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Pls Seun, you can help celebrate the couples by posting this on front page �

My big brother and her cute wife about to tie the knot this Saturday 4th July @ Warri, Delta state. Please wish them well. You are also invited!!

Jasonjay101:
Please I'm new here on this platform and I just want some advice to clear my mind.

Let me just go straight to the point. My girl that we've been dating for a year plus now just told me a week ago that she lived a couple's life with her ex back in school right from when she entered 300l (4yrs course) and the guy 400l (5yrs course) and I've not been able to get over it.

It happened a week ago, we were together and she saw a post of her ex engagement to his current girlfriend and she started feeling bad, so I asked her what happened and a little bit angry with her thinking maybe she was not over her ex yet. She told me she has gotten over him but she just remembered her past so I try to console her to let go and if there's something she hasn't told me yet about her past that is still eating her up she can tell me because before now we've talked about a lot of things about our past and we've try to forgive each other and let the past be in the past.

She had told me it was this only guy she had dated and it was the same guy that disvirgined her. I was not bothered about that because I was not a virgin either. She told me she has moved on even before I came and she stayed for close to a year to heal up and all through this time I was asking her out but she never said yes and never told me she was going through heart break.

Now, it's a year and few months into our relationship, she's been a very good girl, supportive and hard working. And now she just told me this, coupled with some lies she has used to cover it up in some of our previous conversations about her school life.

I'm not perfect either and I've had my past which I have told her. I never lived a couples life back in school and it was only a girl I've also had anything sexual relationship to do with.

Why am emotionally down now is because I know what it is like to live a couples life in school. I never lived as one but I know of people that lived as such in school and I know what happens.

Now I don't know if I can forget about this and we move on. I love this girl so much and she has shown to also love me as much and I've tried to forget about what happened but most times when I see her now I tend to always remember and it eats me up.

Do you guys think I can forget about this?

perverse Generation that sees sex as a norm, how did we get to this place? God have mercy on us

JDJ4:
A Very Big Mistake Of My Life

Hi nairalanders.

Please pardon me in case of any grammatical error. My story will be long, pls kindly bear with me and read to the finishing point. I'm ready to accept any insulting comments, it doesn't matter to me now.

I'm a 25 years old guy, not really financially buoyant but an average, money never dries in my pocket and back account as a hustler. Am currently still in part time program in university.

Now let me go straight to the point, here is my story. I started dating one beautiful girl back then in 2014, we were in love until something came up. There was a time I came home and she visited, that was the beginning of our separation, my mother warned me to stay away from her that she doesn't like her.

Honestly, I didn't know how to breakup with her without hurting her because she loved and cared for me so much. I love my mother so much and I listen to her as well. So, I started to avoid her, reducing my number of calls with her, sometimes when I visited home I won't tell her. All these to make her change her mind but all to no avail, I couldn't tell her what's up so that she won't hate my mother and make both of them enemies of each other.

She noticed my unprecedented and unusual behaviors, she asked me what has she done I only told her that I was very busy and concentrating on something. She later got fade up and started minding her own business because sometimes she would call I won't pick her calls, so she decided to let me be.

Fast forward to early this year, she went for a business trip and returned, so I decided to pay her a visit because even though we are no longer in love but we are still friends. I was hoping to visit her in her shop but she wasn't there, she told me to come to her apartment, I went there, we gist and had funs, she started making a move to me and we eventually had an unprotected sex.

I was thinking that she was a big girl and can take care of herself but after one month plus she called me and told me that she was pregnant, I was speechless and couldn't believe her, she threatened to report the case to my mother if I didn't show up and proffer solutions, my mind jumped. I hurried to her place and she showed me the pregnancy test result, we calculated the months and it was exactly the day I had sex with her, from that day till the month is exactly what was written on the paper.

To cut the story short, I got lost in thought until she waked me from my daydream, I told her straight that I wasn't ready for that, she should do something about it, so both of us agreed to terminate it, it was done successfully, I wasted much money on that moment but it didn't bother me.

So, after a while she called me and told me the sudden changes in her business that money disappeared from her hands always. She went home and complained to her dad, her dad suggested they should visit a native doctor to find out what was the problem. They visited the native doctor and he apparently exposed and told her what she did, that the pregnancy she terminated was the reason behind her misfortune. He listed all the things she will buy for cleansing and the total money involved. She called me and told me the development and demanded my own contribution (money), at that moment I didn't really have money to provide and she couldn't believe me.

Now am afraid if she will angrily expose me because she told her people that the person that got her the pregnancy is not around he traveled abroad. I haven't answered her since then because I have been busy thinking about my mistake, regretting the day I visited her, crying had I know. I returned but I didn't tell her so she won't visit me. Right now am having a double mind if I should adhere to what she told me by contributing money for the stuff, but the other hand, am asking for God's mercy upon my life, so if I should contribute money now it means I will be committing sin upon sin. I don't really know what to do now, I told her that I will visit her whenever I return to discuss with her but I haven't done that.

Presently I have a fiancee am dating now, my mother knows about her and she accepted her as well, also thinking about settling down with her when the time comes. I will hurt and loose her if what I did exposed.

Pls advice me my good people before I commit suicide and end everything, you can insult me if you like, it doesn't matter to me now, am very desperate human being now. The native doctor even told her to tell whoever that got her the pregnancy to also do his own cleansing or else he will encounter problems in life.

Should I also listen to the native doctor man or seek God's mercy, of whose report shall I believe..? Will there really be any problem, and what do I tell her now.

My friend, run to a True man of God you know, confess all you did, and be ready to undergo rigorous process, fasting and praying to appease the spirits and for God's mercy upon your life.

Don't be afraid, only acknowledge your sins and run to God.

Igbo mmammanu o �

Bro, The Bible strictly warns against marrying a person that isn't of the same faith. don't be "Unequally" yoked with unbeliever pls and pls. God help you marry your kind of person (prayerful, spiritual etc)for two are better than one, and for the sake of your children.

so many innocent blood spilled, the land is drunk on innocent blood, the land bleeds profusely, innocent blood cry against the land � �
who will save the people and liberate the land? � �


Lord Jesus, have mercy on us all.

stop posting rubbish, these are all children and teenagers stop deceiving people mtcheeeww

GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, Nnamdi Kanu is a disgrace to every Christian worldwide from the religious perspective for aligning with Israel and Judaism. A well known terrorist like Kanu who almost made we Christians clash with our peaceful Muslim brothers because of his incessant hate speeches towards the north and the west doesn't deserve to see the light of the day. I suggest the federal government seize his mother's corpse for following the useless man to court in Abuja in solidarity and cremate it to serve as a deterrence to parents Who supports their children's criminality or feed her carcass to the Crocs in Nile river. Nnamdi kanu deserves to be locked up at ADX Florence in Colorado with the likes of his fellow terrorists like Elchapo and Muttalab for endangering the unity of our beloved country Nigeria.

you are a foolish Fool!

INTEGRITYA1:
Na so, there are so much sense in all these proverbs.
I'm speaking from the angle of Yorubas as a Yoruba myself. Not been trabalistic here, that's what I have good knowledge about.

"Ogun omode o le se re fun ogun odun"

Twenty children can not play for twenty years.

It is not possible.

Geraraa here!!!

sometimes, we are the cause of our problems. its not every of your success you will let people know(on social media, neighbor hood etc) , sometimes you hide some of your achievements/success so as to avoid unnecessary attention and envy to oneself, it will go a long way in safeguarding you and your household.

wisdom is profitable to direct.

China Fraud....

[quote author=lodinxnw7138 post=80373942][/quote]This your fraud will swallow you up someday if you refuse to stop, in Jesus name Amen

lakesider:
So u sti believe the Adam and eve story

so you believe sun, moon and air Theory? no repent and give your life to Jesus Christ, you will burn in hell...

life of a sinner, imagine what they call enjoyment � until death knocks at their door; I pray God deliver them before it's too late

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this generation is gone! perversion everywhere and immorality is seen as norm these days; God please save your children

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cr7 hattrick 45% loading...... cr7 hattrick 45% loading...... cr7 hattrick 45% loading......

assist her by getting her a medicated glasses depending on her sight( myopic or hyper...)

may God protect her from evil men

if sex was involved, I think the curse is valid. Men need to be careful pls.

post=77006884:
I love their CHRIST but hate their Christians because their christians do not behave like their CHRIST.......... Mahatma Ghandi, the Buddhist from India!

that is an error, you can't love the Christ and hate his body!
For the church is the body of Christ. let love lead..

Europe’s football governing body, UEFA has fined Juventus forward Cristiano Ronaldo and Atletico Madrid coach, Diego Simeone.
Ronaldo was fined £17,700 for his crotch-grabbing goal celebration in their win over Atletico in the last 16 of the Champions League.
The 34-year-old Portuguese grabbed his crotch while celebrating his side’s 3-0 home victory over Atletico.
It appeared he was mimicking Simeone, who also turned to fans and grabbed his crotch while celebrating his side’s 2-0 victory in the first leg.

Ronaldo made the gesture after scoring a hat-trick as Juventus overturned a two-goal deficit to reach the quarterfinals with 3-2 aggregate win.
Simeone was fined £17,000 for the act while Ronaldo got £700 more.
After advancing, Serie A champions Juventus were drawn to play Dutch side Ajax in the quarter-finals in April.

source: https://www.ripplesnigeria.com/uefa-fines-ronaldo-simeone-over-goal-celebrations-during-cl-tie/amp/

slawomir:
As an ApO2
Am a student.

OK thanks for the information

slawomir:
Those that codedly comes to ATM centre just to beg knowing fully well that they don't have anything in accounts but their mission is to come and beg

People like them kalistus. Huzzler
I dey miss that boy joke sha


In other news
Devil punish inec
I just received an alert of 18000 this morning

So all the money when them pay Apos na 30500
Devil punish them
4500 for training plus 8000 when them share for rac centre plus this alert of 18000
So everything na 30500

Plz sir did you worked as PO or APO? cos in Imo State where I worked, I haven't received anything save the #4500 training allowance as an APO

why not resign from the job, must you die before your time? Common sense is applicable on this matter. My brother use your head.....

Abeg FG should finalize it once and for all.

ZombiePUNISHER:
It's not about the Lord...
It's about his family and friends

Why not jump over the post. there must be something wrong with you...

qwertyboss:
Who is god?
Jesus
Is Jesus the son of Mary?
Yes
Who created Mary?
God.
Who is God?
Jesus
Jesus is the begotten son.
Yes
Who is his father?
God.
Who is God?
Jesus.
Jesus is a servant of God?
Yes
Who is God?
Jesus.
Jesus died on the cross?
Yes
Who resurrected him?
God.
Who is God?
Jesus
Jesus is a messenger?
Yes
Who sent him?
God.
Who is God?
Jesus.
Did Jesus worship while on earth? Yes
Whom did he worship?
God.
Who is God?
Jesus.
Did God have a beginning?
No....
Then who was born on 25 DEC?Jesus.
Who is God?
Jesus.
Where's God?
In heaven
How many are there in heaven?Only one God.
Where's Jesus?
He is sitted on the right hand of his father.
Who is God?
Jesus.
Then how many are they in heaven?
Only one God
Then how many seats?
One
Where's Jesus?
Seated next to God.
Then how are they seated?
On one chair
Its only understood by those with the holy spirit.
Who is God?
Jesus.
Hahaha what a confusion. So beautiful to be a Muslim

Don't be deceived, 1Tim 3:16
And without controversy great is the mystery of godliness: God was manifest in the flesh, justified in the Spirit, seen of angels, preached unto the Gentiles, believed on in the world, received up into glory.


it's a mystery you cannot understand.........
for God is bigger than all your imaginations......

kiddoiLL:
it is so so wrong, that shít fvcks up your child mentally while you have no idea how it's affecting them. This exact post you made is part of my struggles when I was depressed. Like I once said My dad was mostly responsible for a big part of my depression even though he had no idea.... He would show it openly in front of us all, and say it to us how my brother is so lucky and how he likes him so much, I have two brothers, and 3 sisters... Man would spend a lot of money on my brother back then nd would come up with reasons for the rest of us.
Shít even got to my kid sister the last born who felt she's always being treated unfairly, and she would tell my cousin about how she just want to do and then leave home... when she left for school, you don't know how happy she was that she was gon be free from some of the treatment and drama.
Never treat your kids like one is better than the others, never treat one like he's superior to the others...
even if one is weak, embrace he or she and shower on them all the love they need, love only makes them stronger... Love is a strong language and kids and mostly teenagers need it, that's why they end up doing stuffs outside and ending up making the wrong decisions just because you as a parent failed to do the right thing, all you know is some fvcked up sense of righteousness and religious bullshit, forgetting life is more than that and they have feelings and crave other stuffs. .. your kids won't tell you, but it affects them mentally, at some point I hated my family cus of how it made me feel...
I can still remember the day he came home with one of his friends (that one is a traditionalist), his friend told him in my presence that I've been telling myself that “one day they'll wake up at home and not see me anymore”.
He was right because i was planning and developing ideas to leave home and kept thinking of where to go... the reason why I still remember that incident is because of the respond NY dad gave him, it's forever stuck in my head, my dad responded with “If anyone decides he wants to leave, he's free to”... I was just getting into J.S.S.1... the response he gave hit me so much i couldn't get it off my head.

you should never treat one child better than the other,
I was suicidal but I got passed it, I'm fine and doing well now and up till now my dad has no idea the damage he did to me all those years.
I know how it feels to go through all that whole shít and depression and I vowed I'll never let any of my kids go through that phase or treat em that way....

and whoever can should push this to FP, there are still folks who needs to know and get this message

To have favorites is not bad because Even God has too...

village people no allow am get sense to reason well....

vanities upon vanities, what is reigning now will surely fade away with time......


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