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<•• There is a Time for This & A Time for That••>


Hanzala Usayyidi (radiyallahu anhu), who was one of the scribes of Allaah's Messenger (sallallaahu alaihi wasallam) reported, "I met Abu Bakr, who asked me, 'How are you?'I replied, 'Hanzala has turned a hypocrite!' Abu Bakr [radiyallaahu anhu] exclaimed, 'Subhan Allaah! What are you saying?!' I responded, 'When we are in the company of Allaah's Messenger [sallallaahu alayhi wasallam], he reminds us of Hell-Fire and Paradise, and (we feel) as if we are seeing them with our very eyes, but when we are away from the Messenger of Allaah [sallallaahu alayhi wasallam], we attend to our wives, our children, our business; and so we fail to remember these (issues pertaining to the Hereafter)." Abu Bakr (radhi allahu anhu) agreed, "By Allaah, I too, experience the same!" So, Abu Bakr and I set off to meet Allaah's Messenger.When we came to the Prophet [sallallahu alaihi wasallam], I exclaimed, "O Allaah's Messenger, Hanzala has turned a hypocrite!" Thereupon, Allaah's Messenger [sallallaahu alayhi wa`sallam] asked, "and how is that?" I answered, "O Allaah's Messenger, when we are in your company, you remind us of the Hell-Fire and the Paradise - as if we are seeing them with our very eyes - but then when we depart, and attend to our wives, children and business, and we fail to remember much of this." Allaah's Messenger [sallallaahu alayhi wa`sallam] thus, explained, "By Him, in Whose Hand is my soul, if your state of mind remains the same as it is in my presence, and you are always busy in remembrance (of Allaah), the Angels would shake hands with you in your beds and in your paths, but, Hanzala, there is a time for this (i.e., prayer, reminder and other religious affairs, etc.) and a time for that (family, work and other worldly affairs), a time for this, and a time for that, a time for this, and a time for that."
Saheeh Muslim (37/6623)

tbaba1234: Still a long way to go....

You never can tell. Nothing is long, every long way starts with a step. As for me, I just need Allah's aid and more islamic knowledge. Shikena!

tbaba1234: Ok o!

I am hoping to get married late next year or early 2015 in shaa Allah. Just my timeline..

I also have this dream of going to hajj with my wife next year en route a honeymoon destination. Hajj before honeymoon. Awesomeness.

May Allah make it possible.

Big ameen. What a nice dream(honeymoon/hajj). Make u do the marriage for Nigeria so that we can attend oh.

tbaba1234: Busar, congrats o!

I have not gotten any nikkahquin though.

Deols take am easy oh.... Just came back from a colleague's Nikkah. Hoping to have mine soonest in sha Allah.

maclatunji: I know but within jokes are messages. You can ask Basketmouth.

maybe. Unfortunately, i don't listen to him(bask.)

showietee: As you de laugh, just make sure you hold something and don't laugh too much.

Remember- Pranks not allowed and if joking, make it moderate...

Pranks not allowed??

Mac oh! Sissie was just pulling your leg . Wallahi, you dey make me dey laugh big time

Sissie: Really!!!!!
Hahaha hilarious, is that the best you can do.

If you were really smart, you would have know the question was a playful sarcasm, and won't answer it the way you did, and I do not think 5 girls are following a man, maybe they follow Lupe fiasco or something, but you I doubt that, its all the delusions you tell yourself, but I guess you need to think that way to feel better about yourself (you are allowed to tell yourself what ever makes you sleep better at night)
Eyyah Pele.

About what you think about my mentality, I do not need your validation.

I will allow her whole heartedly.

This is getting interesting but don't let us take it personal oh . At least We are learning one or two things from these conversations.

[quote author=tm-tech]Best is to delete the old one and download d latest...don't worry, ur contacts will be added automatically to the latest watsapp[/quote]Done! Thanks a bunch.

I tried to check message on WhatsApp this morning but was told that it's too old that i should Update it. On getting to playstore i found out that the new version ain't compatible with my phone. Any solution??

This one?

deols: A man should know not to wear a pink shirt..lol..oh, you said red. If striped, ok.
If tshirt, alright. But a bright red shirt?? Kilode? What happened to blue, white, grey colours?

Abi he wants to go to disneyland? And be the little princess?


And please he should wear socks with his shoes and not wear the old school ties.

No wizkid kind of trousers too What nonsense! . only my 17y.old bro gets pardoned for that.


Tenk

May Allah give us partner(s) that will enhance our deen and ease it. But remember you can't find a man that's perfect in all aspects.

Sissie: @deols and maclatunji, Both or you didn't get my question,
My question is will you check
Beauty (physical attraction, appearance, brain e.t.c)
Family background
Wealth (ambition, finance e.t.c)
Religion last

Or religion first then the others.

Religion comes first while others follow. Every muslims suppose to know this.

deols: No. I am not ready to teach anyone anything. There is a reason we spent these years under our parents. The only babies I want in my household are the ones I give birth to. Never will I marry a cry baby or whatever. Lailai.


There are a lot we may help each other with, of course.but I definitely cannot assume I will change somebody.

Everyday, I work hard to be better at all the things am engaged in. I expect a grown black man to be doing same and not waiting for me to come clean up for him.

A man that cannot dress well in his 20s is long gone. Forget about it.

seriously? Don't tell me you can't tell him ''this isn't good enough, you can try the red top, that matches it bla bla.... This your conditions na expensive and strict one oh.

Appearance.. I think it also matters but not to the extent of 'rejecting' a brother because he doesn't look too good in his appearance.The most important things are righteousness, caring,listening etc.
The wife can even teach him, the Abu how to dress. But for the sisters i think it's important for them to be good looking also because I wouldn't care for a sister that is shabily dressed either.
Note:I am not insinuating that brothers can dress shabily oh.

May Allah forgive him of his shortcomings and have mercy on him. I have heard about him but not as much as this. Jazaakallahu khayran @ op.

Kaycee7: Relax Bro. First of all, load #200 MTN card. Then subscribe for day 50mb by dialing *113#. Now go to playstore and download Droidvpn. Then go to droidvpn site and register. Go to your email to get your password. Now login to your Droidvpn app. Go to settings and set connection protocol. Set UDP port to 500. Create a blackberry.net APN and Change your Access Point Name (APN) to blackberry.net. Now subscribe to any MTN BIS and you're good to go.
P.S. You can't access playstore under droidvpn.

i do have access to play store with Droidvpn

Na wa oh... See proposals...

sheedy407: who send u?

Which one be your own? I talk to you? Please, focus on the topic.

The extension is of no benefits to me because i have reached the fair data usage this morning. Mtcheew

druid06: It seems Allah was deaf to her prayers about protecting her daughter yet some would kill, destroy and do some unmentionable deeds for HIM. Isn't it ironic and pathetic? Fighting for a deity who doesn't give a hoot about you, who wants you to destroy and kill innocent lives because to him they're infidels. People stop putting your hands in false GODS and make your destiny by your own hands.

What are you saying?? How did this relate with the topic at hand? SHMFY!

May Allah forgive her of her sins and guide us aright.

maclatunji: ow old do you think I am? In any case, I don't even bother about that either. One thing about me is that I don't know how to live a lie. I am me and when marriage is best for me it will happen. #Godwilling

That doesn't mean you shouldn't include it your plan. At least, make we dey look forward to am .
Note:It's not all about age. May Allah make it easy

onegig: Yeah...Finance is one big aspect.

It's not always easy. In other climes, you live for yourself but here you live for your family. A guy just finishing a degree is already burdened with lots of things like his parents, younger siblings and family.. You have to first satisfy these aspects before you start even thinking about yourself.

ENOUGH BUKATA

^^Just as you have said, it's a thing of choice.

onegig: It's a thing of choice you know?

The major reason why many youths(me inclusive) fails to marry early is the financial aspect it. Car, big house, etc are what we wish to possess before we get married. But Allah is the giver of risq.

PearlyJay: @ ehonda. Pls my butterfly machine cuts thread if I want to sew a thick part like the hem. It sews light fabric but the stitches are not tight. Pls what should I do?

check its shuttle, make sure it's a little bit tight

maclatunji: Even with this, I still don't really bother my head about it.

perhaps, when you clock fort.. ..

I tried using mine without droidvpn but it wasn't connected . But it connects with Droidvpn