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Bugatie

HazardMan:
Frankicent

What?

HazardMan:
immaq8

so from Physical girlfriend to spiritual girlfriend? guy, you case is serious, If & only if you stop finking how to 'smush' her for the last time.

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immaq8:

so from Physical girlfriend to spiritual girlfriend? guy, you case is serious, If & only if you stop finking how to 'smush' her for the last time.

We don't have sex in the dream. All lovey dovey and hell no! I don't think of smashing her whether for the first or last time.

HazardMan:
About 2weeks ago i had a problem on how to move on without thinking about my ex-girlfriend who is pregnant and with two other children(twins) as well. I cherished her so much but she treated me bad.
I created a thread here on nairaland seeking for advice on what to do. Trust nairalanders na, my factory memory was on reset in no time.
Now the problem i'm having is that she is haunting my dreams. I see the both of us still having affairs in my dream almost every night and it's slowly bringing back the old memories i have tried so hard to forget following the orders given to me here on nairaland by other members.
Please what do i do as this is no longer something physical and out of my control.
No insults please as this is no longer my fault

My brother just read your post now ,I will like to ask you this question pls as she by chance in any time contacted you physically through phone call or you people mistakenly meet? and like how many times have you had a dream about her? and what re the nature of the dreams ? you can pls pm me let talk thank you.

I think i saw dat coming.(u going back to her). becos in ur first thread.i did say dat if u want to really heal & move on with your life without being under her spiritual & emotional entanglement.then u have to ask forgiveness from God,your ex. & most importantly the husband.reason been dat u knew she was married b4 u started bonking a pregnant married woman.so u are subject to her manipulation until u seek forgiveness.tell her u sorry 4 taking advantage of her weakness & u are quiting the relationship.i see theres a soultie covenant u entered into through sex with dat lady.dats what is causing d sexual dreams.u have to control ur lust by filling ur mind with prayers & Gods words.repent & get back to God fully and then pray to break every soul tie covenant with dat lady.u should know dat those sexual dreams can f.u.ck up ur live & destiny.they may or may nt be projected 4rm ur ex.they may be a result of u still lusting 4 intimacy with ur ex.d bad part is dat ur strong lust av attracted u a sexual demon.

SangoOlukosoOba:
Use excessive alcohol and some light hard-drugs to shift your attention.

You could try drugs like Fentanyl, Molly or Acid with quality scotch whisky for 2 weeks. It reformats the brain.

You can start spending time with prostitutes too. They help in times like this

This kind of advice is to drop a lesser problem/bondage & take on a more stronger and powerful problem/bondage.pls. op dont even consider it.abeg..!!

HazardMan:
Bugatie

Just occupy your thoughts with other things, the more you dwell on thinking about her, the more you see her in your dreams.

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We are fvck boys we don't fall in love

Aladdin1

i, i didn't take advantage of her. She took advantage of me. At first i wasn't sure if she was married and even if i was sure i didn't know she was having some challenges in her marriage until it was already too late.
ii, i'm not having sex in the dream with her. we're simply lovers in the dream with no sex and she love her kids morethan she loves me even in the dream.
iii, i don't have anything like lust towards her. just love, i even asked for blood convenant while still with her but she bluntly refused. Which i now come to understand that she have another agenda for refusing to go into a convenant with me.

HazardMan:
About 2weeks ago i had a problem on how to move on without thinking about my ex-girlfriend who is pregnant and with two other children(twins) as well. I cherished her so much but she treated me bad.
I created a thread here on nairaland seeking for advice on what to do. Trust nairalanders na, my factory memory was on reset in no time.
Now the problem i'm having is that she is haunting my dreams. I see the both of us still having affairs in my dream almost every night and it's slowly bringing back the old memories i have tried so hard to forget following the orders given to me here on nairaland by other members.
Please what do i do as this is no longer something physical and out of my control.
No insults please as this is no longer my fault

Your ex who is pregnant and have two other kids,are you OK?,she has moved on while you're still here living in your dreams instead of reality....

I would have caused you but your father's wife high level of witchcraft has saw to that...yeye boyfriend

Oyiboman69:

Your ex who is pregnant and have two other kids,are you OK?,she has moved on while you're still here living in your dreams instead of reality....

I would have caused you but your father's wife high level of witchcraft has saw to that...yeye boyfriend

Biko check my other thread to understand better

You may feel she took advantage of you but i see reasons from ur earlier thread to doubt that.from ur earlier thread u said u had been crushing on her b4 u traveled.and when u came back u made enquiries and was told shes married with twins.u also said d first day u visited the house u saw d twins she had 4 anoda man and even found out 4rm her mum that she lived with the father of her kids in skool.now these evidence is enough for 4 any principled guy to back out 4rm having anything further to do with such lady.but u did not back out.u are no kid & u knew very well dat u were flirting with a married woman.now my friend,dat sounds like taking advantage of someones weakness & that also sounds like lust.u both took advantage of eachother to fulfil d lust for sex,acceptance,distraction and validation.what u had 4 her is lust & infatuation.not love.now seeing her in ur dreams is fueled by ur thoughts of her & lust.u may not believe it but u must know dat lust & thoughts are subconcious and can attracts things.

Buy coconut ,carry am go cele make them use am wash ur head

ezegenigbonine:
Guy you don get marine wife be that ooo. Congratulations

You wicked goh.

Aladdin1

I'm not doubting you but if what i felt for her was lust then why don't i engage in any sexual stuff in my dreams with her, we don't even kiss in the dream

HazardMan:
About 2weeks ago i had a problem on how to move on without thinking about my ex-girlfriend who is pregnant and with two other children(twins) as well. I cherished her so much but she treated me bad.
I created a thread here on nairaland seeking for advice on what to do. Trust nairalanders na, my factory memory was on reset in no time.
Now the problem i'm having is that she is haunting my dreams. I see the both of us still having affairs in my dream almost every night and it's slowly bringing back the old memories i have tried so hard to forget following the orders given to me here on nairaland by other members.
Please what do i do as this is no longer something physical and out of my control.
No insults please as this is no longer my fault

She might not be the one, this spiritual pray alot bro or sick deliverance,

Lightangel65:


You miss her badly and it's normal it's not s spiritual thing. Breaking up with someone you love is very painful, that's why guys don't fall in love, but give it time and it will fade but don't ever call her or go back to her, it's better you avoid her this period till it passes

@Op, take the advice above.
Remember, don't call or communicate with her no matter what. With time, the memories you have about her will fade away.

Lexusgs430:



Same thing.......

Man, you have a hazard looming.......

West nko? Same thing?

HazardMan:
Bestinstinct

My brother....you are the one keeping her in your dreams. Ignore the dreams jare, you will be over it with time. As much as I regret being a playboy throughout my 20s, heartbreak stories like this come make me dey feel say na better thing o. Imagine having 3 serious relationships, 3 semi-serious and 4 FWB. Where will you have time to dream about just one? So chill my bro, you will be fine with time. Retired strikers like me can relate

HazardMan:
Stacyomolola

Hey how can I help u

Stacyomolola:

Hey how can I help u

Are you the one in your profile?

HazardMan:

Are you the one in your profile?

Am not

Stacyomolola:
Am not

Ok. The person in your profile looks very much like my ex