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portable86:
Read this interesting piece i got from surfing this site and decided to share with you guys, so lets hear your own opinion. for me, i think the writer made a lot of sense, why are women their own worst enemy? Question


Your girlfriends tell you things like; “ I don’t usually get along with women, I prefer being friends with males than females ,” or your sisters say; “ I don’t have female friends because they’re too much drama .”
A lady walks into a room and some other ladies in the room start to hate for no reason. They make rude remarks, give icy stares that would make the newcomer almost bury herself if she has no self-confidence.

Often times, there is that one woman who immediately turns into an ice queen upon the very sight of you, despite you having done absolutely nothing to wrong her in any way. Unlike men, women will often dislike another woman for no logical reason at all. The female folks are quick to judge one another and they are less likely to become friends with someone who could be perceived as a sexual rival. A number of ladies will tell you that they have survived at least one mean attack from another lady, who badmouthed their appearance, dismissed them or made them feel less than a human being.
If you’ve never done anything to another woman to warrant such cruel treatment from her, then it’s likely that she has some serious issues and she’s just taking them out on you. Don’t blame yourself or be worried about it, you’ve done nothing wrong. The funny thing is that despite all the drama men create in women’s lives and or the amount of hurt or abuse they cause, the women keep loving them. They’d rather hate a fellow woman, who has done nothing to them. But why is it so, why do women hate each other so much? I’ld tell you.

1. Jealousy : Most women, whether they admit it or not, like to have attention focused on them. If there’s something taking it away from them, especially another woman, then she gets a little intimidated and typically starts to hate. Some women would hate you, if they think you’re prettier than them. Your mere presence makes them feel like ugly. If your dress looks prettier, they would hate. If they are single, they will see you as the competition. If they are married, they will see you as the seductive temptress trying to steal their man away.

2. Inferiority complex : Some ladies start to feel inferior when others are showered compliments and they are not. They start to hate the lady who received the compliment as if it was her fault. If another lady commands respect and they don’t they begin to hate.

3. Pride : Some women have a little too much pride within themselves and therefore cannot like anyone who they perceive is better than them. It’s okay to have a lot of self-esteem but a lot of women confuse it with pride.

4. Insecurity : Some women are very insecure. They judge other women according to their insecurities and what makes them feel better about themselves. Some say, it’s in a woman’s nature to be jealous of another women but a woman who knows her true self-worth can never be jealous of another. Not every woman has the habit of hating other women.
So for women who have been attacked by others for no reason, just ignore them and keep being your awesome self. There are billions of people walking the surface of the earth, why be bothered over those hating you.
For those who are in the habit of hating others, stop seeing other women as competition. You should not feel threatened by their confidence. Your self-worth should not be measured by another woman’s beauty or confidence, so stop looking for reasons to hate every woman you meet.
You are beautiful just the way you are. Be proud of who you are and your appearance. When you see a beautiful lady you should complement her rather than hate. You gain nothing by hating. Life is too short, after all. - See more at: http://www.nenyville..com/2015/05/reason-why-ladies-hate-each-other.html#sthash.76Cfsutq.dpuf

funny enough, some guys foolishly exhibit such habits... Stupid beings.

firstEVA:
She looks more like 27, are we saying she won project fame when she was like 19? Anyway not my biz, happy birthday to the petite beauty.

I agree with u, she looks older than 24...

Gejpresident:
rubbish
anything from Africa its pooo
u people can't just wake up and talk rubbish
I'm happy I don't live in that Continent

how old are u?

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wahabian:
I'm 80/100 sure you never watched "Danny the dog" its Jet li's best movie

I disagree o. Romeo must die is his best movie.

axortedbabe:
tnx very much

u wlcm. Hw was ur nyt?

youmour:
*checks her profile*
Nothing spectacular joo,just regular girl next door look

*raises eye brows* don't be ridiculous, she try wella.

axortedbabe:
Much respect to him n God bless his soul,bt i cnt see him as a role model..before u crucify me,that's my opinion.

u look adorable.

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multicast:
she was a little bit of a stubborn and volatile person but its worse now.

gbam!... Those were d signs of "things" to cum. Buh u ignored dem cos u were in love. Now, u hv to carry ur own cross while praying things get better as ur marriage matures.

sameer1212:
Seriously I don tire for this gay people o. With all the pretty girls every where, wetin go attract me for my fellow man body?

its demonism in action. Funny enough all these useless celebrities help fuel this gay culture the world over. Jus luk at the kind of movies n music videos around na... Gay contents everywhere. End time tinz ma guy.

Stupid generation. Na only gadgets n f**k dey occupy dia mind. Stupid generation, why dem no go fail waec?

Tattooboy:
it has to be. A police station in Nigeria cant be this lovely

I am resident in jos. Its a police station.

Nigeria is still a developing economy. More and more Nigerians need to understand how not only to manage their meager resources, but also understand the running of our economy.

So, economics should occupy the no 1 position. When the economy is poorly run with skyrocketing inflation and high poverty rate, all other disciplines feel the impacts. Simple.

waistaa:
What sort of gambling are you talking about because life decisions can be seen as gambling,you going to buy products to resell aint it gambling coz you wan to make more money to meet up with necessary things,my people say "ana eji ego achu ego" ( you use money to get money). My dear let's live our life the way we (by conscience) feel is good and stop invoking what doesn't concern us.thank you

impressive response... Love u for this.

Kagawa:
http://thebusinessaim.com.ng/100-best-companies-to-work-for-in-nigeria/

I'd love to know their salary structure for a graduate.

joywendy:
Don't mind the robot...

there were many!! But undertaker should take the spot....he was damn too good....though a frd of mine told me that the undertaker we see now is not the same undertaker years back. That he was replaced. he said the real undertaker is dead

I don't know if it is true or not.

wow... Dats worth researching. Could be true dat he was replaced.

arusoncd:
GEJ while fighting all the
corrupt cabals said:
"Prevention is better than
cure.". While Buhari said:
"Allow them to steal or loot
then put them to jail." Now
which one is better?

pls stop interfering our sweet child hood memories with ur stupid politicians... Ok guys who is the most successful wrestler of all times?

Pls o, has any one here heard about 'invest and enlarge ' ( from wealth zone) ?... I intend to invest in their company. Are they for real?

So wia can I download some of their jokes?

softysparky:
Peter did, 3 good times.













And he is still St. Peter the apostle.

guy you are not peter. Work out ur own salvation. Peter's era hv come n gone.