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anybody being posted from osun to Benue state

LePrezident:
Been there done that.

1. Cut every form of contact. Social media and all. Delete her number

2. Get very busy with work and set work/career goals to achieve.

3. Go on a punna chase and score as many as you can. Some people will advise against this but tell you what, this is the most effective of all the steps.

4. Stop stalking her on social media. Get a life!

5. Do more fun stuff. Like learn a hobby (learn a new dance, learn to swim, pick up an interest in foreign languages; preferably French)

6. Go on a holiday.

7. Avoid romantic music and stop visiting places you both used to go together.

u are absolutely right

who wil reply this letter now of pcms 2017 stream2?

May God bless their union

is like most people with heartbreak in this forum a're male

is like most people with heartbreak in this forum are male

jakandeola:
iv realise what a fool I was to give my heart to an animal. only a foolish man will ever belief in ttue love. The girl I thought is mine betray me last year. we hv been together for 2yrs, yet I neva touch her cos I was saving her for myself. we have been having issues. 3months b4 we brake up we quarrell because of money issue and we kept malice for 3 weeks until we settled. den her elder sister got married, and she told me she needed money for suveniar to share. she know I have money I want to invest, yet I gave her good 40000 naira. after the wedding she suddenly changed don't pick my calls or like my pix anymore. when I confronted her she said shes no longer interested that im not man enough for her and cant provide for her. this is a girl I wished to marry I never knew she is a cheap thing that goes sleeping around. In time karma will catch her. I will never in my life trust any woman again. now I believe love is wicked. I feel so sad.

bro luv Is not wicked o. u av not just meet the right girl to luv

teresafaith:
He was my first boyfriend dated him for eight years, dude called one day to say he wasn't interested anymore that he needs to focus on his life that I should do the same. Well to cut long story short I got married six month later to a wonderful guy who I'm ready to stand by through thick and thin.


Dude called up one day and was like "he thought I was going to wait for him to finish focusing on his life"

Guy!! me no get chance for oshi

how were u able to cope during those period?

waywardpikin:
That's more like it. Thanks!
Are you serving?

nop bt am goin with batch A stream 2

ur experience in camp is intriguing wayward pikin but d story is interesting keep d write up goin bro

what kind of excuse is dis ole given to d public

when is the next update wayward pikin?

I wish all of dem safe butt implant

purem:
my mom always told me 'any man that chase woman b4 his dream is doomed'

women has been the problem of dis world since day 1 ax ADAM

u ar right bro

I agree with u Bro

I agree wt u bro

show of ignorance

U just av to pray nd seek for God interventn i wil nt advance u to divorce because d bible frawns against dt be patient like u av being doing

I agree wt dis fact

just hope d recruitment process won't be manipulated

dis is serious o

iamsea:
sorry bro.. Do u have any idea when batch A stream 2 call up date is?? And the date we are to resume to camp??

no official date yet bt some people were sayin second week of July although d time table for d batch a stream 2 has nt been updated on nysc website

thanx for d info

pls o dey should nt strike o

Economic recession has really affect d funding of Education system in Nigeria at all level nt only varsity even secondary, and primary skuls av all hike their fees from d way tins is goin now it should nt be dt Education wil be a tin of d rich only o

She is nt meant for u, cos ur own right partner wont desert u wen u needed her d most forget everytin u ever had wit her tank God is just for years mine i dated her for 10 years just wen d year am suppose to wed her i discover someone else has engaged her it was a painful experience bt tank God i overcum it so my bro life goes on ok experience dey say is the best teacher move on with ur life d future is bright for u dont let a promiscus woman bring u down ok always remember dt so many of ur friends nd family ar looking up to u so dont bring dem down, because of one lady dt does nt even appreciate hw u feel about her!!

Ladies always av their own ways of thinking o dey might nt reason d way dis article envisage

valnelly:
As I write this.... I'm filled with so much hurt and regret.
My girlfriend whom I thought would be patient enough for me so I could get married to her has broken up with me.
I met her while I was writing my final year project in Yabatech about 4 years ago. We were cool together and the distance between us didn't mean that much to me even though she stays in ikorodu and I stay in surulere. The problem started when I gained admission to Unilag due to my decision for self development. I'm 31 years old and she is 25.
During the last 2 years I noticed she has changed drastically I notice that she now has stuffs like new shoes and new bags. Which of course ordinarily she wouldn't have been able to afford. The only time we see is on weekends and that's because she is still in Yabatech schooling and sometime when she comes like that she acts funny with phone calls. The way she talks to some certain people so suspicious. But none the less she always feels cool with me and always wants to be around me. Could it be because of sex?

I noticed that she behaves single at school and even on social media. We do not chat or use social media, we added each other but at a point I had to take her off because she doesn't portray any thing that shows we are actually dating...i took her off all platform of social media and she wasn't perturbed about it. I don't actually know what's going on in school or her place of residence but I have a very strong feeling that she has been cheating on me and some other guy have been buying her things I can't get for her. But on top of this she was actually looking for school fees and I was deploying all methods to make sure she pays this on time and that alone made me confused!. We had a heated argument on Sunday and she was yelling and talking back at me... I left the house for her in annoyance only for me to come back and she is gone. She left a note that says that she is no longer interested. Guys please what should I do. I love this girl so frigging much. I can't sleep or think straight right now. It's almost impossible for me to start all over again. I feel hopeless. Please guys your advice!

u av to forget about her she is nt meant for u ur right partner wont desert u wen u need her most i av been in ur shoe i kw hw it feels in my own i av ben dateing her for ten years bt she cheated on me just d year am suppose to wed her i cant kill myself life has to go on

Victornezzar:
Bro dats not an issue 2 get worried over....just forget her.....delete everything about her
Infact ur lucky cos u no go dey think about anything again.....Make money nd look 4 someone better

u ar right bro

Our people ar perishin to d xtent dt d truth is no longer welcum in our society

May be Linda has also promise nt to write anytin dt wil make Jim angry anymore cos dis dialogue must come with an agreement