Christianity Etc › Re: How To Be Free From Lust, Fornication, And Masturbation -by Apostle Selman by BonPatrick(m): 12:26pm On Jun 07 |
I have been masturbating since 2014 till now I can't quit I can't have sex with a lady and enjoy it. God I really need to stop but can't judewrites: No human being is above sexual urge and temptations. We all feel the urge for sex, how we respond to it differs.
However, masturbation is perverted sex with yourself and demons. So it's the wrong way to satisfy yourself sexually.
As a single person, you have no choice but to ignore your sexual urge like ignoring a baby crying for attention and fill yourself with God's presence until you get married. |
Christianity Etc › Re: How To Be Free From Lust, Fornication, And Masturbation -by Apostle Selman by BonPatrick(m): 12:24pm On Jun 07 |
You are right Hezzyluv: Idleness is the number one reason for masturbation. When you're totally busy (physically and mentally), you will hardly have time for such nonsense. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Why Most Nigerian CVs Get Rejected by BonPatrick(m): 8:17am On Jun 04 |
My brother for two years I graduated I never see job na my house rent I use dey hold body people insult me because I no dey go out but I don't care one day oluwa will do it for me SmartPolician: If you are in Nigeria looking for jobs now, you are in a big mess because there are no jobs in Nigeria. That's why applicants receive regret email. If you go on LinkedIn, over 100 people apply for ONE position within 24 hours. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Why Most Nigerian CVs Get Rejected by BonPatrick(m): 8:15am On Jun 04 |
No wonder the place I applied for never call me back I am a graduate but I don't know how to write CV well I gave it to cyber people to do it for me. God I never see job for two years now NaturePens: As someone who reviews and writes CVs regularly, I’ve noticed that many job seekers don’t get rejected because they lack qualifications.
They get rejected because their CV fails to communicate their value quickly.
Most recruiters are busy. They may have dozens or even hundreds of CVs to review. If your CV doesn’t grab attention within a few seconds, it often gets skipped.
Some common mistakes I see: 1. Generic career summaries Examples like: “I am a hardworking and dedicated individual seeking a challenging position…” Recruiters have seen this thousands of times.
2. Listing responsibilities instead of achievements Don’t just tell employers what your job was. Show what you accomplished.
3. Poor formatting Walls of text, inconsistent fonts, and cluttered layouts make CVs difficult to read.
4. Using one CV for every job A CV for a customer service role shouldn’t look the same as one for a cybersecurity or accounting role.
5. Ignoring keywords Many companies use Applicant Tracking Systems (ATS) to screen CVs before a human sees them.
How to improve your CV:
✓ Tailor it to the job you’re applying for.
✓ Focus on achievements and results.
✓ Keep the format clean and professional.
✓ Use relevant keywords from the job description.
✓ Make your value clear within the first few lines.
One thing I always tell clients:
“Your CV is not just a document. It’s your professional story.”
What CV mistakes do you think Nigerian job seekers make most often? |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 5 Things That Make Recruiters Skip Your CV by BonPatrick(m): 1:28pm On May 06 |
Am in tears I finished school since 2023 up till now I never see work I have write CV many times and they never call me back |
Islam › Re: Masturbation - A Disastrous Problem Faced By The Youth by BonPatrick(m): 4:46pm On May 01 |
Help me I am sad I have been masturbating since 2014 till date although is once a day, I haven't stopped the highest I have abstain from it is two weeks since then na every day or skip a day then next day. I don't even enjoy sex again my penis don't stand steady it goes down after few seconds and I can't overcome the habit I have deleted and redownload videos many times on my phone. Am finished Lukgaf: PHYSICAL HARMS
Undoubtedly, masturbation causes physical harm -although some have exaggerated its harms – nevertheless, medical science has proven that masturbation is a cause of a number of diseases. Amongst them are:
1. It weakens the sexual organs and creates partial looseness in it.
2. It weakens the nerves generally – a result of the exertion caused by this action.
3. It affects the growth of the limbs especially the outer part of the urethra (duct through which urine is discharged from the bladder and the testicles). Hence it does not reach the limit of it’s normal growth.
4. It creates seminal (spermatic) inflammation in the testicles which causes quick ejaculation of sperm.
5. It causes pain in the vertebra column, the spinal column from which semen is ejaculated. This pain creates crookedness and twisting in the back.
6. It causes some limbs like the legs to shake and shiver.
7. It creates weakness in the cerebral glands of the brain which, in turn, weakens the power of perception and reason. Similarly, it leads to the weakness of memory.
8. It weakens the eye-sight and reduces its normal limit of vision.
9. It causes a person to become old before time.
10. It weakens the very delicate and fine nerves and veins of the sexual organs resulting in sexual impotency.
11. It causes an excessive loss of sperm by way of nocturnal emission (wet dreams).
12. It decreases the natural resistance of the body.
13. It causes harm to the four principal organs in the body viz, the heart, brain, liver and stomach.
14. It decreases the natural animal heat in the body, heat which strengthens the soul and body.
15. It causes an excessive loss of blood. Remember it takes 80 drops of blood to produce one drop of sperm.
16. It weakens the bladder.
(Tajjus Sihat, pg 11) |
Romance › Re: She Tries To Eat Me After Giving Me Her Number by BonPatrick(op): 2:14pm On Apr 04 |
Why the insult |
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Romance › She Tries To Eat Me After Giving Me Her Number by BonPatrick(op): 4:46pm On Apr 03 |
Good afternoon all can you imagine this girl I met on Facebook she be nurse she gave me her number e never reach two days she is a asking for money, abeg make Una read our chats she thinks am those mumus that trip for a lady because she is fair in compression.
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Autos › Re: INNOSON: New 20,000 Vehicle Per Year CNG Factory ''Among World's Largest'' by BonPatrick(m): 7:36am On Feb 06 |
Fact AguluLiar: Innonson vehicles are manufactured by BAIC Motors in China. They only assemble the parts in Nigeria and relabelled it innonson. Innonson should stop lying to himself . Enough is enough. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Please Stop Masturbating It Will Ruin You by BonPatrick(m): 9:59am On Jun 22, 2025 |
I masturbate everyday in my room every week Ekejoestar: Masturbation in itself isn't bad, but it's the addiction to it that is bad, just like every other addiction.
Someone who masturbates three times a day doesn't like himself, too much of everything is bad, two or three times a week is healthy, .
Don't you start patronising prostitute all because someone online said that masturbation is bad, you can contract diseases that will make you wish you didn't start, |
Romance › Re: Truly Sex Is Not Love by BonPatrick(op): 7:34am On Jun 20, 2025 |
About broke you lie I have been sending her money before I came and during my stay I still spent a lot the one I can believe is sex because my dick was small and she didn't even moan during sex. I fell so bad about it UcheKingsley1: Fact Fact
Every woman needs good sex like her life depends on it.
Or you r too broke to help her situations. |
Romance › Re: Truly Sex Is Not Love by BonPatrick(op): 7:28am On Jun 20, 2025 |
No o I bought food stuff i was the one spending o mariobalotelli09: This is just a case of excitement! Coupled with infatuation. Women love excitements. But maybe in ur case you didn't drop enough cash while leaving. Was she the one feeding you for those 4 days? |
Romance › Truly Sex Is Not Love by BonPatrick(op): 6:11pm On Jun 18, 2025 |
Good evening guys i am now a believer of those words that state that Sex is not love. I met a girl online we chatted for months and promise to see each other I invited her she said I should come first to show I love her, I dey anambra and she dey enugu, I visited her last month and spent 4 days in her place. We knack everyday until I left but few days I came back I noticed that the love is not as it is before and she doesn't call me as she use to and I fell good that way. As am talking to you now we just ended the relationship by not calling or chatting each other for weeks, I wanted to beg her but i decided to delete her number and move on and she doesn't care. Please whàt could be the reason for that? |
Nairaland General › Re: Death Toll Rises To 151 After Flooding In Nigerian Town by BonPatrick(m): 5:21pm On May 31, 2025 |
Useless people |
Politics › Re: Regina Daniels Posts Pictures Of Herself Inside Husband's Office by BonPatrick(m): 8:10am On May 31, 2025 |
Her Toto go sweet oo Vicotex: Another photo for una to talk about for weeks, to make una forget una problems for Nigeria |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Kill Family Of Four In Anambra by BonPatrick(m): 8:10pm On May 25, 2025 |
Useless state with a useless governor |
Romance › Re: White Woman Slaps Her Nigerian Boyfriend, Smashes His Phone For Refusing Sex by BonPatrick(m): 6:13am On May 25, 2025 |
Jesus please quit that relationship o I can't even go two rounds richmond500: I had a girl like this. She is so active on bed, Even when I am tired, she wants to opueh, she had once told me to fvck her even on her period, Omo I no gree. Sometimes my dîck won't erect cost it's tired but she will still climb me and put the tired dïck in her mouth and suck it to erection.
Weekend sekx is the worst when I didn't go for work, sometime we fvck all through the day. We will fvck all through Saturday and Sunday before she goes back, but she will call me again on tuesday night that opueh deh hungry her and she is coming to my place.
You may think u have healthy libido until u jam a nympho |
Romance › Re: I Am Having Feelings For My New Female Tenant by BonPatrick(op): 6:07am On May 25, 2025 |
God bless you for this advice we leave in same building 9japride: [color=#006600][/color]
Be prepared for high blood pressure when her male friends start visiting her. Except you are not staying in same building. Mixing business with pleasure don't really end well. |
Romance › Re: I Am Having Feelings For My New Female Tenant by BonPatrick(op): 9:49am On May 24, 2025 |
dangermouse: You should never try anything romantic with a neighbor or a work mate. Never try it my man. E get why.
Women full for outside. |
Romance › I Am Having Feelings For My New Female Tenant by BonPatrick(op): 8:40am On May 24, 2025 |
Good morning guys please I need advice I don't know if I am making a mistake or should I go on maybe I might get the wife I am looking for. a lady came to my compound looking for a room and she is very good and has good shape and nyash out of joy I gave her the room but she paid for everything and I help her with water and other things to clean the room but later I started having feelings for her.
I don't know if I can tell her that I am in love with her and I can't explain it or should I keep my feeling to myself?
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Politics › Re: Peter Obi Bounced From Entering The VVIP Section At The Vatican Papal by BonPatrick(m): 8:01am On May 20, 2025 |
Lol Chivisee: Woow! Na this one dem Dey call may shame not follow us about! |
Romance › I Am Very Sad At What My Girlfriend Did by BonPatrick(op): 4:14pm On May 18, 2025 |
I am not happy my girlfriend no dey moan during sex, what could be the problem? |
Travel › Re: Fatal Motor Accident Claims Eight Lives In Imo by BonPatrick(m): 7:20am On Feb 17, 2025 |
Serves those fools right over speeding kills |
Celebrities › Re: “My Wife Was Sending Her Nudes To Other Men” — Gospel Singer, Paul Nwokocha by BonPatrick(m): 5:23pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
I have her nude I swear to God her Toto sweet oo slim75d: The news I get on daily basis about women make me scared of getting married. I wonder how many good women are out there. |
Travel › Re: 6 Killed As U.S Airplane Crashes Into Buildings In Philadelphia (Photos, Video) by BonPatrick(m): 12:43pm On Feb 01, 2025 |
I wish Nigeria politicians will be dying like this Fiscus105: If this is happening in other countries now, mad man of America would have blacklisted the country. |
Romance › Re: Do You Miss Your EX? by BonPatrick(m): 3:50pm On Jan 25, 2025 |
I miss how I suck her TOTO and the way she use to naked in my front Nonexisting1: I miss my money that she took and ran with a 'ready' man for marriage. I'll rather face a lion in a duel than miss her. I've moved on but that money still dey pain me. That was all I had as a young hustler then. |
Romance › Re: Do You Miss Your EX? by BonPatrick(m): 3:49pm On Jan 25, 2025 |
I miss how I suck her TOTO and the way she use to naked in my front Prettychild: I miss my first boyfriend, he was so good to me. It was my parents that made me break up with him. If I knew what I know now, I would have fought harder for us to be together. He was someone who would fight to just have me. If he was here, I wouldn’t be in the mess I have been. The problem with my current one is that he doesn’t even fight to just keep me. Even though I always fight to protect our love but it was beginning to look like I was dating myself |
Romance › Re: Do You Miss Your EX? by BonPatrick(m): 3:48pm On Jan 25, 2025 |
Yes I miss how I suck her TOTO and the way she use to naked in my front |