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lol who u be?
she's my sister joh
ehen bee-somn what u got?

will you shut your mouth with your hypocritical lies about being up for gender equality,
you're a sexist who uses the bible to defend his ways taking the word of God out of context
for real there should be a special place in hell for people like you, rob pattison and rush limbaugh

omg ogidiboy me want to see pleeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaasssssssssseeeeeeeeeeee

china is regarded as a developing country, so is india.
that said,
[quote author=aloy*emeka link=topic=381789.msg5319265#msg5319265 date=1263530823]Did any of you see this?[/quote]ROFLMAO! The vatican always amuses me at odd times

Not one to call the integrity of the Bible or the wisdom of God and those that wrote the books into contention,
but imagine if that verse existed without the word 'submission'?
imagine it was replaced by mutual-understanding in love(which is really what it means) imagine the amount of discussions and arguments that wouldn't have taken place?

chiogo:
And if the woman is the breadwinner?

darling, she'll have to kiss his feet, bend over backwards, pop out some babies, feed them, keep the house clean and fix him a sammich, all of that while being 'submissive' of course

GL:
i was actually agreeing with your post till i got to the bold part and felt like i'd just been hit in the face. NO man can own me, not the wealthiest, most loving, most handsome, godliest man. i'm NOT a piece of property, i don't want to own my husband so why would he want to own me. i'm a submissive and loving type but can't see myself as a man's property ever. it's a shame if a man can only feel responsible when he feels he owns me because i dont even plan on owning him and yet i choose to submit to him and love him. rather than feeling threatened i expect a man to feel honoured that i can walk away from him anytime but i won't. if that doesn't scream love, i wonder what does.

i agree that submission isn't equivalent to slavery. i see submission as me ALLOWING a man to take the lead and CHOOSING to follow. anything that takes the choice out of the equation reduces it to slavery. like someone said people are submissive at work, that's because you have to choice to resign anytime. if you don't have the option of resigning, then you are a slave. as for your comparison of wives and children, children are supposed to be incapable of making intelligent/right decisions and they require supervision. we can't be expected to remain children forever

I went through the same process of agreeing until i saw the bolded bit.
He's using the bible and the quotes therein out of context, the sooner he realizes that, probably the better for him

Justcash:
On point.

Quite expected.

H2O2:
again, the man will not completely fold his arms and renounce househould tasks, he just wouldn't be under as much of an obligation to perform the soft-chore responsibilities.  if he's out there winning bread, what is she doing and where does her money go ?
women are dissatisfied with useless men and in relation men also refuse lazy women.  i understand the plight of men who shoulder the monetary responsibilities, and it's only fair for the woman to pamper the home.

a lot of this conversation borders on the kind of relationship one is in so i am going to desist from making absolute statements.

cute

But i understand what you're saying, the problem is when it all comes down to the basics, we are both saying the same things. If a woman chooses or finds herself at home while the husband brings home the philosophical bacon, they should both never try to trivialize the other's job. While the man should see no reason not to help out occasionally and when he's asked (politely and reasonably) by his wife, the wife should also understand the man works and gets tired the same way she works and gets tired.
Understanding and compromise is how marriage works, or isn't that what our parents try to tell us? isn't that what submission is really all about?

ROSSIKE:
Funding? Do you realise Nigeria has almost $60 billion cash in reserves as we speak?

Some of you people have no idea just how wealthy Nigeria is.

We could easily afford to pledge $20 million to relief efforts in Haiti.

And that wouild be DOUBLE what Britain has pledged (a paltry $10 million).

There is just a lack of Black/African consciousness at the highest official levels.

Not surprising since we're ruled by western stooges.

Familiarize yourself with the awesome phenomenon called red-tape otherwise known as beurocracy - the cankerworm that has wrecked every system in Nigeria

Justcash:
@Bluespice: I understand your anger and frustration.  

it never ceases to amaze me how nincompoops can asses my life based on curt replies to idiotic threads.
That said, it would be quite nice if you could seriously get over your obsession with bluespice and her 'in-submissive' lifestyle.

[quote author=Sunny_bobo link=topic=381789.msg5319210#msg5319210 date=1263529355]Nigeria wouldn't want to help probably because of Haiti's recognition of the state of Biafra during the civil war.

Buncha idio.ts!


http://www./biafra_recognised_by_Haiti.htm[/quote]that is a good (political) reason not to support haiti,
but in situations like this, even enemies have to become civil and the fact that that happened many years ago. . .
i doubt Nigeria has any official presence in haiti, but the main reason nigeria doesn't or hasn't responded as a country is down to funding plain n simple.

H2O2:
if prayer didn't lead you to the right man then
then divorce sweetie! God does not compulse a woman to put up with a heartless animal.
i know it's easier said than done, but . . . . sometimes count your loses


(the fc-uk we got laundrettes for?) if you're sick or other wise indisposed, that's understandable lil things like this are examples; submission to many people (both men and women) is another word for glorified slavery. Glorified cos you get to live in the same house, sleep in the same bed, bear the same surname (the doods will rarely ever let her retain her maiden name for any reason), and have intimacy together.

I agree with this, except in relationships where the man is the dominant breadwinner of the household.
A woman then asking him to come home and man the other responsibilities is just being ridiculous.

even with that example, the man still has the responsibility of helping out ocassionally
you can't go on about providing the money n expecting everything to be done for you for that reason alone?
a marriage is a union, not a contract or acquisition.
Making the effort to join in the house work on weekends, taking out the trash, these are menial things that a sole breadinner can do to help out a bit. (since we're talking home responsibilities now)

they might have helped but not in large droves
moreso there aren't that many honest NGO that have international presence

Justcash:
A statement that starts with an insult is not worth replying. Put it properly to get an answer. It is only animals that insult people unnecessarily

*death*
animals have the capabilities of reasoning?
enough to know when insults (after they developed the sense of speech and an organised language understandable by humans) are necessary and unnecessary?
ever considered a career in stand-up?

that's it
i quit
you are clearly set in your ways of folly and no amount of education (or attempts) can wring you free
my heart goes out to those unfortunate to be in your company ever.

Oba234:
My response was meant for JUSTCASH

aiite

will you seriously get the fc-uk outta here with your pathetic attempt at a sensible post?
do you know what submission is?
do you know what submission entails?
if i don't want to lick any dumb fc-uk's arse irrespective of gender and that makes me the most un submissive woman on this planet, how the fc-uk is it your problem?
get off my ti-ts already!!

ps: lesbians are human beings and not a different race or specie, whatever applies to straight people applies to them and other gay people also, so do yourself a favour and get educated or shut your gob

Justcash:
Dear GL, Check the real meaning of being submissive to your husband.
When you are submissive to your parents, it doesn't mean that you are a slave. You still get the same care, love and respect that is due for Children.
Women needs to be submissive to keep the relationship working. It is not only cultural, but natural.
Your husband will only feel the pinch of responsibility when he feels and know that he own you, and is responsible for your psychological and physiological wellbeing. He will find it difficult to fall into other women's trap when he is aware that no Woman can ever be as submissive as you are to him. It is a Wife's submission that makes a Man seem like his wife's fool in the face of their married friends who are fighting for sex supremacy with their wives.

your argument is invalid

if you couldn't see that i directly rebutted everything you said to make a point,
tell me how am i wrong in saying you're tiny brained?

you're so tiny brained it's adorable

Justcash:
You are Pathetic babe, very Pathetic. You better go and get married to a foriegn geek to avoid heartbreaks. Any Nigerian man that tells you that he's okay with your attitude does not LOVE you. He either loves your money, or is in the relationship for some lustful reasons. He will leave you as soon as he is well to do or satisfied, and look for a more submissive woman.
My advise, become a lesbian, or an independent spinster, or a constant divorcee.
Forget a happy and everlasting marriage.

several steps ahead of you.
i'm not marrying, i don't believe in love and i'm lesbian.