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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by tiwiex(m): 6:50am On Jun 17, 2019 |
SageMK: Violence is not everything. I thought that was the best move. Kids are ungrateful these days and exhibit this entitlement mentality. Person pay your schools fees for UK. He even comes to visit you and you open your mouth that your DAD should wash his dishes? Are you paying your school fees or accomodation? He really must have thought this through. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Paulo3ree(m): 7:00am On Jun 17, 2019 |
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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Artzdanielsz(m): 7:01am On Jun 17, 2019 |
They just failed as a parent. And the Brat should apologize cos na that one go soften the father heart. Chia i remember when Dad nearly cut me off . 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by tiwiex(m): 7:03am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Daeylar: That girl get liver oh. Your DAD? Who is probably visiting you for a short time., pays your fees too. Seems her mother was also there. In fact we seem to miss that part. She was probably behind it. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by dangotesmummy: 7:10am On Jun 17, 2019 |
hobat4cash:its not thrash.this is Africa and we still have values .you should understand that its not every western principle that works for us.it's extremely rude and I'm sure the dad just wanted her to learn and appreciate his value and role.you don't disrespect a person funding your education much more your dad.give honour to whom honor is due.I know there are some useless sperm donor that don't know more than sex.those ones are worthless and don't deserve any honour so if you had said that to him no wahala.but a father paying your school fees and you know he's not western oriented of buys their idea and you're telling him to wash plates. Even me as a woman and mother if my daughter makes such statement, I will first land her slaps to remind her she's in Nigeria. As a child you need wisdom in managing your parents. If that child has sense she ought to ho and kneel down and beg her dad.when he sees she's remorseful he will change. I support the dad.drastic actions need to be taken for mannerless and entitled children that think everyone should be disrespected because they schooled in UK 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by inereunwa1(m): 7:10am On Jun 17, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:oh is that so ? but it encourages them to be disrespectful to their husbands right?? she took the feminist handbook too serious just like the dude you quoted rightly said. the truth is that the girl learnt it from her mother. " The mother however has been at loggerhead with her husband over his decision" instead of her to discipline the spoilt brat, she too they side her! |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by boyjo: 7:16am On Jun 17, 2019 |
But where did she get the courage to dare do that |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by dangotesmummy: 7:16am On Jun 17, 2019 |
tiwiex:abi o.the dad came to visit her and he cannot pamper him .WHEN SHR CLEARLY KNOWS HIS VISIT IS FOR A SHORT WHILE. since she thinks she has arrived and can misbehave to anyone she can as well fund her stay and schooling in UK independently. The oyinbos she's trying to copy,which of our African values do they copy from us? The girl clearly lacks wisdom |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by dangotesmummy: 7:21am On Jun 17, 2019 |
inereunwa1:leave feminism out of this.it has nothing to do with feminism. Feminism doesn't mean being manerless.she is just an entitled rude girl that needs to be put in her place just like her mom.oyinbos say the Apple doesn't fall far from the tree.we all know where she got her sauciness from 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by lawrsmith(m): 7:25am On Jun 17, 2019 |
SageMK:the man tried by allowing her to return back to UK again, if I where to be him; that will be her end of Education in UK. Because is obvious she is out there to learn the wrong things. 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 7:29am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Exodora:she's not a spoilt brat, that's what they teach them in Western college and universities, that they are no man's slave and every "real" man should be able to do home chores. Everything they teach girls there is feminism 3 Likes |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 7:30am On Jun 17, 2019 |
I dont even allow a visiting friend wash his/her dishes after meal let alone telling my biological father to wash his dishes after meal. That is too disrecpecting Jor. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by chijioke17(m): 7:36am On Jun 17, 2019 |
ibkayee:Probably she said it in a disrespectful manner 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 7:40am On Jun 17, 2019 |
paraltero:you are an idiot from a failed home 2 Likes |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by alphaNomega: 7:53am On Jun 17, 2019 |
EmagNig: Good for her. Next trick, turn to ashéwo and blame father for not supporting her. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Yujin(m): 8:02am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Daeylar:I'm really surprised at thoughts like yours. As a matter of fact, I'm appalled that an adult can reason like this. How can a healthy child still under the care of her father ask the same man to go wash his plates? Chai! It's the highest of disrespect. It shows that the mum with whom she's staying has failed to make her see the value of the father. This is the man's anger and I support him wholeheartedly. I still believe the man did it to send a message across and would revert back to initial setting if those corrections are noted. For your information, even the westerners we credit such behaviour with don't go to this level. Let stop making excuses for nonsense attitudes. If he was to excuse it today, it won't be surprising to hear the same girl pass her own dishes for him to wash another time. Men out there most stamp their feet immediately they notice such obnoxious manners. Those who refused to do so later regret it as they never get that opportunity again. 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Yujin(m): 8:08am On Jun 17, 2019 |
paraltero:Wow! If your friend visits you, do you ask him to wash his dishes after eating? |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Angrymode: 8:14am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Anywhere in the world and my child does this rubbish to her uncle, talk less me, na auto-reset slaps go redesign her face. She won't even know when she will go on her knees and beg for forgiveness like a proper African child after such slaps. Very stupid child 2 Likes |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by paraltero: 8:19am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Yujin: If it's necessary to, I would. And if I'm the visiting friend and I'm asked to with respect, I wouldn't get offended either. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by emezuo17: 8:20am On Jun 17, 2019 |
truthsayer009:. I will do exactly what the dad did and even go further by bringing her back to Nigeria to complete her education in unijos or uni illorin 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by paraltero: 8:20am On Jun 17, 2019 |
lilbest4: And you're a child with access to the internet. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Yujin(m): 8:23am On Jun 17, 2019 |
paraltero:This is just your friend and you still added 'If necessary'. Then, if it's ur 'aged' father would anything necessitate you to ask him do his dishes? |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by paraltero: 8:30am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Yujin: Again, if it's necessary, of course. See my problem with this our whole culture and tradition thing - it seems to serve little more than to give people reason to be angry about something. If he washed his dishes, would he suddenly drop dead or lose all his money. A father thhat loves his kids would not put his ego ahead of their well-being. He would also listen to and do what they ask if they make their request with respect and politely decline if it's something he can't do. It's insecure men that would go into a rage and start screaming disrespect. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by victorian(f): 8:34am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Lleigh: Alot to do with the parents. Trust me I know what I'm saying |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by alizma: 8:36am On Jun 17, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:Which feminism class do you belong to because to the best of my knowledge, most girls(naija girl) who claim to be feminist believe that men should be doing those things they, before now considered as women's word at home. Works like helping the man to wash his cloths, removing and washing plates used to eat by the man, cooking etc. Unfortunately they are yet to tell us when they will start given us transport fare when we go on a date, take full responsibility of providing for the family, asking our parents for our hands in marriage, etc |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by ibkayee(f): 8:39am On Jun 17, 2019 |
iPopAlomo:Lol I get, congrats on your move 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by BobRisky5050: 8:43am On Jun 17, 2019 |
philips007:�� Benin weed 2 Likes |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Yujin(m): 8:44am On Jun 17, 2019 |
paraltero:Ok. You see this phrase 'if necessary' is a big blanket covering all manner of events that can justify such requests but outside it, nothing justifies such stupidity. The story would have indicated what might have precipitated here request but it didn't. This shows that nothing prevented her from doing it and I want us to accept that nothing prevented her from doing it. In this scenario, what will you have done as her father? I know you want to sound different from others but you have to understand that others considered that nothing hindered her from doing it or postponing the dishes as opposed to her asking outrightly. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by barbwire2(m): 8:52am On Jun 17, 2019 |
[color=#006600][/color][quote author=Ultimatesammie post=79396097] And what if the woman works also and she also brings income, how exactly is washing plate a difficult thing to do people should start looking at characteristics of great leaders and see how they do things. This why most people would be average. Yeye dey smell |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 9:24am On Jun 17, 2019 |
ibkayee: A man can do any dirty thing for you as a woman but never tell him to do it. It may never end well. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by HomeOfMe(f): 9:54am On Jun 17, 2019 |
EmagNig:Very silly and disrespectful girl,good for her. |
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