Iogobenz:
It is what many people say till we start talking money
Then you find out that all what you read in economics is bullshit

it is good you start making money, the more money you make, the more money I make... So you see why I want you to make more

Adakintroy2:


No one is perfect. Marriage is more about you than the other person. Test of your forgiveness, love l, patience perseverance.

Mind you I never said one should have low opinion.

I only said .."TOO high..

sadly we only have extremes in life, left or right, right or wrong, good or bad . so it is high opinion or low opinion...

Iogobenz:
Yes.you are right!
I do a lot of research but distribution has a limit.
It gets to a point where it reaches and start imploding.
Reason I tried to MOVE ON so many times but I haven't succeeded in making that leap yet.harsh truth I must be honest.
I tried marine business.wanted to partner with someone who has a functional company already and bankroll some activities.
But dude proposed a model where I will sit back and do nothing while I wait for 5% ROI every 23 days like I am some housewife lol.
I almost want break the bottle of beer he offered me in that meeting on his oblong head.to me,any business that I don't get to participate in it's activities is a bad business.
I went into wood exploitation some months back too but i needed machinery to be profitable which I couldn't afford and will take a very long time for the business to get to that point,say 10 yrs and i wasnt that patient and i jumped ship.
But I have re-strategized what i know too well successfully and will have different results hopefully before October.
Still on the dream though,infact,i will dream of Tony today and i will be putting on his black tracksuit
no mind me.

Entrepreneurs are the future, you guys drive the real sector of the economy. It is good to have a big dream but try to understand if your business is a small Cale enterprise or a start-up...a small scale entreprise is not scalable. This may thwart your Elumelu dream. But all the ventures stated here are small scale though.

AntiBrutus:


How exactly did this thread lose focus? How did I make it lose focus? Because most contributions so far have been on point.

Looks like you will be a problematic person.
Better change

I have changed oooo...a whole lot sef. You guys did the topic a great disservice. Ukwu i s already gaining prominence in the thread no thanks to franchasng et al

This thread has lost focus, no thanks to antibrutus(don't know howvyou came about the moniker), franchasng, logobenz ....suddenly became a dreamers, class and networth tread, now people are talking about kitties... ...please back to where we started!

Adakintroy2:
Many of you men have too high opinion of yourself. And this started when you start making little keeps.

And when you have a low opinion, people like you will say the guy has low self esteem or he is inferior...

AntiBrutus:


Almost sounded like you were.

Why wouldn't you want her to know your moniker na?

So, what is your definition of classy?
Since you think a NAFDAC lady isn't classy. Is it about where one works or?

If she knows my moniker, it will require papal intervention for her to say I do. Class is class . Having money or cars doesn't mean one is classy. I was an engineer, during my time in construction, I had money from PP plus my salary but I was no different from the people I supervise. Class is not a one off thing, even top CEOs and GMDs still attend trainings on social etiquette...

franchasng:
Hahahahahaha, that's me oh, sometimes when a lady says she works in a bank or some sort of work, I just smile cos I imagine how much they earn for the stress and seriousness lol

I had this doctor female friend, she use to tell me that staying around me is discouraging that I make her job look useless with the way I look down on doctors lol.

Don't blame me though cos they form too much for the meagre they earn, which is funny to me.

But I have inspired her towards seeking for relocation to Australia to practice, she said she will make millions and I will see lol, I pray she succeeds in her final screening lol

it is good to be informed, if there is another life after this, I will be banker. Over and over again. I don't know the bankers you see, if you meet a shrewd banker, in the next life he would want to be one. Heard of the Medici' s they were bankers the Rothschild s were bankers. In this part of the world things are not that fantastic but ask a banker in Fx treasury sales if he would like to quit his job for an oil company ....

franchasng:
Hahahahahaha, bros 250k monthly salary in Buhari's Nigeria na President the guy be oh

Expense always grows to meet income. You only enjoy an increase for the first six months it stabilizes afterwards...

gift3d:

The thought alone scares the hell out of me. I wish Africans don't place much importance on marriage, I swear I would have loved to be single, probably have one or two kids and hustle to train them.

why do you ladies like talking trash, I try not respond to this type of comment but I just can't help ignoring cos I started the thread. Who loves family like an African? Who loves marriage like an African? Can you compare the rate of divorce between west and Africa? Pls with due respect you must not comment biko

AntiBrutus:


I do not like when people trivialise money on this NL o.

How many percentage of boys are earning 250k? What percentage of Nigerians earn that much? Lets not forget this is still Nigeria.

Most graduates dream of that 6digit job and it isn't even 250k they are dreaming of, just 150k...

I am not trivialising money...I don't like talking about payslip too. This has been my moniker since Adam, you will also see that I attended interviews years and roamed job sections years back...but when my pre wedding photos go show, na new monicker. Babe fit divorce me if she sabi this moniker

Oma307:

but you too wicked bro, you ma self think am, more than 30 kitty cats. that one na since year 2016. u con dey look for wife material now for 2019. I wish you happy searching

bro that year was a crazy year mhenn...now man don dey old na...make I leave am for my juniors

franchasng:
anyway I don't know about you oh, but my brother if I decide to marry today, I will fix my wedding next month and I will wed the classiest, homeliest, superb lady. I am not bragging but its the truth. Everyday I meet correct chicks with focus. Today I met one working with nafdac as a top officer, so reserved, intelligent, respectful, jovial, and funny enough she is completely single and even praying for a nice man to settle with.

She is not that wowly gorgeous but she is beautiful and sexy with this Bambi eyes and tall legs, did I tell u about her buttocks, ojigbijigbi, that was what even attracted me the most cos I love that stuff in a lady with flat tummy lol

My point is, once u are doing well financially (earning steady monthly income of at least 250k and above in Nigeria as a single guy), own a nice, clean car, live in a nice apartment (must not be luxurious but well furnished and neat), you dress well, you are a good talker and jovial, believe me, you will be the one getting confused on which Lady to settle for not the other way round.

The greatest battle in any man's life is the financial battle, once u win that battle, it is over, the world is yours.

I hate to hear any guy who is financially okay complaining of scarcity of ladies cos if u are honest and cool headed as a guy doing well financially, u will meet all class of ladies even foreigners.

The painful truth is guys most times hide under the guise of no good ladies around, no wife materials as reason for being single whereas if u search well, it is financial insufficiency and fear that's holding them back.

Every guy have a target income he wishes to have before he settles down, some want to finish their own house in the city or their hometown, some want to establish a moving Biz aside their job before they do, some want to own like 2 or 3 cars and other investments before they do, and until they achieve all or most of those things, they will continue to be scared of settling down.

Lastly, where u work doesn't matter, how much u earn matters most nowadays, its no longer about profession or degree or where u live or what you do, but how much u take home counts most now.

Bankers, I don't really fancy them sha, you need to reexamine yourself to know the reason u aren't finding great ladies ready to settle with u, that's if u have made up your mind to settle down. Tell yourself the truth, money matters most nowadays, and once u have it and have made up your mind to settle down, u must find great ladies to tie the knot with

Bro, I am a rough and crazy fellow...crazy in every sense of it.when you say classy girls, I still do not know your yardstick for measuring classy...250k is an entry level salary, for boys...when you say a Nafdac babe is classy now I can see the divergence

Deepfeel:
I bet you no f*ck reach this Nigerian porn star kingblack and you no get money pass am too, so why not channel your sexual energy to a profitable business join porn

noted

Oma307:
and this same person, is now looking for who to marry now after thrashing more than 30 kitty cats

big mouth

B

franchasng:
Lol, bros op, the truth is, you have not truly made up your mind to settle down or you are not yet financially settled or you have a lot of pretty ladies around u and u are so confused not to pick one and lose the other hottie ones because once a man is financially buoyant and emotionally determined to get married, he will marry the day he wishes regardless, so re-examine yourself well.


Most guys will claim they can't find a lady to marry but deep down their hearts it is financial pressure that's withholding them, while others its confusion of who to pick among their numerous hot chicks that tick almost all their quality checks

Aside Nigerian guys living abroad wishing to marry Nigerian ladies living in Nigeria, any guy that's doing well financially and determined to marry will marry.

How can u be financially buoyant as a guy and u don't have any physical challenge or u are not impaired and u are telling me that u aren't having more than enough option of classy ladies to pick and settle with

Forget all these talks we talk online eh, we have a lot of qualified classy Nigerian ladies that will make a wonderful wife.

Me I won't lie, I see a lot of them, I know a lot of them, I am single not because there are no qualified classy ladies to settle with, I am single because I am just nervous and wondering how I will now become a full property of one lady when I am not even used to dating ladies like that cos I am kinda of a perfectionist, and I love space a lot, and I know from the few ladies I have known, if any Lady gets close to me, she marks me closely and always wanna be around me and all these scares me but soonest I am taking the bulls by the horns cos man isn't getting younger anymore and momsi and popsi and relatives aren't making things easy again, so guy examine yourself well, the issue is with u if u tell yourself the truth.

OK let me say I am a finance person, I turned down 3 offers last year from first bank, stanbic ibtc and Polaris bank. I do not know your yardstick for measuring financial buoyancy, but I am very OK. I am not determined on getting married, I said I am looking forward to meeting that partner I desire and is not coming forth. There are lots of hotties around cos we take turns to organise parties. I am not one saintly fellow, and you wouldn't want a hottie for a partner. You said you see a lot of them, have you approached and they are readily available? I met this damsel a credit analys with a new generation bank and I thought search was over we chatted and hanged out sevrally, when I wanted to start talking sense...babe is already married now sef, and I attended the wedding. Bro I used to see until recently I understood ...seeing is not believing

MariaLavina:
Mtcheeeeewwww nonsense thread!

Now you all can see why I said " guys only"...smh

Filmewell:


About 10 years now.
How I wish I can just close my eyes and sleep.
Good morning and have a good week.

10 years? Pls consult a physician. How do you cope at work? ...must really be tough I guess

Ighoga898:

Stop finding and let your partner locate you themselves

No partner will locate me, unless I want to deceive myself. "Man know thyself"- I know myself..

kemicalreaction:
She's a feminist

ahaa antibrutus

AntiBrutus:


I am no bro, I am a sis.

The ones you want that are always taken, have you ever considered the fact that someone contributed in building/moulding them?

They were most likely not born that way. They learned from experiences and people (sometimes their exes).

Why can't we be a little more accomodating?

All this self-love that everyone is forming on social media, it leads to loneliness o.

you sound like a guy...some poleople are good at grooming people and I respect them, but I am not wired for it. I am accomodating and fun to be with, trust me

Bossjakande:
guy just be patient d time will come.see don jazzy with all his money is not married.when dbanj marry? 2017 and 18 I was so depress and insult I get from family and friends.I even think of pregnanting a girl like if no wife at least I have a son. but I just realise life is more Dan DAT. I know am doing d right things so marriage will come when it will come.don't lkill ur self over nothing. my personal happiness over marriage anytime.

OK...I am far from being disturbed let alone depressed, I am just thinking about it cos I never knew it will take this long without having a headway

Filmewell:

Why are you awake still. Am having insomnia what's your reason?
Okay you are not lonely I agree after all it was my opinion. But with the fun you ve had all the while you need 6 years of celibacy so that you can really see a wife not a fling..

I am awake because I am awake, I will soon retire though. I still need to wake by 5:30am, I am used to it though cos if I were not surfing, I will be studying. 6years is too much na haba! How long have you had insomnia?

Filmewell:

Not judging. Saying what I understand from your post.
Everyone is lonely at some point but some are more lonelier than others. -George Orwell

I just didn't like the person I saw on the picture, no offense intended. I am not lonlier, I have friends come over weekin- weekout...I am just as lonely as the average person

Ighoga898:
The reason you are finding it difficult is because

Boys fvck who they can
Girls fvck who they want
But boys marry who they want
Girls marry who they can

Finding who we want is hard that's why boys detest marriage

Finding who we can is easy that's why girls like marriage

Sense will not kill me

I never thought it will be this difficult. I have fun on my own terms but I thought by now I should have settled. But I have not had a reasonable date. Sadly I can't marry a colleague, due to policies. Not that I fancy any female colleague though

Bbbwings:
Hmmm
I'm thirty this year.

We all age...

Filmewell:
You are too proud. Joor. If every body will decide what they will look like every body will look like Miss World.
Lonely man.

you already judging me, you are not fair. I am not a lonley man...though sometimes but not entirely. Everyone is lonely sometimes hence it is not particular to me..."lonely man" got me laughing though.

AntiBrutus:
Naso e dey be o.

Na when e reach time to settle down,

You will realise girlfriend plenty, but wife scarce.

Men dey, na husband be problem.

You see the one wey fine, e no get sense.

The one wey get sense, she no get nyash...no sexual attraction.

The one wey get nyash, she too like instagram and snapchat. In fact, na undercover-slay queen.

The one wey get everything you want, she is in a relationship.


This life ehn...

Just a select few will be lucky to see every they want in one.

Last last, so many will have to compromise.

You see that your list and standard, you go dey reduce am small small.

bro where are you from, I like this guy already. You see the one with everything she is already taken....who them come leave the remaining for?

DOMINO001:

Tell her to recommend like 3 then you choose one

lols she was angry I decided not to meet the lady, I don't think she will be that nice ...

SageMK:
Be a success.
Set your priorities right as a man.
And you'll find it easy finding a partner.

like seriously, bro I should be telling you all that. I thought I said no advise...just think out loud if you are in the same category... If you have it figured out, no point being here

0KNM:

noted.

DOMINO001:
You go hail naa.
Me las las if my schedule tight, my sis go help me find woman abeg. After all I don't attach any much importance to marriage.

lol...the lady my sis was trying to recommend to me to ehhnnn, when I saw her pics, make I end story abeq