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CareerMy Current State Of Mind by brimdans(op): 5:52pm On May 18, 2021
I would have loved to remain anonymous, but what's the point?

My problem is I'm a jobless graduate, who works for a friend. This friend I work for, doesn't even pay, he just gives me stipends after every work I do. It's a laundry work. He owns the shop, so he's in charge of everything in the shop including, collections of money and all. My work is just to work. I do virtually everything in the shop.

My problem is this guy almost all the time collects the money and doesn't even give me my share. The only time I see my share is when the I'm around when the monies are given to him.

I'm hooked because I mostly feed in there house, because the shop is just within the house. I tried to get a good job, but nothing is forth coming. I even tried applying for casual jobs, still no luck.

I'm currently in a dilemma because my parents are tired of me staying in there house, so currently I sleep in the shop, and it's not even conducive, but that's the only option I have.

I tried contacting my relatives in Lagos if I could go and make a living there, but they aren't really interested me coming.

Please I kindly need advise and help, because I'm heading towards depression.

I'm actually 30 years old. With nothing to show for, except "I'm a graduate" tag.
FamilyRe: Family Pressure by brimdans(op): 9:32am On May 21, 2020
dangermouse:
Like u said, life is a gradual process. Staying with ur parents after one must have graduated is a wrong move even when ur gainfully employed. U should move out, get a job, any job if the desired one is not yet forthcoming and take it up from there. Staying focused With hardwork and dedication,things will surely fall in place.
Thank you for your advice
FamilyFamily Pressure by brimdans(op): 8:41am On May 21, 2020
Good morning,
I'm writing this with much and severe pains in my heart. I'm gradually sinking into depression, because my parents, especially my dad is making my life a living hell, just because I've finished school and served, and still at home. I actually just finished serving last year November, but the pressure on my head is unsurmountable and unbearable. My parents wanted me to finish school and secure a job to at least help there poor condition. I always tell them life is a gradual process. But it's always nagging of some sort, I always try to be calm amidst all of it, but sometimes it's not just easy, especially anytime my friends come visiting, that's always the topic and even to anyone that cares to listen. It's really frustrating really, I need help.
LiteratureBlack Boy; Endengered Specie by brimdans(op): 11:51am On May 19, 2020
Please dear nairalanders I want you guys to please help and criticize my write-up.its my first attempt. Bashing is allowed

Richard Wright's masterpiece; Native son was a story about a young boy named Bigger Thomas, who murdered his master's daughter in cold blood, after smothering her, he carried her and took her to the burning furnace and dropped her inside the fire. It was a very gruesome and horrific way to die. Bigger was a poor black boy and his master's daughter was a rich White girl. If you haven't read the book, then the consequences is bettered imagined that said, or better still go find a copy and read. Eventually Bigger Thomas was sentenced to death. A lawyer tried in futility to see how Bigger Thomas sentence could be reduced to at least some years sentence, or maybe life imprisonment. Max the lawyer tried to bring claims in court that Bigger Thomas actually did commit the crime, but there are factors that actually contributed, mainly sociological factors. The society wasn't fair on Bigger, mainly because of his race, probably background and gender. It's understood that young male black folks are already at an disadvantage, because the are already labeled and tagged thugs, touts and rascals. The society frowns and looks at them with suspicion and disdain, mostly are judged even before they are known. So many factors was raised by Lawyer Max in order to get to reduce the sentence for Bigger. In the end his claims couldn't go through and Bigger Thomas was still sentenced to death.
Dr Ben Carson in his book "The Big Picture" also made a claim for the young black male in America. Most lack direction and plans for there lives, they lack mentorship, so most of them lives with a victim mentally, making them vulnerable to crimes, because they feel betrayed.
Now let me come home, a few days ago a promising young lad was gunned down by some trigger happy security men. This isn't the first of it's kind, it has happened one to many times across the country. The young Rinji who was just a boy of 20, doesn not deserve such a cruel and avoidable death. At least this time around the army didn't deny the act as the usually do, probably because of the media attention it generated, so it's only wise on there part to accept responsibility and own up to it. Ours is to hope, the matter isn't swept under the carpet as always.
why is the black boy endengered? Why is he always tagged a rascal, even before anything about him is known. So many unanswered questions.
HealthRe: Suspected Coronavirus Victim Dies In Front Of Ogun Hospital by brimdans(m): 3:50pm On May 10, 2020
Melinda Gates prediction comes to mind. RIP
FoodRe: The Big Fish We Caught During Our Lockdown Expedition. by brimdans(m): 9:10am On May 01, 2020
sparog:
That's Lates niloticus, they usually grow way bigger than that.

Nice catch

If I may ask, where do you stay?
Jos
FoodRe: The Big Fish We Caught During Our Lockdown Expedition. by brimdans(m): 4:14pm On Apr 29, 2020
callme9mm:
Where is here ? Which state?
This is the Plateau
FoodRe: The Big Fish We Caught During Our Lockdown Expedition. by brimdans(m): 4:09pm On Apr 29, 2020
SaintChukz:
Your what? huh What's type of fish is it by the way?
It's tilapia or croaker
FoodRe: The Big Fish We Caught During Our Lockdown Expedition. by brimdans(m): 4:06pm On Apr 29, 2020
ubcandid:
Wow. That's cool. I hope say no be fish from pond farm you come show us?
No oo
FoodRe: The Big Fish We Caught During Our Lockdown Expedition. by brimdans(m): 4:06pm On Apr 29, 2020
quentin06:
which location is this? Nice fish.
Jos plateau
FoodRe: The Big Fish We Caught During Our Lockdown Expedition. by brimdans(m): 10:34am On Apr 29, 2020
Olboy, no be small palliative be this o
Nairaland GeneralRe: Give Away For 10 People Affected By Covid-19 by brimdans(m): 12:26pm On Apr 17, 2020
Sir please help
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God bless
RomanceRe: . by brimdans(m): 1:56pm On Apr 14, 2020
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Nairaland GeneralRe: My Humble Giveaway - Drop Your Account Details by brimdans(m): 1:36pm On Apr 14, 2020
Name: Rimdans Bitrus account no: 0062691807 bank: access bank. thank you.
PoliticsRe: My Humble Giveaway by brimdans(m): 8:58am On Apr 14, 2020
0062691807 Access bank. God bless
EducationRe: Anyone Struggling To Afford 2020 Jamb Form? by brimdans(m): 9:30am On Feb 13, 2020
my immediate younger brother. please if you can help. Thank you and God bless you. 08067288284
RomanceRe: My First Experience In Wooing A Lady, An Edo Girl by brimdans(m): 9:22am On Feb 13, 2020
Read the art of seduction by Robert Greene.
first you need to approach indirect, then skirm the pherifery of her existence. Thank me later.
RomanceRe: I'm Confused About This Situation by brimdans(op): 1:13pm On Feb 08, 2020
That's 2017 bro. God has been faithful.
RomanceI'm Confused About This Situation by brimdans(op):
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PoliticsRe: President Buhari arrives Daura ahead of Saturday’s governorship election by brimdans(m): 12:52pm On Mar 08, 2019
The able president, looking ready for the next four years of bliss for Nigeria
CrimeRe: Federal University, Otuoke Graduate Commits Suicide Ahead Of Her NYSC by brimdans(m): 8:08pm On Feb 28, 2019
I might have a faint idea why this young promising girl committed suicide. Though I'm a guy, I nearly committed suicide also towards the end of my uni days, because I couldn't pay for my clearance and go for NYSC. But I held on trusting God. Now it's just a story. Depression is real, pls let's help each other.
NYSCRe: NYSC 2018 Batch C Call-up Letters Is Officially Out Check Yours by brimdans(m): 2:31pm On Oct 19, 2018
Please I don't want to serve in stream 1, is it possible for me to serve in stream two?
PoliticsRe: Burial Poster Of Soldier Lt Dashe Killed By Boko Haram (photo) by brimdans(m): 1:50pm On Aug 16, 2018
I remember when you met me as in school to tell me that since we are the same tribe, we should join hands and pay the contributions our school said we should pay. I was surprised how you knew my name, because i was a junior boy then and you were my senior. Since then i had admired you so much. It will never be well with those responsible for your death. Rest on Senior Lirfa.
TravelRe: Sirika: We Are Not Paying $300m In Nigeria Air. Www.flynigeriaair.ng Registered. by brimdans(m): 8:47am On Jul 24, 2018
sheer lies and outright treachery.
CareerRe: Former Staffs Of The Defunct Nigerian Airways Are Dying Like Flies. by brimdans(op): 7:09pm On Apr 06, 2018
why raise the hope of people time and again, without paying them, it is pathetic.
CelebritiesRe: The Expensive Life Of Emmanuella & Mark Angel | Net Worth by brimdans(m): 10:32pm On Mar 31, 2018
wow! this is nice.
BusinessRe: Traders Weep As Fire Guts Timber Market In Enugu by brimdans(m): 7:30am On Mar 03, 2018
Learn to be humane please.
CareerFormer Staffs Of The Defunct Nigerian Airways Are Dying Like Flies. by brimdans(op): 3:43pm On Dec 19, 2017
The Nigerian government has
approved the payment of N45
billion severance package to
former staff of the defunct
Nigeria Airways.
The Minister of State for
Aviation, Hadi Sirika, said this
on Wednesday in Abuja.
Mr. Sirika told State House
correspondents at the end of the
Federal Executive Council
meeting on Wednesday that
money has been approved for
the settlement of the
entitlements.
He said: “Governments, in the
past, decided just to liquidate
Nigeria Airways without
tending to the issue of the
entitlements of the workers and
they have been struggling to get
that paid.
“We came in and took it very
seriously. I’m happy to
announce that Mr. President
has approved N45 billion which
has been confirmed to be the
entitlements of these workers
and Ministry of Finance has
been instructed to pay the
money.”
He explained that the ministry
wrote to his office last week
that they had received the
instruction to pay the affected
workers.
They are setting up the
modalities to pay, Mr. Sirika
added.
“You should know it won’t be
paid through my ministry
before somebody will say I take
some of it. It will be paid by
finance through a process, and
that process will commence
very soon,’’ he said.
The minister disclosed that the
Council also approved the
procurement of operational
vehicles for Nigeria Port
Authority (NPA) and the
Nigerian Maritime
Administration and Safety
Agency, NIMASA.
Affected workers of the
Nigerian Airways had been
embarking on protests
nationwide over their unpaid
entitlements since its liquidation by the
federal government.
But as at no dime has been paid to them and the have been dying like chickens everyday. pleases let the government pay this people their sweat the worked for it.
EducationRe: ***the Thirteen Principle Of How To Think And Grow Rich*** by brimdans(m): 2:22pm On Dec 19, 2017
As a man thinks so is he, as he continues to think so he shall remain.

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