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The General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) Pastor Enoch Adeboye has warned single ladies to avoid marrying jobless men.

Jobless men, he said, have the tendencies to use, dump and abandon such ladies.

Adeboye spoke on Sunday at the May Special Prayer and Thanksgiving service by the RCCG Throne of Grace, National Headquarters Ebute Metta, Lagos.

According to him, a woman should not marry a man that has no work “if not you will be the work.”

He noted it is not sinful for a single lady to politely ask any man proposing marriage whether or not he has a job.

Stating that women are conceived as helpmeets, Adeboye argued only somebody who has a job can be helped.

Adeboye, who spoke through the Assistant General Overseer, (RCCG) Personnel and Administration Pastor Johnson Odesola, said the man is key and the woman has only come to help.

“Whatever the woman does is a help. The man is a major director in the house,” he stressed.

He stated taking care of the homes does not rest on the woman alone but the man and the woman who has come to help.

Adeboye blamed lack of proper home training for most of the ills in society.

“I still remember when I was young. My father will tell me that this name is the name of my father. Don’t spoil the name. So I was scared to do wrong. I could not shake the hand of a lady until I was 23.

“Learning for any child should start from the home and parents should be their child first teachers.

“The wife and the husband are the main teachers who will teach and model godly character to their children,” he stated.

In his sermon, Adeboye, urged all Christians to strengthen their faith, saying there would always be a storm in the lives of the believers.

Aare Ona Kakanfo of Yoruba land, Otunba Gani Adams, who was at the service argued religion, is never the problem of Nigeria.

According to him: “It is sad many people believe religion is Nigeria’s problem, but in truth, leadership, not religion is Nigeria’s problem.

“For instance, I am a Muslim by birth. I grew up from a Christian background and as the Aare Onakakanfo of Yoruba land and culture activist, I also believe in our traditional religion.”

source: https://www.titiloyeblog.com/2019/05/adeboye-to-single-ladies-dont-marry.html

Cc: Lalasticlala, Mynd44

I support this. FTC yipee

Hisgrace0001:
Lets be sincere to ourselves before we blame the poor girl.
If you were to be in her shoe; what would you have done?
As for me i would have turned down the offer.
Lets hear from you too

Easy to say. Until you have passed through the exact situation and turned it down before you can talk. Unfortunately you can't you are a guy.

I think it's the white man not a black American

If I were a lady I wouldn't, let God find a way to bring him to me.

What's wrong with this generation?

planetx13:
Yes... women are worthless, hopeless , senseless and useless

Your mother too?

Olalan:
Public proposal is a no no for me.......

Public proposals are for immature show offs.

undefeateds:
I can't marry a lady that's not circumcised.

Why if I may ask?

Most guys hate gay men but dream of having a party with lesbians. They enjoy girl on girl porn.

RealityShot:
when girls start acting arkward, do bos who approached them cut them off?

Of cos if you can't condone whatever attitude. When I mean arkward, I mean start using the fact that she made the first move to insult her, or acting weird.

Joromi12:
Stop coming here to cry abeg. My babe did thid, she did that. There are millions of girls out there better than your babe . So move on

It's obvious you have never loved. Crying over someone you love, be it a girlfriend, or family doesn't make a man weak.
I pray you fall in love soon and fall very hard.

Seun:
He beat her for asking him to use a condom after she came to visit him. He deserves to spend a few months in jail, for sure.

I didn't even get to that part, I lost interest..

If this is true , I am happy for you. I eould have said Never make the mistake of getting back with such a woman, but God doesn't permit divorce on those grounds, and there are kids involved.

Kyom20:
Good day fam. I have this girl I have been dating for over 2 years now. She is an amazing person, caring, loving and loyal. She gives so much for our relationship and doesn't ask for anything in return just my love and sincerity. We started off being very open with each other but I have anger and insecurity issues and i began to beat her anytime I felt she was getting familiar with any guy and even some girls. I did this to make her tell me the whole truth and also to make her stay away from these people. She claims that this has made her afraid of me and doesn't allow her to be as open with me as she wants to be.
We stayed together for a while but work took me to another state. She always makes effort to come and see me and I try to go and see her but the sometimes I drift away and she complains that she feels I am cheating on her especially because I am close to many girls. I often prove myself to her but sometimes the complaints get too much and I call it quits but later on we settle.
The issue at hand now is that she has been depressed about some school issues and I try to be there for her but she said the excitement and joy is gone from our relationship and that I am not putting enough effort, I acknowledged this and tried to do better. However, the last time she came to see me she was acting strange and asked me to use a condom. I was suspicious so I beat her and she confessed that another guy had touched her but they didnt av sex, she claimed she did it bcus she was emotionally down and lonely.
I am very hurt and angry because this is the second time this is happening although from her chat with her friends I can confirm she didnt av sex, I dont understand y she would let another man touch her in spite of our issues. I know she loves me and I dont want to let her go because she just seems so right for me.
I really need advice on what to do next. Thanks guys

I stopped reading your story at the point where you beat her. You have issues dude and need psychotherapy.

Then you are only after sex.

bukkyemotions:
You toasted her and she did you you hard-to-get for over 4 years, but suddenly she now loves you so much and has decided you are her real choice...

Nairaland guys, will you accept her now??

Explain better. I would if I really loved her and her reason for playing hard to get was because she was in a relationship.

Preciousgirl:
We had a holiday hangout and all employeee were there to party. Many of us were tipsy. Strangely , I found myself kissing a fellow woman. We were both embarrassed the next day. Are we lesbians? How should I react to this?

No too much alcohol and probably watching porn made this happen . if you find that while sober you find yourself only attracted to girls then you are a lesbian.

Two lines on a urine test kit and a confirmatory blood test ,before you conclude. I suggest you wait a week then do the tests again. Forget about signs, the body plays tricks on you, especially when you wdnt the pregnancy so much.

akinhanger:
ride arrives her wedding reception on a bicycle, yesterday, at police barracks, #Ikeja, Lagos

Who is rides?

KingAzubuike:
Forgivable? Really? I will forgive her sleeping with a new guy but with an ex? That's brutal.

Okafor's law was at play. I know that as a person I am more likely to cheat with an ex I hurt and the relationship ended because of me than with a new person.

It's forgivable. Not like it's a new guy she slept with.

DP84:
I believe he'd ride with Brienne. Recall his death has been contracted to Ser Bronn already.

I think we'll lose a Dragon in Kings Landing. I have thought about it severally and one of the precious seasons kept coming to mind.

I don't think sir Bronn would carry out that order.

She is very brave and confident. But the moment the guy starts acting arkward she should bravely cut him off.

Not all women want to be knacked everyday. They are too busy and at the end of the day ,they just want to sleep without disturbance.

RIP mama Dino.

Is her pastor reading all these?

pearcy:
Please my people, help a starving brother. I have been pleading for help since 2 days now. I'm a student who returned to school last week because of the prospects of exams starting on Tuesday and also because I was opportuned to enter a free ride. my family isn't bouyant enough and my dad has severe high BP that's why I had to find my way so as not to make him to start thinking about where to get money to give me. I haven't eaten a decent food since I got back and am starving.


I am soliciting for help from well meaning people who will be touched enough to hear my plight and have mercy. I am not asking for much, no matter how little, it will go a long way. God bless you all

601 6251 952
Fidelity Bank.

Oga go and look for work to do.to survive. You have money to buy data to beg. Use the money for something else. There are odd jobs you can do to raise dome cash yo at least feed yourself. You are a man.

Just like the couples on who on earth did i arry on TLC
One thing they had in common is that they all rushed into marriage.

Textbooks don't count as presents especially when given by a parent.

Feather head,is this the right time to release such pictures, when your husband is owing workers?

The way people are going on about it because it's a woman who cheated. Would the advice be the same if the tables were turned!