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She might get suicidal if you cheat on her so you better not. Whenever you make decisions stand by it and don’t worry she won’t have miscarriage many women go by bikes or keke to market etc

He has legal rights to his baby whether or not he rejected it before now.., truth is a bitter pill

How strange nobody seems to state what men need to do for a happy home.

Move on and Come back a few years from now she’ll no longer be a virgin.

TonyeBarcanista:
Thank God you married a GREAT GUY
 
 
This is a generic term used by women when their bid to separate in-laws from their husbands failed them.
Nobody intends to separate family but once a man is married he should relocate to give him a chance to tend to his own immediate family first.

The older sisters are your own older sisters too. You have to be in their good book at all times as long as it isn't against your legitimate interest. As long as they are not telling you to do overboard

You can’t live the rest of your live serving people in your husband’s house, every woman deserves happiness. The world is changing women are no longer slaves cos they now go to school and have their own money .
There is no manipulation whatsoever. It is you trying to separate your husband from his sisters. As a wife, you have to accept your in-laws as yours and live in peace with them as long as they aren't perpetuating evil against your interest. Your husband has lived with them for MANY years before he met you. He knows them better than you do. You have to find way to sort it with them than try to make him see reason to separate from them. She should eat shit because she’s married? Na so your mama take suffer? How would you feel if you witness someone insulting your? Think about it

   What transpired among you in the 10 years? What is the recurring issue?

   
This is irrelevant to the subject

  
I'd do same if I was your hubby! There is no way you can claim to love hubby without showing same love and respect to his BLOOD!
That ones your concern
  
Your mind has always been made up and you are done pretending! His elder siblings are all he has and you must take them.likewise
Lies!!! He already has a wife and 4 children, they should go to their own husbands house instead they are just bullying the lady.

Go and make peace with your in-laws and stop creating this arrogance. Her so called sister in-laws should take a thousand miles step back away from their brother’s home
Do know that you will never enjoy hubby as long as you are warring with his blood!
The hubby doesn’t realize the luck he had marrying a working wife, more comfort for their family.
If you like take the advice of all these frustrated, angry, bitter and aggressive feminists, and male she-men, NA YOU SABI

nobody is all thi things you mentioned, you just love the feeling of controlling a woman, if you want to control women better have money oo, no respect for poor man these days oo.

Sirvingeo:
who will now marry her 2nd hand wife . Marriage is for better and for worst situation. Will you allow your son to marry a divorcee?

other men will , even ladies with 4 to 5 children remarry .

Swallow your pride and talk to her, tell her you would love to work everything out. You both should write down what y’all are worried about in the relationship and talk it all out, It helps. And as y’all are talk try and hold her hand and look into her eyes as she’s talking , concentrate!!
You should know that once a baby comes into the picture a whole lot of things changed, you may no longer give her as much attention as before,or call her from work, complement her or even kiss her randomly like before. I’m sure you don’t. pick a day to take her away from home, away from your baby if she’s older than a year. Spend time together to appreciate your efforts so far instead of laying blames and at the end of the day make love to her, not the normal 5 minutes oo , try to last longer I’m sure pack of Sex is also making her think you are getting it somewhere else. Assure her that she’s the one from time to time and NEVER bring home a female colleague , how would you feel if she brought home a colleague, stop making her feel insecure. Ask yourself do you still love her postpartum body or do you make her feel like she’s done for. Stop making her feel like she’s living with just a roommate, once you start making her feel she’s the Queen again she will never stop treating you like her King. It’s all about understanding,endurance, love and respect. What you give is what you get. Throw away that pride and let her talk to you calmly. Except you feel a new p**sy is the answer just wait until this one births another baby for you�

Banmeallday:
Maybe fake news, but this is typical of what our youths have become, they received freedom from Oyibo and use it to chase babes left and right....


She too, she must be ashawo

If she is an Ashewo like you said, why is she pregnant and even announced it? If you guys who always find comfort in cussing out ladies can at least find another term “Ashewo” is getting old�

Okurrrrrrrrrrrrrrr I love you Cardi ❤️

Instead of addressing the issue some people are making it about gender��‍♀️

burggerx:
I guess you're a troll or maybe you probably share the same traits with my gf and you actually think it's your boyfriend that created this thread

I’m done with your stupid ass. Bleep you forever!!! Mama’s boy

If we could all put our spouses first instead of our ego, pride, personal gain, we would be happier in our marriages.

lagosminded:
Marriage is a sham. Our ladies now don’t want to suffer like their mothers. The more being a divorcee is no longer a stigma for women, the higher the divorce rate in Nigeria will be. Women are not blameless tho, they’ve perfected the act of “getting the ring”.

Women of nowadays don’t want to suffer like their mothers because nobody is supposed to suffer like that.

Baby I can never cheat on you ���

Have you tried seeing a Dermatologist

Hey baby you forgot to mention how you keep cheating and beating me each time you go out and get drunk. I’ve lost count really . You are here calling all sorts of names but you are actually the abuser, disrespectful and manipulative boyfriend. Break up with me already if all these things are true. What do you expect me to do when I catch you cheating, smile and hug you? Instead of you to work on yourself, you are here laying blames. Let’s see a relationship expert and work on the relationship but you always say No. How can a lady who you treat as a queen disrespect you? Please answer my question!