₦airaland Forum

ErebeOcoco:
I am proud to say my community is the safest in Cross River State.

After years of endurance in the hands of criminals, and cultists, the entire LGA decided to say enough is enough!
We rose up as one and put a stop to criminality and violence. Gang members were sent on exile. Notorious cultists were burnt alive. And so many rules to guide against violence in any form was enacted.

We live in peace here.

This was the exact template my community adopted that ruined her till this day.

Klass99:
I think it should be criminalized across Naija to curb the excesses and arrogrance of Naija men when it comes to adultery.

I say this as a single woman who has been at the receiving end of far too many advances from married men. Most of them see nothing wrong with adultery, they make all kinds of excuses and arguments, to justify why it is not wrong.

Some will even argue that it is not a sin, it is an expression of love and feelings between a man and a woman. The way we practice this religion in Naija is too much, we over do it, blah blah blah blah. This is the latest argument I heard from a 60 year old married man .

I prayed for the salvation of his soul today. A lot of them think the bible is a joke and God is joking when he lists adultery as a sin. Perhaps making it a criminal offence may help to reset or rewire their brains.

Child spotted.
What was the marriage style practiced in Africa before this botched Christianity we are practicing?
Why wasn't the man caught in adultery with the adulterous woman in the bible facing the death penalty?
Why did God promise David more wives if only he asked?
In all his wisdom and direct communication with God, why didn't God or any prophet caution Solomon when he took the 59th wife?

Treadway:
I have no problem with him trying to humble the other braggart, but the whole 'I will pack up and leave is just disingenuous'.

Even if they had done all 4/4 and the Briton won, Ifedayo certainly ain't going nowhere
Why mouthing off then?

At least that got his attention

Treadway:
no mind the loud mouth. Challenge the smelly braggart, no problem, but why include a condition you know damn well and good you won't follow through on?

Great Wole Soyinka sef no follow through on him threat, na Ifedayo go come follow through 🤣

Did you guys read where he said they did 2/4 of the requirements?

The guy did great by all standards.

Rossikk:
A Ugandan “leader”?

What kind of leader?

You think you just wake up and build a hospital?

Do you know if they have the doctors and required nursing staff in the area, or can afford equipment for a big hospital that can treat major illnesses like cancer?

It’s not something you just wake up and do because you think you have money.

You will just build an empty, deserted place if you are not careful.

Very simplistic reasoning by OP.

Ah yes, His Excellency, the CEO of Medical Tourism Uganda Ltd. 👏👏 A man who’s ruled for 38 years, watched his own country’s hospitals rot into cobweb museums, and then flies off to Germany whenever his blood pressure skips a beat—because apparently, “you don’t just wake up and build a hospital.” No, no—you wake up, ignore your health ministry, dismiss your own medical schools, build a cathedral for yourself, and outsource your kidneys to Europe. And if you dare question this logic, the healthcare experts in pajamas will remind you how “complex” hospitals are, how “doctors won’t show up,” and why it’s okay for you to die at a clinic without Panadol while the President receives a $200,000 German invoice—funded by your taxes, of course.

But let’s get “complex” with facts since that’s what you’re scared of:

Frankfurt University Hospital – $185 million

Essen University Hospital – $200 million

Viljandi Hospital, Estonia – $90 million

Costa del Sol Hospital, Spain – $90 million

Evora Public Hospital, Portugal – $210 million

That’s five full-scale European hospitals—built, staffed, equipped—for under $500 million total.

Meanwhile in Uganda:

$500 million+ lost every year to “non-essential spending”: convoys, Dubai workshops, and ACs for “fact-finding missions”

$2.2 million/year on VIP foreign medical trips

UGX 417 billion (USD $112M) for just State House operations in 2023

Over $4 billion lost to corruption in the last 10 years

But don’t you dare suggest building a proper hospital in Kampala—because, according to some, that’s just “too simplistic.” Better to fund German healthcare with Ugandan taxes than equip Mulago with a functional ICU.

Uganda could have built ten German-grade hospitals by now. Instead, it built one personal cathedral for a president who doesn’t even use local clinics. What’s next—importing caskets from Austria?

So next time someone says, “It’s not that easy to build a hospital,” ask them: Is it easier to charter a medevac to Berlin every flu season? Because Museveni sure makes that look simple.

CHILDREN SEF.

Bahamas95:
Professor Wole Soyinka no need for you to wait, roof immediately.

That is a non load bearing element and there are ties embedded in the roof beam that ties rather than nails to the room wall plate. Moreso, the facade serves as a formwork to the concrete.

I am only responding to your childisness maybe I might help your ignorance.

Bahamas95:
Just imagine the question someone is asking.

Later they'll start blaming village people when things go wrong.......Only Chinese technology can make that possible.

Knowledge has gone way past this level of reasoning.
Google plasticisers and rapid hardeners.

BTW, you can still continue roofing as hardening of concrete begins at least 8hrs after the pouring but creeps till 3days and then to 7 and 14. However, because the exterior parapet is a formwork in itself, it is ok to continue works.
Even with all these, I would wait for at least 3days just for surface hardening

atobs4real:
For safety purpose, please, calm down. Don't rush in and later rush out.
Wait for like 2 weeks or a month then continue. Those engineers are after what to earn
The more they wait, they sometimes been idle

Not entirely true.

CrisNews:
My Girlfriend went for a wedding and posted pictures from the event and I notice she Tagged her Ex-Boyfriend on the Facebook Post. On Easter, yesterday she also tag him on her post!

Should I confront her because I feel like something is wrong somewhere?

Advise me on what to do please

You sound like a kid
Here's your advice:
If you are in school, face your studies and when you make it, woman will try to be faithful to you.
The second is like the first, just face your hustle cos this relationship thing might not just be for you.

WhiteIverson:
No vex boss😕

Vex where? Far from it

WhiteIverson:
Boss😎
Do Easter for your boy

Oga, no be me resurrect na.

blacksam01:
When you approach the age 40, if you are observant, u will notice alot of changes in your life , both physically, mentality, health wise, and people's approach to u...

Some of this changes are listed below through person experience

People's approach to you

1. You will begin to notice the addition of "sir" when younger ones greet you.. this is not to say people don't greet you when you turned 30. But this time around alot of sir will accompany the greetings

2. Alot of aged ladies will b attracted to you if u are still single...

3. Almost everyone that doesn't know you will assume u are married if u are not by that age

3. Any kid playing around you will b assume to b your child by strangers

4. You will b gossiped about alot by everyone in your neighborhood if you are not married yet at that age
5. If u are single ,you will no longer b able to date young girls for two reasons:

1. Is the unmatched appearance together as society will speak about it too much
2. The girls will stylishly say no, cuz to them you are old.. remember u now have white beards and monstach

Physical changes

1. You will begin to grow grey hair from 35 up

2. Your face will naturally begin to drop from 38.. there will b this obvious daily deep lines running down from your nose sideways down to your side mouth... It will get deeper and more glaring with time

3. You mind will mostly be about finance and good life rather than women

4. You will not b able to jump wide gutters as easily as you previously can..not cuz you can't do it anymore, but your guts will fail u

5. If you are a fast worker, your speed will reduce

6. You may not easily get tired after long work, but your time for body restoration of your energy will now take longer

7. You will begin to wake late unless u maintained the alarm culture...to beat this u need to sleep early unlike the youths..

8. If you embark on a long road travel and you belong in the group of never sleeping in the bus, you will begin experience sleeping in the bus often..

9. From 35 up, u will lower your hair cuts and before or around 40 if u are not an obviously hairy person, u will move to barbing skin hair cut..this is because u will lose very visible part of your hair (baldness) and to measure it up will lead to u barbing skin...

Health changes

1. Family history health concerns will begin to show up..e.g bad eyesight. Etc

2. New set of age prone health issues will also become your concern as BP, low sugar, high sugar breathing problem will all b your concern...

3. Your prowess in the other room will reduce, urge is not affected, but efectiveness will..

From experience:
Get small money, younger girls will get attracted to you, not because you are single but because they believe you are married and can spend small change.
Work your way up before 40 to some people that matter and rather than people calling you sir, you might still be doing sir yourself.
Kids playing around kwa. In naija dem go think say you wan use the pikin for ritual. Bottom line; try get money so kids won't play around you anyhow. Cos kids playing around you for slum Vs kids playing around you for lush no be the same effect.
Again, poverty got this one. If you surround yourself with broke people, they will talk about any and everything. Imagine your wealthy neighbour talking about your age related circumstances. So this also is location based
Hair is true but personally I only grey with increased stress. Once I take away the stress, I hardly find a strand of grey hair.
Face dropping must be hereditary in my opinion. Increased and unburnt face fat should be blamed not age. Even if age can cause that, it shouldn't be around 35
As a man with small change, even if it's true that you will focus more on finances, there is this subtle power you get from being able to get most women and yes your thinking about women will increase rather than reduce. I think poverty won on this one too.
Wide gutters, lol. At this age your mind tells you that you are still 25 so you will be jumping anything and there's no restrictions. That's why some people die on woman because your body doesn't want to accept but you are still able to jump. In the abroad, 40 is not even regarded as the start of old age and yet they do very physical activities.
The sleeping in bus is still poverty related as with most other one.
Baldness is true to some extent and that is if there is a family history of it. In the absence of that, your hair will still be intact sef.
With regular check-up and balanced diet and exercise, most of the family history traits can be controlled and should not be seen as a must.

All my opinion though because I no wan fight

columbus007:
The simple reason is.. Black people are naturally dirty, you can't find a white guy who uses towels and find stain in it, that's why they don't like us.. Simply truth.

You are annoyingly stupid for insulting this race that I am so proud of. I want to believe you have not been up close to the skin you so adore and worship.

GistMedia0:
A photos showing Abdulhamid Yahaya Abba, the Senior Special Assistant (SSA) to the President on Community Engagement, North East Region, distributing water to residents of Bauchi LGA via a tanker has sparked heated reactions.

The community members were seen lining up with buckets to fetch water from the tanker, an act that many Nigerians found troubling. Social media users questioned why the SSA opted for a temporary solution instead of funding a borehole that would provide sustainable access to clean water.

Critics argue that such water distribution methods only highlight the government's failure to provide basic infrastructure. Some residents expressed frustration, saying they need a permanent water supply, not periodic tanker distributions.

My concern is even the tanker he used.

shivisee:
Im 100% certain ,the money I sent to Nigeria this month to feed my dogs will feed your family and extended family for 2 years !

You are calling brokeness to yourself.

Everyday365:
night ends by 11:59pm.

That is not correct

Nnamdipapa:
I used to dream about leaving Nigeria and staying abroad when I was younger, I hated Nigeria and fantasized about abroad like most people today. abroad was like heaven to me and now, it is a 360-degree turn for me, In fact, there was a day this past January I slept and dreamt about being in Lagos, having fun at a club, I was so happy in that dream and enjoying myself until I heard my name called, I woke up to my daughter calling my name to come drop her off in the school. I woke up to snow and a minus 15 degree Celsius of temperature and I got angry immediately for waking up. That is how bad it is but most people never want to admit it.

People will not take you seriously bro.
If I get a good job offer, I am hopping on the next flight back to naija. I don tire.

WowSweetGuy:
Contribute give me and see wonders. It's normal to gain in a contract but Nigerians go overboard. He go soon claim the money has finished then una contribute more and then again he buys his latest car in his mind and fund his life well

Because of such talks, he plainly said it wasn't the donated funds that was used.
Reduce hate.

RSAV:
Experienced parents please comment.
My 3 year old daughter, she would be 4 years old in Feb, is sharp and very bright.
It only happened occasionally that she would pee on herself. Usually when engrossed in cartoon.

However, it the last 4 weeks, it has become an everyday occurrence.
She would even poo on herself!

I've talked to her, yet no serious change.
I just had a baby boy few weeks ago. Could this be responsible for the change in my daughter? If yes, how best can it be handled? It's already affecting her in school.

Hi,
Disregard all those religious bigots and know that kids get engrossed to things like that.
Firstly, my son was introduced at a very early age to cartoons and I must tell you, he was smarter than most kids in his class when he eventually got into school.
Secondly, there's no spiritual implications to this as kids will be kids.
I advise that you stop listening to stupid people and take proactive steps to help the kid.
Try establish a routine with her toilet times whether she wants to use or not.
You could try say 3 hourly and if accidents still happen, reduce the time till you get the effective time interval.
If possible, get cartoons that encourage toilet times and other personal hygiene routines.

TemplarLandry:
Demonic influence!
What's happening to this kid is one of the consequences of feeding a child with cartoons. Some even start making strange sounds.

I expect agents of darkness to troop in to downplay the spiritual. They trap people with ignorance.

Can you be civil?

femi4:
He said something about God's original plan. How did you miss that. How can talking about divorce does not involve marriage? Even his disciples mentioned "not to marry' in verse10

For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate

Why then,” they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?”

8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”

10 The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.”

Did Jesus mention wives in his submission?

... Commits adultery because the woman is no longer in marriage and that is the adultery.

Righteousness2:
True Repentance means turning away from your evil deeds.
Repentance means making right your wrongs.

Read The Conversion story of the tax collector in Luke 19 Zaccheus .

You cant remain with the sin and claim you are saved. You are deceiving yourself.

A Sinner is not a Christian. 1 john 3:8
A Christian is not a Sinner 1 John 3:9

True repentance of a man with more than one woman will entail him settling all his sin partners , sending them back to their parents and making peace with his 1st legally married Wife.
This is true Repentance.

Any other thing is you Deceiving yourself.

Do you even own a bible?
Where did you get such destructive advice from?

Polygamy wasn't not expressly condemned in the Bible as monogamy wasn't expressly recommended.

Let people go to God in spirit and truth and not all these doomsday messages you preach.

PeterObi4Presid:
Business is really hard in Nigeria if you are not there 247,
We are too wicked, greedy and dishonest.

Less than a week, I employed this boy o, to manage my gas filling retail business and POS.
He displayed passion, initiative and experience about the gas filling business and handling of POS....so I just took the chance, we also speak same language. I've been acting nice and all but I think I now know why most Nigerian bosses are mean to their workers by default
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Now from first cylinder we couldn't account for 10kg
Second cylinder was started today by him......when I told him to calculate everything sold from first cylinder based on daily record book ....it felt short of 10kg
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From the sales from second cylinder that started today, The account book does not tally with what is remitted through ATM/POS mode of payment .....I dint know this until I checked my Moniepoint acct as I got home now cos my phone was dead before I went to the shop this evening
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Even the POS part of the business does not tally with the cash I gave him this morning for people who need cash withdrawal
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I'm boiling right now realizing the boy had lied to me when balancing the account this night using the record book, only to get home and power my phone to see cash fell short of 23k in my monie point acct linked to the POS
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How do you handle boys who think they are smarter than you because theyve been in the business before?
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And what are your experiences with dishonest workers in your business , especially this gas retail business or POS business
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Modoified: how do I handle this case now....cos my mind is just boiling ....how can a new business fall short of 38k in less than 7 days...

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Before you allege theft, it is better to make sure that it is not a honest calculation error or he himself is a victim of fraud.
Most family and friends that handle POS businesses themselves usually have these complaints.

immortalcrown:
Stop running around the bush. Go straight to your point. Are you saying that it is right for a Christian to use intimacy gadgets?

Grow above right or wrong and seek a personal relationship with God. Peace out

immortalcrown:
I admit that classifying the use of an intimacy gadget as adultery may be wrong.

But you are wrong for saying that the use of the gadget is right with the husband's approval.

Have you not noticed that the Bible didn't spend so much time talking about sin and the devil?
It has always being about the body which is capable of committing unspeakable sins and Christ has redeemed us
The use of intimacy gadgets can be wrong because 9/10 one can get some health challenges, delusional, addicted, self pity, etc. the major problem here is the consequences and not the act itself. Especially addiction because that is when the devil comes in to keep one in it for so long affecting the natural use of the Instruments.

immortalcrown:
What exactly is your point? Are you saying that it is right for a Christian to use intimacy gadgets?

What is your point?
Are you saying that as a Christian, you should be hypocritical?
If bible verses cannot be used to counter what I have said, then I am afraid personal experiences and what GO said will not cut in for you.

immortalcrown:
I admit that classifying the use of an intimacy gadget as adultery may be wrong.

But you are wrong for saying that the use of the gadget is right with the husband's approval.

The bible admonishes that, if we cannot control the passion, we should get married.
Now see the scenario differently from a judgemental standpoint.
She and her husband obeyed and got married. Life happens and working as a man is part of what has been instilled in a man.
There's no way, he would just come back and they must have thought it wouldn't take this long.
Tinubu has finished the country and if he didnt leave, he would have been broke having sex with his wife without the ability to feed her - which is worse?
In marriage, almost everything is permissible. Even the bible enjoins that fasting can be cancelled if your partner wants sex.

shortgun:
The Bible calls it sexual immorality and it's a sin before God.
Marriage means two people coming together,staying together and becoming one.
Many marriages today just like yours are not marriages but two people deceiving each other.

For your information, sexual immorality encompasses, activities that go against the natural use of our Instruments: Mouth Action, anal, plate licking, rimming, etc

immortalcrown:
Self control is among the qualities of a Christian. Control yourself until your husband is available for you.

As long as the sexual pleasure does not come from your husband, you are cheating on him and committing adultery. It doesn't matter whether the cheating is with another man or with a gadget. You sharing your husband's entitlement with a gadget is the same as sharing the entitlement with another man.

In conclusion, seeking or getting sexual satisfaction from any source (even masturbation) other than from your spouse is a sin. In fact, using an intimacy gadget is a higher level of masturbation.

For those who will want to challenge my comment, remember that my response is from a Christian perspective because the post is about a Christian. I responded with what is biblically right. I responded with what is expected of a Christian. So, as you disagree with my comment, remember that the topic is about Christian life.

As a Christian, I am compelled to respond to you.
It is too hasty to say using intimacy gadgets is outrightly a sin.
Also if you study the meaning of adultery right, you will find using intimacy gadgets does immediately qualify. Adultery simply means breaking wedlock, often by a woman. She's still in wedlock and until she leaves the husband, whether physically by divorce, sleeping with another man, having another man constantly on her mind or just simply walking out of the marriage.
The gospel of Christ shouldn't be used to condemn people and definitely shouldn't be about what sin is and is not.
Lastly, in my opinion, if the husband is aware and gives approval, it's okay for her not to burn in passion.
If you are still not ok, respond to this so we open the Bible.

Assuming all items are of same value. Each will be bought at N4.67m?
Abi my math is wrong?