OlawaleBammie:
yes, am not saying 50k is enough but well sha

Sebi she's still working, what u send to her is supposed to be an addition to what she earns na

Well sha, u be lady as u said, so......

lol, I told her to stop working cause of her health. Lol what's has gender got to do with this

oldienavie:
So I am 36 years and looking to settle down.
I have a lady friend who I have know for a while and is a really decent lady.
She is the type of person I would like to marry (I like conservative ladies and she is the conservative type no makeup which is what I want).
She is 32 years old.

A part of me feels it is better to wait for a while and try and get a younger "god fearing" lady.

To the men, what would you advise ?

I am kinda traditional and feel like a man should avoid marrying a lady in her 30s and also have a gap of atleast 7 years with the wife but I think I love her, I have been thinking about her lately.

Edited: A lot of people asking why I am not married at 36 years old, I was studying abroad, I just got back to naija to try and marry.

lol, from a married woman, I can't tell you that age doesn't matter. The younger ones may even give you more trouble. If she gives you peace of mind and helps you manage the home effectively while pursuing her dream, you had better marry her.

OlawaleBammie:


Na only u dey send money give ur mama wey 50k no dey reach her?

Abi u be the only son??

Abi ur mama dey use the money sow seed to one god of men ??

Am sorry for the question tho... I just got curious

lol, I'm a lady sending money to my mum.. shioor. She pays for light, water and cable. Not to mention that food has also increased. Habaaa 50K is not enough for one person

OlawaleBammie:


Yea i have modified, i actually read ur post where u said she's weaning her babies.

Triplet is not easy, even me, i cant allow my woman to work if she put a single baby to bed not to talk of triplet.

But well, from his writeup i detect that the woman has always bn a leech joo, we know dem, awon alabodo.

Oga, she is not a leech.. they are both at fault, having unprotected sex and all. I send 50K for only my mum every month and it’s not enough, talk more of 6 people sharing that. Abeg times are hard

LegendHero:
For USA, you don’t actually need IELTS or TOEFL like that coz there are many universities that recognize Nigeria as an English speaking country.

I’m pretty sure there will be schools in the UK and Canada too that does the same thing.

But honestly this IELTS/TOEFL need to be scrapped for Nigerians. We were taught in English in our schools so I don’t know why we have to test on English again.

However no be only Naija dey write IELTS, so we can’t tell them to stop the exam we can only tell them to exempt Nigerians.

my problem is the fact that it expires every 2 years

Optimistic4life:
Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months.
The case is still in court though.

We are blessed with 3 kids under 10.

Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on.

How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady?

I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it.

What is life like out there for me?

The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc

Let him take two kids and you keep the last born, that way he doesn’t leave you to be at his mercy even after divorce. Trust me, men know nothing about what women go through during marriage, let him have a taste of it after divorce. You also get to pick up your life and bounce back immediately

Kajaard:


Women are different from men. It doesn't take anything for men to have sex and 9 times out of 10 emotions are not involved. It's not the same for women. That's why it's never advisable to take back a cheating wife.

hahaha useless justification, you think women don’t feel this way about their cheating husbands? Everyone hates a cheat regardless of gender

Toks2008:


Tales by moonlight. GOD has not created the man that will satisfy a woman. You lot are damn too complicated.

oh women are complicated but it’s a man’s world to cheat right?

stasius:
If this guy kills this IK; I mean if he brings out a gun and shoots him dead.
Is it wrong?
Because this is the only thing in my head. If I catch my friend in this situation I will commit murder that day. Not just him. I will kill him and kill the woman. Cikina!

lol, but men can cheat on their wives?

Gee64:
They divorce for selfish reason.

selfish reason? The man impregnated her maid. Smh

phranco:
Thank you guys for ur submissions and opinions so far, I really appreciate. From these write ups, Peace of mind and Happines is top priority in marriage, sex is secondary, after all we can't be having sex every day in marriage. She will definitely give me the desired happiness.
You know in life, there is a stage when the truth will be staring at your face but it will be difficult to take decision. Not until you confide in someone and build your confidence. I will definitely wife her, nobody is complete and perfect. Its just that I'm a sexually active person, and I'm looking at marriage from sex angle. But my mindset have changed tonight, thanks guys.

please leave her so that she can find a man that truly loves her. You are going to make her sad because you are settling… Just let her go abeg and find your type

Ficient:


Thanks very much everyone. I'm still consulting with friends and family, someone suggested I take a study leave from my job instead of resigning outrightly. My wife is a good woman, otherwise I wouldn't entertain the idea at all.

best advice. I always tell people to take a study leave and see what the uk is about. Life there is not rosy so you have to come and see if you can manage

Ficient:
I'm a federal civil servant, wife just got a job in the UK as a nurse. This has been our plan, although she initiated the idea which I supported especially bcuz of our kids. As the time is getting closer I'm developing some cold feet, but eventually I'm sure I will move. Don't really know if leaving my civil service job and farming business is a good idea, I don't really have an Abroad game plan yet.

get a job there before leaving. It’s hard to get a job in the UK as an immigrant. I am talking from experience except you want to do care and warehouse jobs

A cover up is on the way

MARSONE:
So a friend sent me a job advert on LinkedIn of a firm looking for a Steam experienced 3rd marine engineer to work on an FPSO in Nigeria.

I sent out my CV to the firm and they got back to me 4 days later asking me to look at the pay scale and reaffirm if they should proceed with the process.

Looking at the pay scale, it was way below what I was expecting and I had to reject it with the below message.

I will be willing to discuss further if the pay is in dollars and monthly take home is above $3500.

NB:

I am UK schooled with all the necessary certifications and very well experienced in my field with double digit years (12 years) experience.

Why the info? Pride goes before a fall

chaseblack:


Ah!
Mogbe

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ednut1:
There should be one wedding which is trad. All these ones are just nonsense and waste of funds

no, court is the major wedding

1) They lack accountability
2) Entitlement
3) Not being responsible
4) The fake it till you make it lifestyle
5) living above their means

Afodot0022:


My fear is that even though she is not cheating presently, should i be concerned she had cheated in the past

you seized her phone? What nònsense!!!! Thank God it’s not me you married, you will keep that phone and I would never collect anything from you again…. Treating your wife like a slave… mtcheeew. Swear lol swear ni…

Gudbadguy:
The company is not serious they would have given her more than one paper! Being the best out of 400 pipul is not an easy feat

Or even corrected her

Sonnobax15:

I'm certainly one nigha on earth who can easily tolerate the excesses of any banny,but one thing that I can't tolerate is her inability to bury my stomach with nice meals/delicacies

As in,you must sabi cook my local meals and other snacks...If you aren't good at dishing them,no problem,I no go mind to send you go training for any better caterer hand.....

so who made cooking for only women? Enter the kitchen and cook na… Yall be making your partners slaves

HEAVEN4444:
for this buhari economy ? you dey enjoy ooo

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Eating suya and drinking smoothie and wine while reading this... Now I am scared

einsteine:


It is not criminal.

Debts are a civil matter.

that’s the genesis of the problem

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Update From . COM

A baby was found abandoned somewhere in Amukpe community in Sapele Local Government Area of Delta State on Thursday, October 7, Reports.

According to a Facebook page, Oghara Voice, Who Quickly Notified On Facebook, Said the baby is currently at the police clinic in the community.

"A child was abandoned somewhere in Amukpe yesterday. A Good Samaritan saw the baby and informed police.The little baby now is at the police clinic. The baby's pictures are attached here incase someone can identify the mother." the post reads.

See Photos As Obtained By Below:

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so adorable � I want a baby�

einsteine:


Did you say minimal interest rate?

50% interest in 6 days is what they charge. Nothing minimal in such pure usury. They still make lots of money even half default.

Their loans are over 1 million percent interest on a compounded annual basis.


ETA: The loans are actually over a trillion percent per year on a compounded basis. For example, some one who takes a loan of say 30,000 probably unemployed or underemployed would usually end up paying 15k weekly as they won't be able to pay back the principal so they keep paying the interest to roll it over till they run out of funds. The combination of short tenor and high interest is deliberately designed to create loan slavery.

no one was forced to borrow after seeing their conditions... This is just an excuse and don't justify the criminal actions of defaulters

Stop spoiling for a religious war... what you wrote can incite the less educated... This is wrong on all levels

It’s time to go back to ajo for the old people

Pochettino:


Focus on cost alone. Thanks.

way cheaper, I buy fried rice for 10pounds, totally an error and didn’t fill me. Same amount will get me chicken thigh for 1.50 ppounds for a kg, I have enough rice at home, diced vegetables is 2pounds. Not to forget the 15pounds Uber I took to go get the food and back

Foodforthought:

Kindly stop tagging me.

oga shift... can’t you see you were part of a post, how do you expect me to know there is a moniker as thats

bmcariyo:
You loaned your friend N4,000,000 last year and since then, he has refused to pay back, which has really deteriorated the friendship.

You beg him to just pay you N2,000,000 and forget the rest because you are in a financial crisis. Your friend then says he can only get you N1,500,000 since that's all he has.

You feel like you have no option but to accept. You eventually give him your account details to send the amount directly to your bank.

You wake up the next morning, checked your account and there is N15,000,000 in it. You kept staring at the screen in disbelief but it is indeed 15m.

You grab your phone and find 53 missed calls from him and an additional 27 text messages begging you to transfer back N13,500,000 since he only meant to send N1,500,000 and mistakenly added an extra "0."

As a well-brought-up person, what are you supposed to do?

1. Send back N13,500,000/=?
2. Take your full N4,000,000/=?
3. Keep the entire N15,000,000/=?
4......
5...

#FoodForThought

I am taking my full 4M and then blocking the idiooot... silly friends trying to take advantage of your sincerity

CalliDora1:
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Then maybe the man is not sweet enough or he doesn't know how to do it. Some men will stress you out during the exercise that you won't look forward to it again. I guess this could be the case if its not the former.

Some men need to work and improve on their bedmatic skills so the woman can look forward to doing the do with them anytime.

this is the best answer... most men make sex a chore