He should just provide leadership and sense of direction, that's all.
Nobody's asking too much from him, whether he shares money or not, just man up and provide leadership as the president of the country.

I pray you overcame this.

I'm not always comfortable seeing adults bring up family issues to Nairaland faceless forum where mostly kids and teenagers who know nothing about relationships and family dish out their uninformed advise thereby making the situation worse.

What happened to having a good talk with her and letting her know how much the family is losing as a result of her poor money management.
Sit down with her and draw the family budget, that is expected income, expenses and savings each month/year or quarter, make her responsible for the budget and always monitor performance on a timely basis.
Encourage her where she's able to cut expense and correct her mildly if need be. Continue to jointly want to improve in your finances and watch how good she will turn.
Like you noted, she has been a blessing to you and I'm sure she wants to continue to be a source of blessing to your family.

Wishing you the best in your marriage.

So sad.

This is something insurance can take care of if there's one in place.

And to imagine the locusts copulating with reckless abandon on the same farm

Tim16:
You are working, but he doesn't have any job yet. He comes home late everyday at 12am. You clean the house and provide food for the family, upon that you don't nag, and you are good looking.

Madam you married a very very irresponsible man, and people like him always engage in careless sexual activities with random girls/prostitutes. Most times he could probably be in one brothel having fun. I just pray he shouldn't someday infect you with HIV. same thing happened to my aunty, her husband was living this kind of life and infected her with HIV and both of them died of AIDS living their 4 young kids miserable. It will only take a Divine intervention by the Almighty to change such a man and make him live responsibly... I pray God to come to your aid and touch your husband's heart to become responsible and respect his marriage. I will advice you to become a prayer warrior because of this for there is nothing God can not do. You don't only talk to him you also back it up with fervent prayer I bet you you will see result. May God bless your home. AMEN

Just what if this man only hangs out with friends and doesnt engage in all you wrote there, imagine the seed you have planted in this young ladies head.

Thats why I dont support all this online request for hope because you'll end up leaving with bigger problems.

@op, I'll advise you engage him in a heart to heart talk, not as he comes back from his night crawl but in the morning, remind him of the dangers of keeping late night, safety issues and how much the kids stay awake to see him, etc. If he's the reasonable type, I'm sure he will change.

Be careful of the advise you take from here especially the ones suggesting hotels and prostitutes.

#Peace.

BennyDon:
Construction of Airport in Abakaliki shouldn't be his priority considering the distance between Enugu and Abakaliki. It's not a must that all state capital should have Airport. The fund for Airport construction could have been used for other productive purpose(s).

I'm glad Gov Umahi is working, Ebonyi is growing

No time is too early for a state to have an airport, aside the other benefits, it will also add to the state's internally generated revenue

Please call Enugu governor Willy Ugwuanyi to come and see his mate, his own na to dey buy mushroom awards upandan.

I wonder what project he will be remembered for when he leaves office.

APC should eschew hypocrisy and adopt all the advice they gave PDP during Ihedioha debacle.

One good turn ......

Good one for democracy

And it will seem they are rejoicing because they now have opportunity to better the lives of the masses

Funny people

We play too much in this country,

Too many misplaced priorities.

What is govt's business on how one chooses to bury their own or is this a state burial?

NwaAmaikpe:




I just wish he had a son elsewhere since his wife wouldn't give him one.
This is the saddest part of his death.

They care less about issues like that, na we dey kill ourselves about family succession ish.

NwaAmaikpe:




Promise a lady marriage and watch the best in her come out. You'd be shocked with how wide she will spread her legs for you, most will even let you impregnate them just like ChefChi.

We call it the 'Carrot and Stick' approach in Basic Womanizing103.
Simply paint a picture of a carrot in her mind and watch her let you stick it in.

So do it if you want to milk her resourcefulness....BUT, don't do it with a date!
That way she'd keep hanging on loyally for the carrot.

That's the mistake Davido made.
He went around disturbing us to get our 'trads' ready for Chivido2020.

It is 2020 already.
'Hanty haff borned baby'
She is already impatient because wedding she 'haff not see' and she's there wondering if it is the same man that wants to get married this year that is going on shows with his other babymama.

Pessimists like myself aren't making it any easy for her either because here we are saying; "No be only Chivido na Chivita".
So since the time has come and there's no carrot yet, there'd be limited or no 'sticks' for Davido from her.

But a player will always be a player.
No one trains a blind horse because you can't ride with them. So technically, she's useless to him if there'd be no more sticks from her.

So he'd rather unfollow her so he can be at liberty
to get more sticktime elsewhere while still making her yearn for him and out of desperation, give in once again.
Only this time, they'd all be on his terms.

But if this is a publicity stunt strictly for clout, then they are both immature cvnts undeserving of our attention.

This your yarns today no come resemble your normals.

So much talk for a post

All the best bro in your building project.

I wish you Godspeed and timely completion

Wonderful people, great minds.... merry Christmas everyone

Funny country

sempe123:
It appears fixed deposit is now better that tb in some cases.I was told 6% for 3 months at UBA for FD.One can hardly get a TB that is better than that in terms of tenor and rate.

You'll be shocked, banks are already crashing their rates to 1%, and I'm sure it will be so for for all banks before new year.

As in oil spill

following this thread with keen interest.

@Dvd, you've got a student here.

Abians have never been lucky with governance since the days of Orji Uzor Kalu!.
Each new governor outperforming the former in mediocrity!

Feeling so sad cos that's my maternal home

Nemesis909:
He intimidates his haters.

Carry go baba.

He should man up and intimidate the high insecurity facing the country first

We play too much in this country, smh �‍♂️

You sighted the forest and came back to report.

The government should hide its face in sad shame!

Smart dude

Officialgarri:

To an extent, this is true, but at the same time not true.

In eastern states, you will find "Hausa markets" but those markets apart from being small in size , the shops are usually scanty built. Infact most Hausas are hawkers only. No major property to hold them back in case of war.

The markets are scanty cos they’ve refused to build, there’re also available plots in Eastern towns for sale but because of the so called “sense of war”, most wealthy Hausas will rather live in make shift houses and repatriate their funds home.

“We are Biafrans”

My Ijaw brothers is that true?

What’s your best price ?

IMMUNO1:


Please, if you see good thing, acknowledge it. You may call it noise making hut UGWUANYI is really touching all nook and cranny of Enugu State. That conference centre to me is a commendable one.

Ugwuanyi does not come close to what Sullivan did in Enugu. He’s a definition of mediocre. I’m sure he knows how below average his performance is and decided to use propagandist to do image laundry for him.

See how bad the Coal city looks now, the non functional traffic lights and ever increasing pot holes everywhere.

042 shall rise again!

Op the “sir please endeavor to....” line came out rude sounds more like a subtle instruction, you’ve poked his ego and most bosses hate such.

You can choose to resign and get another job since you said it’s not adding no value to you or humbly apologize to your boss and move on.

I agree with him, I can only imagine the effect the actress will have on our much younger ones watching her/his movies

Neimar:
d guy dy fool e self

all those her sugar daddies go sponsor e wedding

still use prick f..u..c..k.. nonsense comot from the wife body

I give up