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I don’t know who you are , but so far you’re in auto section .. it means you need a car.

I will just like to tell you that you’re not in this alone!

When it’s your time buy a car... you will buy a car!
Our time is coming soon!

I have my eyes on Highlander and Tacoma, hoping to see one that sweep me off my feet

pennzo:
Grey one is 06. 4.5m

White one is 2010. 6m

God bless you too chief

2010.. can it go for 5M

Ready buyer

pennzo:
Got two Clean title Tacomas (2006 and 2010). Hit me up on 08037016526 if it interests you

Drop pics and price here

God bless you

Diegostan:
Are you the direct buyer!?

yes

I’ve been checking NL since , seems there’s no deal on that.

Needed urgently

TPound:
450-550k

Tokunbo?

Snap engine

vincarter:
2009 highlander with duty, going for 3.4m.... 08067184792

Still available?

rawfact:
You are not helping the situation either. Meanwhile, why repeatedly boasting of being richer than your sister's husband? What is the essence or objective of such comparison? For me, it is needless. And that's my modest way of saying it is senseless.

If you've made such utterance before him or prepped up your sister to say same or more, then you would have used immaturity to worsen things for your sister whether she remains in the marriage or turn out a divorcee.

I read one of your topics where you narrated how you felt disappointed over your girlfriend sharing her nude for money. And you revealed that you were just giving relationship a trial. Strangely, you were asking for what to do because you couldn't just "divorce" her. Guess you were insanely in love. Yeah, because "crazy love" is the only thing that can make a guy remain in a relationship with an Olosho. My point is that you still desired that things worked out between both of you rather than have the relationship come to an end. That is even something that is not marriage.

So what are you suppose to do differently for your sister?

1. Stop disrespecting her husband either before or behind him. That includes when she insults/curses him before you. Also, stop looking for divorce for her. Some women literally lost their sanity after securing divorce for themselves. Some became professional prostitute in the process of looking for a replacement for their ex-husband.

2. Talk to your sister about those things that bring about such awry moments. Advice her to regularly contract the services of Local Counselors that are married, currently living with their spouse under the same roof and well over 50 years old. You said she is financially okay by herself. Sadly, not all Nigerian women can handle such position. Kudos to Madam Folorunso Alakija, a multi-billionaire with undying humility for her husband (despite her wealth), which has helped her to keep her home intact alongside her array of businesses over the years.

3. Look for every way to befriend your sister's husband. At this period, visit their place more often and intentionally support him against your sister if you happen to bump into them arguing. This includes when your sister is obviously right and her husband is wrong. Don't worry, reverse psychology will straighten things up in his mind later on for your sister, particularly when he is all by himself. Moreover, he will subconsciously owe you a lot for that and wouldn't mind hearing your mind on things before dishing out instructions to your sister. At such moments, you will be able to protect your sister's interest as you would have become a force that can make him compromise on any decision that wouldn't be in the interest of your sister. This is a healthy way to "fight" from within for your sister. Anyway, keep working on the friendship till he finds it comfortable to also call you at night to help talk to your sister rather than arguing angrily with her. Fights don't just happen. It mostly start from hot arguments, and such arguments must really be avoided or quickly calmed if the matter that brought it up is unavoidable.

4. Get those elders you claim intervened (whom I believe your sister respect) in the past to help get your sister to succumb to her husband in those areas that brew those ugly quarrels (fighting/violence).

5. Don't stop advising your sister even when you are not hearing of their quarrels. Sometimes, marital quarrels could have spiritual undertone so endevour to be praying for them too. That is better and more productive than looking for ways to sponsor their divorce.


Judging by all that have happened, it would certainly be difficult to do those 5 things listed above but endeavour to since you are so passionate about your sister's marital life.

Disclaimer: If her husband is a heavy drinker or smokes marijuana, cocaine or engage in other form of hard drugs, then discard my advice and seek counsel elsewhere.

I have no business with the marriage and i’ve never been involved.
I was just opportuned to sleep over once at their side and i saw his colour.

As i am typing to you know, she stripped my sis naked outside in the compound and also sent her loads out.

I foresaw this when i opened this thread.

Excuzeme:
I dont know you but l can bet you are not even married![/b]
Marry first and then come back to tell us how it feels to "break-off this marriage".

Some of you like to cry more than the bereaved, if your Sister is convinced that her life is in imminent danger, she would walk out of the house and not return there.
Even you that is forming "holy Saviour" here, why dont you just house your sister or rent an appartment for her so "The Beast" can be left on his own?

I suspect you are one of those siblings who like to interfere and control the affairs of their married sibling and instigate fights between couples.
Mind your own business before thunder fire you, HOME DESTROYER

I have no business with the marriage and i’ve never been involved.
I was just opportuned to sleep over once at their side and i saw his colour.

As i am typing to you know, she stripped my sis naked outside in the compound and also sent her loads out.

I foresaw this when i opened this thread.

Irore:
Your sister needs to check herself. When did brothers start spearheading divorce of their sisters? Are you married, how is your home? Let her file for divorce herself while you counsel her against it letting her know it will be better. Pally with your brother in-law for amicable resolution. Beware lest you regret your action. What God has joined together, let no man put asunder.

Hello Sir, we’ve been at this since over 2 years!
This guy act calm during resolution but continues thr physical and emotional torture once we’ve left.

We are far away

Sterope:
Is she ready to divorce him? She must be mentally ready to divorce him, she will need your support. It can be a long and frustrating process.

Please ignore those imploring you to keep her married. If you love your sister, you will not want her to be walk on eggshells for the rest of her life. Even at that, you will never know what might his latest trigger then your sister is disabled or dead.

Sincerely, She is

Her happiness lies on staying away from this husband

Wiseman5:
I won't be surprised if YOU are the cause of their misunderstanding.

Why would i be the cause?
I have my business and i’ve always been the one advising her to make her home work and i even do plead with her hubby.

Until I visited once and i slept over!

Then, i saw the TRUE COLOUR.

josite:
if u want it fastest,file for divorce is sagamu high court.lagos courts are congested.but it is not cheap.

Thanks boss

Kaykay41:
hope your sister is not the one pushing the perceived beast to the wall.

I thought so until i witnessed it

silibaba:
crying more than the bereaved.

divorce and then go through the back door and marry him.

I no trust women these days again

I am not gay

bluecircle470:
Guess you’re here to joke. You too nag

Joke?
Will i get paid for it?

NairaMaster1:
Did your sister want it or you want it? Ask her very so she doesn't come for you when jungle mature.

She is about choosing suicide

DenreleDave:
U Wil see house.. Las Las 80k for agreement and commission...

Just find out from agent..

Can i get an agent contact?

justnock:
For better and for worse. Mind your business.

NEVER

oodua1stson:
no wonder he de beat your sister. Your mouth is bigger than your hands.

How are you sure you're worth more than what he'd earn his ENTIRE LIFETIME! Haba! Small small na! You be god?

I am sorry, i replied someone comment

And yes u am

BestAccessories:
If your sister is financially okay as claimed, then there is nothing stopping her from parking out of the apartment which currently house her and her husband.

She should save her life first, then seek resolution or dissolution with her husby.

Her husband battered her today again and prevented her from going to office.

She can’t even leave the house

healthserve:
With 60k you can execute it. House 50k. Transport cost 10k

In lagos?

DenreleDave:
Pls do this.. Ask ur sister if she wants leave.. If yes, then go on

Thank you boss

Lexusgs430:
Suicide is never the option.........


Are they traditionally/legally married?.....

Just court o.

He is even yet to do any traditional rites

spongeisback:




Do you know what's funny? Because you just said a whole lot of nonsense!

How did you know the man in question is rich? Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world so pray tell how many Nigerians are rich?!


I asked you a question and you didn't answer, so does being rich give him the right to beat her?

You think it's everything about them that people show when they're dating?! I know someone that her husband has been to rehab 5 times in the space of 3 years and she had no idea he was a drug addict when they were dating.

You want to hear the man's side of the story why he's beating his wife right?

You're the idiót, because if you weren't you wouldn't think about the financial status of the man, because idióts like you believe whenever women complain about their husbands on this forum you assume the women married for money, meanwhile poor men are more violent, all those pictures of women being killed and beaten by their husbands on FP how many of those men are rich?

God bless you

DenreleDave:
U dey craze, shebi when e dey sweet, u and ur sister plus family dey enjoy but wen things change now, una won run.


Wooo all of una die there.. Una go face am together with ur sister facing the greater part

Like i said.

I am richer than the husband, his family and your own Afamily inclusive

RisenPhoenix:
Who told you there was battery? Don't make hasty assumptions.

@op. There's no way to divorce in one morning. And stop overhyping their differences. Just advice her to involve some cooler headed party from the elders in the family to mediate. If there is any form of assault, tell your parents to get her to come and stay with them for a while. If she's taking that option, she should be cautious where she stays during this period; otherwise the husband can claim in court that she abandoned him to live with another man.

You think we’ve not done this? Who loves divorce??

If it’s possible... i would have done it

BestAccessories:
I really don't think so.

If it's true, she wouldn't still be living under the same roof with him.

Who is paying the bills? I guess him

What is your sister doing for a living?

Can she truly live independently without any form of help from him?

I probably guess answer to this question is NO which makes her to still be living under the same roof with him.

Well... i won’t wanna give details

But my Sis is financially okay

MarianaTrench:
She wants to what?

Leave him or remain married to him?

You need to be specific please?

Leave! I cried yesterday

DenreleDave:
Exactly, the sister follow money marry man and now she I suffering... The useless brother that has eaten from the money too now Wana run away... Op, u can't eat ur cake and have it...

No!
My sister is well to do and i am richer than the husband generation combined!

I worth more than he can EVER EARN IN HIS ENTIRE LIFE

Lexusgs430:
Does your sister want to leave this beast?......

Or she remains happily married to this beast?...

She really wants to leave. She is even ready to commit suicide