You've spoken so little of the reason he doesn't work and when he changed or if he has been like that all along.
Without much ado about nothing, the way forward is just to protect your kids from him by withdrawing them and solicit to his family to take care of him.
I do not know if you still do love him. You might need to find someone that he WOULD ALWAYS LISTEN TO and have a table discussion so they can talk sense into him. Not many men would like their marriage affairs being known to the world but it appears this has gone beyond being hidden.

Lastly, you need to surround yourself with neutral thoughts. Your friends may poison your mind at this challenging time because all they'll push for is separation. Try to find a women right group and join them. Narrate your ideal and watch the steps ahead.. They'll have councillors too. You need to have a good time with a councillor or two.

thisisme23:
guy hw far?

I dey, hw your side?

The worst thing which no one is saying is that the guy might have told her fiance.
Believe me, he'll just explain he met her at Ogun and they Bleep and he never knew they were dating cus he would have whined him about asked when their relationship started.

The best thing is for her to inform her fiance, cry, beg for forgiveness since it appears they never had a real breakup during the time.

She should also state the reasons she decided to let him know. Honestly, remorse, etc. And tell him she knows he won't forgive her.

And then walk away from her fiance (maybe drop the ring) , hoping for the best but prepared for the worst.

There is an hub in Ak. Find covenlabs and see if you fit in. By the way, what skills do you have?

In addition, I noticed a recent post by Seun which he speaks about tolerating one another.
I realize that he understands that Nigerians need to accept everyone without pointing fingers to other groups wrt age, religion, politics, education and tribe differences.

it's such a pity that if you place 100 Africans in a hall with a bounty, they would successfully isolate themselves as single individuals. If Seun doesn't address this issue on NL? Who will?

I look forward to seeing more.

Grandlord:
My bad. I'm still a newbie in web dev. I've only just learnt python that's why I'm thinking python every time. I guess I'm just overexcited

Well, I've just started learning html/CSS this week and after that I'll learn a CMS then go over to JS and PHP. Maybe by then I'll understand the system better.

Yea... Cool. You might want to consider taking CSS courses on W3Schools. They even have certifications.
You learn faster when you read existing codes and you try to re-create them.

Grandlord:
This man sha. So school me on how you wrote that code. Looks like something you'd do with selenium or Beautifulsoup on Python

Shai.. It's pretty easy to do anything once you understand the system. I used basic http-wrapped methods to spool. Nothing a big deal. The most important thing is to understand the system.

Mustsucceed:


Firsts you dent now you give excuse.good night

I think it's such a good excuse.

Grandlord:
Yeah I know. Was only exaggerating.

I think it is a bit of a nuisance to users on here getting to see all of their posts being shared. I mean, to what end? I'm eager to know.

Well, at a time, I was sharing a lot of posts without minding who owns them... So some people got like tens of their posts shared which pretty got them talking, etc.

So I optimized to share someone's post just once. I guess that has been working as I got no further complaint.

So basically, once I share your comment, that will be the first and last time.

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That's just the only post I liked

Show me another...

Bolaji21:

The UI is painful to behold. The design needs to be overhauled.

Exactly. More reasons to protect your eyes with my app.

Grandlord:
Booksrite001 did you write a script that shares every post on nairaland? Are you testing it out?

Let's not call everything 'scripts'.
And also, let's remove 'every' .

Nice observation though. Yes. It's alive already. What do you think?

Mustsucceed:


You have cone again...I saw you liking my lost.don't start again ooo

Me

Your post It must be a great mistake.

Bolaji21:

We shouldn't need dark theme to read threads on nairaland

Of course. You're right.
However, many people are reporting that the new look hurts their eyes. You might not be affected. But do you have any solution?

If you have a solution, then we can compare with the Dark theme and see which serves the users better. Else,

anonimi:


You sabi no be small.
For those who may be in doubt, see sample below of things to come.
The whites' colonisation will be child's play compared to these chinko's. ]

Quite right. Quite a possibility.

Olorunnim:
Why fear China?

Chine has a long history of being ruthless with resources. You can see the damages done to their environment and atmosphere already.
If given the chance, they would use and deplete our resources.

dairykidd:

How far with ur Nl app.. i thought Seun would be on to it by now

The app is going just fine. As you can see, transformations are coming and they are good. I believe he would attend to it once he is less busy.

Walehelt:


Maybe China this time around

I fear China. They are ruthless

It's good to dream.
It's good to wish.

It's true he needs crazy funding to do anything.
What is the probability that they won't chop the money when they receive from FG?

It's true that everything he said about satellites is lies. Go ask Borofice. We have no functioning satellite. They have no surveillance system, no base station. A military jet crashed in the north (within our borders) and they couldn't find it. Sambisa forest is there and soka. They can't monitor their movement right? Yet soldiers are ambushed.

Common toy drones, they don't have.

We need another colonization.

Suggest another solution.

Painfully, I learnt he was sick.
I had no idea if he got proper medical care.
Who knows if he lacked funds to treat himself.

Now, a massive turnout after death.

Rip

Zinny25:
I didn't notice any change ooo


abi my eye dey deceive me??

For those of you looking for changes. It's basicly just thre underlines that were removed and the center alignment for sections removed.

For those that wants emogi, that already works on my app.

See.

I don't think these happens in all cases but I agree with you.

For me, it's a bit complicated than that.

We have number 1 to 4 perfectly. But 5 is only on my side. The relationship is no more but I am still convinced of my soul connection

Use my app. The old view is persisted and you can use dark theme right away.

ABCthings:
never mind!

You're trying to find the java files right? I can show you where they are.

ABCthings:
Naso! BTW did you obfuscate your app? Cus I need to confirm something.

I didn't. I didn't use Proguard sef. What is the thing you're confirming?

budaatum:

Now, that's an honour, and very interesting indeed.
A whole 2 months!

Go on, show me where! Screenshot it here and make buda's head big!

I will be blocked if I post anything link, image or email here.

Didijiji:
let me give you a payment gateway

What for?

budaatum:

This is a great concern, and I'll be glad if it were addressed.

Do you have access to log in details for instance? It would be annoying to find one has lost access to ones account.

I do not have access to user's login details nor anything that happens on the WebView. That's Android Security.

Good morning Nairalanders

tot:


Just to point out, NL has the option to NOT select a gender.

No, I'm not typing from the app. Unfortunately, first impressions last long and once I am put off something from the start, it seldom changes. All the same, good luck with your app.

I have chosen no gender. It makes perfect sense now.

So now, what can I do to fix the impression sweethearts