality of 'women are meant to provide for serve me and my children
note the possessive noun used.
therefore, going by your statement, many men are useless. A statement most ladies have used at least thrice in their lives, meaning they were right, many men are indeed useless.

wrong

it's sexy to some people. . .
but i get what you mean

ewww fuschia n pink

[quote author=Kenny_G link=topic=367914.msg5319040#msg5319040 date=1263523018]i wonder why? [/quote]what do u think?

he he he, u must hate baldness

naw man obviously the 'sammich' bit was a borrowed term
but it's still the same thing
they get butt hurt over the whole submission ish but aint ready to either lift a finger to be useful for themselves or even the woman

OgidiBoy:
I don't think trousers "pants" are for all women, those women with fat rings around their waist should pls stay away from trousers and stick to skirts and if Nigerian wrappers.

on the contrary, they should stick to pants
it helps slim them down, makes them look taller, n also notifies them of extra pounds gained or lost

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=381342.msg5319015#msg5319015 date=1263522299]i don't think too highly of it. it is genetic so i will make sure my husband doesn't have a bald father or relatives. thank God my family doesn't have the baldness gene so im sure if i marry well, my kids won't have it either[/quote]genetic profiling,
sh1t be scary man

watermelons and kool-aid


NL after 2

FL Gators:
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I think. . . .

Typical Naija man, if nobe potbelly, them go bald.

Wetin naija women supposed to dey enjoy?[/color]

toyin ill assume you're kidding
cos i think i've met only two men in my life that are bald
and of the greater majority, very few have pot bellies

H2O2:
lmao

tell me u aint ever seen that fuckery before

sugabelly:
What is this Nigerian obsession with women and submission? The Bible was written according to JEWISH culture.

In other words, if you are not from Israel, and your wife is not from Israel, then I beg of you get the f uck back and stop disturbing us.

There are so many silly Nigerian men out there that keep coming on Nairaland and complaining about how women are not 'submissive enough' and how women are becoming 'westernized' and there are more than a few equally silly Nigerian women supporting them and spouting the same bullshit.

Well here's a newsflash for you:

1. Submission is not part of our culture. Nigerian women were the breadwinners of the family (with their trade and other economic activities) for thousands of years before those missionaries came and filled your heads with bullshit.

So, if anyone is behaving in a Western manner it is you silly Nigerian men that are desperate to have someone submit to you so you can beat your chest and feel like a big man.

2. I don't know about you, but where I come from little boys are not born with accompanying female servants attached to their umbilical chords so if you are waiting for a woman to bow down to you and answer 'yes sah! no sah!' then you are wasting your time. Go out and achieve something with your life instead of looking for someone to put beneath you so you can feel important.

Your wife is not your servant, and even more importantly, your wife is  a GROWN ADULT. Adults don't roam about "obeying" other adults that are their mates and adults certainly don't roam about "obeying" their lovers. A relationship is a compromise. If you want something, you ASK NICELY (with please and thank you included) and if the person says no, you shut your trap and go do it yourself. No woman on this Earth and beyond it is under any obligation to serve or obey any man, husband or not.

Men need to stop fooling themselves and being silly. There are SO MANY threads like this on Nairaland. Should a woman be submissive? Should a woman wash her husband's clothes? nya! nya! nya!

Just stop it. Your silly dreams of a chauvinist utopia where women will meet the beck and call of men are just that: DREAMS! And they will never, NEVER come true. EVER. I'm tired of all these silly as f uck men with their  Dark Ages mentality.

Nobody is going to submit to you. And any woman who will is A SlowPoke or desperate or both.

Men who have confidence and pride in themselves and their accomplishments don't need to constantly look around for submissive lackeys to feel important.

Nonsense and ingredient. Is it only obey? Is it only submit? Why don't you daft men submit to your wives? Oya come and work for your wife! Wash her panties! Wash her bra! Plait her hair, help her dress, cook her dinner, clean the house, take after the children.

All you idiots know how to do is brag and complain about women meanwhile you are so ungrateful and unappreciative of all the things women sacrifice for you glorified spermatozoa donors.

In fact, it's not your fault. I blame the legions of silly NIGERIAN WOMEN that act as if marriage is a do or die affair. I blame every last one of them that start freaking out if they're not married by 25. Because their idiocy has given you men swollen heads. You now think you are so important that everyone should 'submit' to you.

Are you God? Why the hell should anyone submit to anyone else when they are just flesh and blood same as them? Who do you think you are, some kind of supernatural creature? Submission my foot. Rubbish. I blame those silly missionaries. They are the ones that filled the heads of Nigerian boys and men with poo and overinflated ideas of their own limited self-importance.

Rubbish. You men had better watch it. You do almost nothing yet go about making demands from women like you own the world. You had all better be careful. When technology advances far enough we'll just pack you all into a warehouse on the moon and milk you of your spermatozoa while women on Earth will have government issued vibrating dildos and visit spermatozoa banks for artificial insemination when they want to get pregnant.

It will be good riddance to all you silly men that think just because you have pe nises you can boss women around.

Submission ni, Submission ko.

harsh words miss ma'am
but your right on so many points

iice:
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now i can't sleep
dammit!

hypnotic
whatchu u want me 'bzzed' up for?

you might want to consider her permision b4 u post her picture on a site filled with internet trolls like this
that said, her hair is beautiful and so is she.
The myth that natural hair is hard to maintain needs to be de-bunked
all one needs to do is know one's hair and with trial and error figure out what's best for the hair.
It's the same way we deal with things anyway. . . and might i add that natural hair is so versatile when it comes to styles irrespective of the length or type

*why do i feel so tired
i feel like i'm drowning in dense air
i can't even do the basic things
i noticed the slow-down since yeasterday but now this is just . . .
meh i'm tired
nap no 3 calling*

jay z

im steady watching them lips

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=381761.msg5318589#msg5318589 date=1263513800]Here we bleeping go again [/quote]. . . sometimes it's cute sometimes i imagine a very detailed lobotomy carried out by me

the truth is, depending on which part of the world you find yourself,
an educated and successful black woman is sometimes an intimidating specter to men.
mainly because with the more degrees and achievements she's had in her life time and the age they come with,
there are fewer available (in terms of emotional availability, matching up to her high standards, etc) men for her.

cant take coffee with milk or sugar

oooh i like ur scarf n i have a similar picture too
except my eyes weren't happy

lala come and make me

submission is a term that people don't understand
i can be submissive to my husband don't mean he's going to sit on the sofa and yell "woman make me a sammich" and i'll go scuttling around

senior broda

yup i am

joan,
cant seem to find a way to contact you. . .