Politics › Re: Oduahgate: Presidential Panel’s Deadline Ends Today by Brymo: 9:54am On Nov 11, 2013 |
Wat dis people dat steals don't know is dat,d only place moni is transactable is here on #earth. |
Politics › Re: NPDP Sets-up Committee To Receive Five New Governors by Brymo: 9:51am On Nov 11, 2013 |
Is dis an example of bulky text? |
Politics › Re: AIT Cameraman Beaten At Obasanjo Son's Wedding by Brymo: 3:53pm On Nov 10, 2013 |
Wats d minin f SSS? |
Family › Re: Helping Most Nigerian Women End In Drama: Why? by Brymo: 4:37pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
bigheart2013: Sorry to bother good nairalander again with another thread back-to-back. Please help me solve this puzzle. Why is that each time someone helps most (not all) Nigeria woman it ends up either in a drama, scandal, enmity or chaos?
Here are some examples:
1. I opened this thread because a friend helped a Nigerian lady get a job in a big firm in Nigeria. The lady resumed without even calling to update him. When the man asked her why, she said she was grateful but added that God only used my friend to help her, it wasn't by his own doing. It could have still happened through another person. My friend was shocked at this type of 'Thank You' 2. A man in USA who used his financial records to file affidavit of support for her niece in Nig to relocate to USA made news when he ended up in court and nearly ended up in jail, when the girl turned around to sue him for not supporting her financially in USA. 3. Some Nigerian men (not all) who trained their wives in school are regretting it today, after the said wife graduated and either dumped them or became very unruly when they start working. 4. Some people who opened businesses for their sisters in Nigeria are regretting it today, as they ended up enemies and insulted. 5. Some who gave gifts to female friends in Nigeria always have one story of ungratefulness or the other. They complained that generally most Nigerian ladies have a mindset that they get what they get because they are attractive women, and generally men are 'mugus' who spend on women to get something in return.
My Questions:
1. What is the cause of this general feeling of ungratefulness, and how can we change the mindset of our sisters to start being grateful? 2. What is the best way to give a Nigerian lady a helping hand without attracting these types of ungratefulness, since some of us either still have females we are helping or intend to help? 3. How should one react when one's help is either misinterpreted or treated with ungratefulness, without ending it in drama or enmity? calm down,women r d most grateful personality,in d whole wrd. |
Celebrities › Re: Genevieve & Shola Shobowale (Toyin Tomato) by Brymo: 4:33pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
geny,shud get married na. |
Education › Re: Universities To Open Next Week, With Or Without ASUU - FG by Brymo: 5:23pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Billyonaire: We all know that these lecturers do not know anything. Equipped with internet, students can totally study their courses and know beyond what their Lecturers know.
It is time to abrogate ASUU and restore the Education system to Pre-ASUU days, Tertiary Education was better before ASUU was formed, and will be better after ASUU is abrogated.
They right to peaceful Assembly, does not include the Liberty to Unite for Anarchy and totalitarian malapropisms against Education of our Youths.
ASUU is totally interested in what goes into their individual bank accounts and not the plight of the Students in this country. its been awhile,i quoted cos,most posts don't make sense,u r making sense,abegi |
Celebrities › Re: Iyanya's 27th Birthday Pictures by Brymo: 4:46pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
is okay,hin try, |
Romance › Re: Guys Don't Like Dating 'born-Again’ Ladies: Why by Brymo: 4:30pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
some threads r white,some black,i can't decipher d color of dis 1. |
Islam › Re: Would You Marry A Second Wife If You Were Wealthy? by Brymo: 1:00pm On Oct 31, 2013 |
This isn't my biz. |
Politics › Re: Clara Chime Under House-Arrest Imposed By Gov. Chime by Brymo: 10:14pm On Oct 28, 2013 |
d rich also cry, ye ye. |
TV/Movies › Re: Nominate A Film For A Chance To Win N1M by Brymo: 2:04pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
None for now. |
Nairaland General › Re: What Are Your Insecurities? by Brymo: 2:03pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
Y shud i b? |
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Romance › Re: Because Of Woman,god Forbid! by Brymo(op): 10:52am On Oct 26, 2013 |
YankeeJoe: Na which kind yansh she even get sef wey go make me commit suicide? Abegeee u neva jam. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Now Say It Out Loud, Who Is That Nairalander You've Been Crushing On? by Brymo: 10:48am On Oct 26, 2013 |
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Romance › Re: Ladies:would You Allow Your Man To Make Love To You In His Car? by Brymo: 10:24pm On Oct 24, 2013 |
[quote author=High_flyer]After a night of merriment, you guys were so horn'y and when you both got to his car, you started kissing, before you say Jack bauer, he started pulling your clothes and said he wants to make love to you inside his car. Would you allow him?[/quote],y? r u guys actors. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Wearing Panty Hose To A Job Interview. by Brymo: 5:35pm On Oct 24, 2013 |
Beaf!: ^ most silly answer to a 'silly' question. watz ur own, beef |
Gaming › Re: Grand Theft Auto 5 Breaks Seven World Records. by Brymo: 2:06pm On Oct 24, 2013 |
Ruq: You don't know Jack!! u that knows Jill,welldone! |
Properties › Re: Demolition Going On At Ojudu/Alagbole For The Ogun Road Project by Brymo: 2:04pm On Oct 24, 2013 |
tor,gud job,n compensate o. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Wearing Panty Hose To A Job Interview. by Brymo: 1:57pm On Oct 24, 2013 |
i mean no disrespect,dis d most stupid Question i av heard in 2013. |
Family › Re: How Much Should A Potential Nigerian Husband Earn? by Brymo: 1:53pm On Oct 24, 2013 |
atleast Israel"s minimum wage 2000USD |
TV/Movies › Re: Chimamanda Adichie At The "Half Of A Yellow Sun" Movie Premiere by Brymo: 1:36pm On Oct 24, 2013 |
Ms_Steph: eya.. see as white pple dey look dem no screaming fanz sef..... always do something where people know u in vin diesel voice,ignorance na bad tin,who doesn't know Adichie,she spoke at TED talk,i know u probably don't know that,this isn't a rap show but a nite of gents and well bred ladies,so no shout shout,u hear. |
Sports › Re: Sepp Blatter Remembers Yekini On 50th Birthday by Brymo: 1:27pm On Oct 24, 2013 |
u can just imagine,dats y its hard to see a patriotic Nigerian,a white man goin ahead of us to remember the legend. |
Gaming › Re: Grand Theft Auto 5 Breaks Seven World Records. by Brymo: 1:22pm On Oct 24, 2013 |
shud dis,make front page things? |
Politics › Re: National Conference Report Will End-up With Akara Sellers — Shehu Sani by Brymo: 9:48am On Oct 24, 2013 |
mallam shehu go n sit dw. |
Education › Re: ASUU Strike: FG Agrees On N200b In 2014 Budget On Universities by Brymo: 10:38pm On Oct 17, 2013 |
Bossforeva: Dat means strike will b calld of in 2014. probably |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Fair Is Military And Paramilitary Recruitment. by Brymo: 6:41pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
as fair as rooney. |
Career › Re: Tips On How To Stop Being A Digital Slave. by Brymo: 2:01pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
Phder: Those tips don't work for me! I guess it's because am idle (not doing any reasonable thing) at the moment. I find solace in surfing the internet. Thanks but no thanks. -------------------------------- @OP. This is your third post that would be making FP in less than 72hours, what is your secret bro? Are you Seun's cousin ni? love ur signature,my fav lov song by chris ft j.b |
Career › Re: Tips On How To Stop Being A Digital Slave. by Brymo: 11:28am On Oct 16, 2013 |
olopan: i tried and read am to middle but got bored of it but if you think that you be like me wey no read am finish oya "like" this post i tooo cudnt finish dis rite up,not because its boring though,but lenghty. |
Career › Re: Tips On How To Stop Being A Digital Slave. by Brymo: 11:24am On Oct 16, 2013 |
Should d s word b included. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: China Blasts US Shutdown, Calls For A ‘de-americanized’ World by Brymo: 10:01am On Oct 16, 2013 |
God bless American |
Islam › Re: Happy Eid ul Adha To Nairalanders by Brymo: 7:51am On Oct 15, 2013 |
I pray does guys do not profess their profession. |