I don't really get this. Must FG be boasting about this kind of rot in the society? This is highly shameful to talk about. Is it an achievement or what are they trying to tell Nigerians. I'm really disappointed with the government on this.

Instead of flushing the monster out of the society and you are here fanning yourself of rescuing 1000 kidnapped victims without ransom.

Very shameful.

Watch the video before concluding on your ascension.

She cook food for her household but doesn't have appetite for any. No medical doctor could explain the medical condition of the woman and why is still alive without water and food.

She looks healthy and sound.

An Ethiopian woman who lives without food and water for over sixteen yrs is the incredible thing that defies medical explanation.

What is your thoughts on this!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J6HN9Q1FnxY?si=V_pnNAmZUqRwwezO

See attached pictures below

See the Mini Yam Plantation Farm I started right in my backyard with other fruit crop in order to fight food crisis.

What is your take on this.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3HT_T6Bal8g?si=be6uc7fe6jJCB2PT

Taking responsibility is one thing but being sincere with the acceptance of responsibility is another thing.

I don't think I can trust this president.

Nairalanders I pray for you in this New Month. May this POOR soup never be your portion.

This is the banana I bought in Akwaibom at the rate of #1000 while on official visit today. I resides in Portharcourt and I use to buy this at #3,500.
Akwaibom is indeed blessed.

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*1) DARING YOUR HUSBAND TO BEAT YOU:*

You block the door way, then dare him to beat you up and see what will happen. A Lot of women have done this and end up regretting.

*2) DARING YOUR HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN:*

You will be making a major mistake if you dare your husband to sleep with another woman. You may live to regret it.

*3) NEGLECTING YOUR BODY AND LOOKS BECAUSE YOU ARE MARRIED:*

“I am married i can relax, after all who is looking at me.?” He married you Slim, sexy and trendy. Next thing you become obsessed, dirty and shabbily dressed.
It is the mistake of most careless married women.

*4) DENYING YOUR HUSBAND SEX REGULARLY:*

You are a career woman; You are an overly religious woman... Hmmm! You feel sex in marriage is secondary, you deny your husband your body regularly, so he is sexually starved and intimacy famished. His Secretary, colleagues and girls in church are seducing and begging him to come to them but you have padlocked your Jerusalem and expect him not to lust after others. His mind will drift from you towards them.

*5) SERVING YOUR HUSBAND FOOD AS IF HE IS A BEGGAR*

Many women made this mistake by serving their husbands food with no respect but prefer to serve visitors food well. This follows with excuses like: How much did you give, they are economizing the food to reach the children, you want to finish the whole pot etc. Your husband is your king and should be treated as such. If you force him to be eating outside, it will send a wrong signal in the marriage. Even in the worst case scenario you are the bread winner in the house, learn to respect your husband by giving him good food as tomorrow is unknown. Men like good food from their wives. Therefore, serve him well.

*6 LEAVING YOUR HUSBAND FOR YOUR FEMALE FRIEND TO CATER FOR:*

“My dear friend, please be my eye as I travel for this one week, help cater for my husband and my little kids”. By the time you are back, your dear friend has so really helped you by sleeping with your husband and expecting a new baby as continuation from where you stopped.
If at all she has not eloped with your man, leaving your children all alone.
It is very stupid to commit your husband into the hands of your beautiful and very active friend.

*7) LEAVING YOUR HUSBAND IN THE HANDS OF YOUR HOUSE MAID:*

Your maid is the one that cooks,cleans the house, cares for the children and your husband. You suddenly become a lazy bone since the arrival of the maid. All you do is shout and place orders. Not bad! But if your husband feels more love and care from the maid, sister that maid won't struggle to snatch your husband. You are the one graciously giving him to her and those that need him.

* EMPLOYING A FULLY GROWN, RED BLOODED LADY AS A MAID:*

She is fully grown up and well endowed back and front very tantalizing. She dresses skimpily and sexily like an actress, cat walks like a model and that is your own house maid?
What a mistake!

*9) EMPLOYING A HOUSE GIRL THAT IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YOU:*

Employing a house girl more beautiful than you is a major technical mistake most women make. This means you are using your money to employ a rival for yourself. Don’t be foolish when getting a maid. They act dumb like maids to you for the time being but when your husband starts sleeping with them, you will be shocked they are more agile than you when they start fighting you.

*10) USING ANALOG BRAIN TO LIVE WITH A DIGITAL HUSBAND:*

Your husband is growing with ideas and all; you contribute nothing than sitting down at home to eat. He is dressing like a guy with jeans and face cap; you are celebrating the fact that you are a married woman to a Yuppy cute man. Your husband is on Twitter, Facebook, Whatsapp, Skype etc; the only thing you know about mobile phone is receiving and making calls. Your husband is talking about stock market; you only talk about tomato market. He's talking about Forex; you are talking about fruit and vegetables only. He will see you so backwards, local and dumb. Upgrade please!

*11) FAILING TO COMMIT YOUR FAMILY INTO THE HANDS OF GOD:*

A wife won’t do well if she fails to commit her family into the hands of God regularly. Don’t make such mistakes of thinking you are in charge of your husband and marriage and you can handle things. Be prayerful, hand over your family to God daily. May you never labour in vain and another reaps where you have sown!

*12) FIGHTING YOUR MOTHER IN-LAW CARELESSLY:*

You may fight your Mother in-law dirty and think you have won especially if she's innocent, you will end up losing. Her son and herself have been friends and lovers for years before you came; may be before you were born. She was the first ‘wife’ of your husband and also the first ‘girlfriend’. Her son cannot divorce her and she is more experienced than you in matrimonial battles, in fact she is a veteran of many conflicts. Yes i know that a wife becomes a priority and number one and some men try to place their mums above their wives . That is stupid and sickening! Apply wisdom and talk to God and your husband about it. But don't come in with the intention to separate mother and son. Respect a worthy mother in-law. Not all of them are wicked. Not all are witches. You meet a wicked one, apply wisdom and avoid her ways.

*13) TELLING YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE:*

When you tell your friends about your sex life and how your husband rocks you, you are indirectly telling them to go have a feel of him. They can size you up and know whether your husband is hot or not, whether he is sexually fulfilled or not. They may even know your Husband's “turn on” and use it against him then grab your husband. Most women have carelessly lost their husbands as they boast to their friends “my husband is too sexually demanding, he is an expert when it comes to sex, he is a horse, he almost kills me in bed, he has a horse size” etc... Your friends will pick information like this and cover things up where you have been failing.

*14) REPORTING YOUR HUSBAND TO HIS MUM:*

It looks beautiful to report your husband to his Mum, but the end result will hurt you. Most mothers will support their sons any day; children are always right before their Mothers. Seek counsel in the right quarters, never report your husband to his Mum unless his mum is so god fearing, honest and impartial.

*15) LETTING CHILDREN TAKE THE PLACE OF YOUR HUSBAND:*

Many wives abandon their husbands, denying them of love, care and attention as soon as babies begin to arrive they transfer all affection to their kids. To sleep in bed, they put the Baby in between themselves making the man feel lost and the bond divided. No warm hugs, caress etc.

*16) USING SEX WRONGLY:*

Sex is supposed to bind you both together, it is supposed to create intimacy and love but in many homes it is the bone of contention. Some women do turn sex to a tool of manipulation;
Some use it for trade by barter. Some wives will suddenly become commanders at home when their husbands touch them for sex, ordering the man around, “go and off the Fan” “go and lock the gate” “go and check whether our children are sleeping” "How about that money I asked you to give me?" Etc...
This is just too bad.

Some wives sleep like log of wood in bed while some even wear Jean, knickers to bed.
Nothing sexy
Nothing erotic
Nothing romantic
Nothing Inviting!
If you continue like this you will hurt your marriage deeply and you may destroy your future also. He will start lusting and chasing sexy daughters of Jezebel out there who may fetish him out of home to themselves

A smart wife builds her home, the stupid ones are careless. I know you will be like.... Why can't he have self control and stay faithful?

Forget it dear.

We are all humans and things push us to do things we never planned.

Be wise!!!

MARRIED OR NOT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS STORY

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I wanted a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? You know

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

Remember love is the richest of all treasures. Without it there is nothing; and with it there is everything. Love never perishes , even if the bones of a lover are ground fine like powder. Just as the perfume of sandalwood does not leave it, even if it is completely ground up, similarly the basis of love is the soul, and it is indestructible and therefore eternal. Beauty can be destroyed , but not love.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

God bless you.

Must Tinubu remain in power. What is the meaning of all these rubbish with our naira.

My fellow Nairalanders over to you. WHERE IS THE EXTRA ONE COMING FROM?

Yes the guy really work hard for his SELECTION 😀

The guy really work hard for his SELECTION 😀

Gen. Olusegun Obasanjo (Rtd.) Has spoken.

"One ridiculous point that has been touted to justify unjustifiable appointments and selections is ‘competence’.

In truth and in reality, genuine competence can be found in any region or section of Nigeria through track record and performance if only people will honestly and sincerely look hard for people with such attainment and attribute.

Most of us in good conscience can testify to competence when we see any anywhere. What is masqueraded as ‘competence’ is self-interest and nepotism".

*Gen. Olusegun Obasanjo!*

The New Year endorsement message of Mr. Peter Obi of Labour Party.

What do you think of the above comment by the former president of Nigeria.?

"One ridiculous point that has been touted to justify unjustifiable appointments and selections is ‘competence’.

In truth and in reality, genuine competence can be found in any region or section of Nigeria through track record and performance if only people will honestly and sincerely look hard for people with such attainment and attribute.

Most of us in good conscience can testify to competence when we see any anywhere. What is masqueraded as ‘competence’ is self-interest and nepotism".

*Gen. Olusegun Obasanjo!*

The New Year endorsement message of Mr. Peter Obi of Labour Party.

More than 200 people displaced with goods worth millions of Naira destroy, following a fire outbreak in Elekahia, a densely populated area in Port Harcourt, Rivers State on Friday morning.

From report gathered from a reliable source, stated that the fire which started since 8am this morning was caused by kerosene.

Some of the affected residents have traveled for festivities, while the remaining ones have gone out for work when the fire started.

See pictures below:

Emi-le-kon. E no go work. I must enter Aso Rock by fire by force.

Please who knows these animals that were killed recently by a friend in part of Anambra village affected by the flood.

This animal is on rampage and many others as their natural habitat has been overtaken by the flood.

Let someone identify these animals and share their name.

More pix

Taking a tour in Calabar City today. I was shocked to discover that most parts of my once a Beautiful Green City is fast becoming a city of indiscriminate waste disposal. With terrible and offensive odour.

To my amiable and workable Governor of Cross River State. Professor Ben Ayade. Please kindly do something about this waste that has taken over the City of Calabar. This city is known for its cleanliness and neatness with green vegetation.

Those responsible for waste management of the state should kindly take their job serious; leaving the the All Important City of Calabar in this state is really worrisome. If they have been paid, please let them do their job.

*ATTENTION*

In case you don't know the root cause of our problems today, please take time out and read below:

As of 23/04/2022, the exchange rates were:

£1 = ₦783
$1 = ₦560
€1 = ₦670

Currently $1 = #665

42 years ago, precisely on 23/04/1980 the exchange rate was:
$1 = 0.78k

Are you surprised?

Well, we were far more productive in 1980 than we are today.

In 1980 the key reasons for economic growth were as follows:

1. We were a net exporter of refined petroleum products. Today we import all our refined petroleum products.

2. We rode in locally assembled cars, buses and trucks. Peugeot cars in Kaduna and Volkswagen cars in Lagos.

3. Leyland produced trucks/buses in Ibadan and ANAMCO in Enugu also produced buses and trucks.

4. Steyr in Bauchi produced our Agricultural tractors. And it was not just Assembly, we were producing many of the components:

5. Vono products in Lagos produced the vehicle seats.

6. Exide in Ibadan produced the batteries, not just for Nigeria but for the entire West Africa.

7. IsoGlass and TSG in Ibadan produced the windshields.

8. Ferrodo in Ibadan produced the brake pads and discs

9. Dunlop produced Tyres in Lagos and Mitchelin Tyres were produced in Port Harcourt. And I mean tyres produced from rubber plantations located in Ogun, Bendel and Rivers State.

10. We were listening to Radio and watching television sets assembled in Ibadan by Sanyo.

11. We were using refrigerators, freezers and Airconditioners produced by Thermocool and Debo.

12. We were putting on clothes produced from the UNTL Textile Mills in Kaduna and Chellarams in Lagos. They were Not from imported cotton but from cotton grown in Nigeria.

13. Our water was running through pipes produced by Kwalipipe in Kano and Duraplast in Lagos .

14. Our toilets were fitted with WC produced in Kano and Abeokuta.

15 We were cooking with LPG gas stored inside gas cylinders produced at the NGC factory in Ibadan.

16. Our electricity was flowing through cables produced by the Nigerian Wire and Cable, Ibadan; NOCACO in Kaduna and Kablemetal in Lagos and Port Harcourt.

17. We had Bata and Lennards Stores producing the shoes we were putting on. The shoes were not from imported leather but from locally tanned leather in Kaduna.

18. We were mainly flying our Airways, (the Nigeria Airways), to most places in the world. The Nigeria Airways was about the biggest in Africa at the time.

19. Most of the foods we ate were grown or produced in Nigeria.

We were producing all of the above and many more in 1980

Today, we import almost everything. Isn't that alarming?

There lies the source of the terrible exchange rate we are experiencing today and everyone reading this has a critical role to play in reversing this very UGLY trend.

We have been talking about these problems and more for ages.

It is not enough for us to complain about the exchange rate or point out what others are not doing or are failing to do. The key questions are:

1. What are we producing now?
2. What role are our so- called Leaders/ Politicians of today playing?

We are forever shying away from responsibility whereas it is a stack reality and if we don't deal with it, it won't go away. In fact it will get worse.

To our dear Politicians, if you don't have the capacity to RESET Nigeria to what it was at least back in 1980 then please stay in your house and don't waste our time.

*ENOUGH IS ENOUGH !!!*

Please share widely on all platforms for Nigerians especially youths to know the critical role to play with the fixing of Nigeria.

The question is who started and encouraged importation...

Who cares Professor. It is nomination form to continue looting is what they are after now.

Na wetin him do? Nobody to tell us wetin him do.

Can this be for real? The man by this singular act of wickedness is worst than the devil. I'm just wondering if the late singer was under a spell that she could not take a decision to do the needful. Chai! This world no balance.

Don't forget to ensure the Hotel you booked for your wedding night is intact. Ensure to leave to the hotel with your wife immediately after the wedding. Else all the money you make for the wedding will be used to settle transport of your siblings

pls can someone who was in the meeting tell us wetin them talk.

Yes I can hear the odour. this super eagle na the true reflection of '94 team

What on earth is wrong in Nollywood? From one dead to another. May God have mercy.