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this will definitely be a hard nut for the guy to crack, u know it is very difficult to rebuild trust once it is broken. if the guy is mature, which i assume he is 'cos it takes maturity to make the marriage decision. i will advise him to 4give the babe and get on with life. if they are christians, i would also recommed that both of them should go and see a marriage counsellor.

one of my friends was in your shoes some years back, tell u what he did. to conquer his shyness, he got drunk, got a friend to drive him to the girl's place. it turned out that the girl really had the hots for him and was patiently waiting for him to ask her out. the only problem was that when he got sober he could not remember whether the girl said yes or no. to hedge against that i suggest you put your cell phone on "voice-record" so that you can replay your conversation afterwards. Goodluck!

The girl has a very bad case. If the aristo affair was a one-off, it woulda been easier for the b/f to deal with it, but shagging the baba for 7 long months! Am afraid she has put a permanent dent on the relationship with the b/f. My candid advice will be for her to pack it up with both men look for a fresh non-virgin seeking guy. Even if the b/f says he is ready to 4give, I doubt if he will be able to deal with the doubts and other ill feelings that will continue to come up to the fore throughout his marriage with her.

A True Story


A certain rich businessman had a beautiful daughter, who fell in
Love with a guy who was a cleaner.

When the girl's father came to know about their love, he did not
Like it at all, and so began to protest about it.

Now it happened that the two lovers decided to leave their homes
For a happy future. The girl's father started searching for the two
Lovers but could not find them.

At last, he accepted their love and asked them to come back home in
A local newspaper. Her father said "If you both come back I will
Allow you to marry the guy you love, I accept that you love each other
Truly."

So in this way, their love won and they returned home.

The couple went to town to shop for the wedding dress. He was
Dressed in white shirt that day. While he was crossing the road to the
Other
Side to get some drinks for his wife, a car came and hit him and he died
On the spot. The girl lost her senses. It was only after sometimes that
She recovered from her shock. The funeral and cremation was the very
Next day because he died horribly.

Two nights later, the girl's mother had a dream in which she saw an
Old lady. The old lady asked her mother to wash the blood stains of the
Guy from her daughter's dress as soon as possible. But her mother
Ignored the dream.

The next night her father had the same dream, he also ignored it.
Then when the girl had the same dream the next night, she woke up in
Fear and told her mother about the dream. Her mother asked her to wash
The
Clothes which have blood stains immediately.

She washed the stains but some remained. Next night she again had
The same dream she again washed the stains but some still remained.

Next night she again had the same dream and this time the old lady
Gave her a last warning to wash the blood stain, or else something
Terrible will happen. This time the girl tried her best to wash the
Stains,
And the clothes nearly tore, but some stains still remained.

She was very tired.

In the late evening the same day while she was alone at home,
Someone knocked the door. When she opened the door she saw the same old
Lady of her dream standing at her door. She got very scared and fainted.

The old lady woke her up... and gave her a blue box, which
Shocked the girl. She asked "What is this...?"
The old lady replied...





"Omo Washing powder... it will remove all
stubborn stains!!!" ...





I know how you all are feeling now... I have been through this too.
But don't look at me like that ... I'm also hunting for the idiot who mailed this to me!

Thanks guys, i will try the two options.

Guys, I am about to move my relationship with my angel to the next level. I intend proposing and giving her a ring on Val's day. How can out find out her size without letting the cat out of the bag?