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meekhat:
You are not miserable bro. Reject that. But honestly you need Christ Jesus the saviour in your life. Go for Him now

thanks. how do I go about it?. will that also help me get a girl?

Ugosample:
Trust me, you don't
You have forgotten that your rapist will choose you, not the other way round.
If a fat, unattractive and sick lady wants to rape you, will you still want to be harassed

you have no idea how much I wanna get shagged

CareerHubAfrica:
Google ‘Sexual Harassment in the Workplace’ and you will discover that 90 percent of the image results you see depicts a woman being harassed by a man.

Women are 9 times more vulnerable to sexual harassment at work than men. This may be true, but have you ever stopped to think how often men are subjected to such things?

Sexual harassment is an unwanted sexual advance or request for sexual favor usually done physically or verbally. It can be from boss to subordinate, supervisor to subordinate or even co-worker to co-worker. Sexual harassment is a silent epidemic that has eaten deep into the Nigerian workplace. Actually, it has become so common that people are beginning to see it as a norm. Statements like these have become the order of the day – “As long as there is a boss and a subordinate somewhere, irrespective of gender, there will always be sexual harassment”. “It is normal”. “Don’t make a big deal out of it”. To make it worse, the economic situation of the country makes many succumb to harassment, even when they find it disturbing. They refuse to speak up for fear of losing their jobs.

Undoubtedly, men are responsible for a good number of sexual harassment in the workplace. But men are also targets and victims of this same menace, and we often forget that. Maybe it seems like it doesn’t exist because most men actually deal with the harassment head on and then shrug it off. Let me give you a typical scenario.

Jane, a female staff of a small food processing company, harassed a new intern assigned to work with her department. She constantly made snide comments and asked him offensive questions like “How large is your pen***”.

At some point, she started taking it as far as groping him whenever they were alone in the office. This intern tried many times to tell her off nicely but she wouldn’t oblige. He dealt with it silently and never reported her to the authorities because he had seen her couple of times going in and out of the CEO’s office at odd times including after work hours. He thinks she is actually sleeping with the boss and if he reports this, he would be out the door before you say jack!

This is just one of many scenarios, cases like this go on in our workplaces on a daily basis. Harassment is the same, be it to a male or female and should be treated the same. The disturbing experience of harassment leaves the victim often frustrated, depressed and angry. As it is considered normal office culture, many people who go through this don’t feel confident that the problem is big enough for them to speak up.

What can we do to eradicate this bug eating itself through our workplaces?

Nigeria does not have very stringent rules with regards sexual harassment. Some people think reporting harassment cases is completely useless. Because even those you are reporting to are somewhat guilty of the same offence and you might end up with nothing or even lose the job.

So what can we do to stop this?

What do you suggest? Leave your comments below.

Article on our blog - https:///IO1xzw

. well I want to be sexually harassed. I'm so sex starved, and I don't know how to approach a lady. I'm miserable

CareerHubAfrica:
Google ‘Sexual Harassment in the Workplace’ and you will discover that 90 percent of the image results you see depicts a woman being harassed by a man.

Women are 9 times more vulnerable to sexual harassment at work than men. This may be true, but have you ever stopped to think how often men are subjected to such things?

Sexual harassment is an unwanted sexual advance or request for sexual favor usually done physically or verbally. It can be from boss to subordinate, supervisor to subordinate or even co-worker to co-worker. Sexual harassment is a silent epidemic that has eaten deep into the Nigerian workplace. Actually, it has become so common that people are beginning to see it as a norm. Statements like these have become the order of the day – “As long as there is a boss and a subordinate somewhere, irrespective of gender, there will always be sexual harassment”. “It is normal”. “Don’t make a big deal out of it”. To make it worse, the economic situation of the country makes many succumb to harassment, even when they find it disturbing. They refuse to speak up for fear of losing their jobs.

Undoubtedly, men are responsible for a good number of sexual harassment in the workplace. But men are also targets and victims of this same menace, and we often forget that. Maybe it seems like it doesn’t exist because most men actually deal with the harassment head on and then shrug it off. Let me give you a typical scenario.

Jane, a female staff of a small food processing company, harassed a new intern assigned to work with her department. She constantly made snide comments and asked him offensive questions like “How large is your pen***”.

At some point, she started taking it as far as groping him whenever they were alone in the office. This intern tried many times to tell her off nicely but she wouldn’t oblige. He dealt with it silently and never reported her to the authorities because he had seen her couple of times going in and out of the CEO’s office at odd times including after work hours. He thinks she is actually sleeping with the boss and if he reports this, he would be out the door before you say jack!

This is just one of many scenarios, cases like this go on in our workplaces on a daily basis. Harassment is the same, be it to a male or female and should be treated the same. The disturbing experience of harassment leaves the victim often frustrated, depressed and angry. As it is considered normal office culture, many people who go through this don’t feel confident that the problem is big enough for them to speak up.

What can we do to eradicate this bug eating itself through our workplaces?

Nigeria does not have very stringent rules with regards sexual harassment. Some people think reporting harassment cases is completely useless. Because even those you are reporting to are somewhat guilty of the same offence and you might end up with nothing or even lose the job.

So what can we do to stop this?

What do you suggest? Leave your comments below.

Article on our blog - https:///IO1xzw

well I want to be sexually harassed. I'm so sex starved, and I don't know how to approach a lady. I'm miserable!!!

Berlynn:
they look really lovely together

pretty babes

yeah they do

elkraune:
so should we fry beans?

the stench of your stupidity and foolishness is unbearable.

Maximus85:
Let this be clear. Even if the big men of God dont understand. The Holy Spirit is not a person. Its just a spirit of God which God uses in carrying out his purposes.

God is a spirit, and God is Holy. So the Holy Spirit is part of God, not a separate being. When Jesus Christ was baptized, The Holy Spirit came in the form of a dove, and the spirit dint come on its own, God used it God's voice came along with it. Also in Pentecost 33CE, the Holy Spirit came in the form of Tongues of Fire on 120 people.

Even Jesus Christ has never divided himself in two, not to talk of 120. To show that the holy spirit is just a tool used by God, his Son. God uses the holy spirit to guide and protect us today. He uses it to correct us. So whenever anybody disobeys the holy spirit, the person has disobeyed God and that sin has no forgiveness. That is why the Bible says that there is no forgiveness for sin against the holy spirit. Have you ever heard where the bible say that the holy spirit did something on it own? or that it has a position of its own?

Yes! Jesus said he will send a comforter and what or who is the comforter? The holy spirit. and it will do what Jesus wants it to do. It will assume the the form of the sender, A He and comfort Jesus' followers.

So, the misconception here is that the holy spirit acts on its own. It doesn't. When anyone grieves the holy spirit, that person is grieving God directly because God sends the Holy Spirit.

3 in 1 , three but act as one........you're right but appear confused

Originalsly:
How you know that?....is it not blasphemy for you to say how the holy spirit is feeling?

its not blasphemy the bible explained how the holy spirit feels taught us not to grieve it

its not good o

I don't even know what to say

Originalsly:
This write up will grieve any spirit.

you're grieving the holy spirit

MsFaith:
Happy Easter people. and Happy Birthday to myself.

happy birthday. have a fulfilling one

MsFaith:
Happy Easter people. and Happy Birthday to myself.

happy birthday have a fulfilling one

MsFaith:
Happy Easter people. and Happy Birthday to myself.

happy birthday. have a fulfilling one

gypsey:
Rubbish!

you're grieving the holy spirit

morbeta:
If this message is preached without collecting tithes and offerings, know indeed that the holy spirit is at work.

leave out tithes and offering if you want.........don't sha grieve the holy spirit

ifenes:
It is a pity mr adeboye actually thinks Jesus died for him.

didirin spotted

[quote author=ifenes post=55609089]It is a pity mr adeboye actually thinks Jesus died for him. [/quote

Alero3Arubi:
I find it annoying.
I don't like the cat calls from men.
Or the balant stare men give my pesky breast, hips or ass and lick their lips.
Basically this disgusts me and makes me loose respect for that male.
I can talk to any and everyman.
I am no snob.
But I will not stand for sexual crudeness.
Now its bad enough that as a lepa girl that I am, I have yo deal with this from guys. And if that had been the only sphere of endurance I would not have wished to rant.
The insane thing is when Females do the same thing!
You will gear words like
'you should wear heavier padded cups to make your breasts look fuller'
'dont you think your hips need some enhancement cream?'
'gosh you've got such flat tummy, if only you had an ass to go with it!'
'your lips need some work on it, so it can look fuller and pink'
'if I had your height I would flaunt it and get a lot of magas'
I know my breasts are pesky.
I know my hips aren't full.
My ass is flat yes i get it.
But I don't really bother about these things.
So can they think of more important things to say?
The one that really gets at me is:
'dont you think you should exchange your glasses for contacts? They would look better on you. Plus a lot sexier if you got a free colour'
I hate wearing glasses.
I have never been able to pull it off as cool the way a lot of people do.
I make sure no one sees me, except in occasions when the itching starts and I just have no choice.
So it bites me when I'm being ridiculed about them.
And for the reason of seeming sexy too!
Crap.
I give up.

unfortunately some fools won't think logically and grab the essence of this post. the op isn't seeking attention here, this is a problem every "reasonable" lady can relate to, and even guys but mostly girls. y'all commenting like toddler and attacking the relevant observation of the lady. nairaland tire me o

Alero3Arubi:
I just can't pretend and its costing me my happiness right now. But by God I'm learning that for the next time. And lying too. God knows I've tried to be very real.

I tell you! but they'd think you're forming or being selfish

Alero3Arubi:
I just can't pretend and its costing me my happiness right now. But by God I'm learning that for the next time. And lying too. God knows I've tried to be very real.

I tell you! but they'd think you're forming or being selfish

Alero3Arubi:
Learn to pretend. Nobody likes real people.

this is my life and its killing me. idk why people are too weak to flow with the real you. you gotta bend for you to level up with them

no you're wrong

Funny efcc response to guy is epic

na wahala be dis o

Basic123:
so,you quoted me..lolz.You just confirmed that tribalism and begotry have been blocking your success as I have said.The more you quote me,the more you confirm it....poor bigot and tribalist.people were making sense he was making nonsense.

bros c dis guy moniker nau, I don't advise you associate with drug addicts

Basic123:
so,you quoted me..lolz.You just confirmed that tribalism and begotry have been blocking your success as I have said.The more you quote me,the more you confirm it....poor bigot and tribalist.people were making sense he was making nonsense.

bros c dis guy moniker nau, I don't advise you associate with drug addicts

Op aren't you the stupidest guy in nairaland

®She's not properly dressed, instead of you to preach to her, you are shouting "WOW!!! you look sexy.... Brother u are part of the problem. #Repent

®A preacher said "if you know what I know, you'll laugh less and cry more" does that ring a bell in our head? Do we have to see b4 we believe? #Repent

® I want to have money, I want to marry a beautiful wife, I want to marry a handsome guy, I want to buy a nice car, I want to build a big house, is that all we think about? We will all die & leave all these. Vanity. #Repent

® You think regret is when u did not marry the man u wanted, or did not study d course u liked? NO! Regret is you reaching the grave without enough good deeds" vanity #Repent

®Rich, poor, pretty, ugly, slim, fat, literate, illiterate, white, black, ustaz, pastor, player, King, slave, PDP, APC, DEATH does not care who u are, when its time, you are going" #Repent

® Someone is dead & you are alive, someone is sick & u are healthy, someone is lost & you are guided, why then are u sad coz someone is rich & you are poor? why are you ungrateful? Thank God. #Repent

®Oh boy! Oh baby!! see Benz, Chai see house, damn! see that babe" Bros the world is just a play & illusion, its beauty doesn't last, don't be carried away, seek. Seek first his Kingdom. #Repent

®Wisdom, people will be naked, but the fear of judgement will not allow u look, have that fear now and stop asking, uploading or downloading nude pictures. #Repent

"Jesus is not coming now, I go Repent before then. Abi" Bro/Sis, if you die tonight your judgement has started. #Repent!

®She wasn't your wife, you had sex with her, she became pregnant, you made her abort. Illegal relationship + murder, committed by you alone and you are boasting ..... "I've conquered that babe"... #Repent

®"Body no be firewood" Seriously? Is that why you commit Sin? You no know say na de same body dem go carry do firewood 4 hell? Don't allow yours to be among. #Repent.

®Anyone who is not your husband and wanna have sex with you! - he's ur enemy, his love is fake, no true love will want u 2 go 2 hell and miss Heaven #Repent

®You never shed tears even once while reciting scriptures but Films dey make u cry, Hmmm check your yourself. #Repent

®Eye liner, eye shadow, mascara, lip stick, concealer, blusher. powder, if u like do plastic surgery, if your heart is bad, you're dead ugly. #Repent

®God can change you from Ajebota to Ajepako, it's all test of life, don't let Ajebota life make u forget God, always remember Him & thank Him. #Repent

®If u'r not ready u can postpone your wedding date, graduation date, election date, but u can never postpone your death date, always be ready. #Repent

®If you don't respect your parents, your life go bend, and you might end up in hell. #Repent!

®I have a meeting! I have a meeting!! Is that why u rush your prayers? Noooo! Don't disrespect God. Don't take Him for granted too.

Thanks for your attention. *

Ehe, where did we stop?

The pretence part abi? Okay

We shall continue to pretend. Please don't forget that part.

We shall turn the female into male and vice versa, by large rejecting the divine nature. By the way, we have the power of choice.

We shall have them decide after being born whether to have a vagina or penis but first, we shall brainwash them and make them believe that it is possible to be born female in a male body and vice versa.

We shall also make them learn the mannerism of the gender we want them to switch to. Yes, we shall use the Media. We shall raise our own men and women who shall become powerful so that they can influence the laws and make this thing legal.

We shall also do this by making sure they are in dysfunctional families. Hmm, that means, we need to find a way to destroy the family system. We shall give them stupid things to be pre-occupied with, and we shall attempt to do that with the media also.

We will manipulate their emotions and logic and we shall attempt to achieve this with the 'Blue Light Concept'. Shhhhh...don't tell them what that means if not they will find out. Please, let's be discreet. We shall manipulate science to achieve this. We shall call it sexual orientation.

We shall also raise pen men and women, those who will brilliantly write beautiful stories that are moving and through that, we shall alter the imaginations of their heart. Don't forget that we will make these writers best sellers and even make them win international prizes so that they can have credibility. You know these fools always believe anyone who has international credibility. Through these people, we shall alter many definitions in the dictionary. As you know, they believe everything they see in the dictionary.

Hahaha, they don't even know that we are trying to remake the definitions of father and mother. Very soon, a female can be called father and a male can be called mother. We shall call it gender methodology. Let them just wait. We will finish them. We shall also find ways to discredit those who write and speak the truth so they don't spoil our plan.

Don't forget we are still pretending. We shall confuse the social order so that we can wipe out billions from existence, this earth cannot contain all of us.. Let's have it to ourselves so that we can be immortal.

Ehe, make sure that those who champion our causes are properly brainwashed so that they can sell our ideas as though it is theirs. Don't let them them know we are using them. Hahahaha... Those people are very funny, how can they not see the obvious? Please don't add this part to the minutes of the meeting.

We shall reconverge. Please I hope you sealed the atmosphere, lest these Council people hear and see what we are doing. Especially that one that calls himself Gentle Inspirer. Let me not hear he heard these things.

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CCDav1:
So you self act in contrary to how the acting president acted?..In as much as we try to be nice to people when describing them,we learn to balance it up;we shouldn't do that at the expense of others just to get some undue attention.. If na appointment u dey find,u don enter voice mail..

Moral respect man but don't idolized them cause they can change any day.. Ekpe

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