DannyG8: Good morning ladies and gentlemen I need your advice please no insult
I met a girl early this year we became friends after sometimes we started dating everything was going well we are both in love until till last week she told me that someone went to her uncle telling the uncle that he wants to marry her outside her own knowledge she then her uncle has been pestering her to stick to the guy
She told me about it according to her she done love the guy but her uncle was the one who train her because she lost her parents at a very young age so he (uncle) told her if she done get alone with the guy she should forget about her school
For me I done really know what to do because I am just in middle
The uncle is even forcing her to spend weekend with the guy and even visit him
What should I do
She's playing you for real. That's a half baked story she's telling you and I am certain she too the other guy to the uncle.
MufasaLion: Lies. What's the name of the village? Who are the witnesses?
Ok. Go to my village Okrika or ask anyone that's from there and raise the discussion about burying someone with a metal object or a disease. My grandmother walked the entire village just 4 days after her burial, we forgot earrings on her. She was telling everyone to help remove her earrings, YES! Physically too. Someone I know travelled all tge way to Owerri to visit his baby mama and to give her instructions on how to take care of their son say 3 days after he was killed by the German confraternity in a cult clash. The family of the girl were shocked when they were called to inform them of his death. No made up stories. His name is Julius and a national of the KKK. ASK ABEG
Me I won't even have you come to my compound with truck to pick things because you must send people instead Go and apologize and mind you that you have sown a seed in your husband and in fullness of time he will do similar.
Registeredguest: I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.
I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)
Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.
After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...
Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says "I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.
3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.
My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.
How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.
No insult please, I have cried enough.
If you don't mind him doing everything in his name now and when he "hammers" big time then your actions are justified otherwise it's appalling to even read that you insisted to buy the land yourself. An adulterous woman is the woman that breaks wedlock.
faceland: I have forgotten the famous investor that said "avoid unlucky people and unlucky places".
Sometimes, people are messed up because they have behavioral issues. By helping them, you also get disorganized/cursed.
You are not a producer so why sign contract with a destitute, then bring the dirty thing with his smelling dreadlocks into your house? It is better to take in stray dog that just want food but would alert you of invaders.
ZeroAccess: He said employ 60% of Anambra people not population. Some of you are just to dull to comprehend simple statement. Urchins don't have data to watch the video.
They have tried and tried but yet can't find anything on him.
Urchins I don't reply mention so don't bother. Cos you will have
ZeroAccess# to me
Moreso, it should be employable Anambra people. Abeg I am not partisan oh, nobody should quote me
efelicity: I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.
I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.
She just simply got tired of your attitude. Believe me she had piled issues upon issues and can no longer endure you.
lawrenzooo: Here is what my married friend told me "don't ever allow your wife know how much you are earning because if she knows she would keep demanding until she is sure you salary is finished". That was his on personal experience. According to him he didn't tell his wife about subsequent promotions.
It means his wife is not responsible. Telling my wife as it is has saved me a while lot of stress because she plans accordingly. Know your spouse because there's is no right or wrong way of doing this.
Pandev: Tinny voice nigga been dey scam im mumu followers. Niggas talk say na only 2 pairs of shoes im get, zombiedients talk say na commercial im dey fly say im no dey give shi shi. We don see im oyel and soap, now we don see private jet. Watch as zombiedients go claim say na yeebos wey dey sell gala for old up sponsor the journey
I have flown with him before in commercial not just once.
Chioma4eva: I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?
IMO After ladies present themselves as a worthy prize to be won, we go all out to win her over and when you finally win her, all manner of bad habits start manifesting. From dirty undies, to smelly pussy to laziness and the ones to puts me off the most, GAS has finished, DStv, lunch etc. There was one innocent girl I kept chasing hoping that we would have a long lasting relationship and we finally started officially only for the requests to start trooping in. From suck my vj to gas to dstv to no transportation to wor
Michelle70: Time is just 4:19 I dreamt 3times this night, all about dead people.
It's a rare privilege and comes with great responsibility. The problem here is that, if you successfully convey a message, more will come to seek your assistance. Its just a sign that you are spiritual beyond what they practice is all religions. Try to be good to people and always put your heart on God. Cheers
Righteousness2: The speed at which the devil is going all out with to confuse humanity in these Last of the Last days is Fearful.
She how the wicked devil has taken over a Man made in image of GOD and turned him into a confused being.
The Worse of all how the devil blinds u to see how irritating you are in these abominations.
LORD JESUS, I commit this young man into your Hands. Have mercy upon him and redeem him before it is too late.
Before we blame the devil or condemn this he/she, we should remember that some of these are just birth defects that are purely biological. His brain tells him he's a woman and you say he's a man because of manly features.
Ginaz: Good evening house. My phone got stolen last year November. The thief cut my window net and stole my phone along with the charger through the window. I woke up around 4.a.m searching for my phone with no success till I looked at the window and saw the big hole staring at me. I was so shocked is an understatement.
I have replaced my phone but right now I wake up in the night and start looking for my phone even if I must have safely keep it.
I wake up and first thing I search for, is my phone. I open eyes, first thing I want to see, is my phone.
How do I stop this biko? Who have experienced this? Is it panic attack or what?
Weld a tiny hole wire gauze at the bottom of the window
Rwand: Good morning. Please I'd love to find someone who resides in ABJ. I plan on relocating to Abj and I would love to find an agent who could help me search for a good place to live or anyone at all who can do that.
BenedictStinson: You can maybe defer till January so you still have 2 cards in your pocket which is just about 6 months away. If you have already waited 33months what's an extra 6
You can't tell the depression the wait causes. Like for close to 3yrs, I haven't achieved any long term goal
As you may know already, Aussie and Canada share information. It will be wise to declare what you have going on with the Aussies. Aside from this, if the delay with your Aussie PR application that's why you are intending to apply for the Canadian study permit, IRCC may also give you a run for your patience.
Except that the PR application is not sure, then it will be a good idea to proceed with your study plans in Canada, which also serves as a good backup. Australia is a very good country with almost the same way of life as Canada and New Zealand, but more expensive to live in.
The length of your program will not pose any harm to your study permit application nor will a financial deed gift. If you intend to get a study loan from an individual or any persons not related to you, it will be wise not to tag it as a study loan as it may reduce the ability to demonstrate your level of economic establishment in your country. Rather it could be tagged as a loan/debt repayment or return on investment backed with adequate documentation.
Best of Luck
Great insights, Thanks. The PR process is sure but as human, waiting 33months for anything has left devastating consequences on my mental health.
Malone122: bad idea I won’t advise you to waste such amount for a course of 8 months If the Australia PR is certain focus on that if you was to focus on Canada it’s advisable you go for at least a 2 year course faster process to PGWP then PR.
I know but naija tire me. I opted for that because it was the only available one this month. Thanks
Osemigho: If your Austrailian PR is sure and happening soon, dont come and waste money on schools in Canada. Canada and Australia cultures are similar due to effect of European domination and colonization. Generally, people earn more in Australia. Your eight month course of 17k is also an expensive bad idea. You can use that money to settle properly in Australia after your PR. Trust me, you will need the money badly to make your life easier in the first few months. Focus on Australia if it is near and sure. Expect there is more to it, Canada for you is a distraction and waste of money.
There's nothing more except for the fact that I am tired of living here and I have been waiting for Aussie for 33months for an initial timeline of 7months and lost faith in the process.
Hello great people. Please be kind enough to help me out. I have been an ardent follower of UK and Aussie migration routes so I didnt try to know much about Canny waka. My scenario I got disappointed by my UK school and I immediately read through this thread and eventually got an admission offer from a College in Ontario for September intake for a course of 8months with a total tuition fee of $17k I need to pay $9.6k for acceptance but the issue is I have just the tuition fee and not the living expenses of $10k. Also, I am far gone in my Aussie movement and can get PR anytime soon so not too keen about the Canada PGWP even though I want it. Strong ties is a business, landed inheritance, nuclear and aged parent. Please advise: Will the course duration pose a problem at the visa office? Can a gift deed of over $10k affect my chances? Can I get study loans for that duration also considering that it is from a college? If there are loan agents willing to offer a loan, and I present a Canadian cosigner, will this also affect my application? Can I use a loan from an individual and show evidence of same? Should I mention my Australian visa application during interview? My tuition deposit for the UK school is yet to drop in my account, can I initiate another form A payment? ie if it still works. Should I even try to go further?
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Who have experienced this? Is it panic attack or what?