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lifeexperience:
Don't wanna reveal my real identity here because I am well known here. So have to use a fresh account.

After the whole scenario and saga of the Dr. Oji Alllwell who took his life by jumping from 3rd mainland bridge, I had known and come to notice that life isn't all about money and riches. Who would have thought that a young man of his age who is a Medical Doctor, own an SUV and a driver and might be living in a very comfortable house will commit suicide.

The whole internet was full with sympathy to the family, insults to the young man and many felt why will a young man who is a Medical Doctor and living comfortably will commit suicide. But the truth about it is if you haven't suffered depression, false accusation and so many challenges in life you will think life is all about comfort, roses and possession of wealth.

My sad life and experience.

Sometime early last three year, 5th of Feb 2014 to be precise. I was falsely accused of something I do not know anything about to the extent I was blackmailed and filmed on another scenario to make the accusation look solid. The accuser accused me of trying to rape her who was my highly respected leader's wife and this was arranged by her and her friend.

To cut the story short, I have a man I once called my leader who is highly influential both in business and politics and he really loved me and took me as his son. I even had a room in his house. But the wife never liked me because she had once asked me to have sex with her which I blatantly rejected and kept it secret within me. But her mind kept judging her that I might leak out this secret one day which I will never even do because I am the secretive type and nobody might believe me because of her innocent lifestyle. But she quickly played a smart one on me.

From how the whole film started. One morning she called me from my room (in the guest house) to come and help her fix something in her room. I was still with my night wear and went to her room straight with it. As I got there, she told me to remove my shirt that I will be climbing her closet to help her nail something. I did exactly as she instructed not knowing she have her own motives. After climbing the closet there was nothing there to nail and I told her everything is intact. She said she was hearing some noise so she thought maybe their was some loose somewhere. As I came down, she filmed me unknowingly with her phone as I was trying to wear my clothes. That was how everything started.

She connived with her friend and they both lied against me saying I once asked her out too. I denied everything and her husband believed me at some point because he knew right from time the woman never liked me but didn't show full support of me because of the wife. My family and few of my friends were all with me at that point and they knew I can never do that not even with a married woman. She insisted that she will provide video clip for more prove and I was first to say she should do so, not knowing of what she have done earlier and edited some part of the video.

The whole story changed when she provided that video clip. The husband, my girlfriend, my family (father, mother, siblings and infact every of my extended family), friends and the whole world deserted me and I was even cursed by my parents for making them look stupid for earlier supporting me. I was left alone in this whole world, I was sacked because "my leader" has a very high stake where I work and was thrown inside the cell for 3 weeks until the man instructed for my release and never to come close to his fence again.

After I came out, I felt like the ground should swallow me, I was rejected by everybody including my parents (though my mother stood by me as her son but never believed anything I was saying). At this point I felt depressed, I asked myself what's the need of living in this life when everybody is against me on what I never did. Nobody to even listen to me anymore because everybody was hiding their wife and girlfriends away from me (funny world) and describing me as rapist. Do you know what it takes to be wrongly accused of what you don't even know anything about and been backed up with convincing evidence?

From that point I knew this life is of two phases. A once happy man now became the saddest man on earth. At some point I ran into cars on motion but accidents are always averted, bought Rat killer and some poison on three occasions but anytime I wanna take my life, one spirit come and says stand and defend yourself one day you must surely triumph and the world will believe you and another mind will say no need because that time will never come. But I am very happy today that I was able to mend my life through that phase. Though I still pass through depression sometime but I am being able to manage my life and open up my own business to be a boss of my own because of the stigma it brought to me. I am doing very well in my business (small company) today and don't even have any single friend because I fill their is no need for that when I couldn't even get one by my side during the bad times. Same goes to girls because I see them as Lucifer (sorry to use this word) and don't think that mindset will ever make me to marry. To my family they said I should come for forgiveness which I did on what I never committed (Oh Lord). Today I am living a lonely life all alone with no friends, don't mingle with neighbours, hardly communicate with families and some point even I doubt if God exist because he saw me pass through what I knew nothing about and just kept mute up till this day. The only friend I had and still have is the web and internet which I fall to anytime I feel like.

But sometime life isn't what you see on someone physically. If you have suffered depression and have been in some situation people go through in life you will never judge people for somethings they do or what they pass through. Who will be thinking of wealth when you are be confronted with false accusation and passing through depression. If it was pushed further I would have served a jail term for what I don't know. Probably still inside jail by now.

Your prayer should be one day you should never experience depression. Though I don't support suicide and will never support it. If I have my way I will open up a rehab or something where people can go have time when they are depressed or lonely. Set it up like form of vacation ground where you meet with nice people who will be employed to treat you nice and make you feel people still love you despite if the rest of the world hate you. Life isn't all about the roses but about how you can manage the bad time when it hits you.

Sorry for the long writing and grammatical blunders.

that's y I just keep to masef too, u can never explain defeat to someone who has never experienced it before.. each time I'm faced with depression, I try to sleep it out now, it saves me from thinking of suicide as a way out... nice one op

The world was at a standstill, I could smell the dust deep into my organ of smell but it didn’t matter, I sat on the floor with hands numb, my heart heavy and my face drawn. I couldn’t help but notice the solitude of the house, my world was crashing down on me, I jerked back into consciousnat have I done? Oh, my God!!! Sarah noooooooo, I cried profusely with tears flowing surreptitiously, my hands displayed the horror of the moment and it was my entire fault…….
Sarah had walked in majestically with my new vintage shirt, I could see that she had gone against my warning, with disgust and anger building up in me, I screamed immediately “Sarah!!!”what on earth is this ?, why do you have my shirt on?, she stared at me with no iota of remorse and with a nonchalant attitude replied in the silliest of all manner “ I was searching for something to wear with my jeans, all my shirt and blouse wouldn’t fit, there and then I turned, saw a light shine on a shirt and I walked towards it, lo and behold , it was your vintage shirt, I tried all I could to resist the temptation but I couldn’t , so I borrowed it”, I felt disgusted with her and replied in a cold manner “ but I told you never to wear my shirt, off all the clothing you have, no top could match the jeans, it just had to be mine”.
“Sandra, come on, it’s just a shirt, stop making a big deal out of it” she said. I could see the smirk as she walked out on me, “Oh! No you don’t, you are not gonna win this one”, I said as I ran towards her and pulled her braids, I pulled it so hard she let out a wild cry but I wasn’t done with her yet, she would learn how to respect my rules and obey them, what on earth gave her the audacity to wear a shirt I saved to my last penny to buy, more so I haven’t even rocked the shirt, she will never try this again. As I continued pulling her braids, her screams got intense and in a jiffy she turned and kicked me on my tummy, I flinched and let go of her braids, in anger, I picked of the bread knife and chased her across the room and down the corridor, I finally caught up with her and with my whole body I pushed her down.
We fought for the knife, rolling and kicking each other, she punched me on my chin and stood up to run away, I held her on her ankle, down to the hard ground she fell, I finally gained the upper hand, sitting on her tummy and in a blink of an eye, I plunged the knife three-quarter down her chest. I felt her breath give way, as her eyes started closing, the reality of what I had done dawned on me, oh! My God, Saraaaaaaaaaaaah no, don’t go, I didn’t mean for this to happen, I only wanted to scare you and make you respect me, Sarah don’t leave me, no Sarah I’m so sorry, the words flew out of my mouth has the tears continued to flow, my sister’s hand dropped to the floor and she was gone…………
Proverbs 14:29 (English Standard Version) says, “Whosoever is slow to anger has great understanding but he who has a hasty temper exalts folly. Anger has kept a lot of people in positions they never thought or imagined they could be leading to the end product which often is regrets and remorse. Sarah would have been alive today if only Sandra had controlled her anger and approached the matter in a calm manner but rather in a bid to make a statement and in a rush of temper, she killed her sibling.
While growing up I learnt that the harshest of words and the worst of actions are said and done in an atmosphere of anger, in the heat of fierce emotions, we should all walk away or tread with caution as our very existence depends on it. We should all endeavor to control our temper, cause in the end we are heroes and not cowards when we do…….
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For we that have no Val's and to those who think that Val's day is overrated, let the couples in the house and those who went out with frnds share their lovely selfies with us. . ..

I'm still gonna try to hang out with my frnds, so I would update mine later

Do also share a selfie of your gifts, let's drool over it

For all the singles out there

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coolestchris:
It has goten to my attention that we have So many lesbians and gays, please unfollow me

WHU U EPP??

Y r u complaining for them, this same stuffs bachelors do, so wahs d rules for.. Abeg mind ya bizness

BluntMadmoiselle:
I'm a full time student and I don't want to get involved in a job that would disrupt my education (at least not yet). It's not like I get less-busy at all times but I tend to travel into thought at the slightest chance.

then avoid alone times, they trigger such

Take a bottle of magic moment or vodka and a stick of cigarette wen u are in dah mood

Justdulla:
That why i advice against away match. Some parents ehn they are messed up.
Back to tha topic, he has to spend some time in a family house setting. Probably his relatives or a friend. Secondly he has to get married to a very good homely lady. A lady that understands the virtues of motherhood and taking care of her home. So he has to avoid the city ladies or open eye babes in nairaland, and search for the reserved up and doing lady from a rural setting. Am talking from experience ooh cos very few city ladies make good wifes.
Furthermore he has to change that notion of baby mama drama, let him think positively about life. And Lastly, Marriage is not by force, baby mama is not by force either, enjoy yiur single life, adopt a kid and die.. Afterall no one lives more than 90 something these days, so why should we carry life matter ontop our head like agege bread

don't yab Nl babes again ooo

INI edo wins

Banky with his headmaster, smh

Tonto na wa oo

kennethkaycee:
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Hiya

ItzSuperPuff:
[color=deepskyblue]Yes,why wouldnt i im pretty and enough.
he wont be looking at her [/color]

pretty, mmmmm!!!

This op is brainless

Milo and cowbell

andy3478:
Hi. Am Andy. Am 28 years of age. I reside in Lagos. Am cool, gentle and fun to be with. I love making new friends and I love life too. I would love to meet a decent, beautiful and down to earth lady with whom I can share my world with..A woman i can take good care of, and she should also take good care of me. One who is ready for a serious sex-free relationship that would lead to marriage..hit me up on WhatsApp(08159719912) and let's get to know each other and also hangout sometime..

my niggur

Plenip:
There is one i have now.she lies almost about all things and would not own up until she is confronted with undeniable proofs even after swearing heaven and earth - a sister for that matter.

u beta leave her

BiafranBushBoy:

lolx

BiafranBushBoy:
Relationship this and that ...

Don't you guys get tired?

I seee
Mister man r u single
Or is ur spouse d wrong person
Cos this one u r vexing mmmm

vizkiz:
I will kill you bro

lolx

KingRex1:
Haha.. Na alaye be this o. Vizkiz

hahahaha shebi I try na

Cc vizkiz