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She doesn't have a husband, I don't think anyone can marry such lady

Just the company t-shirts and some few materials like tapes and all

Thank you so much. God bless you.

Brother. God bless you for the advice. I've learnt my lesson in a bitter way

There's nothing wrong with you bro, your mentally is actually the problem here. Change it

Okay, here is the thing.
I was working with this woman in her organization. Shes high handed, toxic and domineering, but I was coping well with her, she insults me and talk down on me, all I say mostly is sorry Ma.

So this particular day, which was yesterday. There's this particular room in the lab which we were constructing, which she categorically told me not to open that room, because it contains equipment. And I don't handle the keys, but another person holds the keys.

Now water entered the room, from a faulty pipe, and did a little damage to one of the cabinets, and it touched some of the materials.

The woman, now began insulting me that it will be deducted from my salary, because it was my fault?

I asked how is it my fault Ma, you said that room shouldn't be opened by anybody. So I can't accept fault for what I didn't do. I'm sorry. She shouted and shouted to the point of almost slapping me, but God saved her she didn't. I kept my calm and told her sorry.

Again she asked for some remaining boards that were used in constructing some cabinets in the lab, I told her I don't know, but lemme check and ask the person who has custody to the keys. Another tirade began, she insulted the hell of out me. I remained calm, that it will be removed from my salary, and those things according to her is about one hundred thousand naira. I told her ma, I didn't take them, but lemme ask oga Patrick who is in charge of the lab, she refused, that I shouldn't l. That I must pay for all of these things. I kept my cool all through.

She now said I should remove her uniform and submit her company materials, actually some of the materials are at home, so I couldn't get them that night.

She texted and called me countless times to send the company materials, I then told her, I'll send them but I need my salary that I've worked for, for the last month. She now said, before she wanted to pay and forgive me, but that she's not paying me again.

It is Worthy to note that I came purposely to work for this woman from another state, I needed my salary to help me plan my life after my sack. Right now I'm confused, because I've no money, nor accommodation, I can't even travel back. Please nairalanders, I need your advice, legally and all.
Thank you for reading
PS, there might be errors, I didn't have time to edit. Currently in church.

Congratulations Man of God

TundeWX:
DM me...tho knowledge of hausa is a must sha

Sir in case there is still an opening, I'm very much interested too, BSc, Political science and administration. I can speak hausa.

eyizlive:
Is she a single mother?
Na dem dem

Exactly sir

Why are people this wicked and evil, I was made a post sometimes last month on how my salary is always delayed and all, but this period my boss has vehemently refused to pay me, until I get an information from a woman in the ministry for her. I've tried to contact the woman but no headway. My boss has now given me a condition that if I don't no salary. I'm really depressed and annoyed right now. I ask again why are people so inhumane. Three days I have eaten, nor have I transport to commute to work.

Very bad reportage. Even a school boy can speak better English and construct beautiful sentence

Men are becoming endengered species, because they are suffering and smilling. Women are highly manipulative and they'll always play the victim card.

Canteen shops my debts is now running into thousands of naira, but they also give me, without complain, maybe be they trust me and i look responsible, i don't know. I'm really clouded with emotions right now, Nairaland seems like the only distant family I have. I know there are many people who are under this kind of subjugation, because we are sons and daughters of nobody, but God. I need, help, motivation and advise. Selah great people.

in hunger and depravation. I've over stayed my welcome in my friends place. He has been of immense help to me in ways I cant begin to explain, he supports me wherever its necessary. I don't want to take what he does for granted. I always try to be responsible too, wherever possible. The problem now, is my salary isn't forth coming again, and when I called my madam to explain to her, she began complaining that some states govt are owing her so, i should manage, then i asked, on what? I dont have anything to feed on or even transport myself to site, and i send report everyday, minus sundays. I got verbal insults and abuse, things I can't even begin to type. My colleagues were sacked, I'm actually the only representative of the company on site. I've turned to a harbitual begger, my aged parents who are both sick, have been the one's supporting with there pension which is less 40k, my dad does not even receive, and two or three ocassions my cousins which are all meagre sums. I've eaten on credits in most of the

Greetings everyone. Nairaland has been a pivotal part of my life, that I literary can't go a day without. I am using a small phone to type this, so please minor errors should please be excused. The crux of my matter is that, I've been employed by one company here in Nigeria, with a lady as the CEO/MD. You would imagine my joy, after thinking I've secured a job and finally leaving the job seekers league. I was informed by my madam to leave my state and travel down to another state, where our company is handling a project for the government of that state. Excitedly I began. I wasn't given any form of accomodation, so a friend had to connect me with another friend to help me out. Since it was agreed that I would be staying for a period of two weeks. Thins began to take another dimension, when two weeks turned into two months and then three, and then four, and now heading into my fifth month with staying with someone. My salary isn't even paid, and this is almost middle of the month. I've been languishing here

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paulolee:
finally...lets see wat d over hyped sancho have to offer to EPL bcoz i know EPL isnt as easy as d german league dt attackers use to scam buyers...d only proven striker there is lewi, d rest are huge gamble dt always fail outside
incase u don forget, d likes of harvets, batshauyi, werna, andre silver
n even jovic all did wonders in Germany bt flopped outside d league..
luka jovic left germany with over 30 goals n scored less than 10 goals in his 2 yrs in madrid, he went back to frankfurt on loan n did an hattrick dt same weekend..
dt andre silver in portugal also flopped in milan n sevilla n had more than 20 goals after he returned to Frankfurt too
we all know dt attacker finds it easy in germany.
would u believe if I tell u dt dis Chelsea frustrating playing timo werna did 28 goals n 8 assist in just 34 games in Germany before Chelsea got scammed n signed him?

Haverzt is not a flop in Chelsea

I'm currently in tears, because of the overwhelming support I received and advised I received from a faceless forum. The show of love is massive. Let's not give up on humanity.

Pentolution:
Let me have your WhatsApp number let's chat

08067288284. That's my phone number and also what's App

Bluntemperor:
Quite frankly,this guy didn't sound convincing and even in his writing,he seems to have given up!
No bro.Look upward and pull your self together,there is HOPE for tomorrow!
There are openings here in Lagos or other parts of the States:
•Can you even face the pressure of interview drilling the way you sound?
•Can you tell us your grades from the University or Polytechnic,for you seems to be in depression flight Mode right now!
• Quiters don't win and to be a Winner,you don't dream to quit the very race set before you! A good job can knock out all these troubles but hope you one day too would remember where you come from when you climb up!
• Your present friend or Friends can't feed you right and don't curse him for your prdicament as he too is trying to survive,you need to press further for God to make a way and reveal helpers that would not see you as a burden!
• What can you do for yourself now; what have you learnt as a Skill,afterall, you have been hearing 'acquare'a Skill,in addition to your certificate'!
•Open yourself up,so that water of life may flow in.let people know your weakness,it may turn to be a foudation builder for those that wants to help.
Wish you the best!

Thank you sir. I'm a 2:2 graduate sir. But my 2:2 isn't a weak one. I am way smarter than that. It was a mistake in my 100 and 200 level that affected me. When I realised it was too late. But in my 400L I was the second highest in grade points. I narrowedly missed 2:1

InvertedHammer:
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Graduate is a broad term.
What's your discipline?

Some people may want to help even though helping a Nigerian usually ends up in sour notes.
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You're right sir. My discipline is Political science. Fortunately or unfortunately.

Wapchrist1:
Exactly my story b4 I start 20k teaching in Lagos then from teaching to Motor spare parts business. Wish your in Lagos I for assist you to what to do anyways contact me if your hardworking and Genuine you can be my marketer in your state . Chat me on whatsap

Alright sir. Thank you

Obiorahpcfg:
I can help u!

.Alright sir. Much appreciated

tunjiajayi:
What can you do?

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I'm good with computers, I love writing, though I'm still working on it. I love research also.

square7:
In which state of the country are you presently?

Jos, plateau state sir.

Eriolubrainee19:
What's your discipline? How can you apply your experience in academic to solve real life problems? You don't have problem, you are only in need of productive idea.

BSc in Political Science sir

Eriokanmi:
What's your discipline?

BSc Political science sir

Fhemmmy:
What was the arrangement you had with the guy before you started working for him? Because you said he collected money and never gave you your own share, however you mentioned he owns the shop . . .So what was the arrangement before you started working with/for him

Where is your current location and what are you good at or what degree do you have?

There wasn't an official agreement sir. I've a degree in political science.

[quote author=deavicky post=101926746]what did you study?[/quote
I read political science sir.

Currently in Jos sir.

Thank you for the warm advises