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[size=17pt]Stage 5: Using The Power Of Two To Change The World][/size]


Now that you realize that you've learned to overcome your disagreements and found a deep, strong, long-lasting connection, you'll reach a further liberating conclusion: that the two of you have the power to change something in this world. You're not just going along together through this life for the sake of it, but you live in a partnership for the sake of a bigger cause. It might be that you work together, write together, create something together — it could be anything. But it's when you start to function as a whole, having transcended all the previous stages, that you can say with 100% certainty that "this is the person for me."

Stage 4: Creating Real, Lasting Love

If you close your eyes and try your hardest to carry on despite your reluctance, you might get through the third stage and come to the following one. Your mind is freed from those illusions which you projected onto your partner in the earlier stages. The person standing in front of you is not the one you imagined being with, but a real person. You accept — and more importantly — understand their shortcomings. Now is the time to heal and to move on to the final stage.

Stage 3: Disillusionment

This is the period when your hopes begin to be dashed. It's when you start to get the impression that your feelings may one day dissipate, never to return. That your partner is becoming so totally predictable, and their behavior annoys you in so many ways. You start to feel like you want a break from them or even tell yourself that they're not the one for you. The further thought occurs that there's no point in torturing yourself and your partner in a relationship that's run out of steam.

Stage 2: Becoming A Couple

At this stage, love becomes stronger, and a succession of dates is eventually replaced by moving in together. You get to know each other a lot better, and your presence begins to have an effect on all aspects of your partner's life. This is a time of unity and joy. At some point, after many months or years, this period may witness the appearance of children, which can only strengthen the bond between you. You feel protected and desired. And you believe that you've definitely found the person for you — that your relationship was decided by fate.

Happy New month people!!

I have heard alot of testimonies and complaints about love but one thing is certain majority of people do in fact find the one true love of their life. But the problem is they can't keep it together through all five stages of love, most of the time reaching only the third...

Let's take a look at what they are... Feel free to Agree or Disagree in the comments section.





[size=15pt]Stage 1: Falling In Love[/size]
Falling in love is the stage when you find yourself living through a cloud of happiness hormones. This is the time when you project all of your desires and hopes onto your partner. Your partner rapidly becomes the ideal person for you; they simply have no flaws of any kind. You believe he or she will always be able to fulfill your every wish, and you believe every word they say. You so believe in the power of true love right now that no skeptical voices can make you stop and think more cautiously.

[size=70pt]TANIA [/size]

OMOTOWO:
when we already booked november 26th for my grandfather burial..abi aye oba yi fe baje ni?wetin we go do now?we don buy clothes arrange IV and buy some stuffs

carry him to your yoruba land n bury him

EDO PEEPS NORDEY TAKE RUBBISH NAH UNLIKE THOSE COPY N PASTE STRANGERS DAT STAY ON D OTHER SNELLN SIDE

IN EDO STATE NO BODY IS ABOVE THE LAW.....
UNLIKE SOME OTHER PPL WE KNOW.

Edo State Government has suspended His Royal Highness Anselm O Aidenojie, the Onojie of Uromi from office as the Onojie for seven days.
A letter signed by Secretary to the State Government, Prof Julius Ihonvbere dated October 26, 2016, titled “Suspension from Office as Traditional Ruler”, states: “I write to convey to you, the decision of the Edo State Executive Council at its meeting on the 26th October 2016, suspending you from office for 7 days as Onojie of Uromi. The suspension from office was based on, among other reasons:
‘Your unprovoked attack, inflicting grievous bodily harm on one Mrs Betty Okoebor on September 28, 2016 in full public glare to the embarrassment of those present and causing disgrace to your otherwise esteemed office;
‘Your refusal, even after two weeks, to respond to a query issued by the appropriate authority within the stipulated 72 hours demonstrating total disregard and disrespect for constituted authority; and
‘Travelling outside the country without appropriate permission in further demonstration of your disregard for extant regulations and laws.’
“In the circumstances, the State Executive Council has arrived at a conclusion that these and other acts of misconduct of Your Royal Highness, the Onojie of Uromi are not only distasteful but also unbecoming of a traditional ruler of your status.
“Based on the above and convinced that your Highness has denied yourself of the opportunity of entering a plea against the charges against you that were duly conveyed in writing to you, and therefore in exercise of the powers conferred on the State Executive Council by virtue of Section 28(1) of Traditional Rulers and Chiefs Law (1979) and all other Laws enabling it in that behalf, has approved your suspension from office as the Onojie of Uromi with immediate effect for a period of seven (7) days, that is, from the 26th of October 2016 to the 1st of November, 2016.
“Consequently, within the suspension period, you shall cease to be recognized and treated as traditional ruler or as the Onojie of Uromi in Edo State and you shall not exercise any powers or function or enjoy any privileges provided for under the Traditional Rulers and Chief Law (1979) and all other relevant provisions under the said law.
“Within the 7-day suspension period, you are required to tender unreserved apologies to your victim, Mrs Betty Okoebor and the Government of Edo State. However, if within the said 7 days no public apology in tendered by your very self, you will stand deposed as the Onojie of Uromi.”


http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/10/big-boobs-cannot-stand-unless-fake-maserati/

Onijagidijagan:
You just typed poo frm ur brain Obaitala was a king before oduduwa in ife amongst others that are lost in history..that shows obas has bn in used bf Ogiso dynasty in yorubalands.
Even ur king Ewure 2 confirmed d first oba in benin was Oranmiyan, and he eradicated d Ogiso dynasty after he came frm ife. if u don't like him for saying dat go and kill him in his palace if den born u. ugly monkey.

Edos bears yoruba names wot of dat?

YOU ARE SILLY EDO NAMES STOLEN BY YORUBA ABII....

EVEN NOW YORUBA ARE EVEN ANSWERING EDO NAMES SHAMELESSLY

GO AND ASK DAVIDO WHERE HE GOT HIS DAUGHTERS NAME IMADE FROM

OBA EWAURE CATEGORICALLY ALSO SAID ODUDUWA WAS EKELERAN A BENIN PRINCE WHO WANDERED INTO IFE AND OROMIYAN WAS ALSO A BENIN PRINCE... SINCE U ARE DAFT GO N WATCH D CORONATION AGAIN


COMON GERRARA HERE

simpleseyi:


As you have prayed, so shall it be in the land of the falling sun, the land called Biafra shall soon experience full blown famine and disease. Amen.

THUNDER FIRE YOU!!

DOES EVERYTIN ALWAYS HAVE TO DO WITH IGBOS??........WETIN IGBOS DO UNA??.....MYOPIC TRIBAL MARKED FACED BIGOT.

HECK I AM NOT EVEN IGBO
CHECK MY PROFILE

BETTER ARRANGE YOUR SEF WELL B4 I TRACE YOUR IP

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THUNDER ROAST YOU AND ALL YOUR COWS!! OZOUR

THIS THE SAME THING I WOULD TELL YOUR DAUGHTER ZAHRA WEN AM POUNDING HER WIT DOGGGY IN THE OTHER ROOM

YEAH WE ARE ALMOST THERE TO A FULL BLOWN FAMINE AND BROKENESS!!

President Muhammadu Buhari has urged Nigerians to always speak positively about the country in spite of the current economic recession, saying it will end soon.
Buhari made the call at the 7th National Prayer Breakfast organised by National Assembly with the theme: “A tree and its fruits: is yours a blessing or a curse to Nigeria,” on Thursday in Abuja.
The president was represented at the occasion by the Secretary to Government of the Federation, Mr Babachir Lawal.
Buhari assured Nigerians that the recession would end very soon as the government is doing all within its power to restore the economy of the country.
“As Christians and political leaders, we must strive to be the light of the world by speaking positively concerning the state of the nation.
“These hard times we are in, require leaders who are aware of the situation to stand in the gap to see how to turn the situation around.
According to him, Christian leaders have forgotten to look at the positive side of issues and the opportunity it presents for the good of all.
“I have total faith that Nigeria will emerge from this crisis strong, united and prosperous, this will come to fruition in the lifetime of this government.
“Also as Christians and leaders we should all thank God for the opportunity to be key player in this time of economic meltdown,” Lawal admonished.
Rev. Abu Bako, in his keynote address, charged leaders to rise up and take responsibility of making Nigeria a blessed nation.
He said that Nigeria was founded upon water so that she can bear fruits and flourish, adding “we are all instruments of transformation and our role is to make Nigeria great.
Bako urged political and religious leaders to behave like persons who would not steal from the people’s wealth, but have the interest of the people at heart.
“Let us behave as God-fearing persons, who have the interest of its citizen and welfare at heart and not behave as politicians.
“We must be able to take Nigeria to a place of her destiny by praying for clarity of vision for our leaders who are leading us,” Bako stressed.
He urged Nigerians to be instruments of transformation and be carriers of blessing where ever they go by speaking positively.
“When the nation seeks God’s face then the Lord will heal our land,” he added.
According to him, as a nation we have responsibility to build Nigeria and not to tear it down by our action, inaction and the words of mouth.
The atmosphere was eventful with inspirational songs from popular gospel artist Samsong, Jamaica and Lester Lewis who sang the national anthem with reggae tune.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/10/remain-positive-recession-will-end-soon-buhari-tells-nigerians/

ogbonti:
Joebeck:
Why is the oba smiling? I thought his mouth are meant to be shut all the time.



you insulted yourself first, because ONLY a dead person will NEVER SMILE AND SHUT HIS MOUTH PERMANENTLY WHEN HE IS NOT DUMB.. Even Adolf Hitler, in his Luciferous glory smiled more than anyone in his cabinet. So why will you keep trying to ridicule my King because you want to enforce an impossible standard on him? Please excuse me. Let me ask you, SINCE YOU AFONJAS CLAIM ODUDUWA CAME FROM THE SKY WITH A LADDER, WHY HAS THAT SAME LADDER STOPPED BRINGING DOWN MORE ODUDUWA-LIKE ooni's IN IFE....WHERE IS THE LADDER, AND why did the current OONI not descend from Heaven with it? lol, you want to be ridiculous? I will let you have it.

DNT MIND THIS PHYSCOS THAT ARE STILL ARGUING THAT ODUDUWA WAS NOT EKEHELEHAN BUT PREFER TO BELIEVE DAT LADDER CRAP

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i knw say na yoruba dey post rubbish for dis thread pass wit una lie lie say oduduwa na sky diver wen use chain take cum dwn from sky
abeg una nor forget say oba benin is the number one in nigeria and most feared nd respected unlike una last ooni wen go baff for river to cumot he sickness so he fit go he pinkin marriage still he still die for there wat a pity una nor suppose to dey compare una self wit benin at all bcus imagine a people group of pple dat is just one state is highly recongnised in d world if u doubt me if u have a dictionary type edo and or benin u will see d result apart from Edo, hausa ,yoruba u wont see any other state there.. But nigeria only recongnise wazobia bcus dey are much and i wonder the edos are not much in population but yet d world knows about the kingom i bet u if not for nigeria wit der corruption Edo culture and art would have been thought in schools in nigeria and improve on and if Edo was to be an independent country on his own it would be second kingdom in Africa to b recongnised after that of Egypt so pls my yoruba country pple u shld b ashamed dat in your history what we saw is migration which resulted from slave trade selling ur own pple to different part of the world and juju abeg make una dey shame for una lie say edo cum from una and yet u pple were not recongnise as a kingom in nigeria
its nigeria dat helped made u spread your culture of lies my country ppple i luv to break it to u there was noting like oyo empire it was just formed up if you doubt read about the kiriji war of the yorubas
And the Benin story of oduduwa was d truth i dnt belive on stories of creation cus all the stories are myth if u hear from all these stories of creation u will see dey are subjecting to one thing dat is king from skies but i belive der was a creator of all these and i also believed dat d world migrated from each other dat made d twist of d original storey of creation. what i gat to understand through learning was that everybdy has der own version of it around d world except dey wan tell me say everybody in d world today will b judge by der own creator whom came from sky so dat means if u were to b worshipping oduduwa and u go dey worship god from Christianity den u don sin to ur god
And its also Fact dat the word oba came from Edo cus der was no trace dat Yoruba ever use oba in der history and i wonder
it was na later been used as king after dey saw dat the world oba prospered in benin so dey later adopted it for themself also and use it to adress royalty am not trying to biased but say d truth

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NOC1:
why him no cover mouth?

Google the benin Culture instead of embarrising yourself all the time..

THATS THE KIND OF RESPECT YOU GET BY SITTING MAJESTICALLY IN YOUR PALACE NOT BY JUMPING FROM ONE OWAMBE TO THE NEXT



OBA KHA TO KPEREEE......... ISEE!!!

I AM PROUDLY 5%

When we in the South say that the Hausa people of Northern Nigeria are our enemies, we really ought to be aware that we are just playing into the divide and rule strategy of the oligarchs who have been the powers behind the throne in Nigeria for decades and who want the North and the South to be suspicious of each so they can play one side against the other and continue to dominate us to our detriment.
Now if you are a Southerner, ask yourself, who are these so called Hausa people that are dominating us?

Of the thirteen Prime Ministers, heads of state and Presidents that have either ruled or led Nigeria since her independence from Great Britain in 1960, not one of them have been Hausa by tribe.
Tafawa Balewa, our first prime minister was from a small minority tribe called Gere in Bauchi state, known in the singular form as Bagere.

Johnson Aguiyi Ironsi was Igbo by tribe from Abia state.
General Yakubu Gowon is Minority Angas by tribe from Plateau state.
Murtala Mohammed was Fulani from Kano state and President Olusegun Obasanjo is Yoruba from Ogun state.
President Shehu Shagari is a Fulani from Sokoto state.
President Muhammadu Buhari is a Fulani from Katsina state while President Ibrahim Babangida is a Minority Gwari from Niger state.
Ernest Shonekan is Yoruba from Ogun state and Sani Abacha was Kanuri although he claimed Kano as his state because he was brought up there.

Abdulsalami Abubakar is the only Hausa leader we have ever had. Yet was he a dictator? Was he domineering? Capital NO. In office, he was a God-fearing ruler who treated every part of Nigeria equally and ushered in the Fourth Republic which has been our longest democratic experience ever. Abdulsalami is, and was a good man.
Does his image fit the stereotype of the mean and monstrous Hausa man? No!
Abdulsalami is more humane than some people who even call themselves clergymen! If he had wanted to stay on in power, you and I would not have been able to stop him. More than President Obasanjo, General Abdulsalami Abubakar is our own Mandela!
After him we had the second, Olusegun Obasanjo’s administration which was succeeded by the Umaru Musa Yar’adua administration.
President Yar’adua was a Fulani from Katsina state.
He was succeeded by President Goodluck Jonathan, a minority Ogbia (a minority clan within a minority tribe).
He has been succeeded by President Muhammadu Buhari who is a Fulani from Katsina as previously noted.
From the above, some persons may want to adjust Hausa domination and make it Fulani domination, but that again is another Myth!
Of the four Fulanis who have either ruled or led Nigeria, two of them were reluctant Presidents.
President Shehu Shagari, whom I have met physically, never wanted to be President of Nigeria. That is what he meant by the title of his own autobiography, ‘Beckoned to Serve’. All he wanted was to be a Senator. He was prevailed upon by the defunct National Party of Nigeria (NPN) to run as its flag bearer. He was a reluctant President.
Ditto for the late President Umaru Musa Yar’adua. He never wanted to be President. He wanted to retire as a chemistry lecturer in Katsina. He was persuaded by former President Olusegun Obasanjo to be the flag bearer of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) and even during the Presidential campaigns of 2007, President Obasanjo campaigned for Yar’adua more than Yar’adua campaigned for himself!
Now of the remaining two Fulani leaders, President Muhammadu Buhari tried three times to be Nigeria’s President and three times he failed because he largely depended on the Hausa-Fulani (there is really nothing like Hausa-Fulani, it is a creation of the Lagos-Ibadan press. You are either Hausa or Fulani).
The fact of history is that in 2015, the then candidate Buhari’s victory depended on God and propaganda used by two Southwestern Yoruba men, Bola Ahmed Tinubu and former President Olusegun Obasanjo.
In other words, what the North could not do for President Buhari was done for him by two South-westerners.

So ask yourself who is dominating who?
And in fact, Hausa is more of a language than it is a tribe. It is a language that connects the people of Northern Nigeria.
A lot of these people that we in the South view as Hausa are not Hausa. They have their own individual ethnic nationalities.
But when we in the South resist them and band them all as Hausa, they have no choice but to fall back on that identity and unite on it to also resist us in the South.
You cannot expect people you do not like to love you. And government cannot force us to love each other. Government cannot legislate patriotism.
You and I must learn to understand each other and grow to love each whether we are from the North or South.
When the oppressed people of Nigeria unite against their oppressors, it is then they will know that the masses are the only dominant power bloc in Nigeria.
Until then, enjoy your imaginary Hausa enemies!

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/10/called-hausa-people-dominating-us-reno/

Brigham:
Delivered to those that sired you.

YOUR PAPI N MAMI

Brigham:
I don't usual engage imbeciles.

Lagos was, is, and will continue to be Yoruba man's land.

The street language is Yoruba, the traditional heads are Obas, the governor and commissioners are Yorubas.

When the time comes, your people who are immigrants will crawl back to whatever hellholes they came out from.

EVERYTHING YOU TYPED UP THERE YOU STOLE ALL FROM THE GREAT BENIN

YOU ARE WORSE THAN AN IMBECIILE YOU ARE A MIXTURE OF OBASANJO AND A ORANGUTAN

arsenalLUVA:
All talk no sense.

I sha make sense pass Ife