Sometimes the men just come, do 2minutes romance and then sex... this makes sex uninteresting. I want Sex to involve exploring, the pre-intimacy matters a lot but some husband just kiss the breast small, then start fingering and then sex with the absence of a cuddle after the deed, begins to look like a routine and the woman suddenly gets tired of it.

iamL:


very dumb. The fiancee was even begging her to stop at the end she was trafficked in the name of work.

work that she can be easily replaced

Karleb:


Try to understand the title before commenting. You hear?

gerarahia

debbydams:
Oloture

she was toodumb for a reporter and kept herself in harm way

Omoni Oboli movies

Yaaaaaay, I just got my approval
I'm heading to UK as a dependent on a global talent visa. I am so happy.

Bubblewitch:
Please if you are coming as a dependent and your sponsor is on a Tier 1 visa, as the UK ever refused such applicant?

Anyone?

Please if you are coming as a dependent and your sponsor is on a Tier 1 visa, as the UK ever refused such applicant?

Capitalbase:


In that case I humbly remove oil my dear.
Thanks for helping me save space.

Thanks

for checked in bags?

rukkykelvin:
Hello everyone

@mimilyrics @Duchess90

Is it necessary if I fill in NYSC on this part of my form.

i did

dalourde:
Good day house. I've been following diligently since last year. I did my biometrics on the 6th of August 2020, already got a mail from TLS stating that my application has been transfered to UKVI. My concern is that up till this moment, I have not gotten an acknowledgement mail from homeoffice/UKVI or whomever is supposed to work on my application.
What could have caused the delay?

for spousal visa?

DonTwice:


Best you make it colored

Thanks

Please this document self upload, should it be in coloured or black and white?

pwettyhardey:
Good morning guys, I already booked for TB test for 15 September, I'm trying to fill out the form online now, I can't seem to see the option to select 15 September. Has anyone been in this shoe?

when I went for mine in Aug 10, I was told to book from October as Sep was filled. If you want an earlier date, I suggest you keep calling their line

Localchampion:
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I know, his happiness is the most annoying to me, when I cooked and all, as if I didn't wanna do it, as if he wasn't the one that was broke, since he gave me the money for the food, he has been complaining he has no money again. He wants his bread and cake same time.
Till now, he hasn't given me the money to make my hair and frowning that I'm asking him money when I know he doesn't, he said he would be more than happy to do them for me bla bla bla.

sweetie ditch the guy. Trust me, it's gonna get worse.

Godson213:
Good afternoon my amiable family people. I am planning a wedding with my fiancée my budget is 500K. Will it be enough for food and drinks. People coming from my side aren’t that much. She is yoruba and her mum says she wants a low key wedding and she understands we are young couple. But I just want my money to be able to cover for most things so it doesn’t look poor or low class.

Even this 500k na struggle I struggle am. Babe is on my neck and her business is going good. Please I really want to know what is needed

Do court wedding and rest

emekaxy:


Go to the phone icon by the right of the phone app many and click to reset it then you register the it again but providing your phone number and NIN number. It will come up

mine is bringing another name oo

princepee:
Ok ooo, i registered four years ago and am yet to get the card, this digital stuff will probably take ten years to complete....

And I just hope it's not the Antichrist thing...

i registered 6years ago, still don't have it

DriggityDre:
I am indifferent to this. It's not like he committed murder.

He doesn't have to, makes no sense. Of that bag starts selling then we would have a lot of child mortality on our hands

Interesting read

infogenerator:

You have a strong point, to be honest I dread talking to a third party about my relationships, especially seeking for advise. But in this case, he doesn't stand a chance of winning her over by himself, I see a third party as a last resort for him.

she won't listen. That type of woman pretended all through courtship. Trust me, OP is probably warm hearted and avoids trouble, so she would ride him.

Women like that, the men should stop giving her attention, avoid her food and her. Don't hold discussions with her, let her wonder what he is up to. Let him chat on his phone and laugh out loud. Infact avoidance 101 has been activated

manos:



I am a very calm person actually, shouting comes from frustration because the moment i try to correct her she gets angry and lashes back immediately raising her voice. So naturally i raise my voice to match her tone so that she hears me and so that i can make my point.

On the other hand, i apologize because, sometimes when i wait for the apology for too long and it is not coming, i decide that i cant continue living like that and look beyond my intention to correct so that we can have some peace and move forward, probably push give her more time to evaluate her actions, while we continue living in peace. I cant imagine living with anyone for a week in the same house and not be able to communicate with the person. I dont know how other people do that. I personally try to resolve issues quickly.

Hiya, you seem like a very nice person. Sorry you had to marry someone who hates to be corrected.

Let's try this approach, around 3 am Saturday morning, wake her up and then discuss. Ask her why she enjoys the unhygienic attitude, listen carefully, that way you'd know if she would repent or not. I for one don't subscribe to people who don't understand that in marriage there is no me or you only us.

You should air your views too. If she refuses to change, then you need to take action.

First of video her doing that disgusting act or more, then one day record your conversation while you corrected her. Once you have your evidence, call a family meeting.

Show everyone your evidence and then tell them that if she refuses to change you are going to abandon her and the house, she can continue to act as she likes living alone.

You are still too young to run mad.

There are more battles in marriage, you really don't want to be accepting an unrepentant person in the early stage of your marriage. I think she should go and stay with her family for a month since she doesn't want to learn.

solarinde:


#57800 for adults. Age12 & above
#23150 for minors. Age 11-0

Thanks

Please how much is iom medicals for tuberculosis at Ikeja

Please how much is iom medicals for tuberculosis at ikeja

yesloaded:

Believe me, she needs to take it easy come what may

not your business

prettyboi1989:
is there no shop in the whole of lagos that sells a durable and reliable power bank? the powerbanks i have been seeing all have false claims of mah on their casing

romoss is d best, followed by opsson others are just dere, don't try new age oo or fil they are not good.. my romoss I have been using for d past 6months and it still works like magic

lol, u can't have it all

Do you love your girl and you don't want another man to snatch her from you? Then do the following things:
1. Give her plenty of attention. If you give her attention, she will not seek for attention elsewhere. Chat with her online via social media or else another man will.
2. Give her listening ears whenever she is speaking to you. Avoid pressing your phone or reading a newspaper when your girl is talking to you.
3. Do not promise her and fail. Do not promise her what you cannot do. It is better for you to say you don't have than to promise and fail.
4. Do not be stingy. Avoid telling her that you don't have, you don't have all the time.
5. Be caring. To be caring does not only mean you should be giving her money. There are many ways of showing care; e.g show concern whenever she is sad or in problems; be by her side when she is in problems, do not abandon her in her days of sorrow.
6. Tell her daily that she is beautiful.
7. Tell her daily that you love her.
8. Play with her and joke with her daily.
9. Don't be too hard and don't be too soft. Scold her a little, and pet her a little. Do not over pet or over scold.
10. Love her siblings, and respect her parents.
11. Appreciate her when she helps you to do something.
12. Allow her to advise you, seek her suggestions and respect her opinions.
13. Respect her.
14. Do not take her for granted.
15. Do not cheat on her.
16. Play with her hairs
17. kiss her on her forehead, cheek and neck. It will pass a good message to her.
18. Let her sit on your lap sometimes.
Agree or Disagree? #copied

lifeexperience:
Don't wanna reveal my real identity here because I am well known here. So have to use a fresh account.

After the whole scenario and saga of the Dr. Oji Alllwell who took his life by jumping from 3rd mainland bridge, I had known and come to notice that life isn't all about money and riches. Who would have thought that a young man of his age who is a Medical Doctor, own an SUV and a driver and might be living in a very comfortable house will commit suicide.

The whole internet was full with sympathy to the family, insults to the young man and many felt why will a young man who is a Medical Doctor and living comfortably will commit suicide. But the truth about it is if you haven't suffered depression, false accusation and so many challenges in life you will think life is all about comfort, roses and possession of wealth.

My sad life and experience.

Sometime early last three year, 5th of Feb 2014 to be precise. I was falsely accused of something I do not know anything about to the extent I was blackmailed and filmed on another scenario to make the accusation look solid. The accuser accused me of trying to rape her who was my highly respected leader's wife and this was arranged by her and her friend.

To cut the story short, I have a man I once called my leader who is highly influential both in business and politics and he really loved me and took me as his son. I even had a room in his house. But the wife never liked me because she had once asked me to have sex with her which I blatantly rejected and kept it secret within me. But her mind kept judging her that I might leak out this secret one day which I will never even do because I am the secretive type and nobody might believe me because of her innocent lifestyle. But she quickly played a smart one on me.

From how the whole film started. One morning she called me from my room (in the guest house) to come and help her fix something in her room. I was still with my night wear and went to her room straight with it. As I got there, she told me to remove my shirt that I will be climbing her closet to help her nail something. I did exactly as she instructed not knowing she have her own motives. After climbing the closet there was nothing there to nail and I told her everything is intact. She said she was hearing some noise so she thought maybe their was some loose somewhere. As I came down, she filmed me unknowingly with her phone as I was trying to wear my clothes. That was how everything started.

She connived with her friend and they both lied against me saying I once asked her out too. I denied everything and her husband believed me at some point because he knew right from time the woman never liked me but didn't show full support of me because of the wife. My family and few of my friends were all with me at that point and they knew I can never do that not even with a married woman. She insisted that she will provide video clip for more prove and I was first to say she should do so, not knowing of what she have done earlier and edited some part of the video.

The whole story changed when she provided that video clip. The husband, my girlfriend, my family (father, mother, siblings and infact every of my extended family), friends and the whole world deserted me and I was even cursed by my parents for making them look stupid for earlier supporting me. I was left alone in this whole world, I was sacked because "my leader" has a very high stake where I work and was thrown inside the cell for 3 weeks until the man instructed for my release and never to come close to his fence again.

After I came out, I felt like the ground should swallow me, I was rejected by everybody including my parents (though my mother stood by me as her son but never believed anything I was saying). At this point I felt depressed, I asked myself what's the need of living in this life when everybody is against me on what I never did. Nobody to even listen to me anymore because everybody was hiding their wife and girlfriends away from me (funny world) and describing me as rapist. Do you know what it takes to be wrongly accused of what you don't even know anything about and been backed up with convincing evidence?

From that point I knew this life is of two phases. A once happy man now became the saddest man on earth. At some point I ran into cars on motion but accidents are always averted, bought Rat killer and some poison on three occasions but anytime I wanna take my life, one spirit come and says stand and defend yourself one day you must surely triumph and the world will believe you and another mind will say no need because that time will never come. But I am very happy today that I was able to mend my life through that phase. Though I still pass through depression sometime but I am being able to manage my life and open up my own business to be a boss of my own because of the stigma it brought to me. I am doing very well in my business (small company) today and don't even have any single friend because I fill their is no need for that when I couldn't even get one by my side during the bad times. Same goes to girls because I see them as Lucifer (sorry to use this word) and don't think that mindset will ever make me to marry. To my family they said I should come for forgiveness which I did on what I never committed (Oh Lord). Today I am living a lonely life all alone with no friends, don't mingle with neighbours, hardly communicate with families and some point even I doubt if God exist because he saw me pass through what I knew nothing about and just kept mute up till this day. The only friend I had and still have is the web and internet which I fall to anytime I feel like.

But sometime life isn't what you see on someone physically. If you have suffered depression and have been in some situation people go through in life you will never judge people for somethings they do or what they pass through. Who will be thinking of wealth when you are be confronted with false accusation and passing through depression. If it was pushed further I would have served a jail term for what I don't know. Probably still inside jail by now.

Your prayer should be one day you should never experience depression. Though I don't support suicide and will never support it. If I have my way I will open up a rehab or something where people can go have time when they are depressed or lonely. Set it up like form of vacation ground where you meet with nice people who will be employed to treat you nice and make you feel people still love you despite if the rest of the world hate you. Life isn't all about the roses but about how you can manage the bad time when it hits you.

Sorry for the long writing and grammatical blunders.

that's y I just keep to masef too, u can never explain defeat to someone who has never experienced it before.. each time I'm faced with depression, I try to sleep it out now, it saves me from thinking of suicide as a way out... nice one op