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Good morning guys, on ,my last post i told you guys that my married ex girlfriend who also school with me in UNN came and helped me to cook. after then I told her how delicious the soup is and she was happy, she even came on Sunday to cook stew for me. she also told me anytime I want to cook soup I should call her. Based on the comments I received from the previous post I told her let it be once in a month to avoid getting into trouble. she said that she understand that nothing will happen and besides she is pregnant.
Yesterday she brought food she cooked at home and my compound people are looking us with suspect eyes. please how do i stop her coming to avoid getting into trouble i am still a student I don't want to go police or be killed. This is true story I need an advice. I am in department of political science 200level. HELP A BRO PLEASE.

What are u saying? A pregnant lady?
What will make me bleep her self abeg make una stop this judgemental sentiment.

McBishop2020:
I don't see anything wrong with that as far as the husband was aware of it and allowed it.

The question is:
Was the husband aware of it?

If not, in as much as it may be done innocently, I suggest it stop so that you guys don't step out of the lines.

Remember, the affection can be rekindled and might lead to a story that touches the heart.

I rest my case.

OMG are u serious I will stop inviting her o

chatinent:
Sth like this happened in my street.


Man beat en wife jege. We dey beg am e come yarn the tori. Baba, I stroll commot o. I hate nonsense.

Mad oh

blahc007:
Nwokem for your full life no try that rubbish again oo....
You do something,you no do....if her husband finds out....you have successfully broken a young home.
No let anoda ear hear this shit if u trully mean am.
Jee choro nwa Ada nke gi...rapu nwunye mmadu.

Mad oh u eh

pacespot:
This is not about controlling myself or herself, do you think I force myself on any woman? This thing happens naturally when a mature man and mature woman are alone, forget about she is my bestie or all that nonesense talk of friendship, having a woman as a close companion is like have a chicken as a pet, you will eat it at last. I know your type, you SIMPing men that pretend to have a woman as a bestie, but deep inside you you want her to have sex with you.

Mtcheew na your matter

Basher8583:
You got what was coming to you. The way you write also shows you are not particularly intelligent. People are out there making money you are chasing women up and down. Shallow minded bitch

U nailed it

BluntCrazeMan:
Probably, her husband treats her like a queen, goes to market for her, and even do the cooking (or maybe he got a domestic maid to help her out in the house chores) so that she won't be stressed out with the pregnancy.
And here she bundled herself to your house, went to market, and did the cooking by herself.
Ok..
She missed doing all those things?
And she decided to come to your house to do them?

All guys are not the same the past is gone no feelings attached u have to control your self where ladies are it makes them trust you.

pacespot:
I don't even know how a woman would get close to a guy like me without having intention to go all the way. Maybe some guys have this friend-zoning thing in them that makes women to see them as ordinary friends. Even talking to me for five minutes is too long for any woman to escape it, I don't toast women, it happens naturally.

Now this one is talking about bringing a married woman to his house to cook without any string attached. Abeg there is nothing like an ordinary friendship between a man and woman.

Lol

shakir0802:
u are very stupid, u called her and she respond to u and u came here now posting it here bro ur brain is like worm brain oloshi

You dey craze what made it useless that someone ask a simple question you all are basing me with insult. Someone that just rendered help as a friend.
Shame on u

Basher8583:
Since you don't have sense let me talk to you in the language you will understand.

If you found out that your wife was seeing and cooking for her ex boyfriend would you be ok with it.

This answer is the answer to your mumu question

I don't like men who are not intelligent. Imagine this kind of useless question a grown ass man is asking.

Yes o UNN is nice institution

pweetychyka:
From the story, nigga is still a student! See the product UNN is breeding for the future

Mad oh

Bishopino:
I no blame you at all, na the stupid bitch I blame..

You dey craze my English has nothing to do with what I ask if u can't read it you shouldn't have commented NONSENSE.

pweetychyka:
Are you sure you are in school?

If truly you are, baba you need to enroll for a proper basic English class. So you can learn how to construct a simple English with the right words spelt correctly.

That aside, why didn't you ask fellow Nairalanders before calling her to come cook for you? Nigga, you are not matured at all cause I am sure the entire school would have heard she came to cook soup for you

Anyways, I still blame the girl for coming out to help you cook when she could have easily recommended YouTube videos for you to watch and learn.

I am sure if you use YouTube and you make rubbish soup or whatever, the next time you try making the same soup, you 'll definitely not make mistake.

I just pray her hubby doesn't find out

Bleep u

mkpologwu:
If you want to know if it's right or wrong, trying asking to get permission from her husband, or better still call her husband and tell him to lend you his wife.

Nonetheless, we want to believe it's fake story because it's so repulsive, but if you keep shoving it down our throat as real story, then you are really sick, and not a true graduate of UNN..., to restore the dignity of man.

God bless you sir this is the best comment so far. This people their reasoning are odd

Dailyparrot:
The way people here think is different from the real world.

There's nothing wrong if your married ex visits and cook for you as far as you are certain you guys aren't having anything romantic.

Nairaland is the least place you should take comments serious. They are all hypocrites and people with damaged mentality.

Very sweet

WowSweetGuy:


Hope say the soup sweet

Ok sir

samology2000:
So among all the single ladies available it is your Ex that is married that you invited to cook for you. Please leave the lady and her family alone if you don't want thunder to strike you.

Lol

Premiumwriter2:
No be small nonsense some married men de go through.

Lol false accusations

olabrinks:
You know how to cook stew but not soup..as if soup is not even easier to cook. You just wanted to have that woman around don’t lie.

Noo

Mophor:
Damn Niggar!!!!!!
You never told us what happened after the cooking..... you must have eaten her up to to compliment the food she prepared

No

Kaybae:
very wrong, sorry if you get married and your wife told you her ex called her over to cook, please be sincere would you allow her to go?

Lol nothing

Ishilove:
If the reverse was the case and your wife carried her two drumstick legs to go and cook for an ex, what would your reaction be?

Lol

extol1:
even the lady is loose, let us admit the guy was not in his right senses. the question is why would a married woman visit a single guy? I am beginning to think ladies are the ones destroying their homes

Thanks

KosiGee:
I take it that this is not a fake or made up story.
Don’t repeat that with her or anyone’s wife. If you are hungry, Go to restaurant and eat if you can’t prepare your own meal. She is not the only cook out there.

Both of you took a silly risk going to the market together to buy food stuffs. What if he saw you? What do you think would be his reaction?
If you care about that woman, delete her number and ask her to do the same. Never ever attempt to contact her. Do this and save yourself lots of trouble.

Mad oh I never thought of such but I really thought of our old days wishing she never marry I would have bleep her.

extol1:
guy, it is not a new that another man sleep with pregnant lady, in fact they carve for more sex during pregnancy. you must be wicked and heartless for inviting a pregnant woman that is not your wife to come and cook for you. you and I know that if she wasn't pregnant, you would have fvck her

Mad oh u are right

KosiGee:
You keep making it worse. Mister, are you normal??
You were hungry and of all the ideas that came into your head, it was asking another man’s pregnant wife to cook for you??....and you have the guts to walk side by side with her to the market!!!

What if she started feeling sick along the way? What if she started feeling very unwell in your house while cooking for you? What if something unexpected went wrong while she was with you in the house?

Why do people like you like to harvest trouble?

Lol

SonofGod231:
The problem I see is with the woman not you. What's the benefit of going to cook for an ex when she's already married. Hope she can boldly let her husband know next time she's coming over to cook for you since she doesn't see a problem in it?
Guts and instincts is a powerful thing and 99% of the times you're right.
Me,you and she knows like this like this one day you go try put mouth for her milky boobs and watery (unt.

Why u guys thinking of sex can't two people have mutual feeling as friends without sex.

Jeon:
This is how some of you guy's will be inviting Devil to ur house hold..

And after cooking the said meal, DID YOU FUVK HER?

Yes

Kobicove:
At you sure?

A pregnant lady gush u guys should stop thinking in sexual aspect I can't do that

extol1:
for your own safety, don't try that again. hope you didn't fvck another man wife

Lol

eduj:
your wife will go cook for her ex once she reads this.

Hmmmmm

Freestainworld:
Op, to package you like ikonso dey hungry me