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HealthRe: President Rajoelina: "WHO Offered $20M Bribe To Poison Madagascar COVID-19 Cure" by Bonapart(m): 2:42pm On May 16, 2020
JAOS:
fake news
fake brain
FamilyRe: My Journey To Motherhood by Bonapart(m): 12:10pm On May 15, 2020
Acidosis:
Congratulations sis. Love the conclusion:
stupid conclusion for atheist to feed on
FamilyRe: My Journey To Motherhood by Bonapart(m): 12:10pm On May 15, 2020
Omojudy:
I think it's time I dropped my childbearing story.

Thirteen years ago, aged 22, I married right out of university without the wisdom to realise the importance of finding my feet first. My husband was 11 years older than me. He wasn't rich but I thought we loved each other. Youth service year I conceived but lost it right out of service.

Hubby was helped to get a good job, stable government job by my family. When I lost my first pregnancy, we were staying a few months with his parents due to our financial situation, my father in law said to me after that loss while my husband travelled "did your ladies in the water say to you that the day you give birth you would die?"

With the new job right after the loss, we moved back home and continued our lives. Three more miscarriages came along with many drama ranging from deliverances to traditional midwives to in law's commanding the home.

Finally one day almost 5 years later, hubby travels and his father calls my aunty to tell her that "they don't want to marry their daughter again". I was at work when aunty broke the news to me. I travelled that night to the inlaws with my aunty and grand mother to beg, we were not given audience. They didn't even open their gate despite we could see my husband's car in the compound.

At 9pm my companions begged me to go home with them, I refused and chose to spend the night in a shed close by. The was no electricity in the neighbourhood, everywhere was dark. At midnight Power was restored, and from the shed I was hiding, I saw my father in law walking round the compound spraying incense, (he attended celestial church) I call out to him "daddy, daddy" obviously he hears me but does like I am a ghost.

At that point, I knew I was wasting my time, I started trekking. I trekked to the motor park which was very far, vigilantes stopped me numerous time and my tearful face made them not question me too much......a lot of drama in between, I traveled back and resume dwork while praying and fasting for his return. Mehn I lost weight without even trying. I met many scam pastors which are another story.........

One day, I suddenly realized I may have the password to hubby's Facebook, I tried it and it worked. What I saw pained me but it gave me strength knowing the break up wasn't because of anything he was accusing me of (like saying a pastor revealed to him that I was sent into his life by Kingdom of darkness to destroy him. To this I asked if Kingdom of darkness gave jobs, he said he has repaid me ie Kingdom of darkness back in connecting me to the job I had then which didn't last. Oh he wanted me to be paying my salary to him by the way).

So I got some courage to begin living again at this point and apply for a divorce. To this he also said "that good wives wait for their husbands no matter how long they go, but me I ran to apply because I want to remarry."

We got to court and he was accompanied by his father and them claiming that hubby didn't abscond but I did. Guess they were afraid I wanted to request compensation. Walking out of court, his father waves at me and I wonder why.
He was barely divorced then remarried and yes has kids now. Things went sour with my place of work and I relocated to a bigger city and that was my fresh start.

Met my husband two years after the divorce, I hid nothing from him especially my challenges with infertility. We got married same year. And got pregnant and miscarried. Second pregnancy for now hubby, I was put on cerclage, yet the pregnancy still ended and I almost ended with it as my body was going into shock due to its inability to dispel the dead foetus since a cerclage held the products in.

I had an history of pregnancy losses at 14 weeks. After 8 miscarriages and no living child, I visited more hospitals, met insensitive money alone conscious doctors, finally a correct diagnosis was made.

I had no demons worrying me, my womb was just too small to carry to term, it wasn't expanding with the pregnancies. An hysteroscopy was the procedure used to diagnose this.

Getting a diagnosis at last was some sort of relief, but what can we do doctor I asked? Doctor said "have you considered adoption?" I was shattered.

I went home and discussed it with my husband. We agreed to adopt and we applied two years ago. We only just got feed back few weeks ago from them self.

Then one day I was on social media and I saw someone advertise needing a surrogate and like a light bulb the idea stuck, I wrote to the woman and we started chatting. One day her Status said she needed someone to donate blood for a relative of hers and I say where to an online stranger I had never met. That was the first day I met my good friend Mrs R. I also put up an advert for a surrogate as I couldn't afford to the price agencies were charging. After two bad experiences, I finally got one good person that we could afford. And God just sent money mysteriously.

Then when God wants to turn your story around, you know it's just your time. I paid for one cycle at the hospital we used, already looking for money in case the first cycle did not work, guess what?

IT WORKED! MY TWIN DAUGHTERS ARE 3 MONTHS OLD NOW.

This is not your everyday testimony, I no get time to dey give testimony like some people wey go go church dey say "after waiting for 20 years, God blessed us with triplets, tell the journey when telling your testimony sisters, don't let the holy sister at the back waiting for a similar miracle be thinking God doesn't answer her prayers. Be real, stop pretending.

Edited:
Please someone take me to front page for the first time in my life na. ����
madam you started well and ended very badly in trying to discredit the work of God. Life itself is a waste of time no matter your achievement. Heaven alone counts. Congratulations mrs surrogacy or whatever its called
PoliticsRe: Hope Uzodinma Pays N8M To Fulani Herdsmen Who Lost Their Cows by Bonapart(m): 5:18am On May 15, 2020
Tissaia:
Good gesture
Some people will come and shout nonsense, but when the Fulani herdsmen come for revenge they will run and later disturb us on social media

If your enemy is secure at all points, be prepared for him. If he is in superior strength, evade him. If your opponent is temperamental, seek to irritate him. Pretend to be weak, that he may grow arrogant. If he is taking his ease, give him no rest. If his forces are united, separate them. If sovereign and subject are in accord, put division between them. Attack him where he is unprepared, appear where you are not expected .
Sun Tzu, The Art of War
and this one saw 4 walls of education. May God help me
HealthRe: Rachel The Piper Foundation Reaches Out To The Poor by Bonapart(m): 11:15am On May 14, 2020
Modern day given. Camera and eyesight things.

God reward you all
HealthRe: Masturbation Has Caused Me Erectile Dysfunction. Help!! by Bonapart(m): 4:01am On May 13, 2020
Lostz:
seek medical advice. God did not take your erection away
you must be feeling high above now seeing all these likes. But let me tell you, going off the track isn't much a bad sin but swaying others out of the path of truth is dangerous and God frowns at it. Peace
Christianity EtcRe: Prophet Odumeje: Native Doctor Performs Rituals Against Chukwuemeka Ohanemere by Bonapart(m): 9:03am On May 11, 2020
MERCHANDISER:
Did You Call Odumeje a Fake Pastor ? You need to read this !
I see some Christians posting all sorts of bad contents regarding
Odumeje. This is wrong on every sides, because i have come to
understand that pastors are not perfect like we make them to
be.
I had previously chosen to just ignore but let me state that
Odumeje's crime is his inability to not speak English and his love
for casual outfits.
Odumeje has not done half of what your favourite pastors have
done, i hope you are cognozant of this fact, because i grew up in
the church.
While your pastor is buying private Jets, building world standard
edifices and schools that your children cant afford to attend,
Odumeje was giving Money to fire victims, food to the poor and
building roads.
While your pastor was allegedly looking for another female
victim to exploit sexually, Odumeje was showing his wife love
and being a father to his beautiful children.
Were we not here when Pastor Adeboye asked people to donate
1billion each? Were we not here when your GO in Abuja asked
his members to Jump into the cleansing Pool for 50k? Are you
not aware that your pastors sell mantle and olive oil?
While your Pastors move around with Armed men, Odumeje is in
the street mixing with street boys and girls, maybe thats why you
call him a fake prophet.
People that couldnt critisize the COZA pastor are insulting
Odumeje and thats laughable.
Some of your pastors have been banned from entering some
countries because of fraud, are you aware ?
Odumeje dances "in a worldly fashion" but your suit wearing and
English speaking pastor wines and dines with corrupt politicians.
I can go on and on but let me not open fowl nyash.

Things that
will make u a man of God

1: Your relationship with God

2. Your way of life

3: And ur spiritual background. Pls deduct that mindset that
reading ur bible, speaking good English we make u a man of
God
people like you can't lead a family. God help you
HealthRe: Nurses In Ogun Wear Polythene Bags To Treat Suspected COVID-19 Patient (Photo) by Bonapart(m): 9:25pm On May 04, 2020
Officialgarri:
The French doctors suggested that vaccines should be tested in Africa and everyone was hauling insults at them......
they should start with your father then mother and later all your siblings before your miserable self
Foreign AffairsRe: Kim Jong-Un Makes A Public Appearance For The First Time In Weeks by Bonapart(m): 12:13pm On May 02, 2020
Corporate2020:
Yes, to balance the equation. The other miscreant tweeting and babbling while Corona Virus continues killing his people in thousands needs to be checked. Checks and balances make the world worthy
terrorist
PoliticsRe: MURIC Tasks Obiano On Muslims In Anambra by Bonapart(m): 1:00pm On Apr 29, 2020
Mumuric
HealthRe: Dead Body On Busy Kano Road Sparks Fear Among Residents by Bonapart(m): 11:13am On Apr 29, 2020
solmus:
shocked



Civid 19.. Aboki go still call am polio , typhod and malaria

Bill Gates and Melinda Foundation don't just speak without facts, they where the ones who invested their own money in putting a stop to polio that all most crippled a good percentage of northerners, they funded research, and personally travelled to affected African countries to inspect the distribution so as to avoid corruption, they where responsible for battling child birth mortality and many more, so when they speak they have facts

Its a shame when Bill Gate told Buhari to his face that his long term financial plan and budgeting was wrong and he should focus more on human capital development rather than infrastructure, many argued, ... again he advised more funding of WHO so as to help poor countries in Africa but people rather supported Donald Trump who thinks Africa is shithole, and has never spent a kobo in Africa

Now Melinda gates prediction is happening in Kano state and ironically Bill Gate had visited Kano State several times on request of Dangote

.
trash
Christianity EtcRe: Police Arrest Mubarak Bala For “Blasphemy” by Bonapart(m): 10:41am On Apr 29, 2020
HIbreed:
Christianity has done what Islam will never ever do when it comes to terrorism and killings .it just got reformed over time because the Europeans that invented got tired of it and it's nonsense.

The transatlantic slave trade was founded on Christianity. That's just one example of the evils of the religion and how it hurt and killed millions of people here in Africa.

Christianity did more worse in the 18th century and down.

I guess you do not know much about Christianity and its spread throughout the World.

In a bid to spread and convert people Christians killed millions of people.

Religion itself unleashes terror where ever it goes.
trash and lots of trash. I know phools like you will still find a way to navigate it to Christianity. Terrorists everywhere
PoliticsRe: Wike Orders Immediate Deportation Of Almajiris From Rivers State by Bonapart(m): 10:39pm On Apr 28, 2020
Yenefer:
I'm also a proud terrorist
there is an to every evil so also evil people. Hope you prepared to meet your 72 Male virgins as promised to you by your book
CelebritiesRe: Adunni Ade Goes Back To Islam, Leaves Christianity. Feels Fulfilled & Happier by Bonapart(m): 1:26pm On Apr 28, 2020
Mineisgrace:
More like jumping from frying pan to fire.
We all make bad choices atimes, christ is always welcoming



To those evil people quoting me with insult, I hope it's best you know, "No one comes to the Father except through the son, which is christ Jesus". Christ is the only way. Jesus loves you
Cc seetto Heistman Kingzeez10 solmus
preach it gehl
CelebritiesRe: Adunni Ade Goes Back To Islam, Leaves Christianity. Feels Fulfilled & Happier by Bonapart(m): 1:24pm On Apr 28, 2020
missimelda01:
Her mother is a Christian but not a practicing one, what does that mean? huh
means there Is no Christian in that house
PoliticsRe: Wike Orders Immediate Deportation Of Almajiris From Rivers State by Bonapart(m): 1:20pm On Apr 28, 2020
Yenefer:
Our people to need reduce giving birth to children that they cannot take care of. Alamjiri is a hausa thing not islamic. I'm always ashamed of seen this little children begging. Imagine this criminal, alcoholic rubbing it on our faces

PS people saying Almajiri is a Muslim things named any Muslim countries with Almajiri besides nigeria.
daughter of a terrorist
PoliticsRe: MURIC Says Kano Deaths Suggest Plot To Depopulate Muslims by Bonapart(m): 1:16pm On Apr 28, 2020
This evil man Is a disgrace to anything that breath.
Yorubas in the house, you wanna tell me you cant see that this man is mole in yoruba land. The earlier y'all wake up the better for you!
Science/TechnologyRe: Coronavirus: Space Crew Return To Very Different Earth by Bonapart(m): 11:01am On Apr 19, 2020
Blackfire:
When will Nigeria go to space??
lol. People actually believe that these people are truly leaving earth. Lol
Christianity EtcRe: Priest Patrick Asomugha Leaves German Church After Receiving Death Threat by Bonapart(m): 10:50am On Apr 19, 2020
itsme01:
cool


Ibos and Victim mentality.. unless I hear the story from the locals I wont take an Ibo man's word for anything

If you doubt my comment, check their replies to my personal opinion.. its all insult and insult, but should you insult them back they cry and call all sort of names to emotionally black mail you

.
may God forgive you. You are loved
PoliticsRe: People Hails Kemi Olunloyo As Abba Kyari’s Death Is Announced by Bonapart(m): 1:56pm On Apr 18, 2020
Accept Jesus while you still can
Christianity EtcRe: Is 3 O'Clock The Most Effective Hour To Pray?? by Bonapart(m): 10:05am On Apr 12, 2020
Is the hour I do see visions. Is the hour to pray
PoliticsRe: Governor Zulum Surprises Obiageri Mazi, Igbo Woman Teaching In Borno For 31Years by Bonapart(m): 4:46pm On Feb 08, 2020
Ezewuzie01:
gringrin T.A. Orji who even sacked teachers who were Igbo because they were not Abia indigenes. This kind of gesture will be impossible in Igboland. We Igbos hate ourselves deeply talk more of loving others.
mumu abok!. You're igbo in your dream
PoliticsRe: Governor Zulum Surprises Obiageri Mazi, Igbo Woman Teaching In Borno For 31Years by Bonapart(m): 4:44pm On Feb 08, 2020
Shettima the boko haram sponsor
PoliticsRe: Governor Ganduje Snubs Prophet Chukwuemeka Odumeje Ohanaemere (Video) by Bonapart(m): 8:53pm On Feb 07, 2020
b3llo:
All this people deserve this treatment.

What is the correlation between Pulpit and Politics?

Hardly will u see mallam openly doin this!
no.
But they openly strap bombs in their bodies and blow people up. Openly sleeping with toddlers in fulfilling Muhammed's quest

Nonsense and islam
PoliticsRe: Truck Driver In Court For Obstructing Osinbajo’s Motorcade In Lagos by Bonapart(m): 4:46pm On Feb 07, 2020
Lol. Mistake of a government


Never again
PoliticsRe: Amotekun: Akeredolu Says Recruitment Forms Will Be Ready Next Week by Bonapart(m): 7:06am On Feb 07, 2020
The whole Nigeria has awoken to what Nnamdi kanu saw years ago
PoliticsRe: Sultan Rubbishes "Operation Shege Ka Fasa" Outfit by Bonapart(m): 7:01am On Feb 07, 2020
Lol. Northern elders are boko haram and boko haram are northern elders. The Sultan is making a little bit of sense.

Where is Akintola Muric the c^ck sucking moda f'cking head slamming bastaard
Christianity EtcRe: CAN Debunks Allegation Of Enugu Government Building Islamic Centre In Uwani by Bonapart(m): 9:05pm On Feb 06, 2020
Amotolongbo:
Since when has CAN become the mouthpiece of a state government?

They are so happy to announce the approval of a new chapel building and shout down the rumor of a mosque being built.

Hope CAN will do the same when opposing issue arises in another state?
go blow yourself up. East is Christian states. No room for Muhammadians and their fairy tale allah
SportsRe: Eric Abidal Will Retain His Job At Barcelona Despite Messi Criticism by Bonapart(m): 2:32pm On Feb 06, 2020
Astark:
I know very much you are not a Barcelona fan, you are a rival fan that want Barca to fail and I understand how painful it is seeing Messi in Barca.

Ronaldo asked for a pay raise in Madrid and threaten to leave if his wish wasn't granted, Perez threw him out because he wasn't important and even gave his number 7 Jersey to another player.

That's the difference between a loyal and a merchandise, Messi is even more powerful than the club president because he was there when Barcelona was nothing (like arsenal) and help us to become the most valuable club and biggest club in the world.

If Messi was to leave Barcelona, trust me even la Liga would dropped, their sales on clothes and other deals will be seriously affected.

The fans(Barcelona has the highest of fans attending their match) will drop.

So don't dare compare Messi to other players
this one started watching football after 2006 world cup.

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