Family › Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by boyjo: 5:08pm On Jul 17, 2019 |
Timih
Kindly note that because yours son has confessed does not mean the "foolishness" has been driven form his heart. I am not asking you to beat him.
But your son needs to see your red eye. He needs to know for a fact, what is wrong and what is right. Right now, your son knows he can dare you.
Oyibo people wey una dey copy dey punish their pikin o. Make una dey get sense.
My prayer for you na say, God go help you make you no meet am for front.
Ciao! |
Family › Re: I Caught My Housemaid Sexually Assaulting My Son by boyjo: 5:16pm On Jul 16, 2019 |
Timih: I'm very disturbed now 
This might be long
I don't know if he's the one assaulting her or she's the one doing so.. I don't even know what is going on
I got back from work, went to the bathroom and when I came out, I saw my son entering a room. He was calling her name and entered. I've been suspecting something like this so I used the opportunity to peep. I saw my son sitting close to her, putting his hand across her neck, this time she was giving a faint smile while putting her palms on her face. Later the boy went to her back and started squeezing her breast from behind. Mehn.. I'm sad, shocked, bad.. Everything. I called him and I pretended not to see anything, why? I know if I react, I'll severely deal with him and that won't change anything because he's been poisoned already. I feel like I've failed as a father already.
He's 7 turning to 8,the girl is 14. I seriously don't know what to do about my son, in fact I can't eat to think well. I'll be sending away the girl though but I'm sure that won't stop my son from doing things. Especially in his school. I'm afraid of anything that may happen.
First time I noticed a strange relationship between them, i called him, talked to him about not showing his pen.is to anyone, to keep himself covered and all sort, asked him questions about anyone touching him in any manner and he said no. I asked him about his friends in school.. He named 8 of dem and 2 of them are girls.
I've failed as a father. My wife is not yet back but when I tell her, she will beat the boy and that won't change anything. I don't know where I went wrong. The maid bathes the boy, dresses for him too. Maybe that's where the issue lies. My wife just gave birth and that's why we employed a maid to help her and take care of the house till the baby is old enough.
I don't know where he got it from, I've stopped my wife from watching movies on dstv anytime he's with her.. She only watches redeemed channel and maybe news then when he's asleep, she face her movies. She asked why and i said there was a day I came back from work, and the way he greeted me was very strange... Normally, I relate with him as if we are age mates.. I can say my guy, how u dey na and he replies with daddy, I just gentle... Just normal guyman things but this one is totally different and no one needs to tell me he got it from the movies.. No one.
Maybe I have to take charge of bathing him
He's a very smart boy.. Very very smart and that's my fear.. And for him to be exposed to this has duely affected me.
Please help me.. Abuse me, curse me.. I don't have a choice.. Just help me 
Pardon my English pls.. Just help I feel like flogging you and weeping at the same time! How can you think that your son`s smartness made him sexually aware? Your househelp taught him! She has been teaching him to rub her boobs! When you both are not at home, when you both are not looking!!! Scripture says, "Foolishness abounds in the heart of a child but THE ROD OF DISCIPLINE drives foolishness far away from him". Proverbs 22:15KJV Do you know what rod of discipline is? IT IS CANE!!! You need to call them both in front of eachother and the Mum, tell them what you saw. Then proceed to flog them first, telling him why it is wrong and why you are flogging him. Then go and get wire (Don`t ever use it on any of them), threaten to flog them mercilessly with it if they do not confess. All the while, let your gaze be on your son. Threaten him to confess or get whipped, he will spill it out, (if you flogged him well with the cane initially). And stop acting stupid, your son is not your guyman BUT YOUR SON! He is to be seen as a gift of God, that needs to be trained by you his parent! He is not your guy man BUT YOUR SON. Train him, discipline him! Bring him up under your watchful eye. Which house hires househelps these days without CCTV, ehn?? Let your Madam warn the houshelp never to tie wrapper or walk naked around the house so the camera does not capture it. Someone wants to ruin your child`s destiny, you are there doing yen yen yen  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Ex-COZA Staff: I Was Raped By Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo (Video) by boyjo: 5:13pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
ikorodureporta: Ritualist preacher Is a yahoo plus guy who needs to continually rape ladies to get wealth or something? Is his wife privy to his predicament and choose to help him? Is it also possible he`s got hypnotist abilities? inspitation, Gulher, thunderbabs, sassysure |
Education › Re: What's The Difference Between Bsc (Hons) And Ordinary Bsc? by boyjo: 5:14pm On Jun 28, 2019*. Modified: 5:32pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
isthatso: Be arguing there like a fool, Back to Sender!!! Na your portion, carry am. |
Romance › Difference Between BSC(HONS) And BSC. by boyjo(op): 7:16am On Jun 20, 2019 |
cdoffx: Its a UK education system. Hons means you completed a project work while graduating without a project work gets you only a B.Sc without Hons. So here in Nigeria we can conveniently say we all graduate with Hons since a project work isn't an option to the best of my knowledge in our universities. lalasticlala take note and educte some NLders. |
Education › Re: What's The Difference Between Bsc (Hons) And Ordinary Bsc? by boyjo: 7:14am On Jun 20, 2019 |
cdoffx: Its a UK education system. Hons means you completed a project work while graduating without a project work gets you only a B.Sc without Hons. So here in Nigeria we can conveniently say we all graduate with Hons since a project work isn't an option to the best of my knowledge in our universities. See as he others they confidently type nonsense. Thank you jare. femi4; danietohbadt; isthatso;kings59; Enn214; Joshrob; isthatso; theButterfly; nduchucks |
Education › Re: What's The Difference Between Bsc (Hons) And Ordinary Bsc? by boyjo: 7:06am On Jun 20, 2019 |
Generalwoodz: Because you are honourable...like a honourabe in future time...something like Honourable mrs parternerbizz5 Your university knows (it is a gift) that one day,you would either be senator,Rep member or Las las local Govt chairman.. Hope I made sence nlers ? Abeg no make me laugh this morning  |
Crime › Re: 13-year-old Rape Victim May Never Be Able To Birth A Child by boyjo: 6:59am On Jun 20, 2019 |
landmark86: That's doctor report but God will neva make it happen. She's too young for this Amen. She has a womb and she is gonna give birth. |
Health › Re: Benefits Of Blood Donation- Virology Institute Of Nigeria by boyjo: 7:19am On Jun 18, 2019 |
AryaSand: I would love to join the donating gang but I can't even as I'm weight less than 43kg. The two times I donated half pint each was because they couldn't find O- blood anywhere. The dizziness that followed after though, Ferrous was my best friend for like one Month. Babe you are bold! |
Health › Re: Benefits Of Blood Donation- Virology Institute Of Nigeria by boyjo: 7:18am On Jun 18, 2019 |
dingbang: I hope they don't sell donated blood?  Na im be the bad part, them go collect am free come sell am. I no do research for this my answer sha  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Sam Adeyemi Family, Wife And Children Celebrate Father's Day by boyjo: 7:09am On Jun 18, 2019 |
oshe11: Honestly your reply just made my day and thought me alot about Life' Lessons
Thanks for replying!!! Awwwn...I have learned so much from your reply, thanks.  |
Business › Re: My Business Has Failed! Please Advise Me by boyjo: 7:36am On Jun 17, 2019 |
g2db2do: this your response is highly commendable despite the flaws in your story. Congrats anyways, u have successfully helped someone get a start up capital in the form of loan..liar
Meanwhile the main guy(scammer) hiding somewhere on this same thread Hahaha |
Phones › Re: Huawei’s New Hongmeng OS Reportedly 60 Percent Faster Than Android by boyjo: 7:18am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Hm, these atheists.
Someone on Nairaland once said, "the day power leaves US tothe Chinese or is it Asians, Christians go hear wenn!"
They habe perfected 5G, now this.
Dear Father in Heaven, give us the grace to receive the wisdom you are pouring on your children. Amen |
Family › Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by boyjo: 7:16am On Jun 17, 2019 |
But where did she get the courage to dare do that  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Sam Adeyemi Family, Wife And Children Celebrate Father's Day by boyjo: 7:13am On Jun 17, 2019 |
oshe11: Wow this Post has changed my perception about life
Thanks For Sharing!!! Lol, how? Kindly share, I`d like to learn too.  |
Business › Re: My Business Has Failed! Please Advise Me by boyjo: 7:10am On Jun 17, 2019 |
yomi007k: If not you may need to give him some form of collateral. shogotermies this is a good advice, give your friend a collateral. |
Romance › Re: Wow Heights. by boyjo(op): 6:34am On Jun 17, 2019 |
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Romance › Wow Heights. by boyjo(op): 5:14pm On Jun 10, 2019*. Modified: 5:38pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Senate Okays N5m Fine For Company Without Dignified Staff Buses by boyjo: 7:40pm On May 15, 2019 |
Why this boy like attention like this?? |
Sports › Re: 'Messi Aigbe' Trending On Nigerian Twitter After Barcelona's Loss To Liverpool by boyjo: 7:41am On May 08, 2019 |
hefelove: He no bet o Lol, thank God o.  That your laugh for killl am  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool vs Barcelona: UCL Semi-Finals (4 - 0) On 7th May 2019 by boyjo: 7:31am On May 08, 2019 |
Raydos: God actually made Barça win 3-0 in the first leg just to be disgraced 4-0 in the return leg
Everyone will see today that Messi is a cockroach and not a goat Oga, abeg, how you take know? |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool vs Barcelona: UCL Semi-Finals (4 - 0) On 7th May 2019 by boyjo: 7:30am On May 08, 2019 |
georjay: BASTARD (IN ADVANCE) The guy correct o  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool vs Barcelona: UCL Semi-Finals (4 - 0) On 7th May 2019 by boyjo: 7:27am On May 08, 2019 |
Raydos: If Liverpool don't win 4 nil call me bastard How you take know? |
Sports › Re: Mo Salah's Clothes To Anfield For Liverpool Vs Barcelona by boyjo: 7:18am On May 08, 2019 |
Lemon12: So messi went to Anfield 4-nothing |
Sports › Re: Mo Salah's Clothes To Anfield For Liverpool Vs Barcelona by boyjo: 7:18am On May 08, 2019 |
Goovo: Can we say Mo Salah is a bad luck to the team?  Hm! Deep. |
Sports › Re: Mo Salah's Clothes To Anfield For Liverpool Vs Barcelona by boyjo: 7:17am On May 08, 2019 |
BeeBeeOoh: Someone said that the GOAT is allergic to grasses at Anfiled Lol  |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe Reacts To Twitter Trend As People Compare Her To Lionel Messi by boyjo: 7:14am On May 08, 2019 |
MrPresident1: Game wen them fix. My brother, person predict this thing for nother thread and e swear put sef, I weak o |