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armyofone:
Very selfish of him seeing that you are helping him take care of his responsibility of assisting your brother.
Village house that they will fight you for at the end of the day.
Face your life and don't live anyone's dream but your own. You've found the woman after your heart, that is more important than a house you won't live in.
As long as they have a roof over their heads where they are, village house is of a very minimal use.
If ever you think of building one, make sure it is in your name and not his name.

But why would you be blunt at a person fathers advice

Op na open marriage una dey so? You suspect, you never catch am, you don already dey hooked, then if she find out, she will now go and cry on the bobo shoulder, finally the children go learn the worse way than divorce, cos they will grow up flexing too. Clap for yourself. Over n out!

My dear am sorry you have been listening to hear say, attend catholic mass as well as other activities in the Catholic Church, you will be glad you did, your man is even a charismatic member meaning he’s even more Pentecostal than you are, and you still think catholics don’t believe in the Holy Spirit? The first prayer you know a Catholic with (sign of the cross) what do you think they say when they do that sign? We have different societies in the Catholic Church you can join according to what matches your believes, desires and spirituality. If you truely love the guy like you claim, make a move in emptiness not going with all you’ve heard, we have a lot of women like you who has later become chair ladies of catholic women organization. Because the Catholic I know and attend has everything you want to build your spiritual life, just choose and don’t be a Sunday Sunday medicine when you eventually join.

Do you have a house in the village? Is it necessary? When you want to travel with your kids to the village is there a place to put up with them? Your father may have made a mistake and that’s probably why you don’t go home during festivities, cos I think you don’t, cos if you do and had to lodge in a guest house or put up with relatives, you will not bring ur father out here or listen to all these indomie generations asking you to disown him, and those bashing an innocent man for wanting his son to take a better path than his. After your marriage huge responsibilities follows, that your earnings will be shared with yourself, a year later comes a kids, from baby food and pampers to nursary school, and there comes a second kid. Delay is not denial, start an empire is what d old man says. B wise