The Benue friends I have are very awesome to be with. One is even beside me right now, he missed a supposed great occasion in makurdi, he said he prefers being around. Your people are cool ma, no sweet coated mouth.... smile.
[quote author=Joislim post=63715466]I appreciate your time and opinions. I'll keep that in mind. see you around [/quote I stay in Abuja, do you stay close?
Joislim: I didn't tax nor over tax my ex, the cause of our break up wasn't money. I don't even depend on guys income, I feel I should contribute financially to a relationship that's why I prioritise it.
I will put your advice into consideration.
Thanks
Actually, I never mean to emphasize on the monetary aspect though but I think as a woman, you don't need to bother yourself on contributing financially into a relationship with a man, most esp when its just a bf or even a finance. Don't impress your partner with money, try other things out, like being caring, being contributive to his project intellectually, don't be bothered when he doesn't give, don't let him feel guilty if he couldn't give and most importantly, love him and show it to the world if he is a credible and potential husband, he will notice all these qualities, appreciate you for them and cherish you forever. May be am speaking for myself sort of, cos that's the best girl I can ever think of.
ksbusari: I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.
Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.
I guess u would not come here at initial if you really love her and you are also a matured mind except if this is not the first time this is happening. Naturally, you need to confirm that she still loves you, then you can forgive her guide her, fend for her needs as necessary, then most importantly, love her more and blind your eyes to her iniquities. Again, be sure that she still loves you if not, put her on your fork list.
Joislim: I was too heartbroken this year to think of relationship.
Secondly, I'm broke. It discourages me a lot from relationship. 2018 won't pass me by tho
As a female, I don't think you should necessarily prirotise money in a relationship, may be you over-taxed your exes cos of your financial status n u now feel guilty the way u handled those relationships. The secret is that just be beautiful to yourself, manage the lil funds available with you, work hard to earn more and stop being unnecessarily dependent on your bf's income... it discourages guys of nowadays even me. Position your self for mature relationship and your village pple will disappear next year as u r determined.
I just stormed on this now and i think its worthwhile. Enjoy the vibes of the small ahmed. Its a testimony for him, a miracle some people people encounter in only Shiloh of living faith or Holy Ghost Convention of Redeem.
I just stormed on this now and i think its worthwhile. Enjoy the vibes of the small ahmed. Its a testimony for him, a miracle some people people encounter in only Shiloh of living faith or Holy Ghost Convention of Redeem.