Ok! IS all getting weird. The first lady and I have resolved all the issues.the second is difficult to break away from as she is even ready to get down with me(Which i keep avoiding because i do not want to hurt her).
Now,i want to stay away from the second and the third since is the first i sincerely love and we have resolved most of the issues we have been having for the past three months.How do i separate from these two other ladies without hurting their feelings?

try69: @op I need to knock u on the head. Maybe you will understand what a good mannered lady is worth when after marrying the first lady, you get re-occuring MIGRAINS..I thought maybe twas beauty that was gonna make you choose the first until the said the 2nd and even 3rd are equally beautiful..For me, the first geh will be last on my scale of preference while the 3rd second.

what if i still Love the first one? I know love is not enough to make this decision.But i know i still have so much of the first to drop even if i have to move on to either the second or the third

acidosis™:

You see, love is not all.. How can you cope with a nagging girl with bad attitude? There is no love without mutual cooperation. As you can see, the mother is the stock broker of the 1st relationship and for how long would she do that??


Now its obvious the family is interested in the 2nd virgin mary girl.. Show me a man that doesn't like a virgin girl, and I'll pour acid on his face
Mind you, Mr. Op approached her, she didn't come begging on her knees for marriage.


However, the 3rd only fell in the arms of this man unknowingly, he didn't woo her, and she didn't woo him.. they just met, slept together and now, she need marriage.

The third seems to always talk about marriage and this is getting pissed off even though i know i want to settle down. But the situation when a woman always talk about the ring.thats hard to deal with.

Dyt: Men and dere confused nature
U want a perfect babe wen u are half perfect
U ll continue datin diff babes and findin diff reasons u want dem
Wat can I say 2 a selfish n greedy man?

i am not selfish.the first lady started the whole problem,she wasnt communicating enough,she was highly immature,she just felt relax that she already got me and so wasnt doing anything. I have never cheated on her,her behavior made me to start looking at other girls,because i wasnt sure where she wants to be.

Hello guys..so i have this issue that has been disturbing me and i am close to losing focus at work.I have three serious relationship.I didn't intend to have all these relationships but the first girl started acting up,i started trying out other women.
First Lady: She is 23,we have been dating for 3 years,i have met her family.She is beautiful.But she has allot of immaturity stuffs.We have also had trust issue before and this still keep affecting us.She is the one i still really have full feelings for.But she has alot of attitude issues and her mum keep saying i should give her time that she will change.
Second Lady: Due to the nonchalant attitude of the first girl, i started dating even though the first relationship is still on,the second girl is very fine,tall and very homely.She is also from my Village which makes everyone in my house to like her.she is still a Virgin and she is 24 years old. I dont have intention to sleep with her until i am sure i want to ring her.
Third Lady: she is 26 years old,the most generous lady i have ever met. we started dating without even me noticing. she started committing,I had just moved into a new apartment,and i was stack broke, she took it upon herself to do all my Kitchen Furnishing,she is talking serious, she wants marriage obviously.I like her personality.
Now, my problem is,the first girl is the person my heart really wants,she is d person that i worry about most night. We haven't spoken in four days.She has accused me of not trusting her and that she is just worried things will get rough.
Despite these two other girls,i still cant stop missing or thinking about the first girl.
Should i just let the first girl go and deal with the two other girls? I am tempted to call the first girl but i do not even know how to start the conversation again.

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what do u mean something permanent? we have been dating for three years and our families are aware.my only concern is if she is emotionally ready for such level .

mondi_cheeks: U do deserve something permanent if that's what u are now looking for

Hello Guys,so been dating a wonderful lady for three years now.We met while i was in my final year in College and she was in 200 Level. Now she has graduated.But i have not really been able to start a discussion telling her that i will love to get married next year .I am 28 years old and my family members are already asking whats my next plan.Asides family asking,i also believe i am emotionally and financially ready to settle down.But my girlfriend seems not so ready probably due to her age.But i will really like to sit her down and discuss this issues with her and at the same time,i don't want her feel i might be walking out of the relationship if she says she isn't ready next year for marriage.I really Love her,but not sure i can wait too long to settle down..Your advice will be appreciated.

Being an Oracle DBA is beyond having Few certifications in Oracle.Yes,there are companies that are using Oracle,enough on ground,and i believe,if u can administer Oracle DB,u should be able to work around and DB software.My company implements quite few projects for some companies in Nigeria and mostly Oracle DB has been used.
.I will advise you get the Job before relocating just in case u are relocating to Nigeria.

WHENEVER I AM BORED.

people focus on Certifications and miss the real point of learning which is to be able to use what you are learning.sad.

mikkyphp: @bolof2000, i guess a suitable name for this thread should be UNIX Professionals as it's all encompassing and the father of all. then you can get guys from telecoms, service provider environments as well as enterprise contributing. It's cool. Unix is lovely,i work with Oracle Solaris 10, a little with red-hat back in my enterprise days.
I like your advice to Ganddy that he shouldn't focus on the exam, instead instead he should focus on knowledge. It's sad that a lot of people resort to certificate collection these days and not knowledge. Unix isnt for the faint hearted, you need to be willing to go all the way, and it certainly pays off in the end.

i cant email the OS cos is an iso. i have both red hat 5.4 and 6.1 enterprise. if u work on the island,let me know,i can make time to help u set up a Virtual machine that can let u practise for your exams .But i will advise you remove exam from your mind and just learn,understand and practice.that will give u the desire skills u want.Also,Ones u know how to use Linux,U can easily learn Unix(Solaris,HP-aix).So,focus on mastering the OS rather than focusing on just passing exams. i will email you soon.

Ganddy: @bolof2000, Im interested in the material, i just start learning Linux last month and also preparing for the LX0-101 exam. my email is knowiit247(at)gmail.com
I will appreciate if you can help me with RedHat OS. Have been trying the download but internet was too poor.

Thanks in anticipation

like i said,the red hat enterprise exams are lab based.. and i am not sure if they have started doing that in Nigeria. you have two exams to write RHCSA(used to be RHCT) and RHCE.
I will help u ask my guys if you can give this exam in Nigeria NOW.

good to see this forum alive, i started this forum wayback 2010 when i was really intrested in Learning Unix/Linux.I primarily work with that today.I think you can write RHCSA and RHCE in Nigeria,although is a Lab exam..meaning you have to face a practical lab of about six hours for both exams.Luckily,I did my training and exams for the two in India then.another thing you can do is to do the LPI exams since those ones are not lab based.But i guess it was really worth it then to have face a lab exams for Red hat enterprise Linux.the exams gives u the right equivalent challenge u do face in real enviroment. If you need materials for learning Red hat enterprise Linux,you can drop your email here,i will get back to you on that..

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hello guys,been using dis fone for about a month now,i subscribed to the 100mb of mtn,bt i keep finishing within one week.the fone behaves like a computer,already installed opera 10 on it,100mb just can do me with dis machine.is there any cheat i can install to browse free?have tried bolt and the rest,not working,guys using N900,what do u browse with?what browse with?what

@supababaen using the n900 for about a month.i think is the best smartfone,i can do everytin on it.once u do ur update,it clears all the recharging issues.uu can have a better battry usage if u reduxw the dispalce brightness.this fone can do everytin ur computer can do.since i got the fone,have not been vrosing on my laptop,the chat messenger is wonderful,text threaded,and so many tins .no regret buying the fone

been using the fone for like a month.is so cool and i can do everything i do on my pc on this fone.best brosing fone i know,my only concern is the battery.not very good.so i got to buy extra battery for it.am cool

just downloaded the pijgin for my nokia n900 still cant connect to any of the IM:I GUESSS THE SETTings is wrong.plz,i need guys to help me with the correct settings.the default settings for the im isnt connecting .

yeah.finally got the phone.am brosing with now.is like i am on my pc

YEAH, NL IS THE BEST.

FINALLY, I GOT THE FONE FROM A NAIRALANDER. I AM YET TO SEE THE FONE THOUGH. BT ALREADY PAID FOR IT, I HOPE I DONT REGRET SHA,

i feel your pain, God will  heal you. dont give up .you can still win sister.
as per your bf, just tell him whats going on. he  might be too broken if  he found out later
, i lost my best friend . he didnt let me know he was dying. up till date, i still ask why didnt he tell me who was dat sick.

just tell him  and God will heal his Heart

cheers

hmmmm, ok

yes, havent dated so much cos i havent seen the need. plux, i like to keep one girl at a time. i guess, am going to adopt Pharmking approach. thanks guys

so, becos you make love to your gf, u have to pay her for that. den, i shud go for ashawo den. seriously,  we are planning to settle down together. and so, thats the diffrent,