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Romance / Re: Is She Real Or Fake by BonPatrick(m): 8:23pm On Jul 06, 2021
Thanks boss
triogist:
Damn Niggarrr...Jeez Just Saved Your Ass
Believe Me She Has Someone Doing Fine Than You That she's Sourcing From...You're Just Like Dessert To Her Lunch...
Some Player Can Be So Protective Of Their Investment and That was The Time She's Spending with You..Jz To Make It Real and Make You Feel Loved.
Congratulations grin grin
Romance / Is She Real Or Fake by BonPatrick(m): 7:52pm On Jul 06, 2021
Guys make una judge this a guy in UNN met a girl one day and they became friends the girl became nice to him so he decided to express his feeling by telling her he loves her and want to go into relationship with her. She got angry and told her never to say that again that each time she accept a guy they will try to sleep with her. So the guy continue on mutual friend he took her out one day she demands for hollandia yoghurt which he bought for her. One day she text him to give her money that she wants to travel and beside the guy has his suspicion that another guy sent her money two days before the day she ask him. Atimes when she wants to answer call she lows the volume of the call. The guy ask his friends about the situation they told him that she wants to eat him because the guy told her he has house he collect house rent. The girl only visited him once and that day a friend of the guy came he told her to prepare garri for him she refused and he was planning to give her the money but he recalls what his friends told him. He didn't give her. As the girl was going he plans to give her 1k the girl told him not give her money when she is on bike that she hate it, he got Angry and look for change and gave her 500. The next day the girl text him that (Hi so you choose to let me go without giving me d money you promised or even talk about it. You would have told me earlier that you can't give me a helping hand instead of giving excuses). She stopped picking his calls the guy kukuma deleted her number. What do you think about this, was the girl real or fake?
Romance / Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Keep Visiting Me by BonPatrick(m): 2:32pm On Jul 06, 2021
I never bang her we are just school friends but have feelings for each other then
Blackfire:
Questions??


If all this answers are yes, then you are a mongratuliated kantakurus



1. Have you banged her before when she was your GF??

2. Do you sometimes have the urge to bang her when you see her??

3. In BTW 40-70% will your girlfriend who is now married allow you to bang her if you make the move ??


Verdict: Guy you are the owner of the pregnancy you and your hellgirl friend imposed on another innocent boy..
Romance / Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Keep Visiting Me by BonPatrick(m): 2:31pm On Jul 06, 2021
Her husband is in Lagos so I do assist her in going to market when am free
Vinnie2000:


Dis BonPatrick Again!!.. undecided undecided
Last time, she cooked for You..Now she wants to visit again..

Where is her Husband??
She nor get Work??
You yourself nor get Work??
Stay@home Boy.. sad sad

Dis ur Story is Fabricated, just to waste pple's time
Goan Listen to Mike Okri 'Time na Money' and get some some!! sad sad

*Walk out of the Thread* sad sad
Romance / 14 Erroneous Beliefs About Love by BonPatrick(m): 11:59am On Jul 06, 2021
Love is one of the world’s most misunderstood concept. It’s not quite like they make it seem in the movies, but real love is often better than you might have imagined.

From the idea of love at first sight to a perfect soulmate, here are 14 myths about love that you’ve probably bought into that are totally erroneous.

LOVE WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY

Love is often represented as the ultimate happy ending, but that’s not necessarily correct. It isn’t a fix-all cure.

If you’re unhappy before you find love, you won’t suddenly be a different, happier person after you’ve found it.

The best relationships can definitely enhance our lives, but they can’t make us happy all on their own.

IT’S EASY ALL THE TIME

When a relationship is hard all the time, you know that it’s not right for you. But that doesn’t mean healthy love is always easy.

When two people come together and connect, difficulties will always arise. No matter how amazing your love is, it will get hard sometimes.

LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT IS A THING

Sorry, but love at first sight is not a thing. After all, love involves trusting someone and committing to them. So, how can you get that from just looking at someone?

The good news is lust at first sight is definitely a thing, and that pretty much feels the same anyway or better put, is usually mistaken for love.

YOUR SOULMATE WILL BE PERFECT

Maybe the one is out there for you. While some of us have a few soulmates or feel like we have none at all, others find that one person they believe was meant for them.

But even if you find that person, they will have flaws.

Forget about finding the perfect soulmate because, they don’t exist any more than love at first sight.

YOU’LL BE HAPPIEST WHEN YOU ATTRACT YOUR OPPOSITE

They say that opposites attract. And although that’s true in some situations, don’t believe that you’ll automatically have the best relationship with someone who’s the complete opposite to you.

In fact, if someone has different values and fundamental beliefs from you, it’s actually very difficult to have a long-lasting relationship with them.

YOU CAN CHANGE ANYONE IF YOU LOVE THEM ENOUGH

Fairytales would have us believe that anyone can change for love.

The truth is that, this kind of thinking will leave you trapped in hopeless relationships, waiting for someone not worthy of your time to change.
YOU’LL NEVER ARGUE IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

Healthy relationships might be more blissful than toxic ones. But there will still be arguments. All couples fight eventually and it doesn’t mean that they don’t love each other. Disagreeing is normal and healthy, and one of the hurdles you’ll have to overcome.

LOVE HAS TO LEAD TO MARRIAGE

Tradition says that love has to lead to marriage, and that marriage is the ultimate declaration of love. But regrettably, marriage isn’t for everyone.

And while we think of marriage today as an act of love, it’s way beyond that.

LOVE HAS TO BE DRAMATIC
Although the relationships in the shows we grew up watching, like “Sex and the City”, “Friends”, and “Gossip Girl” are full of drama, real love doesn’t have to be so dramatic.

If it were that intense in real life, it would be extremely draining.

YOU’LL ONLY EVER LOVE ONE PERSON

Some people do end up only loving and being with one person. But that’s definitely not the way love has to be.

It’s okay to fall deeply in love with several people throughout your life. It doesn’t mean that the love you feel is not as authentic or meaningful as the love two people share when they’ve never loved anyone else.

IF YOU’RE IN LOVE, YOU CAN’T BE LONELY

Ha! In theory, being in a loving relationship should help to ease loneliness. But people who are in love can and do feel lonely for a variety of reasons.

Love doesn’t stop two people from working in different countries. And it doesn’t stop couples from spending Saturday night alone during a fight.

Unfortunately, love is not an end to loneliness.

LOVE IS ONLY FOR THE YOUNG

Again, some people think of love as being an experience for the young only.

In popular culture, most of the stories we consume about love feature young characters. But in reality, love is for people of all ages.

You’re never too old to fall in love.

LOVE IS ALL THAT MATTERS

In other words, love is enough. This falsehood is another belief that will keep you trapped in the wrong relationship.

Loving someone isn’t a good enough reason to stay with them if you have every other reason to leave.

Trust, commitment, loyalty, vulnerability, safety, and happiness all play a part. They all matter too.

FALLING IN LOVE COMPLETES YOU

Nah! Falling in love is a wonderful feeling that can definitely enhance your life. But if there’s a void inside you, it won’t magically disappear when you start loving someone.

Just as it won’t fix an unhappy person’s problems and make them happy. Love won’t complete someone who is lost and trying to find their purpose in life.

Love is a powerful part of life, but it’s still just a part and not the whole.
Romance / Re: My Married Ex Girlfriend Keep Visiting Me by BonPatrick(m): 11:53am On Jul 06, 2021
thanks
TUANKU:
Fvck her, i mean bang her.
Romance / My Married Ex Girlfriend Keep Visiting Me by BonPatrick(m): 11:46am On Jul 06, 2021
Good morning guys, on ,my last post i told you guys that my married ex girlfriend who also school with me in UNN came and helped me to cook. after then I told her how delicious the soup is and she was happy, she even came on Sunday to cook stew for me. she also told me anytime I want to cook soup I should call her. Based on the comments I received from the previous post I told her let it be once in a month to avoid getting into trouble. she said that she understand that nothing will happen and besides she is pregnant.
Yesterday she brought food she cooked at home and my compound people are looking us with suspect eyes. please how do i stop her coming to avoid getting into trouble i am still a student I don't want to go police or be killed. This is true story I need an advice. I am in department of political science 200level. HELP A BRO PLEASE.
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 7:03am On Jul 05, 2021
What are u saying? A pregnant lady?
What will make me bleep her self abeg make una stop this judgemental sentiment.
McBishop2020:
I don't see anything wrong with that as far as the husband was aware of it and allowed it.

The question is:
Was the husband aware of it?

If not, in as much as it may be done innocently, I suggest it stop so that you guys don't step out of the lines.

Remember, the affection can be rekindled and might lead to a story that touches the heart.

I rest my case.

Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 7:00am On Jul 05, 2021
OMG are u serious I will stop inviting her o
chatinent:
Sth like this happened in my street.


Man beat en wife jege. We dey beg am e come yarn the tori. Baba, I stroll commot o. I hate nonsense.
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 6:57am On Jul 05, 2021
Mad oh
blahc007:

Nwokem for your full life no try that rubbish again oo....
You do something,you no do....if her husband finds out....you have successfully broken a young home.
No let anoda ear hear this shit if u trully mean am.
Jee choro nwa Ada nke gi...rapu nwunye mmadu.
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 6:52am On Jul 05, 2021
Mad oh u eh
pacespot:


This is not about controlling myself or herself, do you think I force myself on any woman? This thing happens naturally when a mature man and mature woman are alone, forget about she is my bestie or all that nonesense talk of friendship, having a woman as a close companion is like have a chicken as a pet, you will eat it at last. I know your type, you SIMPing men that pretend to have a woman as a bestie, but deep inside you you want her to have sex with you.
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 6:50am On Jul 05, 2021
Mtcheew na your matter
Basher8583:


You got what was coming to you. The way you write also shows you are not particularly intelligent. People are out there making money you are chasing women up and down. Shallow minded bitch
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 6:49am On Jul 05, 2021
U nailed it
BluntCrazeMan:
Probably, her husband treats her like a queen, goes to market for her, and even do the cooking (or maybe he got a domestic maid to help her out in the house chores) so that she won't be stressed out with the pregnancy.
And here she bundled herself to your house, went to market, and did the cooking by herself.
Ok..
She missed doing all those things?
And she decided to come to your house to do them?
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 5:06am On Jul 05, 2021
All guys are not the same the past is gone no feelings attached u have to control your self where ladies are it makes them trust you.
pacespot:
I don't even know how a woman would get close to a guy like me without having intention to go all the way. Maybe some guys have this friend-zoning thing in them that makes women to see them as ordinary friends. Even talking to me for five minutes is too long for any woman to escape it, I don't toast women, it happens naturally.

Now this one is talking about bringing a married woman to his house to cook without any string attached. Abeg there is nothing like an ordinary friendship between a man and woman.
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 5:04am On Jul 05, 2021
Lol cheesy cheesy
shakir0802:
u are very stupid, u called her and she respond to u and u came here now posting it here bro ur brain is like worm brain oloshi
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 5:02am On Jul 05, 2021
You dey craze what made it useless that someone ask a simple question you all are basing me with insult. Someone that just rendered help as a friend.
Shame on u
Basher8583:


Since you don't have sense let me talk to you in the language you will understand.

If you found out that your wife was seeing and cooking for her ex boyfriend would you be ok with it.

This answer is the answer to your mumu question

I don't like men who are not intelligent. Imagine this kind of useless question a grown ass man is asking.
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 5:00am On Jul 05, 2021
Yes o UNN is nice institution
pweetychyka:


From the story, nigga is still a student! See the product UNN is breeding for the future embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 4:59am On Jul 05, 2021
Mad oh
Bishopino:
I no blame you at all, na the stupid bitch I blame..
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 4:58am On Jul 05, 2021
You dey craze my English has nothing to do with what I ask if u can't read it you shouldn't have commented NONSENSE.
pweetychyka:


Are you sure you are in school?

If truly you are, baba you need to enroll for a proper basic English class. So you can learn how to construct a simple English with the right words spelt correctly.

That aside, why didn't you ask fellow Nairalanders before calling her to come cook for you? Nigga, you are not matured at all cause I am sure the entire school would have heard she came to cook soup for you lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

Anyways, I still blame the girl for coming out to help you cook when she could have easily recommended YouTube videos for you to watch and learn.

I am sure if you use YouTube and you make rubbish soup or whatever, the next time you try making the same soup, you 'll definitely not make mistake.

I just pray her hubby doesn't find out undecided undecided undecided undecided
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 4:56am On Jul 05, 2021
Bleep u
mkpologwu:


If you want to know if it's right or wrong, trying asking to get permission from her husband, or better still call her husband and tell him to lend you his wife.

Nonetheless, we want to believe it's fake story because it's so repulsive, but if you keep shoving it down our throat as real story, then you are really sick, and not a true graduate of UNN..., to restore the dignity of man.
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 9:15pm On Jul 04, 2021
God bless you sir this is the best comment so far. This people their reasoning are odd
Dailyparrot:


The way people here think is different from the real world.

There's nothing wrong if your married ex visits and cook for you as far as you are certain you guys aren't having anything romantic.

Nairaland is the least place you should take comments serious. They are all hypocrites and people with damaged mentality.

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Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 9:03pm On Jul 04, 2021
Very sweet
WowSweetGuy:
cheesy grin

Hope say the soup sweet

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Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 4:30pm On Jul 04, 2021
Ok sir
samology2000:
So among all the single ladies available it is your Ex that is married that you invited to cook for you. Please leave the lady and her family alone if you don't want thunder to strike you.
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 4:08pm On Jul 04, 2021
Lol
Premiumwriter2:
No be small nonsense some married men de go through.

Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 4:08pm On Jul 04, 2021
Lol false accusations
olabrinks:
You know how to cook stew but not soup..as if soup is not even easier to cook. You just wanted to have that woman around don’t lie.
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 4:05pm On Jul 04, 2021
Noo
Mophor:
Damn Niggar!!!!!!
You never told us what happened after the cooking..... you must have eaten her up to to compliment the food she prepared
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 2:46pm On Jul 04, 2021
No
Kaybae:
very wrong, sorry if you get married and your wife told you her ex called her over to cook, please be sincere would you allow her to go?
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 2:46pm On Jul 04, 2021
Lol nothing
Ishilove:

If the reverse was the case and your wife carried her two drumstick legs to go and cook for an ex, what would your reaction be?
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 12:43pm On Jul 04, 2021
Lol
extol1:

even the lady is loose, let us admit the guy was not in his right senses. the question is why would a married woman visit a single guy? I am beginning to think ladies are the ones destroying their homes
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 12:41pm On Jul 04, 2021
Thanks
KosiGee:



I take it that this is not a fake or made up story.
Don’t repeat that with her or anyone’s wife. If you are hungry, Go to restaurant and eat if you can’t prepare your own meal. She is not the only cook out there.

Both of you took a silly risk going to the market together to buy food stuffs. What if he saw you? What do you think would be his reaction?
If you care about that woman, delete her number and ask her to do the same. Never ever attempt to contact her. Do this and save yourself lots of trouble.
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 12:41pm On Jul 04, 2021
Mad oh I never thought of such but I really thought of our old days wishing she never marry I would have bleep her.
extol1:

guy, it is not a new that another man sleep with pregnant lady, in fact they carve for more sex during pregnancy. you must be wicked and heartless for inviting a pregnant woman that is not your wife to come and cook for you. you and I know that if she wasn't pregnant, you would have fvck her
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by BonPatrick(m): 12:39pm On Jul 04, 2021
Mad oh u are right
KosiGee:



You keep making it worse. Mister, are you normal??
You were hungry and of all the ideas that came into your head, it was asking another man’s pregnant wife to cook for you??....and you have the guts to walk side by side with her to the market!!!

What if she started feeling sick along the way? What if she started feeling very unwell in your house while cooking for you? What if something unexpected went wrong while she was with you in the house?

Why do people like you like to harvest trouble?

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